The leisurely life of rebirth.

"It's an old couple, why are you still so nasty!" Grandma Lin blamed with a smile, and she let out another graceful breath.

Mr. Lin said proudly, "It's too late for them to be envious!"

Fang Monan and Lin Chengdong pursed their lips and laughed.

"Guoxiu, sleep a little longer." Mr. Lin supported her to put her away, tucked in the quilt, and the three of them walked out and sat down in the living room.

"How is it?" Grandma asked, getting up from the sofa.

"It's much better, I can eat it, and I don't seem to have heard her complain that her neck hurts." Mr. Lin smiled, grinning to the ears.

"Huh! That's good!" Grandma laughed, and the four of them sat on the sofa again.

Fang Monan went to the kitchen to brew several cups of tea, and put them in front of them one by one.

"Chengdong, if you don't go to rest for a while, it will be uncomfortable on the plane." Mr. Lin persuaded, "Don't worry about your mother's illness, it will be cured." [

"No, it's already mid-afternoon, let's sleep together later at night!" Lin Chengdong shook his head and said, "I'm used to flying around frequently."

Speaking of which, Lin Chengdong stood up, stood respectfully in front of his grandma, and bowed, "Aunt Mo, thank you for taking care of my dad for so many years."

Grandma hurriedly helped him up and said, "Nephew, you can't help it. Seriously speaking, we took advantage of it. My brother is an educated man, he knows a lot, and he has taught my children a lot. Our family is promising, but the old man is indispensable." brother's instruction."

"Okay, it's all from my family, don't come to these empty gifts." Mr. Lin said with a smile.

Lin Chengdong's eyes flickered slightly, "My family! '

"Don't think about it with your brain!" Mr. Lin turned sideways and warned him in a low voice. "We'll talk later."

Seeing this, Lin Chengdong nodded.There are some things he needs to ask, this man!

Grandma's eyes were not for nothing, but she said frankly, "Nephew, you really don't want to be fooled. I respect my brother, but I have been looking forward to it for a long time." I can find my old sister-in-law to reunite with her family!"

Lin Chengdong's predicament of being seen through has been since he accepted the family business.I've never been so embarrassed.Does he remember that Chinese people are not very reserved?

No elegance, no gentlemanly demeanor, he said awkwardly, "Aunt Mo. I didn't mean that. I..."

"You brat. Are your father and I like that?" Mr. Lin was also embarrassed, and his eyebrows immediately stood up.

"Dad, I'm not thinking nonsense! Besides, you and Mom have been separated for so many years. Who knows if there has been any change." Lin Chengdong was still timid in front of him, and his voice became softer as he spoke, almost not smellable.

"You really think of me as Chen Shimei." After saying that, Mr. Lin slapped him.

How could grandma make him really fight! "Brother, it's fine if you say it, it's fine if you say it."

"Hmph!" Mr. Lin turned around and ignored this unfilial son. [

"Haha... Uncle Lin, you really think, it's impossible to be a grandpa and grandma! Grandpa looks at your family portrait every night, and falls asleep holding the photos of your godmother. Take a look." The photo frames have been changed several times." Fang Monan revealed with a smile, "Grandpa really misses you, we are just relatives, not his lovers!"

Mr. Lin was in a predicament of being exposed, and yelled, "Stinky girl, explain to him what you are doing! That idiot." He blew his beard and stared at his son angrily.

"Dad, Aunt Mo, I was wrong, I was a villain." Lin Chengdong bowed and apologized.

"Okay, just let it go, save the child from having lumps in his heart." Grandma said with a smile.

Lin Chengdong looked at Aunt Mo's frank eyes, and now he was so ashamed that he wanted to get into the cracks in the ground, but unfortunately there are no cracks in the ground.

"Drink tea, drink tea." Grandma smiled, resolving the embarrassment.

Mr. Lin took a sip of his tea angrily to suppress his anger.

"Yeah!" Lin Chengdong took a sip of the tea ceremony, "Good tea."

"Dad, you are too enviable these days!" Lin Chengdong said out of words.

"Otherwise, why do you think your father's body is so good? One is to exercise, and the other is that the mountains and rivers are raised here to absorb the essence of the world." Mr. Lin smiled, "You are not young, you have to pay attention own body."

"Taking advantage of these few days, let Nan Yatou take good care of you and take care of you." Mr. Lin said, he was always his son, and he couldn't stop worrying.

Fang Monan said with a smile, "Uncle Lin's work and rest are not stable, and he has some minor gastrointestinal problems, just take care of him."

For what Fang Monan said, Mr. Lin really agreed, but looking at his son, he became angry again, "Your mother's illness has not been discovered for a long time."

"Dad, this..." Lin Chengdong stammered.

"Okay, bro, it's not my eldest nephew's fault. Isn't everything like me in today's society? Be like me! My son and daughter are not around, and I'm working in another place. Fortunately, my granddaughter is with me, or if I died of starvation that day. The family doesn't know."

"Grandma, what nonsense are you talking about! I'm here! I'll take you with me wherever I go." Fang Monan patted his grandma's hand and said.

The grandma shook Fang Monan's hand back, and the grandfather and grandson looked at each other, everything was kept silent.

