Good luck! The mother-in-law who is a good farmer is no longer working!

Chapter 44 This worldly woman is seriously poisoned by tea
  "Then everyone has their own opinions. Besides, I have the final say in my family. If a woman can't even decide whether to have children or how many children, then this life will be sad. From a human perspective, giving birth to a child has no impact on a man at all, because the damage is all done to the woman. They say that giving birth to a child is a trip to hell, so giving birth to a child is a self-mutilation. The damage caused by giving birth to a child is irreversible to the body. Yes, do you understand this truth?"

No matter when, Yu Mei always thinks that people who show off by the number of children they have have are stupid. They don't think that if this man is willing to have children one after another with them, that is a sign of loving them, right?
  damned! If you really love, you will not let the other person bear the pain of childbirth again and again, and will not let the other person bear it alone when he is at his weakest. Mother's love is great, father's love is also great, but only The love between men and women cannot withstand the test.

The love between men and women is often described as eternal, and love is stronger than gold. But how many people in the world today can only fall in love with one person in their lifetime?
  Ethereal things like love are all meant to deceive young girls who have just begun to fall in love and have no experience in the world. Therefore, this world is not friendly to women. They have been taught from birth how to care for their husbands and children, and how to serve their parents-in-law.

Fortunately, she is now the head of the family and no longer has to experience the process of getting married and having children. Otherwise, if she lives without self under this kind of feudal ethics, she will definitely collapse.

What Yu Mei said about this piece of Sophora japonica and Mei Sanniang were stunned for a long time. For a long time, neither of them could find the words to refute. Rather than saying that it was a refutation, it would be better to say that the two of them didn't think about it at all. How to reply is beyond cognition.

After all, the idea that her parents had instilled in them since childhood was that the daughter belongs to someone else's family from birth. When she gets married, she can only take care of her husband and raise her children. A woman who marries without giving birth to a son will be looked down upon by others, and only The more sons you have, the higher your status in your husband's family will be.

"Then everyone comes here like this, and they don't have the same thoughts as you. What's more, you only gave birth to one child."

After seeing the two people being silent for a long time, Yu Mei thought they finally understood her words, but who knew that Zhang Huaihua's words directly made Yu Mei very angry.

"Then most of the children are either disabled or dead, so there is no chance to think about this issue at all. I can't tell you clearly about this issue, so this topic ends here."

If Yu Meixin continues to argue between the two, she will probably get sick from anger. She still wants to live for a few more years.

"Who wants to tell you? You have been making a lot of mistakes since you were young. Fortunately, your husband has fallen down now. Otherwise, he would have dealt with you for what he said to you. It has always been the man who is the head of the family. Even if your husband is gone, you should still listen to your son. When will we women be the heads of the family?"

Yu Mei:……

She didn't want to discuss this with these tea-intoxicated victims. They were not from the same world at all.

Next, Yu Mei just pretended to be deaf and mute. She didn't listen to what Zhang Huaihua said to Mei Sanniang, and only focused on teasing the child in her arms.

However, they also reflected from their side how seriously this world controls women's thoughts. Things like thoughts must be instilled from an early age. When her family Yun'er can speak, she must let her establish a correct outlook on life. , I don’t ask her to do an earth-shattering career in the future, I just ask her to have some thoughts of her own when it comes to choosing a mate in the future, and don’t blindly follow what others say. Sometimes what others think is good does not mean good things to you. Not practical.

"You don't have anything to do with me now? If nothing happens, I'll leave first. After all, I still have things to be busy with."

Instead of listening to her useless and irritating words here, she might as well go and see how Lin Sheng and the others had built the shed.

After the shed is set up, she can go to the entrance of the academy to sell food. After all, for her, the happiest thing every day is the joy of counting money every night. Compared with counting copper coins, she wants to count them the most. Most of them are gold bars and gold ingots. Of course, given their current conditions, it will probably take several years, but no matter how long it takes, as long as they work hard towards this goal, one day their dreams will come true.

"Yu Mei, you have really changed. In the past, you were the most able to enjoy yourself. When the sun was a little brighter, you were afraid of exposing yourself to the sun. But now, look at you, how can you not be like a little one?" Just like a merchant, you work from dawn to dusk just to earn those two copper coins. Sooner or later, you will become a yellow-faced woman!"

Zhang Huaihua now despises Yu Mei's behavior.

"Really? How much can you earn? I only know that if you don't want to become a yellow-faced woman, you must have money. If you have money, you can delay your aging. If you don't have money, one day It’s possible to be ten years older.”

Yu Mei didn't have to explain anything about Sophora japonica's incomprehension. After all, everyone has a different perspective and looks at the problem in a different way.

Now that this Sophora japonica is a candidate for a job, and neighbors come to compliment her, she will naturally look down on this small businessman, but she may have forgotten that a job is just about having a reputation, not being an official. In other words, it sounds nice, The family won't have money all of a sudden. For her, she doesn't like this kind of poverty.

"Forget it! Forget it! Since you have said so much, I won't delay you to earn those three or two copper coins. I will find you another day when I have time."

"Sure! Then I'll leave first!"

When Yu Mei walked to the entrance of the academy with her child in her arms, she found that the shed was already half-built, and Qian Yin had finished selling the stall and was here to help.

"Xiaoyin, as long as Lin Sheng and the others are there, it's fine. The sun is still quite bright at the moment, so come to this shady place to rest."

"Mom, I'm not tired!"

"But I'm tired! I've carried Yun'er all the way, and my hands are sore."

Compared with the daughters of most families in the village, Yun'er is a generation older. Firstly, Qianyin has always fed her with milk, and secondly, she has never been treated harshly when feeding her complementary foods. Isn't this what she looks like? Bai Bai is fat, and if you hold her for a long time, your hands will get sore easily.

"I forgot about this, I'll be right back!"

Qianyin wanted to help her husband share some of the burden, but when she thought about her mother-in-law taking care of her child for so long, she naturally couldn't let her mother-in-law get tired, so she hurried up to pick up the child.

(End of this chapter)