Marry first, love later: wife, don't divorce

Regarding the marriage between Che Ruyu and Kim Jongnam, Lin Yuxin can be said to be a bystander from the beginning to the end. The so-called bystanders are clear, so she only spoke while chewing the barbecue after the barbecue was served.

"Ruyu, how can you say you want a divorce so casually? How can you just give up on a marriage so casually? I remember you once said that in this life, except for Kim Jong-nam, you will not love The second man, but now that the problem comes out, the first thing you think of is not how to solve the problem, but to retreat like an ostrich, surrender, "

At this point, Lin Yuxin paused, looked straight at Ruyu, and then asked in a low voice: "Ruyu, do you think you really loved Kim Jong-nam before? If it was true love, why didn't you try hard?" What about fighting for him? You actually want to divorce him, don’t you want to hand him over to others?”

"Strive for it?" Ruyu couldn't help but smiled bitterly, and said lightly: "How to fight for it? Zhu Deyong said that when there is a third party in marriage, stupid women will deal with women, smart women will deal with men, and I, for sure I can't be that stupid woman and just get rid of Lan Ruoshui, and at the same time, I can't be a smart woman, because I can't deal with that man at all. "

After hearing her words, Lin Yuxin frowned, stretched out her hand, and patted the back of her hand: "Ruyu, you don't have to be so pessimistic. In fact, if you want to get rid of those two people, it's basically …”

"I just want to deal with my own affairs," Ruyu quickly corrected her: "I'm just an ordinary painter now, living an ordinary life, and my marriage with Kim Jong-nam is just as normal as in the world. Like other marriages in the family, there is a mistress. I can't tolerate the existence of a mistress like other regular wives. Of course, he won't give me a chance to tolerate it. So, apart from divorce, I actually... There is no second way."

"Okay, so now...don't you love him at all?" Lin Yuxin said cautiously, she always felt that Ruyu didn't actually let Kim Jong-nam go.

Ru Yu gave her a blank look, and didn't want to talk nonsense with her, so she took the chopsticks to pick up the barbecue, she hadn't eaten all day and night, and could swallow a cow right now.

"Since you don't love him anymore, why do you let them go so lightly?" Lin Yuxin rolled her eyes: "Don't you know that you divorced Kim Jong-nan, in fact, you are helping him and Lan Ruoshui in disguise?" ?”

"So what if it's not fulfilled? Do you want me to hold on to a marriage certificate and live my whole life?" Ruyu shook her head and sighed softly, "Yu Xin, you know, this is not my style. Although I don't want to fulfill others, but, I don't want to embarrass myself either."

"I know this, no one wants to wrong themselves?" Lin Yuxin took the words: "But, Ruyu, you have known him for four years and been married for three years. You married him when he was most difficult, and you were behind his back. Silently supporting him and helping him, how many things he has done for him that he doesn't know, now that he has a successful career, you actually want to separate from him and push him to that mistress, are you being kicked by a donkey? Or, Are you really too great?"

"My brain is definitely not kicked by a donkey, and I'm not that great either." Ru Yu picked up a piece of meat with chopsticks and put it into his mouth: "However, you also know that I have my own pride and self-esteem."