Don’t be too poisonous to the concubine of the Wu family who was born in Wu

Chapter 623 281. Friendship between gentlemen (Nalan Ruoye’s behavior as a gentleman)
  As the saying goes - the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, while the friendship between villains is as sweet as sweet wine.

Nalan Ruoye looked around and saw Wu Xuanyue, who was dressed in red under the sun. At this time, she might have gained a lot of points because of those shocking words. At this time, Wu Xuanyue, in front of Nalan Ruoye, The image in my mind is much taller and shining.

Once upon a time, I was also such a willful and willful person, and I once believed that as long as I was good enough, I would be respected by others, and when the honor came, my friends should be as happy as me.

Only later, as I grew up bit by bit, did I realize that honor is sometimes a double-edged sword. When you become more skilled and have meritorious deeds, your friends are not really happy for you. On the contrary, you are enthusiastic and share your success with them, but what you get in return is indifference and blank stares...

Over the years, I have experienced too many things, so I have become a lot less optimistic about it, but I have also become a lot more sophisticated and tactful.

Others say that I am upright and honest, or a gentleman, but it is because I disguise my nature and greet everyone with a smile. Even if I have achieved achievements, I have become a little silent and low-key. I don’t want to show off in front of others, but secretly Enjoy yourself.

Nalan Ruoye remembered deeply that that time Wu Xuanyue leaped out from the spiritual realm, holding the cub of the Kunpeng divine beast in her hands. Not only did she not cover it up, but she held it in front of her chest wherever she went, looking down on the others, with such a complacent attitude. Show your achievements to the world.

At that time, Nalan Ruoye's heart tightened, and she seemed to be a little moved by the scene. In addition to looking directly at Wu Xuanyue's proud posture indifferently, there was some resistance in her heart at that time.

Nalan Ruoye thought to herself: Nalan Yuluo, don't look at your arrogance now, you will be the one to live the hard days in the future! People don’t know the importance of keeping a low profile. The higher you stand, the faster you die.

Sure enough, just as Nalan Ruoye thought, Wu Xuanyue had not been promoted to Tianmen Zhenshi for a few days, bad luck was approaching, and troubles came one after another...

And how could this girl not know the importance of being humble and keeping a low profile?

Until, Wu Xuanyue hunted Yulong, and it became known to the whole world. She helped the wealthy family crack Huang Shiliang's golden mahjong game. With such a great honor, what qualifications did Tianmen have to convict her?

Nalan Ruoye suddenly felt deeply——

You can be strong as a person, but you must have strong endurance. If you get honor and favor by chance, the jealousy and boredom of others will completely submerge you; and if you have extremely strong inner endurance , and excellent strength, then you have the capital to continue to live proudly.

It doesn’t matter if you walk sideways or if your eyes reach the top of your head. It doesn’t matter if you can do something that thousands of people can’t do and you can withstand what thousands of people can’t. This is still a skill!
  Therefore, sometimes I should also examine my behavior. I always live for other people's words. Why has my medical skill stopped improving over the years? It's probably because I spend too much time caring about other people's feelings——

Wu Xuanyue continued: "If I were a dragon, one day I would have to jump over the dragon gate, ride on the clouds and mist in the sky, thunder and lightning, and scatter clouds and rain. But if I feel uncomfortable for the fish and shrimps in the sea, Qianlong has regrets, but there is no way to integrate into them. In a group of people, after all, we have different attributes. Fish and shrimps are the food of human beings, while dragons are human gods. They have different heights and different attributes. Why do we forcibly erase our own attributes in order to compromise?"

Hearing this, Nalan Ruoye's eyes trembled, never expecting that this girl's unintentional words meant everything that came from her heart.

Nalan Ruoye sighed, smiled bitterly, and said: "It's easy to say, but too difficult to do. If everyone could freely be themselves, human beings would have no rules or boundaries."

Wu Xuanyue chuckled in response and said with a hint of contempt: "Rules and rules are to regulate human behavior. It is understandable for humans to follow this way, but excessive rules and conditioning are shackles! There are no special regulations for morality and quality. Restrictions, but why are some people acting like gentlemen, while others are defined as acting like villains? Everyone has their own original intentions, norms and rules that they should abide by, for the betterment of the system. We should all abide by development, but I believe that everyone has set different goals and plans for themselves in their hearts. As long as you firmly believe in your beliefs, do what you should do, and follow yourself step by step. Follow the determined route and go on in a down-to-earth manner. There is no need to limit your ideals in order to consider other people's thoughts and feelings! What is this called? This is called bothering yourself with other people's thoughts. Why bother? You have wronged yourself. , are you happy to ask what is in your heart?" Nalan Ruoye sighed, lowered his head and meditated. These words that struck his heart made him feel deeply, and at the same time, he felt ashamed.

This girl was right, how much she had to endure the hardships, and what did she get in exchange? A few words of indifference from others, it is obvious that you are being humble and respectful, but in other people's mouth, it means that you are not good enough! You obviously save enough face for others, but in the eyes of others, you are at this level.

Your retreat may not lead to calm...

Wu Xuanyue seemed to see a trace of sadness and stubbornness on Nalan Ruoye's face, and she was secretly happy in her heart——

It seems that his war of words is not without effect. For powerful experts, what is needed is not compliments and flattery, but more resonance and mutual appreciation.

During this period of time, Wu Xuanyue came into contact with the high-ranking female cultivators of Tianmen and paid special attention to Nalan Ruoye. Why?
  Because she is outstanding, and even more because she is outstanding!

Although her appearance is not as stunning as Nalan Chuixue, her excellent medical skills and the way she treats people make people admire her.

Wu Xuanyue could see that Nalan Ruoye always had a repressed personality. In order to win the favor of everyone, he often showed his smile to others. He never had any extreme words and always wore a disguise when meeting people, like a good gentleman.

But is she really such a temperless person?

All talented people will have a temper. Wu Xuanyue firmly believes in this point——

The mainstay, relying on his talent and arrogance, with a proud and upright spirit and a clear mind.

And this Nalan Ruoye's good temper is outrageous. She obviously doesn't have to tolerate so much, and she doesn't have to accommodate so much. Why should she restrain her nature for the sake of everyone's attention?

Wu Xuanyue knew that a master must be ostracized by others, and he was afraid that Nalan Ruoye had to go through too many difficulties and had to change his personality in order to be considerate of everyone.

However, Wu Xuanyue also admires the woman in front of him from the bottom of his heart. Although he treats others humbly, he will never lose himself, stick to his own bottom line, and will never play tricks on others behind his back;

A gentleman is like Lan. If he likes you, he will speak from his heart and soul, and give good advice and advice based on his conscience; if he hates you, he will hide away without even saying a word, and he will never talk about anything behind others' backs -

This is Nalan Ruoye's rules for dealing with people.

(End of this chapter)