After listening to Qin Jiang's explanation, although Zhang He didn't want to wear this hospital gown, he had no choice but to leave wearing it.

After Zhang He left, Liu Yan asked curiously, "Does this kind of person really exist in this world? He would do such a thing just because someone said something, because he knows it will kill him. Why would he do this?"

Liu Yan was very shocked and found it very difficult to understand.

Instead, Qin Jiang said calmly, "This is very normal. You know, humans are social animals. That is to say, except for some people who are born with diseases, everyone else needs to be recognized by others."

"Have you ever heard the saying that it is better to die with dignity than to live in misery? This is what it means. In fact, everyone cares about face to some extent. In other words, if people don't care about face, then there is no morality."

As soon as Qin Jiang said this, Liu Yan's eyes widened instantly.

"Ah? Doctor Qin, you are not kidding, right? Isn't it a bad thing to care about face? Why is it related to morality?"

Qin Jiang patiently explained: "Are honor, self-esteem, empathy, kindness, and humility all related to face?"

Liu Yan didn't react for a moment and became even more confused.

"How can these things be related to face? Doctor Qin, you must have made a mistake."

Qin Jiang smiled and said, "Take the sense of honor for example. Is this considered part of having a good face? This is easy to understand, right?"

"Then let's talk about self-esteem. What is self-esteem? Why can others insult our self-esteem? It is because we care about other people's opinions and behaviors, so the things they do can insult our self-esteem."

"But if we don't care what they do, their views, actions and words, then how can our self-esteem be insulted? This is what the ancients said: "Be calm in the face of praise or criticism, and be indifferent to the wind and clouds."

"Finally, let's talk about humility. To what kind of people will you be humble? You will only be humble to good people. Would you be humble to a murderer? Or would you be humble to those who are sentenced to serious punishment? Obviously not. The reason you are humble is actually to gain respect and affirmation from the other party. So to be frank, everything people do is to get feedback from the other party. As long as you want to get feedback, that's face-saving."

As soon as Qin Jiang said this, netizens in the live broadcast room went wild.

"Fuck, I didn't understand it before, but now I find that it seems to be the same as what Dr. Qin said! I have never thought about this problem from this perspective. It turns out that all these virtues we learned since childhood are just for the sake of face?"

"This is also why college students are easily kidnapped by morality after they enter society. It is because college students are thin-skinned. When they encounter something, their first reaction is shyness and embarrassment. Therefore, they cannot bravely defend their rights and interests, and then they are kidnapped by morality in various ways. This is actually a manifestation of being too face-conscious."

"I used to think that being too concerned about one's reputation was a bad thing, but now after hearing what Dr. Qin said, I suddenly feel that everything has its good and bad sides. Just like some people work hard just to become the best, just to be respected by others, in this case, I think being concerned about one's reputation is actually a good thing."

Liu Yan now gradually understood why Zhang He almost lost his life because of a joke from his teammate.

In fact, Zhang He is the same as most people, but Zhang He's personality is more extreme and he cares more about other people's opinions, which is why he almost caused tragedy.

Qin Jiang added: "In fact, the reason why people are normal is that they can self-regulate and self-control. Just like a person will get angry, furious, and sad."

"But normal people can quickly get over these emotions and it won't affect their work and life. But some people can't get over them and just let their emotions affect their work and life. Such people will eventually become the violent people, depressed people and the like that we all know."

Liu Yan now understood completely.

"So from a certain perspective, Zhang He has psychological problems, or he has character flaws?" Qin Jiang smiled but did not answer.

After all, Qin Jiang felt that it was inappropriate to say that another person had psychological problems in front of so many people in the live broadcast room, as it could easily bring a bad influence to the other party.

Just as Qin Jiang was putting the disinfected silver needles into the needle bag one by one, two women walked in from outside.

These two women, one fat and one thin, are wearing the same clothes. You can tell at first glance that they are good friends.

The fatter woman held her stomach with a painful expression.

The two of them supported each other as they walked into the Chinese medicine clinic and sat down opposite the triage desk.

Qin Jiang pointed to the card reader on the table and asked them to swipe their cards first.

Ding.

The personal information of the two people instantly appeared on the computer screen.

The fat woman is Luo Fei, a clerk in a company. The thin woman is He Zhao, a model in an advertising company.

Not only are their figures very different, but their looks are also very different.

Luo Fei gave people the feeling that his whole body was full of fat, especially his neck, where there were several circles of fat piled together.

But He Zhao gives people a completely different feeling, just like a standard beauty.

Qin Jiang glanced at Luo Fei and asked, "What's wrong with you?"

Luo Fei was in so much pain that she couldn't speak, so He Zhao quickly said, "Doctor Qin, my best friend has been in pain for most of the day. I felt something was wrong with her when she woke up this morning, but she said she could hold on, so I didn't care."

"By noon, she was in so much pain that she couldn't even straighten her back. I realized that the situation was serious, so I brought her here right away. Doctor Qin, what do you think is wrong with my best friend? Could it be cancer?"

When he heard it was cancer, Luo Fei's face changed immediately.

She quickly said, "Please don't let it be cancer, doctor. I'm still young and I don't want to die yet!"

As soon as she opened her mouth, the netizens in the live broadcast room immediately laughed.

"Before, I heard someone say that you can tell whether a person is fat or thin by listening to their voice. I didn't believe it at first, but now I do. It seems to be true."

"Because too much fat will also compress the vocal cords. But there are some powerful people who you can't actually hear when they speak."

"Please don't discriminate against fat people. Fat people are also very pitiful." (End of this chapter)

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