This couple in the apocalypse is not easy to mess with

Chapter 783 Chatting on the road
  After Xiao Ya said this, seeing the interested expressions of several people, she smiled and continued.

Before the end of the world, I believe you should have understood that most couples in the secular world,
  The most common situation is that soon after starting a family, if they feel it is not suitable, they will choose to divorce, and then find a suitable person to start a new family.

You can imagine, do a couple like this really know love? If they really knew love, they would not start a family with anyone casually.

Not to mention they will not do all kinds of things to betray each other or dislike each other after they get married.

No matter what the reason is, if one person betrays the other person,
  From this point of view, it can be proved that "this person does not really love the other person.

If a person truly loves you, he will never betray you or blame you for everything, let alone have such thoughts.

A person who has seen through life and love will not indulge himself casually or be irresponsible to himself and his significant other.

A couple who truly loves each other will not feel bad or resentful towards each other because of factors other than the two of them.

Because for a couple who truly loves each other, apart from the affairs between the two of them, what does other people's affairs have to do with the couple?

After all, "it is always them who live together. In addition, no relatives, not even their own children, can cause any damage to the relationship between the two."

Because for a pair of people who truly love each other, no one else is the most important except each other.

For example, after a person gets married, if he always blames or criticizes his significant other because of what his family members think, then such a person "definitely does not truly love the other half."

Because people who truly love each other will never blame or curse their lover because of other people in the family.

Of course, now you should be thinking, if it is really your lover's fault, then you can't say a few words to him.

You are right and wrong in thinking this way. You are right because your significant other has really done something wrong, and you really cannot be blind to your significant other.

But the way to solve it is not to lose your temper with the other party or scold and complain.

Rather, lay out the truth and point out the other party’s mistakes in a friendly manner and let the other party correct them.

If the other party still does not apologize or make corrections after realizing their mistake,
  Then you can't blame the other party for this, if you want to blame it, it's yourselves.

Because no matter what the other person does, it is your choice. If you "see each other's true nature clearly when you get along,
  And recognize the real person, then maybe this kind of thing won't happen.

And if you "after realizing that the other person is such a person, you still start a family with the other person.

Now that the other party has done such a thing, do you think you can be willing to do it all to the other party? "Isn't the main reason" still due to the person himself?
  Since this person has chosen to be with the other person, that is this person’s choice,

No matter what the other person did wrong, it was all caused by this person's choice.
  Therefore, the person who should blame the most is himself, not the person's significant other.

Having said this, the most important thing I say is that when a person chooses his own love, he must see himself and the other person clearly.

And I want to understand the various things that I will experience after starting a family again" and the various situations that I will encounter.

Only in this way can a person reap his true love.

It's not the parents' orders. "As the matchmaker says, parents and matchmakers are just guides. Whether they can get together in the end depends on you."

Of course, those arranged marriages are excluded, but if a person can be arranged by others, it can also prove that "this person does not understand the meaning of true love and marriage."

Although there are many people who form families in this way, after getting along with each other, they gradually understand "what true love is" and live a beautiful life together, but this is very rare.

And the "best result" of forming a family in this way is that they can live together for a lifetime, but even if they can live together for a lifetime, it is very rare. At most, it will end in separation halfway or various tragedies.

Therefore, a person cannot "let his life be manipulated by people other than himself.

Especially when it comes to relationships, only if you truly understand yourself and take control of yourself will you not do something you will regret for the rest of your life.

In addition, there are many other situations that may arise and happen in marriage and love. These are just a few aspects that I have mentioned.

It’s also just our husband and wife’s views on marriage and love, and it doesn’t represent everyone, let alone the world.” Or it’s absolutely correct.

So the path a person wants to take is entirely his own choice.

Maybe at this time you will think that sometimes "some things are not something you can choose. For example, if a person" puts a sword to your neck and asks you to do something against your will, then In order to survive, you ultimately choose to act on this person's orders.

Then you said that he had no choice at that time? He had other choices, but he was unwilling to choose "the path that was not true to his heart."

As the saying goes, everything has two sides, and there are also other choices, but some choices you dare not face.

As I told you before, 90% of what happens to you is caused by yourself.
  Don't blame other people, let alone your significant other.

So, the last thing I want to say is, whether you have someone you like now or your significant other, you must see yourself and the other person clearly.

And realize whether you really love the other person,

Only in this way will you not do something you will regret.

Of course, I am just saying this in a hurry. Just listen to it. If you find it useful, write it down. If you find it useless, just pretend that I didn’t say it.

After all, everyone’s thoughts and views on things are different.

You have your own way of life" and your own views on things,

Similarly, we husband and wife “also have our own way of life and views on things.

Therefore, our husband and wife do not want to interfere with other people's affairs, let alone interfere with other people's affairs.

After listening to Xiao Ya's words, Qin Caiyi and others fell into deep thought.

After recovering her thoughts, Qin Caiyi immediately said to Xiao Ya with a smile.

Xiaoya, I really learned a lot after listening to what you said.

Although we have already practiced before the end of the world, and we have successfully stepped into the threshold of cultivating immortals after the end of the world.

But even so, it is impossible for us to fully see and think about these things clearly.

Especially regarding love and marriage.

As you said, many things are not "no other choice", just because of fear or other reasons,

So that a person "will never make such a choice.

In addition, a person's education from childhood to adulthood also has a lot to do with it.

If a person has been raised well since birth, then many bad things will not happen to such a person.

And if a person is born into a bad environment or a bad education,

Then this person “only has half the chance to develop in a good direction, and the other half will go to extremes or evil.

Therefore, the education of a person or a creature from childhood to adulthood is very important.

Without good education or correct guidance, if a person wants to develop naturally without experiencing some difficulties "or experiencing all kinds of situations in the world,
  There’s definitely a lot of things you can’t see clearly” and get caught up in.

Similarly, even for us, the environment we have lived in since childhood was relatively good, but like what you told us before,

We have never heard anyone talk to us in such detail before.

So after listening to what you said, I really learned a lot of knowledge from it, and I also gained a new understanding and perspective on marriage and love.

And all of this "thank you Xiaoya for sharing these views with us,

Otherwise, if I want to "think this clearly," I'm afraid I have to go through a lot of things before I can have this understanding.

(End of this chapter)