The leisurely life of rebirth.

Niu Niu proudly raised her head and shouted, "Go to a restaurant, it's not as delicious as sister Nan's cooking!"

"Niu Niu!" Liang Zi called out with a wry face.

Niuniu hurriedly covered her mouth, blinking her big black eyes, her appearance was indescribably cute.No one will criticize children's childish language.

have to!People have pulled out the lightning strikes from the sky.Now that he has already declined, of course Tang Bonian will not force him to do so. Anyway, he will stay here for a few days, not bad for a while.

"Then we'll come back for a follow-up visit tomorrow." Tang Bonian got up and said.

Tang Andy hugged the children and watched them get into the car, and the convoy went out one by one.At this moment, a few black cars came, and Fang Monan, who was far away, saw that the license plate number was from the province, and he didn't know where it was!

But it didn't seem like they were looking for Fang Monan, Elder Tang's motorcade stopped, and soon started moving again, and the two cars drove away one after another.

Fang Monan and the others went to the kitchen to eat. Aunt Lian and Willa started cooking when they were feeding the medicine, while Father Fang and the others went to the hotel with Mother Fang and grandma because the time was up, and they had already made an appointment Not easy to say.

Besides, they are here to find their daughter, and there are people at home to accompany them, so Father Fang will not join in the fun. [

The lunch was very sumptuous, and everyone chatted while eating, and of course they also chatted about the grand occasion of the Tang family.

Lin Jiajia was speechless, "This ostentation is nothing. I heard that the cost of raising a child in a rich family in Hong Kong is even more unmatched. It is said that from the moment the child is conceived, they will spend tens of millions of dollars to book the most expensive family in Hong Kong." The first-class wards of a good private hospital, more than one million supplements, a star-rated medical team, hundreds of thousands of prenatal education equipment, and top-level bodyguards are definitely a big deal; Toddler Technician, who cares and educates babies in all aspects."

"I can't really imagine how the money was spent." Lian Yufeng said with stupefied eyes, he couldn't believe it.

"The specific figures may be a little watery, but they certainly won't be much less." Lin Jiajia said.

"There have always been rich and noble ladies, and since ancient times, rich and young men." Fang Monan said with a smile.

"The poor raise sons and the rich raise daughters is an ancient folk saying. The "poor" and "rich" mentioned here contain a meaning different from money, and are more of a quality cultivation. Because boys and girls have different personalities, So girls need to be rich and well-informed, or they will be abducted for a steamed bun! Boys really need to be raised poor, so they can bear hardships and stand hard work and have a sense of responsibility when they grow up." Mr. Lin said.

"Oh! We finally found out why we were so 'miserable' when we were young. It turns out that the root lies with grandpa."

Lin Jiashang beamed and began to tell about the "history of blood and tears" of the men of the Lin family. Those who heard it really shed tears, and those who heard it were sad!But the smile in his eyes couldn't be hidden from anyone.

"Then do you regret it now?" Lin Chengdong pinched the chopsticks in his hand, he said something wrong, and immediately got up on the chopsticks.

"Of course..." Lin Chengdong raised his hands to protect his face and said, "Dad, don't get excited, don't get excited, of course you won't regret it."

"The tempering of life has made my will stronger; especially after entering the society, I have to assume social and family responsibilities, so I have to raise my ambitions from the poor, otherwise I will spend a lot of money and be a dude. How can I serve my parents and support my wife and children !" Lin Chengdong said gratefully, "I am very grateful to your dad!"

"Take care of your parents at the top, and support your wife and children at the bottom! Jiashang, your personal problems should also be put on the agenda, and you have to set an example for your younger brothers and sisters." Mr. Lin said shaking his head.

"Ah!" Lin Jiashang muttered, "I haven't played enough yet!"

Ha ha... Everyone pursed their lips and laughed.

snort!Lin Jiashang glared at these spectators one by one. [

When it comes to the topic of raising children, the parents here always have a lot of topics.

"Girls are different." Lin Jiajia smiled very sweetly, "It's held in the palm of your hand, like a jewel like a treasure."

She solved Lin Jiashang's situation with one sentence. Lin Jiajia didn't do it for nothing, and she was gesturing at a sports car.

Lin Jiashang hasn't had time to be grateful, hum!I know you girl is not that kind.

"Hehe...that was before marriage, and after marriage, it becomes a dead fish eye." Lin Jiaxiang secretly laughed.

"Little San'er, your skin is itchy, aren't you?" Lin Jiajia clasped her fists together and crackled.

"It's not what I said, it's what Cao Xueqin said." Lin Jiaxiang quickly declared.

"Life is a kind of practice, life is endless, self-examination is endless." Fang Monan said old-fashioned, very Zen.

"You're a big kid." Grandma Lin laughed.

"To be honest, the proverb handed down by the ancestors has some truth. Although the appearance is born from the sky, it also needs the careful care of the day after tomorrow. It needs the exquisite carving on weekdays. This obviously requires a certain material foundation. From another angle It is said that in addition to better material conditions, girls need to broaden their vision and knowledge. Fu also means "rich". Knowing beauty, appreciating, and distinguishing, you also know how to protect yourself, and you will not be bullied by the outside world. All kinds of temptations." Grandma Lin said with emotion.

