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Chapter 94 It would be better not to get married

Thanks to Li Rongyu's comments and Li Jihe's echoes, Mrs. Song finally understood the matter.

As a noble relative of the patriarch's family, shopkeeper Na Ding fell in love with her pomegranate and wanted to hire pomegranate as his daughter-in-law. They even let it slip. When they got home, they would choose an auspicious day and invite the official media in the city to come to propose marriage!

But they had discussed this matter at the patriarch's house before, and they could not agree to the marriage.

Mainly because Pomegranate disagrees!
"You silly kid! Such a wonderful marriage! How could you disagree?" Mrs. Song was so anxious that she couldn't help but pat the pomegranate.

"You are still a kid at heart. What do you know? I think this marriage is great! Where can you find it with a lantern?"

Pomegranate was patted on the arm by Mrs. Song anxiously, and she was speechless, "Mom, why don't I understand? Then tell me, how can this marriage be better?"

Mrs. Song asked Li Jihe: "Have you seen that child? What does he look like?"

Li Jihe recalled: "He is quite handsome, and he has the appearance of a talented person. He is also polite and easy-going. He calls people when they are called. He does not have eyes on the top of his head like the average city people we see - —”

"The child is missing arms and legs. Does he look sick?"

"Good arms and legs. They look white and rosy. It doesn't look like there's anything wrong with them-"

Mrs. Song turned to look at Shiliu and said, "This man is handsome, has a good temper, and is not missing any arms or legs, nor is he sick. Why isn't this a good match?"

As long as this matchmaker of the Ding family is marrying you, then you are a serious young lady of the Ding family. Why not marrying in the city is better than marrying in the village?

Pomegranate, in this life of a woman, getting married is like being reincarnated. Marrying well is better than anything else! Take what you know, your cousin Chunhua and your aunt are married in the town. They live a comfortable life. They don’t have to go to the fields or feed pigs or chickens. They just cook and mend every day. There is no wind or sun. As you can see, they also gave birth to three children. How much older is your cousin Chunhua, but she looks younger than your aunt! Why is this?

Isn’t it because your aunt has to work in the fields all day long and does heavier work than men? The whole family is attached to her and needs her to take care of her. Your uncle has a bad temper and her mother-in-law dislikes her and gave birth to three children in a row. It’s a difficult life for a girl! Do you think your aunt can live happily? Can you not lose weight and look old?

Didn't your grandma often say that she regretted that she didn't have her eyes straight and married your aunt to the Zhang family? But in this world, there is no regret selling medicine!

Mom is telling you this just to tell you that a woman who marries well is better than anything else! Do you think it would be better for you to marry in the city, where you can have enough food and clothing, or marry in the country, where you have to face the dirt all day long and do endless work every day, take care of the children, and have to suffer? "

The eldest son's marriage was settled as soon as it was decided. Mrs. Song was now worried about her eldest daughter's marriage. She was anxious and wanted to choose a good marriage for her eldest daughter, but she was afraid of being like her mother-in-law, who had bad eyesight. , if you choose the wrong one, you will harm your daughter for the rest of her life.

Marrying a woman is like jumping into a quagmire. If you jump in, you can't climb out!
The eldest daughter is just like her, honest and gentle. If she marries someone with a bad temper and an unkind mother-in-law, she will have to suffer a lot!

And the little girl has such a hot-tempered temperament and doesn’t know how to weave or mend clothes. How can she marry into another family and take care of the family affairs?

But if you can marry into a wealthy family like the Ding family, have servants to feed and clothe yourself, you don’t have to do it yourself, and you can’t make clothes or weave, then it doesn’t matter. The most important thing is to live a good life, so why bother with such trivial matters? ?

Pomegranate:.
"But who said that you won't be angry after marrying into the city? Even if you have no worries about food and clothing, you will really suffer from anger, which is worse than that of people in the country. Mother, have you forgotten? When we went to my grandpa's house the year before last, didn't we still listen to the big words? My aunt mentioned that so-and-so’s daughter worked as a concubine in a certain house in the city and was tortured to death, so she finally paid some money and settled the matter?"

Mrs. Song choked, and then said: "That's a concubine. The matchmaker is marrying me, how can it be the same? Didn't your father also say that shopkeeper Ding is very kind, and Mrs. Ding and Mrs. Ding don't even look at it?" You are such an unkind person, you are always so sweet and eloquent, you will definitely be liked by them!

This woman is married, more or less, how can she not be offended? If both the countryside and the city are criticized, then you must choose the city! At least I don't have to be as tired as an ox every day and have to suffer. "

Shiliu couldn't help but murmured, "According to what Mother said, if a woman gets married, she will be offended, so wouldn't it be better not to marry?" As soon as she said this, everyone in the Song family was startled.

Immediately, Mrs. Song's eyes turned red and she shed tears with excitement, "You kid said stupid things again! How can a girl's family not marry? You can't say this again in the future! Do you hear me?"

Pomegranate couldn't help but sigh, "Mom, please stop crying, I'll just stop talking about it from now on."

She knew why her family reacted so strongly.

Since ancient times, women have been "not included in the ancestral hall when they are born, and they are not included in the genealogy after death."

In other words, a woman is only eligible to enter her husband's ancestral hall after her death to enjoy sacrifices after she is married. Otherwise, she will be buried in a mass grave like a child who died in infancy, with no one to pay homage.

Therefore, these days, if you don't marry your daughter, it's the same as marrying your daughter off or selling her, and you'll get stabbed in the back.

It is said that some discerning families will spend money to hold ghost marriages for their daughters who died young as a memorial to them.

She doesn't care if a roll of torn mats is thrown in a mass grave after death. She doesn't know anything after death. Even if her bones are crushed and the ashes are scattered, she doesn't feel pain. She doesn't know what the corpse was there in her previous life. Like that.

But she didn't believe in whether there was a memorial ceremony after death, but the fact that her soul could travel here after she died in an accident in that world was something that science couldn't explain.

Is there an afterlife after death?
She couldn't say for sure about this now.

What if there is, there is a third world in this world that they don’t even know about while they are still alive.

In this way, after death, you will never be able to be reborn below, and there will be no descendants above to pay homage to you. What will you eat and drink?
Moreover, if she really insists that she won't marry, I'm afraid both the Song family will hang themselves in a hurry——

Not to mention the clan, the clan would not agree that Mr. Li had an unmarried daughter.

So she had been thinking about it for a long time, and she had to plan carefully, it wouldn't just happen in a short time.

The worst thing to do is to pick out a suitable purchaser and buy her out, preferably one who will be ill for a long time. Then she will get married, become a widow, and adopt a child to her name. Then it will be fine, right? !
And it would be even better if she could have enough money to convince the patriarch of the family to let her stay in the Li family as her aunt and adopt her own child.

People, if you don’t work hard, you won’t know what will happen in the end.

In short, this matter cannot be rushed. First of all, she just wants to make money, make a lot of money!

If you have money, you can talk about anything! Who wouldn't be willing to be her son so that he could inherit her property?

Aren’t there descendants of this? The ancestral hall can also be entered, and memorials can be held!
Work together!
So there's really no need to get embarrassed right now.

When Mrs. Song saw her daughter lowering her head, she also sighed and reached out to touch her head, "Pomegranate, Mom is doing this for your own good. As long as you live a good life, that's better than anything else. This marriage - let's think about it carefully. First, let’s see if the Ding family is sincere in asking for marriage. In the next two days, I will let your aunt into the city. Don’t underestimate her. Your aunt is just a spy. Let her go into the city. Make careful inquiries about the Ding family!"

(End of this chapter)