Marry first, love later: wife, don't divorce

"Cough cough cough" Ru Yu was drinking water, almost choked the water out of his mouth again, glared at him fiercely and said, "Are you serious?"

"You can't be——serious, right?" Ruyu put down the cup in her hand and looked at him suspiciously: "Are you really planning to marry me?"

"Of course I'm serious, do you think I'm not serious?" Lei Zhenyu put down the chopsticks in his hand, looked at Ruyu and continued the previous topic solemnly: "I told you just now, I think we are suitable for marriage, and marriage is marriage not love, marriage does not necessarily have to be preceded by love, but the subjective condition of suitability."

"A marriage without love, do you think it can last?" Ruyu shook her head and looked at Lei Zhenyu with mocking eyes: "Or, Mr. Zhenyu has stayed in the United States for too long and is used to the American way of life that races against time. , so even marriage, you can directly cut off the long part of dating and enter into a fast-food-style marriage."

Lei Zhenyu didn't make a fuss when he heard her sarcastic words, he still sat upright, and patiently said to her: "There is nothing wrong with a fast-food marriage? Although many people think that the prerequisite for marriage must be love, it is actually wrong. Love is a It is an overly emotional thing, and emotional things are easy to deteriorate, while marriage is rational and sacred. Because of its rationality, marriage will be fine as long as you stick to it, but love, sometimes you work hard. If you want to stick to it, you may not be able to hold on.”

"Hehehe, Mr. Zhenyu is a lawyer after all, and he can analyze love and marriage so thoroughly," Ruyu said with obvious sarcasm: "It's a pity, Mr. Zhenyu's theories are probably just theory, right? In fact Marriage is also a kind of emotional thing, just like love, it doesn’t mean that you will be able to hold on if you stick to it. I myself am a living example. I have stuck to my marriage for three years, and what I got in the end is only It was nothing more than betrayal and deceit, which ended in divorce."

Lei Zhenyu still looked at her with a smile on his face, and didn't argue with her about her mocking words. After she finished speaking, he patiently explained: "Ms. Che Ruyu, of course I know about your situation, and what I said Perseverance in marriage is not about one person sticking to it, because marriage is the responsibility and obligation of two people. As long as we both work together to stick to this marriage, as long as neither of us is willing to give up this marriage, at the same time, no matter what Everything must be discussed and resolved, treat this marriage in a rational way, and do not allow cheating and betrayal,"

When Lei Zhenyu said this, his face became more serious, his eyes fixed on Ruyu, and he said seriously: "Ms. , I think, as long as we both abide by the bottom line of marriage and the principle of sticking to marriage, then even if there is no so-called love in our marriage, I believe we will be able to persevere."

"Hehehe," Ruyu couldn't help laughing, staring at the confident Lei Zhenyu opposite with cold eyes, and said lightly: "Since Mr. Lei is so confident and analyzes marriage so well, Thoroughly, I believe that there must be many people in this world who want to stick with you, so you don't need to find me, a woman who has just been reduced to second-hand."

"There are quite a few women like that," Lei Zhenyu was not angry either, he stared at Ruyu sincerely, and then said firmly, "But now, I just want to stick to it with you!"

Ruyu was taken aback when she heard this, then laughed again, and said lightly while wiping her mouth with a tissue: "Mr. Zhenyu, you just came back to China and you may have too many things to do. If you have too much time, you can find other Girls talk about your persistence in marriage without love, but this lady has no interest in your theory or proposal."