Lin Chengdong can be considered to have found some reasons to make himself feel better, "Our family hired nannies, and some of them were even worse. In the apartment building, some elderly people fell down and no one helped them. For three days, they were lying on the cold floor. On. The sons and daughters are all working hard in the big cities, and the elderly are left behind to take care of them, or they are sent to nursing homes. The people watching it really..."

Fang Monan said with emotion, "It is a common problem in an aging society that the elderly care has become a problem. The elderly care has really become a big problem.

Some people say that life is a stage.

Everyone has played their own role on this stage, and experienced the ups and downs, joys, sorrows, joys, and vicissitudes of life from it... However, it is all these that people have experienced that constitute the splendor of life.However, all these "wonderful" - even pain, may be lost one day, it may be you, it may be me, and you will enter a world that you have to face, the world of old people.When time becomes long.Life has become a kind of torture; it is the unit door or a few steps that separate the old man from the wonderful world outside.

In recent years, due to the improvement of living conditions, most urban elderly people live separately from their children and live in unit buildings.The only people who really depend on each other in life are their wives. If you lose your spouse in your later years, the blow can sometimes be fatal. "

Mr. Lin echoed, "For our nation, which has always paid attention to health preservation, the fear of aging and death may have a deeper psychological impact on us than other nations. Because we don't believe in the existence of heaven. That God, who is more spiritually comforting to Westerners, will probably not care about us-Westerners are enough for him to do!

Our grandma doesn't love the Orientals that my uncle doesn't love.There is only one way to put hope in this life.For many years, we have been tirelessly seeking various methods of immortality, from swallowing golden elixir in ancient times to various modern anti-aging techniques. Have our ancestors tried too little?But there is no way for us to avoid the fate of going to death.There is no way to avoid going through those terrible ordeals before death.

Bring up children for the purpose of being looked after in old age.It's been the same for so many years. "

"I'm not afraid of this. The family planning is not advertised, 'It's good to have only one child, and the 'government' will take care of the elderly.' In the past two years, the 'government' has introduced pension insurance. Even if there are no children around, the 'government' will help the elderly and have money. What are you afraid of?" Grandma said.

"Pfft..." Fang Monan unceremoniously sprayed the tea in his mouth.

"You child? Is what I said so ridiculous?" Grandma quickly took out a tissue and cleaned the table.

Fang Monan waved his hand, "I'm fine." People these days firmly believe in what the "government" says.

Mr. Lin said thoughtfully, "Even if all the external things can be at ease, the economy is not worrying, some food, some drinking, but it is always a pity not to have children by my side. Not to mention those people who are precarious and working hard at the bottom, You haven't gotten rich yet! You're already old!"

"Alas! There are so many infatuated parents in ancient times, who will meet their filial sons and grandchildren!" Elder Lin sighed.

"The song 'Okay' in Dream of the Red Chamber." Fang Monan said.

"Dad, I...I..." Lin Chengdong shouted shyly.

"It's not your fault. Society is like this. When society develops faster, it is also when the crisis of the elderly is the most serious. They are often victims, and they can only sacrifice. Because society wants to ensure the overall development, it is actually for the elderly The elderly are in a state of incapacity.

And we are the victims.hehe……"

Mr. Lin waved his hand and interrupted Lin Chengdong's words, "You are busy! I understand, with so many jobs, young people nowadays are facing enormous pressure and challenges in life and work. They need time to 'recharge' and need time to recharge. Spend more energy than the older generation to participate in the competition, physically and mentally exhausted, overdrawn, and "can't afford to accompany" the elderly. On the other hand, many elderly people are unwilling to give up their living habits and ways, which are different from the lifestyles of young people It's getting bigger and bigger. One is free, the other is busy, one needs company, and the other has no time to accompany, so conflicts arise."

"It used to be! Parents are not traveling far, now I can't wait to get out of the control of them early. There is no such thing as messing around outside." Grandma also said with emotion.

"Brother, our generation is fine. We have several sons and daughters. When it comes to Nannan's generation, there will be only one. If this one is not counted on, then we are really blind." Grandma said.

"I think there are a lot of blind people. Among the parents of only children, there are probably not many who have superb education methods. Most of us are too spoiled and not educated enough." Mr. Lin echoed.

Lin Chengdong looked at Fang Monan and asked for help, sighing like this is not an option, they are very filial.

Fang Monan shrugged, Lin Chengdong had no choice but to save himself, "Dad, what a superb educational method!"

"The movie "The Story of the Fox". As soon as the little foxes grew up, the mother fox drove them out of the nest. The mother fox who used to be very protective suddenly changed her face, biting and chasing, insisting on killing the little foxes. They all drove away from the house until the little fox walked away from the house with three steps and three heads.

This story seems a bit cruel, and even makes people feel a sense of desolation.But this practice of the old fox did ensure the survival of two generations.The little fox has exercised the ability to live independently, and the old fox can no longer bear weight when it is old and frail.What a cruel psychological weaning!And this kind of survival education is very important for the little fox, because if it lives with its parents for a long time, the inertia of the creature itself will make him lose the ability to prey. "(to be continued...)

ps: Merry Christmas!

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