my lord god sister
Chapter 23 Otaku and Psychology
Love always comes and goes quickly.Liu Mengchao didn't realize that she had been wandering outside for a whole day until Gui Yanye brought her home.
Is this what Einstein called the theory of relativity?Liu Mengchao was in such a good mood that she couldn't help but spit out her own troubles. When she was with someone she liked, a day only felt like one second, but when she was with someone she hated, one second felt like a year.
Liu Mengchao raised her head, looked at the gradually setting sun, and sighed.The world is like water, and human feelings are like frost.It's just that there are too many people in this world, making the water in this world muddy.
Liu Mengchao has always disliked the so-called wise men, the kind of people who think that they can control the overall situation with their wisdom pearls in their hands, and make all judgments based on the possibility of things happening.
And I am just an ordinary person who is proficient in psychology. All I have to do is to let that kind of trivial thing happen because of the fluctuation in my heart.
The wise man is responsible for making 99% of the possibilities come, and the psychologist is responsible for making the 1% a reality.
It's time to go to the park. At eight o'clock, I asked Li Yang to come out.This otaku that no one pays attention to, in his own plan, will be the first straw that crushes the entire reincarnation team.
In a remote park, Liu Mengchao looked at the cautious Li Yang and said, "You're here."
Liu Mengchao held a sharp fruit knife in his arms and looked at the person who appeared in front of him.Li Yang has a round and chubby face, his eyes are slightly squinted, as if he is a little nearsighted.
"Didn't you ask me to come out? You said you had something important to tell me." Li Yang looked around vigilantly and said cautiously.
It turns out that I have always underestimated you.Liu Mengchao looked at Li Yang and couldn't help laughing.Pretend to be short-sighted, so that his facial expression is tense, and the muscles around the eyes, which are the most difficult to control, will maintain a tight state.
This makes microexpressions difficult to apply.
Liu Mengchao stood still, calmed down, and tried to look amiable, but his words were not polite at all, "Are you really just an otaku, Li Yang?"
one second...
two seconds...
three seconds...
oh?Liu Mengchao almost wanted to laugh out loud. Could it be that the golden rule of making up lies after being silent for three seconds in the face of other people's questioning has already been widely known?
However, psychological pressure is not a simple thing.
Liu Mengchao looked at the otaku in front of her with a smile, or Li Yang, who also knew psychology, let me see, how far is your psychology?
Liu Mengchao's eyes suddenly turned cold, and his body leaned forward slightly.He knew that this would create a sense of oppression for the other party, wanting to invade his space.
This sense of oppression, coupled with the psychological pressure of making up lies, will let you show your flaws, and then it's time for you to control yourself.
nervous!oppression!Li Yang suddenly felt a sense of oppression. He knew that Liu Mengchao on the opposite side was not a wise man with a superior IQ, but a psychologist he had never seen before.I don't know if I can fool him with the little knowledge of psychology I occasionally see.For the first time, Li Yang felt regretful because of his curiosity.At this time, I absolutely can't be nervous, he is just like me, he is just a newcomer!
Useless!
I have seen your secret!
I saw that Li Yang's facial expression was still stiff, but his index finger and thumb were rubbing slightly.In an instant, Liu Mengchao made up his mind. This is a common skin comforting reaction.It shows that the other party is in a state of tension and cannot extricate himself.Next, I just need to find the flaws in his words.
"I……"
Li Yang hesitated.
"You saw Ri on campus."
"Yes!"
Did you answer quickly?Liu Mengchao smiled slightly, looking at Li Yang, the homeboy in front of her, can telling the truth relieve your psychological pressure?
"You like Gui Yanye." Liu Mengchao continued, observing Li Yang's lips.
"no……"
There is no slight opening and closing of the lips, which seems real.While observing Li Yang's expression, Liu Mengchao tried his best to slow down his movements, and the expression on his face became even slower.
The reason why the micro-expression is a micro-expression is because the time of his appearance is too fast.If you don't observe carefully, you won't be able to find out. On the contrary, if you let this expression stay on your face for a long time, then... the observer will reflect on whether he is pretending or is it just like this?
Most importantly, in psychology, there is not only the branch of micro-expression.There are many other fascinating places.For example, psychological control, such as the premise of controlling the other party... cold reading the other party, using cold reading techniques.
Cold reading is a theory that has been circulated among hot chick masters and extreme psychologists.
Together they form a strange group, through their own special terminology, some advanced knowledge of psychology, and awareness of the subconscious, they have transformed themselves into a successful and extraordinary social machine.
