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Chapter 495 The couple's reward threshold
Chapter 495 The couple's reward threshold
"Wow, what you said is so great! You must have studied educational psychology before, right? Even if you haven't studied educational psychology, you must be very talented. Maybe you are born to teach people!"
Seeing Xu Wen's exaggerated reaction, Sun Ya frowned instantly.
"Xu Wen, what do you mean by that? I'm talking to you seriously, can you please stop being sarcastic?"
Xu Wen also said very seriously: "I am just talking to you seriously, what's wrong? Is there anything wrong with what I said? I just think you are very talented and very suitable to teach children."
Seeing Xu Wen being so frivolous, Sun Ya knew that she couldn't argue with Xu Wen, so she looked directly at Zhao Xuan who was standing beside her.
"Old Zhao, please take care of him. He is saying nonsense to me here. I really just mean well!"
Zhao Xuan also knew that Sun Ya was an impatient person.
It would be better if Xu Wen just spoke his mind directly, Sun Ya wouldn't think too much about it.
But if Xu Wen continued to be so sarcastic, Sun Ya would most likely not be able to bear it and would turn against him.
Thinking of this, Zhao Xuan said to Xu Wen, "Okay, talk properly and stop teasing Sun Ya here."
Since Zhao Xuan had spoken, Xu Wen naturally stopped teasing her.
Xu Wen said calmly: "When children do something right, giving them appropriate positive encouragement can indeed enhance their enthusiasm and have a certain positive effect."
"But have you ever thought that even if you give positive incentives, there must be a threshold?"
"For example, if a one-year-old child learns to walk, no one will find it strange if you praise him for walking well."
"But if you praise a seven-year-old child for being good at walking, do you think this is positive encouragement for the child or sarcastic?"
Sun Ya was smart to begin with, and when she heard what Xu Wen said, she reacted instantly.
"I see. So you weren't actually being sarcastic to me just now?"
Xu Wen nodded and said, "Yes, you said a very correct thing and did a very correct thing."
"But not all the right things will be rewarded. Sometimes you will even be punished for doing the right thing."
"So this is how we educate Xu Xuan. We want him to understand from a young age that he should do something just because he wants to do it, not because he will be rewarded or praised for it."
Xu Wen's words made all the netizens in the live broadcast room exclaim in surprise.
"Fuck, Xu Gou's entry point is something I never thought of. The angle is tricky, amazing, really amazing!"
"Now that I think about it, it seems to be true. In the past, my parents wanted me to learn how to cook, so they tricked me into going to the kitchen. They encouraged and praised me no matter what I did. I always thought I was very talented in cooking. But after I graduated and started working, I realized that my cooking skills were good enough as long as I didn't starve myself to death."
"It was the same for me. My father was a great trader, so he took me to play stocks with him since I was young to build up my confidence. But after graduation, I lost all my savings of 400,000 yuan."
"Fuck, is the guy upstairs rich? He has a savings of 400,000 right after graduating from college, this is too good!"
"The facts have proven that talent is something that you are born with or without. You will not become talented just because others praise you. On the contrary, it is possible that these few compliments will directly lead to a wrong direction in your life."
Xu Wen’s educational method may not seem easy to understand at first, but if you think about it carefully, it makes sense.
Whether it is positive incentives or negative punishments, there is actually a threshold.
When you stimulate this threshold too many times, the other party will become more and more immune to it, and in the end it may even be completely useless.
So Xu Wen and Zhao Xuan were not stingy with praise, but they set the threshold for rewards very high. In addition, Xu Xuan was naturally gifted and could complete a task well without praise from others.
Therefore, the couple used this high-threshold reward method to help Xu Xuan establish the correct outlook on life, the world and values, and to prevent him from making wrong judgments about certain things as much as possible.
After listening to this, Sun Ya and her daughter shook their heads and clapped their hands. Their expressions were so shocked that an egg could have fit through them.
"Awesome, this is awesome! I thought I was on the fifth floor, but I didn't expect you two to have already reached the atmosphere!"
"You two should publish a parenting handbook as soon as possible. As long as it's written by you two, we will definitely read it!"
Sun Ya really wasn't joking.
She knew Zhao Xuan's character and abilities very well.
Although Zhao Xuan seems to be just a successful female president of a company, her real success lies in her thinking mode and operational ability.
If she thinks that there is nothing wrong with Xu Wen's parenting method, it only means that this method has withstood the test of Zhao Xuan and is indeed effective.
Zhao Xuan laughed when she heard Sun Ya praising her like that.
"Okay, when you get married and pregnant, it won't be too late for me to write a parenting manual for you myself."
"Everyone is tired after traveling for so many days. Let's go back to the room and rest early. I will also go to the study to deal with some work."
After Zhao Xuan finished speaking, she walked into the study, opened her laptop, and immediately began to concentrate on working.
Seeing this, Sun Ya quickly picked up her laptop and followed.
"Old Zhao, wait for me. I can also work overtime. We can have an online meeting together later."
Zhao Xuan and Sun Ya work in the same company, one is responsible for decision-making and the other is responsible for sales.
So when the two of them entered the study to work, the study instantly seemed to have become the joint office of the presidents of a real estate company.
Shi Shi was also infected by this scene, and she opened her handbag and took out her computer.
"Xu Wen, please pour me a cup of latte. I have to go in and work too."
Tan Zhuo followed closely behind and ordered a cup of milk tea.
Seeing four women working on four computers in the study, Xu Wen felt helpless for a moment.
There is no way, who asked Xu Wen to be the only one doing nothing in the family?
Even Xu Xuan is doing the test paper in his bedroom now.
Xu Wen walked into the kitchen and opened one of the cabinets.
As soon as the cabinet was opened, all kinds of exotic coffee aromas immediately hit me.
Zheng Yue, who was standing next to Xu Wen, couldn't help but take a deep breath, and then said with shining eyes:
"Brother Xu, these coffee beans smell so good. Can you introduce them to us?"
Xu Wen picked up a bag at random and said calmly, "What's there to introduce? You have to drink these coffee beans yourself to know what they taste like. You can't describe them just by talking."
(End of this chapter)
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