As a mother with a daughter, Qiu Hongye was also worried and asked actively. "Then what exactly will Aunt Lin do!"

"I will be taken to various occasions since I was a child to increase my ability to read the world. When I grow up in the world, I will not be easily fooled by all kinds of glitz and vanity. In this way, I will not be greedy for small gains and have an extraordinary temperament; Girls who are too big in the world are likely to be defeated by sweet words under the sugar-coated guns of dudes. Rich girls, because they are well-informed, independent, assertive, and wise, they know what they really pursue." Granny Lin is here With interest, he talked eloquently.

"Mmm! Mmm!" Qiu Hongye nodded frequently. "Makes sense."

"A rich daughter is actually a kind of education investment, and education is rich; a poor boy is a kind of setback education. A man should be self-improvement, and a boy who has not experienced failure and setback will not grow up.

Boys will struggle in the future, and they must let him know that money is hard-earned; girls will marry, and they must cultivate their eyes for discerning things, so that they will not be coaxed away by a piece of cake in the future. "

"The ancients said that when the heavens will send a great mission to the people, they must first toil their muscles and bones, starve their bodies, and suffer their minds, so that they can cultivate themselves, manage their families, govern the country and the world. To be a real man, the hardships and cold-eyed things you have to endure in this life , humiliation, and setbacks. Therefore, boys should cultivate a style of hard work, plain living, hard work, benevolence, righteousness, and filial piety from an early age. Especially in terms of material, they should not be given too much, otherwise they will easily become another dude.

After 20 years of rich cultivation, the hibiscus will come out of the water; after 20 years of poor cultivation, the sword will be released. "

"You have talked so much about raising the poor and raising the rich, but for us it's just two words." Grandma Liang laughed.

"I know that." Fang Monan laughed.

"You know?" Everyone looked at Fang Monan in unison.

"Free stock!" Fang Monan said with a smile. "This Liangzi should have a deep understanding."

"That's right! At that time, children were the main players. The national policy of family planning had not yet been introduced. There were no single-child families, but it was pitifully rare. Families with five or six children were not uncommon. One or eight is not new. So when I think of my childhood, in the 70s and [-]s, an impressive phenomenon was: there were many children.” Liang Zi recalled the past, and it was so vivid that he thought he would try his best to forget it.

Mr. Lin laughed and said, "At that time, no matter whether they lived in an alley or in a government compound, children in the neighborhood could talk about it in groups, which can be described as 'black crowd'." "

"That's right! I remember when I was young, I played horse-riding wars, double-ball hits, officers and soldiers catching thieves, etc., and there were children all over the mountains and valleys charging forward. Sometimes children of the right age in the alleys were called together to simulate military games, following the military chess (Lu Zhanqi) ) to serve as officials, the two camps have been sealed from the commander to the squad leader, and there are still children who can only serve as soldiers. If the same number of female officers and soldiers is added, the scene can be imagined. This also leads to a frequently appearing Scenario: When it was dark, the parents shouted their children’s nicknames at the top of their voices, and called the children who were playing wild outside to go home for dinner. I can’t hear it at all. Many people who have been here have lamented the closeness of the neighborhood relationship back then. In fact, the establishment of this kind of relationship is related to the fact that there are so many children.

"I remember that Liang Zi is the only child." Qiu Hongye looked at him and smiled.

"I was the king of children at that time... Barabara." Liang Zi talked endlessly, quite a bit, recalling the feeling of the prosperous years.

What Liang Zi said was beaming, and everyone listened with gusto, especially the grandchildren of the Lin family who grew up abroad, as well as Niuniu and Maotou, their siblings.Never heard of it, very envious!

Fang Monan smiled and said nothing. At that time, there were many children, and the parents had dual careers, or they went to work in the countryside, and the children were freed.Parents have no time to care, and children have a lot of leisure time of their own. They are active in the streets and alleys, in the fields, and playing mud fights, rolling hoops, and jumping rubber bands have become classics of that era.At that time, most children had at least three hours of exercise every day. Although they were not as rich in material as they are now, they were physically strong.

It’s not the current and future vainness, remedial classes are everywhere, except for opening up a way to make a fortune, the child’s body is really different, if you don’t faint a few times in military training every year, and if you don’t break the record, it’s not considered military training.

Nowadays, there is only one baby and only seedlings, and parents are gradually looking at academic qualifications, and there is a common concept of "emphasizing literature over military".

The child's physique is also gradually "vitrified", and the parents' meticulous training of the child has actually aggravated the child's unbearable physique.

"Wow... wow...!" Everyone was amazed.

"It turns out that Dad was so mischievous when he was a child." Everyone laughed when Niuniu said a word.

"Hey! Grandma, mom, why are you two coming back! Dad!" Fang Monan got up and said.

"Your dad is busy, what are you talking about?" Fang Monan pulled out a chair for the two of them, and they sat down.

"How about it, do you want some more?" Fang Monan said with a smile.

"Hey! No need, your uncle is really willing to order a table of dishes, and he is full." Grandma quickly waved her hand. rs