To paraphrase, the famous saying of these social machines, "Men are just some unattractive women." Because in the eyes of these people, no matter men or women, it is just that they perform cold reading skills, open each other's heart, and make each other completely Believe in your goals.
As for our Liu Mengchao, now he is going to be careless, moistening things and silently opening the heart of the nerd opposite him.Get close to the opponent, disarm the opponent, and then control him!
First, open your palms.Liu Mengchao let the other party see his palm in a casual way.This can greatly increase the other party's sense of security.
When dating a woman, security is very important.Of course, also when communicating.
Sure enough, watching Liu Mengchao spread his palms, Li Yang felt an inexplicable sense of security in his heart.
Is he casting a spell on me? !
Although he was telling himself in his heart to be vigilant and not to relax, Li Yang's facial expression was no longer tense.
Very good, Liu Mengchao tried his best to calm down his mood, ease his voice, and make his voice sound low and magnetic.A tone that is too frivolous can easily disgust the other party, while a tone that is too heavy can easily make the other party fearful.
The optimal speaking rate, according to Yankee theory, spits out about "three and a half" syllables per second, while pausing four to five times for each long sentence.
Of course, words are the most important thing.Thanks to those social machines and psychology madmen who invited me to participate in the research on cold reading.
"Actually, you know what you want, but you always think that you have no chance to get it, so you have been stagnant." Liu Mengchao said slowly, observing the other person's expression.Cold reading is to use sentences to instantly open up the opponent's speech.No matter who it is, there will always be something that cannot be obtained. It is really appropriate to use this as the opening statement of the cold reading technique to open the heart of the other party.
Li Yang's expression also proved that Liu Mengchao's cold reading skills played a role.A word spoke to his heart.
Surprised!
In a quarter of a second, Li Yang's upper eyelids lifted.Then quickly returned to its original position.
This is a typical expression of being surprised and then concealed.
At this time, the system panel also played a notification tone in a playful way.
Pool amount: 13500.
So, my cold reading is right.Cold reading is the application of psychology in speech. In layman's terms, it is to use a vague but accurate narrative to let the other party unconsciously find answers in life and experience, and unconsciously believe I really am such a person.The simplest example is the zodiac personality described in countless horoscope books.
"How could he know..." Li Yang tried his best to restrain his urge to turn around and run away.Now he really believes that this Liu Mengchao can really read minds, otherwise, how could he know himself so well! ?
Generally speaking, you don't need to say too many sentences in cold reading, as long as you say five sentences and three of them hit the other person's heart, that's enough.
Liu Mengchao smiled slightly and continued, "It's a pity that you can't open your heart to others. In fact, you are rich in emotion and can make people happy. You are a very charming person, but you haven't fully shown it yet. .” According to the research of the Society of Personality Psychologists, people who are generally not good at communication will have an illusion of self-improvement. For example, in the virtual world, they have very good popularity.
After hearing Liu Mengchao's words, Li Yang's heart was really shaken.
How does he know that I'm popular on the forum? !I can chat with many people, and I actually have many friends with similar interests in the group.
Could it be that...he didn't know...could it be...just in these short few days, he really understood me completely...?
Li Yang relaxed and lowered his head slightly.At the same time, Liu Mengchao also noticed that his spine was also slightly bent down.
Is the whole person beginning to obey the gravity?This is a typical win-lose reaction. Have you already started to throw in the towel?otaku?
Then, the following is the last sentence of the three sentences of cold reading.
"You always feel that the friends around you are far away from you."
wrong!As soon as the words came out of his mouth, Liu Mengchao realized that he had made a mistake!The longer the cold reading technique, the better, otherwise the other party will not be able to find it because of the vague description, and you can verify this sentence with your own specific experience.
Sure enough, Liu Mengchao's ominous premonition was correct.In Li Yang's eyes, the brilliance suddenly reappeared.
Cold reading gone wrong.
At this time, Li Yang seemed to have revived from the shock caused by the cold reading technique. He opened his mouth slightly, trying to defend himself, and then closed his heart again.
A poor psychologist can only stare blankly at this time, witnessing his failure, because ordinary psychologists can only prepare at most three cold-reading terms when talking.
"But... I'm not."
Liu Mengchao looked calm, as if what he just said was not what he said, and opened his mouth again.
"Even if you try to hide it, you can still see that you're secretly hoping things are going to be the best, and there's a ray of hope in your expression."
Open your heart and let me completely control you.You know, I still have a lot of sentence patterns waiting for you.
So, fall, reincarnation!
——————————————————————————————
Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.
