Don’t be too poisonous to the concubine of the Wu family who was born in Wu

Chapter 2493 447. Eight Treasures of Jade Food (Hua'er tells her future plans)

"If it were what you said, then Jiu Niang would not be so worried about gains and losses. Mr. Bai's slightest emotional fluctuation would make Jiu Niang extremely nervous. Mr. Bai's every move and even his expression would affect Jiu Niang's emotions at any time. In my heart, Jiu Niang should always pay attention to Mr. Bai's emotions. Do you think it's really good for a man to lose himself in this way?"

"Husbands and wives... shouldn't they care about each other and take care of each other..."

Duoduo's face showed obvious surprise at her sister's words. What she never expected was that her sister would say such words.

"Duoduo, do you really think that the relationship between our sister and Mr. Bai is about caring for and taking care of each other? Why do I feel that Jiuniang is doing more on one side? She is trying her best to catch up with Mr. Bai, and time passes. You have to be cautious, care about the other person, and treat the other person as your own heaven. She can compromise for Mr. Bai, she can become cunning and calculating, and let herself get lost for a man. Is this kind of life really what you want? "

After hearing this, Duoduo frowned, she stopped, raised her eyes to look at her face in confusion, and asked -

"Sister, are you so unfavorable about Jiu Niang's marriage? If so, why does sister want to match them up?"

Hua'er said rationally: "I have never been unfavorable about Jiuniang's marriage. This is the path she chose. Even if there are too many dissatisfactions on this path, the person involved feels that it is good to be happy because everyone has an attitude towards life. Different people will naturally take different paths. I hope my sister can live a happy life, as long as she feels like she is living her own life, but I will not go down the path of making wine."

Duoduo became more and more confused and asked: "What does sister mean..."

"Marriage can change a woman's destiny, but it is by no means the only way. Look at the strong women around us, which one is dependent on a man, whether it is a single partner or a girl, how they live is the way they are. This is what women should look like. They never behave according to men's expressions. On the contrary, these men still have to look at their expressions to live their lives. Because they are strong enough, they can live freely and freely how they want. Such women are A truly enviable look~”

"So...Sister Hua'er, do you want to follow the life path of Shan Xieling and Miss He in the future?"

"It's not a bad idea! For women like them, men will never be everything in her life. They have their own ideals and their own skills. On the battlefield, they are heroes who are not inferior to men. In private, they have their own In life, you will not become worried about gains and losses for a man, let alone lose yourself for a man. Look at the women in Tianmen, although they will never marry, their beautiful faces will not fall down, because of the blessing of time, it will make them more beautiful. Their faces have an extravagant charm, and their experience has added temperament rather than vicissitudes of life. To be honest...this is the look I want!"

As he said that, the flower's face showed an unconcealable look of envy. Duoduo had never seen such a flower before.

Duoduo was stunned. What she never expected was that her gentle, considerate and traditional sister would have such a bold idea. This was beyond her imagination. "Sister Hua'er...you...didn't you see the joke? You...your ideas are too avant-garde..."

"Avant-garde? Maybe~"

As he said that, Hua'er lowered his head, smiled, and slowly expressed his feelings——

"When I was in Western Xinjiang, I admired one person in particular, and that was Shan Xieling... No, now it should be said that she is Tianmen Zhenshi. It was she who gave us three sisters a new life, and it was she who made me see a woman. The hope of living... To be honest, I thought she was very handsome and powerful at that time, but when I learned that she was a girl, it was somewhat unbelievable that a woman could form a team, enter and exit the battlefield, and ride on the battlefield. This is something I never dare to think about. It’s just that years of traditional thinking, coupled with the influence of the surrounding environment, prevent me from imagining that one day I might become a woman like her, a strong woman who only relies on herself and will not depend on men. …When I was in Western Xinjiang, I also tried to convince myself that not every woman can live as free and easy as Tianmen Zhenshi. A woman’s destination will always return to her family, even the strongest women will do the same..."

Duoduo looked at her in surprise. She had never thought that her sister would say something like this when she was confiding in her heart. The sister who usually seemed the warmest and most well-behaved would have such a bold idea. , it was really beyond her expectation.

"Sister... what's wrong with you? Why do I feel that today you are a bit... a bit... speechless..."

Hua'er laughed loudly, thinking that since the words had been said to this extent, there was no need for him to continue to suppress his emotions, so he simply said all the words he had suppressed in his heart for a long time.

"I didn't expect that after Shan Xie led Ximen Yuhuo to defeat Ximen Yuhuo, he went to Nanxiang alone. He suddenly became a real scholar of Tianmen. He must be famous and powerful, even if he is Lord Cao. He became much more polite when talking to her... Duoduo, let me tell you this, if I had not come to Dongcang this time and stayed in Western Xinjiang, I would have never seen the vastness of the outside world, let alone South China. Women in Hunan all live the way they want, so I may just accept my fate. I think the same as you. At our age, if we find a good man to marry, raise a husband and raise children, our whole life will be mediocre. It passed lightly, but...when I saw all this with my own eyes, I thought...my concept has changed. I don’t want to live like this for the rest of my life! For a man, for a family, as a woman, I You have to convince yourself endlessly that you have to compromise and live a life that doesn’t look like yourself at all…”

Duoduo's eyes trembled slightly. Hua'er's words undoubtedly spoke to her heart. At this moment, she began to think about these things that she had never thought about.

"Jiuniang has found a good home, but I don't envy her at all. On the contrary, I am a little worried about her married life. Can that girl really manage her own married life? But fortunately, Mr. Bai is a down-to-earth and reliable man who will sincerely care for Jiu Niang, enough to trust him for life - not every woman will be as lucky as Jiu Niang. Rather than pin my future happiness on a man, I would rather put my own happiness on him. Holding it firmly in the palm of my hand, this kind of life makes me feel extremely at ease..."

(End of this chapter)