the last witcher

I looked at Mrs. Li and smiled, "Are you trying to say that men become bad when they have money?" After hearing the words "reform and opening up", I knew the only possibility. "That's right, according to Master's age, it's really not easy to understand the past in such detail." Mrs. Li praised, "I also have a wedding company and other businesses, so these things are often talked about by people. , After a long time, it will become familiar." I told the other party the reason directly.Mrs. Li nodded, "But Master's memory is really good." In order to win my favor, Mrs. Li continued to chat with me.

"Has Mr. Li gone to sea?" I continued to ask, "Well, first I stopped working without pay and began to go south. After many twists and turns, I finally saved enough money and returned to the local area. Then I used my previous connections to transfer my job to the bank. System. I didn’t understand it at first, because if you can survive the work at the beginning, it’s not too difficult to be a section chief or something when you retire. If you can transfer to a bank, it’s like starting from scratch. Years are wasted." Mrs. Li seemed to express her point of view, "Your husband sees so far." I said to Mrs. Li.

"Yes," Mrs. Li gave me an approving glance, and then continued: "Not long after entering the bank, my husband bought a large amount of land with the funds in his hand, and mortgaged the land to his bank. Using the mortgaged funds, we built a factory building on the original land and purchased the equipment to start construction, and then mortgaged the factory building and equipment to another bank. Return the money, and use the money from the bank to get bigger and bigger, and finally have your own business." Speaking of this, Mrs. Li sighed.

After listening to Mrs. Li's narration, I was not surprised, but felt a sense of desolation at an untimely birth.And I found that during the reform and opening up, the vast majority of successful bosses used Mr. Li's method at the beginning. Is this considered to be lax legislation or unfavorable supervision?Hey, for a while, I couldn't figure out the clue of this problem.

Lao Cao filled up the tea for Mrs. Li again, and Mrs. Li nodded politely at Brother Cao, and then continued: "From the day he went into the sea, we belonged to the stage of the Cold War. He has fought all these years, and I also I couldn’t help much. And every time he came back, I not only failed to comfort him, but even worsened my temper. As a result, he began to gradually alienate me in the later stage, gradually began not to go home, and even when I was sick Sometimes, he always arranged for people to send money, retribution, retribution!" Mrs. Li recalled the pain, with a sad expression on her face.

"But I think your husband still has you in his heart." I said to Mrs. Li, "How do you say that?" With my husband's current strength, he should have divorced a long time ago, shouldn't he?" I asked back.Mrs. Li was stunned for a while, and then said a little happily: "Yes, he still has me in his heart. After all, I gave him my best age." Until now, Mrs. Li is still living in the dream of the past , I don't want to break the dream of this poor woman, because it seems to me that this woman has nothing but children and good memories from the past.But it was because she was always obsessed with the past and unwilling to face the reality that exacerbated Mr. Li's disgust. After all, the current Mr. Li was punishing his wife through soft violence to achieve the purpose of punishment.But then again, Mr. Li is still a relatively reliable man, at least he has fulfilled his responsibilities, but he is not as broad-minded as Brother Hong, or in other words, Mr. Li has not met the kindness of his sister-in-law. This kind of reliable and virtuous helper, advances and retreats together, prospers and disgraces together, time and fate, combined together, I can understand what Mr. Li is doing now.

"How often did Mr. Li go home before the talisman was useless?" I asked Mrs. Li, "It's hard to say, on average, he can come back once or twice a month." Mrs. Li said depressedly, "If you want to treat both symptoms and root causes, It will take a long time." I glanced at Mrs. Li and said to her. "As long as it can make him love me like before, I will pay whatever it takes." Mrs. Li immediately expressed her opinion after hearing me say the key points.

"Mrs. Li, let's not talk about money for now. At least two conditions are required to treat both symptoms and root causes. First: You need to ask Layman Cao to conduct an overall Feng Shui survey for your place of residence. Design a feng shui layout to ease the tense relationship between husband and wife." This time, it was finally Cao's turn to play.

"That's no problem. I'll ask the driver to pick you up and go to my house in a while. If you need anything, just ask." Mrs. Li readily agreed to my first request, "Second: You need to learn new skills from now on. In terms of knowledge and thinking, you must keep pace with the times, and your concepts should not stay in your era. Whether it is family, children's education, finance and politics, you have to re-learn. I personally suggest that you read more books in your spare time , read the newspaper, go to the Internet, and spend less time shopping, doing beauty treatments, and playing mahjong, and you can sign up for fitness, yoga, and improve your personal charm index.” I gave the other party a very pertinent reply again. suggestion.

"Master, to tell you the truth, from piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, to firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, I have been cooking for half my life, and I will retire in a few years. Suddenly, you asked me to change the original law of life. I am afraid I can't do it." Mrs. Li answered me honestly.Mrs. Li's answer reassures me. If she agrees now, I'm afraid I won't be able to continue with this list. As Mrs. Li said, what I need her to change is to keep up with her husband's rhythm. .Before men and women get married, they have each other's social circles, their own views, and their own economic foundation.After marriage, under the influence of China's 5000-year-old concept that men are superior to women, women gradually left their social circles and began to care for their husbands and children, while men continued to expand their social circles, from wine and meat friends to business partners. , the man gradually discovers that the common language with his wife is getting less and less, and the generation gap is getting deeper and deeper. What the wife talks about every day is not the same thing as what he cares about now. Communication between husband and wife began to become difficult.The concept of the husband and wife has also reached a state of peaceful coexistence after a long period of running-in, but generally women have changed more. At this time, a capable husband will think that the current situation is due to With my own efforts, my wife just did what she should have done, so all changes should be made by my wife, and I can simply cooperate with the other party.Finally, let’s talk about the economic aspect. In this aspect, the general direction is from the unrestrained supply of women by men in the early days, to the joint control of property by husband and wife after marriage, and finally to the general direction of men gradually controlling the money used in the family. To put it bluntly, it is only a change from quantity to quality. In addition to all the previous situations, if the man does not change after marriage, that would be a miracle.Of course, this does not include those ostrich men who think they are underappreciated.

to be continued