The leisurely life of rebirth.

Fang Monan laughed, "Why don't you say that a family with an elder is like a treasure!"

"Yes! We old people may not know a single word, but the old people have a wealth of life experience, which can be used as a reference for us. Especially the old people in our village sit under the old locust tree every summer and like to talk about ancient times. " The Romance of the Three Kingdoms and the Romance of the Sui and Tang Dynasties are at your fingertips." Da Chengzi laughed.

Shitou echoed, "That's right! I didn't have any entertainment when I was a child, and my favorite thing is to listen to my grandfather's lectures on ancient times."

Fang Monan smiled and said, "A human life is rare; it is a treasure; a person can live to a certain age; it is a treasure; the elderly have rich life experience; it is a treasure; it is a treasure for younger generations to have the opportunity to repay their elders." She joked, "Just think about it; decades later, you will not be a treasure. Therefore: the old, the old, and the old...all the old people are living treasures!"

"Haha..." Several people were amused by Fang Monan's words. [

The fat man smiled and said, "If you take back the above, you must know how to give up the four basic principles of life. People have limited time, limited energy, limited ability, and limited funds. Life is short and love is long. It is impossible for a person to be able to do everything. It is impossible to cover everything and satisfy everyone, and it is impossible for everyone to raise their hands in favor and support. Because we are not RMB, everyone likes it. Three thousand and hello, eight People are perfect, gold is pure, things are always divided into two, there are good and bad, there is only relative, there is no absolute. Therefore, you must give up what should be given up. Giving up is an art, only if you know how to give up , will be successful. Giving up is a difficult choice. What to give up? What to keep? How much to give up? How much to keep? What should be given up? What should be kept? ?You must have your own plan in life, you must have your own goals, what kind of person you want to be, and how should you spend your life? All these require a person to weigh the pros and cons, make choices, and learn to give up. Giving up is a choice Art. If you are willing to give up, you will get something if you give up. If you don’t give up, if you want everything, you will get nothing in the end.”

Da Chengzi said to Shi Shi, "Listen carefully, these are rare experiences."

The fat man went on to say to Shitou, "If you want to be successful, you must endure loneliness. If you can endure loneliness, you can master real skills. If you can endure loneliness, you can work with confidence. Only when you are lonely can you realize self-cultivation. Self-cultivation refers to a person's efforts to improve his quality and ability through learning, tempering, self-cultivation and cultivation according to the requirements of a certain society or class. Self-education and self-cultivation in all aspects Self-cultivation is the only way to achieve self-improvement. People always improve their personality and gradually improve their life realm through the process of self-cultivation. Self-cultivation is the only way to self-improvement. Self-cultivation is mainly self-cultivation, strict requirements, self-improvement, Always think about your own faults, dissect yourself, exorcise evil spirits, and correct yourself. Only by regulating yourself can you make continuous progress. If a person wants to make progress, he must work hard and earnestly carry out self-cultivation. Self-cultivation can improve the quality of life and determine career Success or failure. Self-cultivation is not only conducive to the soundness of individual personality, but also reflects the degree of social civilization. The most important thing about self-cultivation is moral cultivation. Moral cultivation means that people transform themselves, educate themselves according to certain moral principles and norms, and form One's own moral quality, a kind of moral practice activity to improve one's moral realm. Self-exercise, cultivate sentiment, noble emotion can move people to achieve great careers and improve personality. Emotion is a stable attitude unique to human beings to things , is a psychological experience linked to a person’s social needs.”

He paused and continued, "Everyone has emotions, but not everyone has noble emotions. It is more difficult to change an emotion than to change a cognition. The change of emotion not only needs to go through a process of cognition, but also needs to go through A long-term and even painful training process. Personal self-cultivation is inseparable from conscious exercise in social life practice. In real life, we can consciously cultivate our emotions and sublimate our spirit. Therefore, we must actively participate in social practice and break through our own small Circles, small areas, diligent development, not afraid of difficulties, consciously exercise one's tenacious will and indomitable spirit, improve the perception of nature, society and artistic beauty in social practice life, in the rich social life practice, with various rich and noble It is an important method of self-cultivation to develop a sincere, firm, simple and tenacious character, and to shape a perfect self. Therefore, only by being able to endure loneliness can you learn knowledge and have real talents. Success comes only through practice.”

"The ancients said 'self-cultivation, family harmony, state governance, and world peace.'" Da Chengzi said, "Self-cultivation comes first."

