Chapter 282 Hitting Is Love, Cursing Is Love Han Shaoling shook his head, expressing that he didn't understand.
Han Shaofan supported his forehead, "What an idiot!"
Han Shaoling smiled coldly: "If I am a fool, what are you?"
Han Shaofan had no choice but to explain patiently: "If the eldest brother has not suffered any harm, sister-in-law will only think of her grievances. At that time, if she loses her temper, it is estimated that the elder brother will suffer. According to my conservative estimate, the two of them It will take at least three or four months of the Cold War to erase this matter."
"So long?" Han Shaoling didn't expect this. "Then you said..."
"I hit my elder brother, and Song Lingzi felt distressed when she saw it. Once she felt distressed, she would downplay many things and instead focus on the wound on elder brother's body. In this way, as long as elder brother lowers his head a little, this matter will be exposed It is." Han Shaofan analyzed. "A woman's cruelty to a man is all verbal. The more vicious the mouth is, the softer the heart will be."
Han Shaoling was thoughtful, and asked again: "Isn't it said that the most poisonous women's hearts are?"
Han Shaofan glanced at him. "If a woman is vicious, she is more vicious than a man. But you have to remember, there has never been a naturally vicious woman in this world. Even if there were, it would be a minority."
"Actually, we should find a way to match them up." Han Shaoling still felt that this method was inappropriate. "You also know the character of elder brother. Even if he knows that he is wrong, he will not bow his head to admit his mistake. Sister-in-law also has a strong character. Neither of these two people will bow their head. In the end, they will only become more and more distant."
"You really have a lot to worry about." Han Shaofan said helplessly. "Don't think too much, things are not as complicated as you think."
"I think you're too optimistic." Han Shaoling still had some understanding of Song Lingzi's temperament.
Han Shaofan evoked a smile. "When couples quarrel, you know, what is their most taboo?"
"What else could it be? Isn't it just attacking each other?" Han Shaoling was a little puzzled.
"No, the most taboo thing is to be persuaded to fight." Han Shaofan said slowly. "If it is an ordinary couple quarreling, the most fearful thing is that someone will get involved. Originally, two people were half arguing and half flirting. After talking a few words and making a fuss, the matter will pass. Once someone stands up to persuade the quarrel, The scene became embarrassing. In order to show their status in the family, men would use words that hurt others. Women, because others persuaded them to fight, remembered the unhappy things in the past, which in turn deepened their complaints about their husbands. As a result, the more The quarreling became more and more intense, and in the end, even full-scale martial arts were carried out."
Han Shaoling revealed a look of disbelief. "According to what you say, do you just don't try to persuade a fight?"
"Persuading a fight depends on the situation." Han Shaofan thoughtfully called Han Shaoling a few words. "As the saying goes, fighting is love and scolding is love. Some couples who are arguing may not really fight, but if someone gets involved, they will definitely fight. Moreover, the person who persuaded the fight will most likely be punished. The disaster of the fish. Some couples look at the gentle and gentle, and once they turn their faces, they will fight each other. Most of these couples will not last long, and the persuasion is useless. Take a deep breath, at this time, it is wisest to persuade you to make peace and not to persuade you to leave. If you persuade you to leave but not to make peace, they will hate you for the rest of your life."
"Like the example of big brother, when the two of them quarreled, it would be a cold war for a few months at most. If the two of us kept quarreling, in the end, the two of them would not admit defeat for the sake of face, and the relationship would become divided. Get up." Han Shaofan analyzed carefully. "Besides, my elder brother was beaten up by me just now, and my sister-in-law is very distressed. At this time, we should give them space and let them solve it by themselves."
"In this case, you shouldn't let my sister-in-law go back to her natal home." Han Shaoling always opposed the decision to send Song Lingzi back to her natal home.
"You still don't understand what I mean." Han Shaofan shook his head helplessly. "We sent my sister-in-law back to their home. When the eldest brother sees us, he will definitely not give in to the sister-in-law, and the sister-in-law will not give in to the eldest brother. When two people meet head-on, things will only become more rigid. Wait for the two of us Once the front foot is gone, they may continue to quarrel. Sending the sister-in-law back to her natal home is to let everyone calm down and reflect on what happened today, and secondly, to make the elder brother and sister-in-law worry about it. Thirdly, there is buffer time for each other. , When everyone calms down, sit down and talk together, and get twice the result with half the effort."
