The leisurely life of rebirth.

"Harmony with light and dust" was originally a commendatory term, but it was often confused with the derogatory term "follow the crowd" by later generations.The so-called people go to high places, water flows to low places.But you can't go where it's low or where it's dirty.And one follow, one follow, completely unable to be one's own master.This seems too blind and naive again, but this cannot be used as an excuse. Life is not easy, life is not easy, life is not easy, and a person must have a bottom line.

All living beings, in this material world, are colorful, grotesque, and full of temptations: prominent fame, rich profits, gorgeous clothes, delicious food, and charming colors may arouse people's associations and arouse people's desires at any time. Bewildering.Let me ask the general public who can stand it.

Faced with the temptation of material desires, those who are indifferent will naturally think more, stay calm and take it calmly.It is not easy to maintain an indifferent life.If a person does not have lofty ideals in life, does not have the attitude towards life of "no regrets as the belt grows wider", and the courage to break away from secular prejudice and selfish desires, it is difficult for a person to become a strong person who lives indifferently.Life is rarely indifferent.Indifference is a philosophical state of mind that gets rid of the shackles of fame and wealth, a state of transcendence away from hustle and bustle and struggle, and a spiritual and spiritual sublimation. "To have tolerance and virtue is to be great, and to have ambition is to be strong."It is not easy to be a human being.

Taoism, like Confucianism and Buddhism, has the spirit of Shu Shi (benevolent to the world), but Taoism insists on the truth of following the trend and retiring after success.This is the Taoist concept of light and dust.

Having said so much, I don't need to remind my dad to know that there is something tricky here. No one in Yun County knows that he doesn't drink or smoke, so he picks up things right away and goes to deal with them. [

As for how dad would deal with his family, he didn't bother about it. No one in the New Year's Eve would be disturbed by this incident, and nothing happened after that. At least in Fang Monan's view, he was calm. It can be seen that dad has already Nip it in the bud without stirring a single ripple.

"Dumplings on the first day of junior high school and noodles on the second day of junior high school. Wanjiazhuan (earn at home) in the third day of junior high school".

My aunt and her family came back in the second year of junior high school, and went back to her mother’s house. According to the custom, they had to eat lo mein in the second year of junior high school.It means a smooth year.The lo mein in the second day of junior high school has more ingredients than the old lo mein.The materials for brine must be complete.There are more varieties of dishes.The colors should be bright.There are carrots, bean sprouts, cabbage, day lily, gluten, shrimp, dried fragrant, fungus, cucumber.Strive to look good and taste delicious.Make a big jackpot for a good life in the new year.

After eating big fish and meat for a few days, change to something light to cleanse the stomach.

"Wow... this is delicious, I want to die for noodles." My aunt looked at the big bowl of noodles served and said excitedly.

The others laughed at her exaggerated appearance.Mom laughed, "I can eat noodles without you abroad." She mixed the noodles in her bowl. "Besides, you don't know how to cook. You don't know the difference between sugar and salt, so Qiushi knows how to cook!" She remembered when Qi Qiushi didn't go to work in the factory.In the village, he is a famous chef. In the countryside, it is not like going to a restaurant for weddings and weddings like people in the city. Instead, he invites a cook to help the chef and holds a banquet in his own courtyard.Farmers usually provide their own meat dishes when holding banquets.They are all produced by themselves, and then the cook is asked to prepare the dishes, and the young people are asked to serve the dishes.After the work is over, it is enough for the customer to give the cook and the young man who serves the plate some gifts.

"Hehe...you still don't eat enough!" Qi Qiushi laughed. "I've done a lot."

"That's different, the taste is different." Auntie said hoarsely with her nose sore.She took a deep breath and said, "It's not easy to eat noodles for them when you are abroad, or you will be regarded as a pig." She took a sip of noodles and put them into her mouth, and the voice was really similar.

"Haha..." Everyone was eating noodles and couldn't help laughing

"What are you laughing at, everyone is the same." Auntie glanced at the audience and said, "I didn't think before that after Nan Nan left, life was very difficult."

"Really, Xiaoyan has been sluggish for a few days, and nothing tastes good. Later, I made hand-rolled noodles and served them to her." Qi Qiushi said with a smile, "Guess what."

"Okay, don't play tricks." Grandma urged.Everyone else pricked up their ears and listened attentively.

Qi Qiushi said unhurriedly, "At first she ate it, she insisted that the taste was not right, but later! She took off her shoes, squatted on the chair, and ate it happily."

"I've done this before." Dad sighed, "It's nostalgic! Only this way of eating can give you the sweetness of the food and the leisure after fatigue." Everyone else nodded, it seems that they have all had this kind of food before. The situation, especially in summer, is simply too common, except for Han Zhiqian.