Dachengzi continued, "We must also be able to withstand temptation. Today's life is colorful, society is complex and changeable, life is colorful now, relationships are mixed, there are all kinds of birds and people now, deceptions are refurbished, and there are people everywhere. Scams, full of traps everywhere, mixed with humans and monsters, ghosts and ghosts prevail, intrigues. If you are not careful, you will be deceived. Birds and people are entangled like poisonous snakes, making your life worse than death. Therefore, you must be patient. , to withstand the temptation, we must adhere to "Careful Independence" and pure character. "Careful Independence" is a traditional method of moral cultivation, which means that even when you are alone and supervised by others, you must stick to your moral beliefs and be strict with your words and deeds. , be cautious, do not do any immoral things, do not prostitute or gamble, and do not do vulgar things. Being able to withstand temptation is the basis and guarantee for a person's career success. No matter under what circumstances, whether it is supervised or Supervision requires self-respect, self-love, and self-discipline. "Careful independence" is not only a kind of self-cultivation, but also a state of life." Dachengzi added, "Only after long-term hard training in practice, adhere to careful independence, strict Self-discipline can transform the external social norms into the conscious will and actions of the subject; only by cultivating a high degree of self-consciousness can we have clear goals, strong will, and be good at overcoming various difficulties. Constantly rather than intermittently guard yourself carefully and grasp yourself." He went on to say, "It may be difficult to do these things, perfect people, saints, we can't be perfect, think twice before acting, but at least we won't make a big mistake. "

Shitou nodded, "I will often ponder."

"Tsk tsk... You two have so much insight!" Fang Monan said with a smile, "'If you are poor, you will be alone, and if you are rich, you will benefit the world." We don't have such high ideals, but we must strive for our career and life Pioneering, down-to-earth, not boastful, not exaggerated. Because people do not promise easily, they will reduce a lot of mental burden and psychological pressure; without impetuousness, they will have more energy to devote to career struggle and research, and return to free and easy. The state of life. People must have a normal heart, and it is true to be ordinary.”

Dachengzi, Fatty and Shitou nodded.

Dachengzi asked again, "Fatty really plans to open a factory in the Northeast."

The fat man nodded, "That's right! I'll go after the new year."

"Count me in, we two are partners, and I will go to build a feed factory." Da Chengzi brewed tea again, "I should also go out, our feed factory has radiated a lot of money and saved a lot of money." .”

"Okay! I was just about to tell you about this!" the fat man laughed. "Taking advantage of this time to aggressively expand."

Fang Monan frowned slightly, and reminded again, "Fatty, be wary of genetically modified crops and hormones, don't worry, I will give you information about this."

"Hmm! I understand!" the fat man nodded.

"Genetically modified stuff?" Dachengzi and Shitou asked curiously.

Fang Monan gave them a simple explanation to let them understand the pros and cons.

"Ah! This is really imperialism's obsession with self-destruction!" Dachengzi said angrily, "If this food enters our dining table and is eaten like this for a long time, it will really become the sick man of East Asia in the new era."

"Yes!" Fang Monan slandered in his heart. These are related to ideology and living space. How can you allow others to snore on the side of the couch? , the same as the law of natural survival, natural selection. [

Think about the continuous 6000 million tons of genetically modified soybeans in future generations, as well as corn, rice, etc. Even the seeds for agricultural cultivation must be 50% imported, and the remaining 50% are produced domestically. Someone gave the card owner a neck.

What's even more wicked is that we lack ourselves. Those who sell fungus are soaked in formalin, those who sell ham are smoked with dichlorvos, those who sell table salt are filled with industrial salt, and those who sell rice field eels are fed contraceptives, mercury fish, and melamine. Milk powder, lime flour, magic beef, gutter oil, painted steamed buns, these chemical foods appear one after another, really causing harm for thousands of years.

Make the layout as early as possible, hoping to change something!No one can answer her this question, not even herself.Everything is based on money, which completely destroys morality and makes morality the bottom line.

"Ah! It's getting late, let's go to bed!" Shitou breathed out, and looked up at the wall clock, "It's already so late." I really learned a lesson tonight.

"Wash up and sleep!" Fang Monan stood up and stretched.

The four of them walked out, and the mother said, "You finally came out."

"Hehe... I forgot the time after chatting." Da Chengzi laughed.

"Okay, come with me." Mom smiled, "Shitou is sleeping upstairs, the guest room next to Nannan, the bed has already been made." She continued, "Da Chengzi followed me to the guest room downstairs, The bed is also made."

Several people returned to their positions, the lights in the room were turned off one by one, and soon fell asleep. (To be continued. If you like this work, you are welcome to vote, monthly ticket, your support is my biggest motivation.)