Don’t be too poisonous to the concubine of the Wu family who was born in Wu

Chapter 3863 133. The best doctor heals the country (What are the four poisons, the suffering of life)

Mei Luo's bold confession once again truly expressed from the bottom of his heart his respect and love for Yuhua.

When Yuhua heard this, he was moved in his heart, but he remained expressionless. After all, his current role was not a close friend, a colleague, or even a lover, but a doctor, a doctor who healed the bodies and minds of people with spiritual wounds.

As a doctor, he cannot have any other thoughts about his patients. He must analyze the patients' symptoms from an objective and rational perspective and provide relevant solutions in a targeted manner.

"Because of greed, anger, and ignorance, there will be resentment and hatred. As the saying goes: No enemies, no gathering. In the Quan clan, your classmates, your colleagues, your superiors and subordinates, and even your family will not always do what you want. When there are people who disagree with you and behave differently, they will oppose you in everything. This is the so-called enemy. What you hate, that person will be in front of you every day, disgusting you and irritating you. Fight, sullen faces every day, life is really frustrating. What should I do?"

Sure enough, under Yuhua's interpretation, Mei Luo's thoughts were led by the other party again. At this moment, he recalled everything that had happened in his life thoughtfully, and he stammered in response.

"If ordinary people don't have the self-cultivation, it will be difficult for them to treat people they hate and not let such people and such things affect their mood..."

Yuhua was waiting for Mei Luo to say this, because he had diagnosed too many such cases. Because there were too many such antagonistic relationships in the Quan clan, there were more and more symptoms in this regard.

In order to consolidate their position, those in high positions particularly like to see the infighting among those below them. If the subordinates fight with each other and become uncooperative to deal with them, then their own position will be undermined, and they will not feel good about this feeling. In order to better check and balance their subordinates, they create conflicts and alienate the relationships between subordinates. This is exactly the situation they want to see.

After all, no one wants to meet and deal with someone they hate every day, but in order to get a salary, people have to face things that hurt their hearts. In the powerful, damaging one's heart for fame and fortune is the most common behavior. After all, if you want to be powerful and have influence, and want to keep it carefully, where in the world can you find such a cheap good thing?
The essence of power is to use everything in the world for my own benefit. When I call, hundreds of people will respond, and they will all be like cattle and horses...

Yuhua had long seen through the essence of the exercise of power, and naturally understood how to provide psychological healing to those who were deeply poisoned by power.

At this point, Yuhua said quietly——

"Think quietly, it is very difficult to resist resentment and hatred. This requires a very high level of tempering of the mind and requires the practitioner to have a solid self-identity system. One must always strive to be a noble and decent person, identify with oneself in the heart, and not think too highly of oneself. No one can destroy one's solid heart and emotions. Only by separating one's heart from the surrounding environment, finding trusted friends and lovers, and having an emotional gap, can one avoid being too emotionally involved with the surroundings. Although loneliness is inevitable, the pain of resentment and hatred will be alleviated a lot."

After hearing this, Mei Luo lowered his head to ponder over it. When he looked up just now, he seemed to have suddenly realized something and asked, "No wonder you always like to be alone. It turns out that you do this to keep quiet and keep your heart in a righteous state at all times."

Yuhua lowered his head and chuckled, and replied: "There are many troubles in the world, and in the world of power, there are temptations and traps. As a person, you can't let the outside environment affect your mind too much. After all, after the prosperity, there are broken holes that need to be filled. If you are not careful, you will fall into the trap behind the temptation. Meiluo, you know this principle best."

Hearing this, Mei Luo couldn't help but burst out laughing. He was one of the important executors of this trap, how could he not know the key points of it?
However, there are some things that everyone knows tacitly and there is no need to put them on the table. Sometimes, the meaning behind something is more interesting than what is seen.

"Vanity comes at a price, greed comes at a price, and lust comes at an even higher price. Because of vanity, you have to bear the debts of pretending to be arrogant. Because of greed, you have to bear the price of being fed by desire and fattened up to be slaughtered. And because of lust, you enjoy too many beautiful resources, and you will eventually be bitten back by beauty and become its prey... So, when you don't care so much about these things, you will find that you can keep your inner peace."

Hearing this, Mei Luo nodded in agreement and silently memorized these words in his heart.

"What you said makes sense, but... in the society of the Quan Clan, these are necessary attributes for social interaction. If everyone around you is like this, and you don't cooperate, won't you seem out of place? You will gradually be excluded by others..."

"Listen to what you say. If you care so much about what others think and what they say, are you still a complete person? What's more important, other people's opinions or your own feelings? Of course, as a member of society, it is a compulsory course in life to properly balance the relationship between yourself and the outside world. However... if you care too much about other people's feelings and put other people's feelings above your own, then you will eventually lose yourself and become a puppet of others."

"Yes... I understand this principle, but when it comes to things, it is difficult for me to make a correct decision. After all, I am a member of society. I have too many aspects to consider and too many things to protect... So... Hey, in the Quan family, it is difficult to see through the entanglements in interpersonal relationships, the hidden injuries after fights, the dullness in the hustle and bustle, and the tranquility after prosperity. Who doesn't want to seek a pure land in their heart? The result is..."

Mei Luo poured out the pain in his heart. Under Yuhua's repeated guidance, he finally dared to face his own heart and expressed his true psychological feelings over the years.

Hearing this, Yuhua understood Meiluo's feelings at the moment, so he continued quietly -

"Looking at your state of mind, you are really too deeply poisoned. You have already reached the third stage of the four poisons - the suffering of not getting what you want. This is the sigh of an imperfect life, the circle that is always missing a piece, the coldness at the peak, and the withering of thousands of bones after a successful achievement. Life cannot be perfect. For example, the person you love can only be kept in your heart and loved silently. For the freedom and detachment of the human spirit, there must always be various norms to restrain it. Knowing this suffering, you must learn to be obedient. Seek perfection in imperfection."