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Chapter 469 What is the essence of happiness?
Shi Shi looked at Xu Wen with confusion.

"Xu Wen, I think what you said is not right. Is it wrong for girls to like wearing beautiful clothes? And you can't completely equate the live broadcast industry with the women in the secular world before, right?"

Xu Wen, who was soaking in the hot spring, let out a long breath, then said with a smile: "Actually, this is the problem."

"The problem is that you still think that women dress nicely and do nice things just for their own pleasure."

"But in fact, our ancestors have long said a very classic saying, which is that women dress up to please themselves."

"It means that the reason why a woman is willing to dress up is actually to please someone who can make her happy. This person may not be a man, but most of the time it is a man."

As soon as Xu Wen said this, the male netizens in the live broadcast room nodded in agreement.

"I absolutely agree with this. When I see those opinions online that say I dress up for myself, I think it's nonsense. If I dress up for myself, I can dress exquisitely and beautifully at home. Then why are all women sloppy at home, but exquisite when they go out?"

"My aunt had a house, and she rented it to a girl for three months. My aunt is a very clean person, so she actually has certain requirements when choosing tenants. She rented it to the girl because she saw that the girl's makeup and clothes were very delicate and beautiful, so she felt at ease renting it to the girl. Who knew that when she took possession of the house, she would get a rubbish house."

"Fuck, the garbage room reclaiming is so real! I've seen that kind of garbage room on the Internet, and I can only say that I will never forget that scene! I don't know what kind of mess it takes to make a room so dirty!"

Those rubbish rooms that netizens have seen actually reflect the state of most girls, that is, all show and no substance.

Most girls say that they dress up to please themselves, not to please others.

But in fact, they know better than anyone why they dress like this.

Just like many female anchors, they know what netizens like to watch, but they deliberately pretend not to know.

This is what is meant by being both a responsible party and a high-ranking official.

If you expose the little thoughts in their hearts, they will turn around and say that you have dirty thoughts and that there is something wrong with you.

Shi Shi was very dissatisfied when she heard what Xu Wen said.

"You are totally prejudiced! It's like I am wearing these beautiful clothes now, am I trying to please someone? I am just doing it because I am happy."

Xu Wen smiled and asked, "Really? Do you mean that you are simply happy that you can wear beautiful clothes?"

Shi Shi nodded as a matter of course.

Xu Wen then asked, "If that's the case, then I have a question. You have no way of seeing what you look like now, and there's no mirror here, so why do you still feel happy?"

Xu Wen's question stumped Shi Shi.

Indeed, you say that you wear beautiful clothes to please yourself, but the problem is that from your own perspective, you will never be able to see what you look like as a whole.

In other words, you have no way of confirming what you look like wearing this dress at this moment. You have no idea whether it is beautiful or ugly.

If that's the case, how can you say that you feel happy because you wear beautiful clothes?

When Xu Wen said this, Shi Shi's mind went blank. Shi Shi wanted to say that Xu Wen was talking nonsense, but she couldn't find any words to refute Xu Wen.

Xu Wen continued: "The reason why you think wearing beautiful clothes can make you happy is not because of the behavior itself."

"It's because when you put on beautiful clothes, you will get feedback from other people. This positive feedback is the fundamental reason why you are happy."

"That is to say, what really makes you happy is the gaze of others, a compliment or even a smile."

Xu Wen's words can be said to have directly revealed the essence of women's happiness.

The netizens in the live broadcast room were all shocked.

"Fuck, is this really Xu Gou? Why is he talking so confusingly today?"

"Although I really want to refute him, what Xu Gou said does make sense. I can't find any fault with him."

"I used to think that the saying 'women dress to please themselves' was a kind of derogatory statement about women, but now I realize that it is completely realistic!"

"No, you only realized this so late? You are too slow. All we can say is that our ancestors' words and actions are reasonable. We just need to learn and study them carefully."

Sun Ya curled her lips and said, "Okay, even if you are right, we women are vain. We dress sexy rather than beautiful just to attract more people's attention, but this is also human nature, isn't it?"

"After all, clothes are designed to attract other people's attention. Do you want us to wear the same clothes in the future?"

Xu Wen shook his head and refuted Sun Ya.

"You are doing it wrong. I am not saying that you cannot wear beautiful clothes in the future. I just want to tell you that before you do anything, you should first figure out why you are doing it, otherwise you will be easily led by others."

"It's like if you really think that wearing beautiful clothes is just to please yourself, then your future life will be miserable."

Why is a man the head of the family?
It is because men can do a lot of things at home, and by using their connections outside, they can also protect their families from being bullied by others.

But women rarely understand this.

So if women don't realize that women should dress up to please themselves, they will spend a lot of money on themselves, as long as they are happy.

But they don't realize that their wealth is temporary.

If they can't put on makeup to please the man or partner they love.

It won't be long before the other party kicks her away, making their lives unsustainable.

Xu Wen sighed and said, "So you see, the ones who are really living a carefree life and not caring about anything are all young women. How many middle-aged women can you see who stand up and say that they are living a good life?"

The women thought about it carefully and realized that they had never met a middle-aged woman who lived a good life like this.

(End of this chapter)