Live broadcast: I am an upright Chinese medicine practitioner, and all my patients died online

Liu Yan has been reading the comments from netizens in the live broadcast room.

After seeing the last comment, Liu Yan suddenly became interested and asked, "Doctor Qin, I saw some netizens saying that men and women are different. Men are very adaptable and can often fall asleep immediately."

"But women are not like this. Women are more sensitive and their nerves are more fragile. They are prone to insomnia. If they encounter some problems in life, they will be even more unable to sleep. Doctor Qin, what do you think about this problem?"

Qin Jiang said calmly, "This question is actually not quite correct. The reason why men fall asleep immediately is not because they are thick-skinned, or because they have strong adaptability, or are insensitive to certain things. In fact, it is quite the opposite."

"According to men's thinking, when they encounter something, they always tend to consider the future development and direction of the matter, and then solve it in advance. For example, when it comes to mortgages and car loans, most women think in fragments. They may suddenly remember that they have to pay the mortgage and car loan soon, but they don't have the money for the time being, so they will be very anxious."

"This type of anxiety is characterized by being very intense, but it lasts for a very short time. They may be anxious for more than ten minutes or half an hour, and then they go to watch a movie or catch up on a TV series, and they will temporarily forget about it."

As soon as Qin Jiang said this, netizens in the live broadcast room immediately started a heated discussion.

"That's true. My wife is like this. She will be like this when she encounters something important. For example, she is going to take a postgraduate entrance exam. The closer the exam is, the more anxious she becomes. But in this anxious state, she still has the mind to cook for herself and the mood to watch TV series. Can you believe it?"

"I'm a girl, and I want to say that this kind of thing is hard to control. It's just like your mood, sometimes happy and sometimes sad, how can you control it? Anxiety is an emotion, you can't control it, when it comes you can only bear it, and when it goes away you will of course be happy, do you want to continue to be sad after it goes away?"

"What a ridiculous understanding! Although anxiety is an emotion, it doesn't come out of thin air! Find the source of anxiety and get rid of it!"

Liu Yan felt that what Qin Jiang said was right, but she also felt that what Qin Jiang said was wrong.

This is a very contradictory mentality.

She felt that Qin Jiang was right, because when anxiety came, they were indeed like this.

But the reason why she felt that Qin Jiang was wrong was because she knew that this way of dealing with anxiety was not correct, but she did not want to admit that their behavior was incorrect.

Fortunately, although Liu Yan wanted to say something, her qualities as a host made her decide to listen to Qin Jiang quietly.

Qin Jiang continued: "Men deal with anxiety differently from women. For men, anxiety is not a strong emotion at first, but it persists."

"For example, a man may be anxious about something that will happen on a certain day. As the day approaches, the anxiety will become stronger and stronger. It is worth noting that the anxiety I am talking about here is persistent."

"I believe some girls can't understand, so I'll give you an example. What I mean by continuous existence is that you will think about it when you eat, when you work, and even when you sleep."

"But because the anxiety was mild at first, even though I was thinking about it, it didn't affect other things much, so I looked like nothing had happened."

When Qin Jiang made this description, the male netizens in the live broadcast room slapped their thighs instantly.

"Fuck, that's amazing! I felt the same way before! Once I have something on my mind, I will keep thinking about it, but I will eat and drink as usual. My family members say that I am heartless, but in fact, they don't know that I have been thinking about this matter in my heart all the time. It can be said that I can't eat or sleep well."

"I've had this feeling, too. When the company went bankrupt and liquidated, I didn't dare tell my wife. I worked as a delivery guy every day to make money, and when I got home I was so tired that I fell asleep as soon as I lay down. Later, she found out and said that I had no sense of responsibility at all. I couldn't even sleep after such a big thing happened, so I divorced me directly." "My friend, you are really miserable. In fact, it has nothing to do with whether you have a sense of responsibility or not. From the moment your company goes bankrupt, no matter what you do, it's too late to save it. After all, we can accept failure, but others can't."

Liu Yan was just asking casually, but she didn't expect that so many netizens would share their experiences and complaints.

Looking at the barrage of comments in the live broadcast room, Liu Yan just read the letter.

She used to think that boys were big-hearted and didn’t take anything to heart, just letting things go their way.

But now she realized that it was just a different way of thinking. Everyone would feel anxious and worried when encountering something, and this applies to both men and women.

Liu Yan couldn't help but sigh and said, "Hey, in today's society, it seems that everyone has a hard time."

Qin Jiang glanced at Liu Yan and said, "It's not that difficult. Life is not always smooth sailing. When you encounter a problem, solve it. After solving it, you will get rewards, experience, and a unique experience."

“When you encounter problems again, solve them. When you can solve all these problems, then your life will not be lived in vain, it will be meaningful, and you will be successful.”

Liu Yan felt that what Qin Jiang said was so philosophical.

Just at this time, a couple walked in from outside the Chinese medicine clinic.

This couple looks very much in love.

The girl seemed to have some problem with her legs and she walked with a limp.

The boy supported her carefully, fearing that she would fall.

After the two of them walked into the Chinese medicine clinic, the boy helped the girl sit down. Before Qin Jiang could speak, he skillfully took out their ID cards and swiped them directly on the card reader.

Soon, the personal information of the two people popped up on the computer screen.

The man’s name is Huang Jingyu. He is a college student at the University of Finance and is interning at a securities company this year.

The woman's name is Tian Cai, and she is a trainee flight attendant at an aviation school.

The two can be said to be a perfect match. They are both very beautiful, and they both go to good schools. They will have good jobs and development prospects after graduation.

After reading the messages from the two people, Qin Jiang asked, "Tell me, what's going on with you?" (End of this chapter)