This chapter is not finished, it took a day to write, but it is still a bit messy.Now it has been completely revised, I am really sorry t^t;
Is this what Einstein called the theory of relativity?Liu Mengchao was in such a good mood that she couldn't help but spit out her own troubles. When she was with someone she liked, a day only felt like one second, but when she was with someone she hated, one second felt like a year.
Liu Mengchao raised her head, looked at the gradually setting sun, and sighed.The world is like water, and human feelings are like frost.It's just that there are too many people in this world, making the water in this world muddy.
Liu Mengchao has always disliked the so-called wise men, the kind of people who think that they can control the overall situation with their wisdom pearls in their hands, and make all judgments based on the possibility of things happening.
And I am just an ordinary person who is proficient in psychology. All I have to do is to let that kind of trivial thing happen because of the fluctuation in my heart.
The wise man is responsible for making 99% of the possibilities come, and the psychologist is responsible for making the 1% a reality.
It's time to go to the park. At eight o'clock, I asked Li Yang to come out.This otaku that no one pays attention to, in his own plan, will be the first straw that crushes the entire reincarnation team.
In a remote park, Liu Mengchao looked at the cautious Li Yang and said, "You're here."
Liu Mengchao held a sharp fruit knife in his arms and looked at the person who appeared in front of him.Li Yang has a round and chubby face, his eyes are slightly squinted, as if he is a little nearsighted.
"Didn't you ask me to come out? You said you had something important to tell me." Li Yang looked around vigilantly and said cautiously.
It turns out that I have always underestimated you.Liu Mengchao looked at Li Yang and couldn't help laughing.Pretend to be short-sighted, so that his facial expression is tense, and the muscles around the eyes, which are the most difficult to control, will maintain a tight state.
This makes microexpressions difficult to apply.
Liu Mengchao stood still, calmed down, and tried to look amiable, but his words were not polite at all, "Are you really just an otaku, Li Yang?"
one second...
two seconds...
three seconds...
oh?Liu Mengchao almost wanted to laugh out loud. Could it be that the golden rule of making up lies after being silent for three seconds in the face of other people's questioning has already been widely known?
However, psychological pressure is not a simple thing.
Liu Mengchao looked at the otaku in front of her with a smile, or Li Yang, who also knew psychology, let me see, how far is your psychology?
Liu Mengchao's eyes suddenly turned cold, and his body leaned forward slightly.He knew that this would create a sense of oppression for the other party, wanting to invade his space.
This sense of oppression, coupled with the psychological pressure of making up lies, will let you show your flaws, and then it's time for you to control yourself.
nervous!oppression!Li Yang suddenly felt a sense of oppression. He knew that Liu Mengchao on the opposite side was not a wise man with a superior IQ, but a psychologist he had never seen before.I don't know if I can fool him with the little knowledge of psychology I occasionally see.For the first time, Li Yang felt regretful because of his curiosity.At this time, I absolutely can't be nervous, he is just like me, he is just a newcomer!
Useless!
I have seen your secret!
I saw that Li Yang's facial expression was still stiff, but his index finger and thumb were rubbing slightly.In an instant, Liu Mengchao made up his mind. This is a common skin comforting reaction.It shows that the other party is in a state of tension and cannot extricate himself.Next, I just need to find the flaws in his words.
"I……"
Li Yang hesitated.
"You saw Ri on campus."
"Yes!"
Did you answer quickly?Liu Mengchao smiled slightly, looking at Li Yang, the homeboy in front of her, can telling the truth relieve your psychological pressure?
"You like Gui Yanye." Liu Mengchao continued, observing Li Yang's lips.
"no……"
There is no slight opening and closing of the lips, which seems real.While observing Li Yang's expression, Liu Mengchao tried his best to slow down his movements, and the expression on his face became even slower.
The reason why the micro-expression is a micro-expression is because the time of his appearance is too fast.If you don't observe carefully, you won't be able to find out. On the contrary, if you let this expression stay on your face for a long time, then... the observer will reflect on whether he is pretending or is it just like this?
Most importantly, in psychology, there is not only the branch of micro-expression.There are many other fascinating places.For example, psychological control, such as the premise of controlling the other party... cold reading the other party, using cold reading techniques.
Cold reading is a theory that has been circulated among hot chick masters and extreme psychologists.
Together they form a strange group, through their own special terminology, some advanced knowledge of psychology, and awareness of the subconscious, they have transformed themselves into a successful and extraordinary social machine.
To paraphrase, the famous saying of these social machines, "Men are just some unattractive women." Because in the eyes of these people, no matter men or women, it is just that they perform cold reading skills, open each other's heart, and make each other completely Believe in your goals.