Mr. Lin said with a smile, "Actually, squatting to eat is very common, especially in northern rural areas. Many times, even if there are small benches, farmers don't like to sit and eat, but prefer to squat. Farmers are tired all day, Squatting into the most comfortable position. When eating in the countryside, the smoke from every house is covered in the soft light of sunset, and the lights are scattered among the rolling hills. People are in groups, squatting on the threshold, on the low wall, in the valley On the heap, in front of the kennels and cattle pens, eat while doing homework, and the fresh evening breeze brings the smell of grass and soil in the fields, so eating like this will sweep away the tiredness of the day."

"When I was young, I liked to wander around the village with my rice bowl, and I could often eat meals from several restaurants." Fang Monan put down his chopsticks and smiled.

My mother rubbed Fang Monan's head, "Hey! Nannan still remembers this!" She said emotionally, "There are no exquisite tableware, no beautiful houses, just simple food, earthen huts with low walls, but squatting People who eat, the big big bowls in their hands are filled with the livelihood of the whole family, and it is the minimum admiration for the bowl of rice in their hands after sweating."

"Yes, yes! This is a way of life, just like eating with your hands," Dad said.

"Hand grabbing rice! You can try it another day!" Fang Monan joked and said, "It's good to eat while squatting. It's full when you stand up and you're [-]% full. Now people eat when they're full. It's actually good for the stomach. not good."[

"Pfft..." Everyone thought it made sense and laughed. "You really have a lot of nonsense! You have straightened it out." Dad smiled and nodded her head.

Squatting to eat is nostalgic, and I miss the worry and free life when I was a child, but in the eyes of modern people, squatting is considered an indecent posture.Although it is only a posture for eating, but when it is associated with migrant workers who are engaged in hard, dirty, and tiring work, the meaning is complicated, and it is suspected of being uncivilized, and even becomes a status symbol.Squatting to eat has become one of the signs that distinguish them from the city people.Counting up to three generations, they were all born with mud legs, who didn't come here like this.

"Okay, let's eat quickly!" Grandma said, and the sound of sucking and sucking was heard again in the restaurant, so don't laugh at anyone now.

After lunch, the juniors cleaned up the restaurant, Fatty went to the food company, and Qi Qiushi went to Zhongteng Industrial. Both factories were busy catching up orders during the Chinese New Year.Dad is out too, they are very busy during the Chinese New Year!

Fang Monan and the others returned to the study, the two little guys rubbed ink and painted red automatically.

The aunt glanced at the children, took Fang Monan's hand and said, "Thank you, Nannan, these two little guys are thanks to you." I don't know, compared with children of the same age, she This pair of children is much more sensible and obedient.Of course, this can't be compared with Fang Monan's fake child when he was a child.

On the first day of the Lunar New Year, the two children did not forget their morning exercises, horse riding and kung fu.She seemed to see how they woke up early in the old house a few years ago.In the blink of an eye, the children are also like her, repeating their original life.

The two little guys showed off the moves they had learned in the past six months, chatting non-stop.The two little guys, every move is so serious and serious, meticulous, strict demands on themselves, even if there is no old man Lin and Fang Monan watching.

After practicing, my aunt had time to ask them how they have spent the past six months. Apart from studying, the most talked about is how to play, catching birds, fishing, climbing trees, catching insects, fluttering fireflies, all over the mountains and plains like wild monkeys run.

"The two of them have been taken care of by me since they were babies. It's only fun when they are at home! In their words, they are also doing their filial piety for you!" Fang Monan smiled, took out an apple seed, and just hit it, Dabao's wrist.

Dabao put down the brush and said dissatisfiedly, "Why did I get hit by you after I hid myself?"

"Hey..." Fang Monan smiled treacherously, "Of course I have already made a judgment, and I can't do anything else. If you want to hear it, come here and write later." She paused and said, "I have something to say. discuss."

"Oh!" Dabao and Erya put down their brushes, walked over and sat on the sofa, "What do you want to discuss with us?"

"Dabao, Erya, they will be five years old in May this year, and they should go to school next year. Have you figured out where they will go to school?" Fang Monan gently stroked the rim of the teacup with his fingers.

"Of course it's here..." Grandma said immediately after hearing this, and braked in time, "Of course I have to follow you. If this happens for a long time, the mother-child relationship between you will be weakened." Although the grandma is very reluctant, she can't delay the child education.

Fang Monan raised his eyebrows, "What about you?"

Erya cried and said, "Wow... Sister Nan doesn't want us anymore."

Mom hurriedly coaxed, "No, no, listen to her nonsense." Then she gave Fang Monan a look and said, "What do you think you are talking about during the Chinese New Year?"

Fang Monan blinked innocently, "If you can't bear it, you have to say it! Fortunately, you have considered it long enough."

"Nannan!" Auntie looked at her gratefully.

Everyone knows that this is cruel, but there are still some things to say, let Fang Monan be the bad guy!

"Sister Nan said she went to school, did she go to school like brother Tiedaner!" Dabao asked so rationally. [

Fang Monan looked at him in surprise and nodded.

Dabao blinked and said again, "But we are not bad at learning from you and Grandpa Lin!"

"It's different, but at school you can make more friends and live a collective life!" Fang Monan said. rq! ! !