Traveling through the ages with the hotel, being doted on by four brothers

Chapter 164 Request
Those with good quality will keep some for herself when the time comes, and the rest will be left to her nephews and nieces. She will treat it as her aunt's support to the younger generation. With these good things, she will come back to see her occasionally in the future. That's it.

As for providing for old age, your own children may not be able to do it, so don’t count on other people’s children.

If you really have difficulty moving in the future, you can spend money to hire a reliable person in the village to take care of you. For such a large production team, there will definitely be a reliable person. She will pay and they will help. It can be considered mutually beneficial.

But this is decades away, and it’s a bit too early to worry about it now.

In short, she will not get married and have children just to have someone to support her in old age. Whether it is a boy or a girl, they will break up with their parents when they are obsessed with love.

If you meet a good partner, your parents will naturally support you with both hands. But in many cases, you meet a bad person who has other agendas in life.

If your own child breaks up with his parents because of such a person, he might as well give birth to a barbecued pork!
And even if she gets married in the future, she will find someone to marry who meets her requirements in all aspects, and will never lower her requirements. After all, once she starts to compromise, she may have to compromise in this life.

She would never do this.

Since the Chinese New Year, Yuan Bingbing and Zhang Wenwen should not be short of things anymore, so they go to the countryside once a month to exchange things. During this lean season, there are not many good things to exchange, so they exchange them with everyone for wild vegetables, mushrooms and the like.

Yuan Bingbing asked her colleagues and friends to exchange things with the villagers in the threshing ground, while she went to the primary school to find Xia Chan. Yuan Bingchao had returned home some time ago, and she asked Yuan Bingchao if he had any female comrades he liked in the army, and Yuan Bingchao said no.

Mrs. Yuan asked Yuan Bingchao what he thought of Xia Chan.

Yuan Bingchao said it was pretty good, and his cheeks turned a little red when he talked about summer cicadas.

Mrs. Yuan knew that Yuan Bingchao was satisfied with Xia Chan, but Yuan Bingchao left the next day, so there was no time to arrange a formal meeting between Xia Chan and Yuan Bingchao. Yuan Bingbing happened to be free now, so she asked Yuan Bingbing to come and find Xia Chan, and say more good things about Yuan Bingchao in front of Xia Chan, so that Xia Chan would gradually have a place for Yuan Bingchao in her heart. When Yuan Bingchao comes back next time, they can arrange a formal meeting between the two, so that their chances of success will be greater.

It was not yet time for afternoon classes, and the students were still eating at home and had not come over yet. Xia Chan had just arrived at the school office and was about to sit down and read a book when he suddenly heard someone calling him outside, so he got up and went out.

Seeing Yuan Bingbing walking on campus and calling her name, Xia Chan asked with a smile, "Bingbing, why are you here?"

"We are here to change things." Yuan Bingbing came to Xia Chan and took her arm. "I changed less this time, so I finished in a short while, so I came to see you."

As Yuan Bingbing often came to the countryside to exchange things, she naturally knew when Xia Chan would come to school.

Xia Chan brought Yuan Bingbing to the office, asked her to sit down, poured her a cup of hot water, and then the two of them started chatting.

After chatting for a while, Yuan Bingbing asked tentatively, "Xiao Chan, you are nineteen years old this year, right?"

Xia Chan nodded, "Yes, what's the matter?"

"Nothing, I'm just curious, what kind of husband do you plan to find in the future? Or what do you want from your husband?" Yuan Bingbing asked carefully, staring at Xia Chan's eyes. Xia Chan shook her head, "I haven't thought about this."

"Think about it now." Yuan Bingbing grabbed Xia Chan's arm, shook it, and urged anxiously.

"Okay, let me think about it." Xia Chan said helplessly, "First, there are fewer people in my family, and I have my own independent residence, so I don't have to live with my parents."

After hearing this, Yuan Bingbing thought to herself, there are only four people in their family, which is not a large number. In the future, when his brother gets promoted and gets married, he can bring his wife and children to join the army. Therefore, Yuan Bingchao definitely meets Xia Chan's first request.

"Second, he must have his own brains and be able to distinguish right from wrong. He must not allow his mother to mess up his family and bully his wife and children."

In fact, Xia Chan didn't want to get married. She put forward these conditions to remind Yuan Bingbing that when she looks for a partner in the future, she should try to meet these conditions as much as possible and not hastily marry someone she doesn't know very well.

After all, marriage is a lifelong thing, and if you marry the wrong person, you are likely to be unhappy for the rest of your life.

Yuan Bingbing thought about it and felt that her family also met the second requirement because her parents were very nice people and not the type to make trouble for their daughter-in-law.

But what Yuan Bingbing didn't know was that some people may be very good as mothers, but once they are in the position of mother-in-law, that may not be a good thing. After all, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies.

Her mother is a good person in her eyes, but in the eyes of her future daughter-in-law, she may not be a good mother-in-law.

"Third, you must respect me and listen to me. You must not force me to do anything, nor force me to be filial to his parents. After all, his parents are his parents, and there is a layer of separation between us. I only do what I should do, and you cannot force me to do what I shouldn't do. Many men marry wives and ask them to be filial to their parents, but they themselves are not filial at all, and they directly transfer the responsibility of being filial to their parents to their wives. Don't they know that their daughters-in-law also have their own parents to be filial to?"

Whether it is now or in the future, the parents-in-law are taken care of and respected by their daughter-in-law, but in the end no one says anything good about the daughter-in-law. Xia Chan hates this the most.

"Fourth, every month, you should give your salary to me instead of his mother. Now that you have your own family, you should put it first. I don't want to live a humble life asking for money from others."

Some mothers-in-law hold on to the money of the young couple tightly, and if the daughter-in-law asks for a penny, they will scold her.

A man who lets his wife live a life of being scolded every day does not deserve to have a wife.

"Fifth, you must respect my decision whether to have children or not. If I don't want to, you can't force me to have children. If I have a daughter, you can't force me to have a son. I can name my child myself." When it comes to this, Xia Chan gritted his teeth.

Because she was born in the 21st century, when she was in high school and college, she read a lot of novels and period literature. She didn't know why she was so keen on reading period literature at the time.

Later I realized that I was a person of that era, which was why I liked reading literature about that era so much.

Moreover, in the period novels she had read, many heroines traveled through time or were reborn with a golden finger. They could have lived well with material things and could have become career-oriented women, but once the emotional drama was confirmed, they were forced to downgrade their intelligence and retreat behind the scenes.