As for our Liu Mengchao, now he is going to be careless, moistening things and silently opening the heart of the nerd opposite him.Get close to the opponent, disarm the opponent, and then control him!
First, open your palms.Liu Mengchao let the other party see his palm in a casual way.This can greatly increase the other party's sense of security.
When dating a woman, security is very important.Of course, also when communicating.
Sure enough, watching Liu Mengchao spread his palms, Li Yang felt an inexplicable sense of security in his heart.
Is he casting a spell on me? !
Although he was telling himself in his heart to be vigilant and not to relax, Li Yang's facial expression was no longer tense.
Very good, Liu Mengchao tried his best to calm down his mood, ease his voice, and make his voice sound low and magnetic.A tone that is too frivolous can easily disgust the other party, while a tone that is too heavy can easily make the other party fearful.
The optimal speaking rate, according to Yankee theory, spits out about "three and a half" syllables per second, while pausing four to five times for each long sentence.
Of course, words are the most important thing.Thanks to those social machines and psychology madmen who invited me to participate in the research on cold reading.
"Actually, you know what you want, but you always think that you have no chance to get it, so you have been stagnant." Liu Mengchao said slowly, observing the other person's expression.Cold reading is to use sentences to instantly open up the opponent's speech.No matter who it is, there will always be something that cannot be obtained. It is really appropriate to use this as the opening statement of the cold reading technique to open the heart of the other party.
Li Yang's expression also proved that Liu Mengchao's cold reading skills played a role.A word spoke to his heart.
Surprised!
In a quarter of a second, Li Yang's upper eyelids lifted.Then quickly returned to its original position.
This is a typical expression of being surprised and then concealed.
At this time, the system panel also played a notification tone in a playful way.
Pool amount: 13500.
So, my cold reading is right.Cold reading is the application of psychology in speech. In layman's terms, it is to use a vague but accurate narrative to let the other party unconsciously find answers in life and experience, and unconsciously believe I really am such a person.The simplest example is the zodiac personality described in countless horoscope books.
"How could he know..." Li Yang tried his best to restrain his urge to turn around and run away.Now he really believes that this Liu Mengchao can really read minds, otherwise, how could he know himself so well! ?
Generally speaking, you don't need to say too many sentences in cold reading, as long as you say five sentences and three of them hit the other person's heart, that's enough.
Liu Mengchao smiled slightly and continued, "It's a pity that you can't open your heart to others. In fact, you are rich in emotion and can make people happy. You are a very charming person, but you haven't fully shown it yet. .” According to the research of the Society of Personality Psychologists, people who are generally not good at communication will have an illusion of self-improvement. For example, in the virtual world, they have very good popularity.
After hearing Liu Mengchao's words, Li Yang's heart was really shaken.
How does he know that I'm popular on the forum? !I can chat with many people, and I actually have many friends with similar interests in the group.
Could it be that...he didn't know...could it be...just in these short few days, he really understood me completely...?
Li Yang relaxed and lowered his head slightly.At the same time, Liu Mengchao also noticed that his spine was also slightly bent down.
Is the whole person beginning to obey the gravity?This is a typical win-lose reaction. Have you already started to throw in the towel?otaku?
Then, the following is the last sentence of the three sentences of cold reading.
"You always feel that the friends around you are far away from you."
wrong!As soon as the words came out of his mouth, Liu Mengchao realized that he had made a mistake!The longer the cold reading technique, the better, otherwise the other party will not be able to find it because of the vague description, and you can verify this sentence with your own specific experience.
Sure enough, Liu Mengchao's ominous premonition was correct.In Li Yang's eyes, the brilliance suddenly reappeared.
Cold reading gone wrong.
At this time, Li Yang seemed to have revived from the shock caused by the cold reading technique. He opened his mouth slightly, trying to defend himself, and then closed his heart again.
A poor psychologist can only stare blankly at this time, witnessing his failure, because ordinary psychologists can only prepare at most three cold-reading terms when talking.
"But... I'm not."
Liu Mengchao looked calm, as if what he just said was not what he said, and opened his mouth again.
"Even if you try to hide it, you can still see that you're secretly hoping things are going to be the best, and there's a ray of hope in your expression."
Open your heart and let me completely control you.You know, I still have a lot of sentence patterns waiting for you.
So, fall, reincarnation!
——————————————————————————————
Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.
This chapter is not finished, it took a day to write, but it is still a bit messy.Now it has been completely revised, I am really sorry t^t;
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