Live broadcast: I am an upright Chinese medicine practitioner, and all my patients died online

After watching the two leave, Liu Yan said, "I used to worry about children being picky eaters, but I never expected that some children would stop being picky eaters and develop bulimia."

"It seems that it is becoming increasingly difficult for parents to raise their children. Doctor Qin, what do you think of the current situation where many parents don't know how to raise their children?"

Qin Jiang picked up the teacup on the table and took a sip, then said with a smile: "I don't think this should be a problem."

"Like what you just said, parents nowadays not only have to worry about their children being picky eaters, but also about their children overeating. So let me ask you, did parents in the past worry about these issues?"

Liu Yan shook her head.

"I shouldn't worry about it. After all, the conditions in the past were not as good as they are now."

"you are right."

Qin Jiang said in a positive tone: "Our parents' generation had all experienced hard times, so they know very well what it feels like to be hungry."

"So when they take care of their children, they don't think too much about nutrition. They only think about whether the food they eat can fill them up and whether they will feel hungry. As long as they are not hungry, they are satisfied."

"So you'll find that our generation is very hardy and easy to feed. We are not picky about what we eat. We can eat good food or less good food, as long as we can fill our stomachs."

"But when we became parents, the situation changed. Although we are strong and easy to feed, we have never been hungry. So when we raise children, having enough food is no longer our basic requirement. Nutritional food is the key. So you will find that every time we cook for our children or choose a school for them, we always consider food as a very important criterion."

After hearing what Qin Jiang said, netizens in the live broadcast room nodded.

"That's true. I still remember that when my parents were busy with work and couldn't come back, they always let me eat instant noodles and sausages at home. But now if my son eats these, he will definitely be scolded by my wife."

"In fact, this view cannot be said to be wrong, because many of the foods we ate before were indeed not nutritious. It's just that everyone was poor at that time, so we didn't consider the issue of nutrition."

"My friend also has children. When I went to their house for dinner, I happened to see their so-called daily meals. To be honest, I was shocked. They are a family of three, each person has a plate, and they eat different things, but they are all very healthy. The whole grains, proteins, meats, beans and other things in each plate are all calculated according to their physical constitutions. It's really amazing."

People are constantly pursuing a better and healthier life.

I didn’t pursue it before because I didn’t have the conditions.

But now that the conditions are met, I naturally have to pursue it.

The most important thing is that when young people today become parents, they want to give their children a better life, so they will force the living standards of the entire family to rise.

This is a very regular thing, but it will also bring invisible pressure to children.

Qin Jiang said seriously: "Children's lives should be worry-free. But now because parents' expectations are too high, it brings considerable pressure to children."

"This kind of pressure is not only about study, but also about life. Just like Xu Yan just now, she may just want to eat some snacks to relieve stress. Sometimes she just wants to change the taste because she is greedy."

"But because her mother thought these things were unhealthy and refused to let her eat them, she could only change herself since she couldn't change the environment, which led to psychological problems and induced bulimia." "To be honest, I have seen many cases of physical problems caused by one's own psychological problems."

Qin Jiang's statement was refreshing to Liu Yan and many netizens in the live broadcast room.

They never thought that eating could cause stress to their children before, but now they know that eating does cause stress to their children.

Liu Yan couldn't help but ask, "Then Doctor Qin, if you were the child's parent, how would you take care of the child?"

"Let nature take its course."

Qin Jiang only said these four words.

Liu Yan was a little confused.

"But Doctor Qin, children don't know right from wrong when they are young, and their understanding of the world is incomplete. If you don't care about anything, wouldn't it be easy for them to go astray?"

Qin Jiang said calmly: "I didn't say don't care about anything, I just said let it go."

"It's like the issue of eating. If children want to eat snacks occasionally and don't like to eat full meals, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Even if they don't want to eat, it's okay to skip a meal or two. Only when they really feel hungry will they understand the hard work of hoeing the field at noon."

"It's like studying. If some children really don't like studying, fall asleep during class, and run around the playground after class, then I would consider sending them directly to a sports school."

"Let him take classes at a sports school for a year or two to see if he can bear the hardship. If he can't bear it, let him go to a construction site to carry bricks. He has to choose between the hardship of studying and the hardship of working, right?"

"Life is like this. Either it is bitter first and sweet later, or it is sweet first and bitter later. There is no other option."

Qin Jiang's words shocked Liu Yan and a group of netizens.

"What Doctor Qin said is so philosophical. I used to think that letting things take their own course meant not caring about anything. Now I know that letting things take their own course also requires some care, and the degree of care needs to be determined by oneself."

"Can I say that letting things take their own course is the most difficult way of education? It seems like you don't have to do anything, but in fact you have to worry about everything and do everything."

"On the contrary, I think this way of educating children is better. Nowadays, many parents are quite extreme. They either let their children suffer all the time or never let them suffer at all. In my opinion, Dr. Qin's scientific approach is better. The suffering that should be endured must be endured, and the suffering that should not be endured does not need to be endured."

Just as everyone was discussing, a father and son walked in from outside the clinic.

As soon as the middle-aged man came in, he said to Qin Jiang: "Doctor, can you help me see if this child has any intellectual problems?"

"Please help me test his intelligence. I want to see what kind of freak this kid is. I don't believe he is really sick." (End of this chapter)