"Where did you get the experience?" Han Shaoling looked at Han Shaofan suspiciously.
Han Shaofan coughed a few times. "I have been a judge for so many years, and I am not in vain. You know, the divorce rate has remained high in recent years. As lawyers, we will come into contact with these cases. There are various reasons for couples to divorce. In fact, these reasons are all false. Many times, when husband and wife quarrel, resentment is planted, slowly accumulates, and finally becomes a volcanic eruption.
Han Shaoling understood Han Shaofan's good intentions. "I don't know how big brother will deal with this matter?"
"If it were me, I would immediately buy 99 roses to remedy the situation." Han Shaofan said with a smile.
"This trick is too vulgar." Han Shaoling said with disgust. "Don't you have a better idea?"
"No." Han Shaofan said firmly.
"Don't we do anything?" Han Shaoling had a trace of doubt on his face, worried that the cold war would have a bad impact on their marriage, "Do you just watch the cold war between their husband and wife like this?"
"Of course not." Han Shaofan had a smile on his face. "It's not my style to care about anything.".
"That's true." Han Shaoling followed Han Shaofan's words and said: "You who are afraid of chaos in the world, how can you keep your own law and stay on the sidelines."
"Hey, who is afraid that the world will not be chaotic?" Han Shaofan felt that he was a bit wronged by this charge. "If it weren't for the fact that you are my brothers, I would be reluctant to help. If it were another person, I wouldn't even dump him."
"I know you are capable." Han Shaoling raised his eyebrows and continued to ask the next question: "The question is, what should we do now?"
"Visit the wounded." The corners of Han Shaofan's mouth curled up, and a sly gleam flashed in his black eyes.
Han Shaoling knew that Han Shaofan didn't want to talk, so he didn't ask further.The two walked out of the elevator side by side and stopped in front of Zhuang Ya's apartment.Han Shaoling rang the doorbell, and it was Gao Yangyang who opened the door.
"Hello, beauty, can we come in?" If Shen Yan said this sentence, Gao Yangyang must have felt that this person was frivolous, but Gao Yangyang didn't feel this way when he heard Han Shaofan say this.Gao Yangyang still has a good impression of Han Shaofan.
"Please come in." Gao Yangyang said please come in, and his eyes met Han Shaoling's.Two red clouds flew up on his fair face, Gao Yangyang quickly lowered his head to hide his shyness.
Turning sideways, Gao Yangyang let Han Shaoling and Han Shaofan into the room.
When Zhuang Ya heard the movement, she came out of Song Lingzi's bedroom and saw the two brothers Han Shaoling and Han Shaofan. She was taken aback for a moment, and then put on a polite smile: "Please sit down, Yangyang, please pour me two cups of tea."
Gao Yangyang agreed, and went to the kitchen to get some tea leaves to make tea.
"Auntie, I'm sorry for what happened today. How is my sister-in-law?" Han Shaoling said sincerely. In his opinion, he was also partly responsible for not preventing things from happening.
"I can't blame you for this matter. The man is young and energetic, so he is inevitably a little impulsive." Zhuang Ya has a good impression of Han Shaoling, and she doesn't want to show Han Shaoling's face, there is no need for that. "It's almost dawn now, I'm really sorry for delaying you brother for one night, Ling Zi just applied the medicine and fell asleep."
"It seems that we are a step late." Han Shaofan said, took out a can of medicine from his pocket, and briefly introduced: "This medicine is applied on the skin to relieve blood stasis and relieve pain. Brother wants us to deliver it in person .”
Han Shaoling watched from the sidelines, and had to admire Han Shaofan's scheming, prepared the medicinal materials early in the morning, and pushed the credit to Han Shaoting to avoid the escalation of the conflict.
When Zhuang Ya heard that Han Shaoting had sent someone over, her expression was a little cold.In her opinion, if Han Shaoting was sincere, he should deliver the medicine himself and apologize by the way.
After taking the medicine, Zhuang Ya smiled faintly: "It's so late, I'll trouble you to make a special trip, thank you for your hard work." It's not that she understands.
Han Shaofan frowned and pondered, knowing that Han Shaoting had a shrewd mother-in-law, so he chose to explain euphemistically: "Auntie, my elder brother was injured and it is not convenient to come here today, so I let our brothers go. You know, man Fights are all ruthless, and it is estimated that he will not recover in ten days and half a month."
"Is it so serious?" Zhuang Ya was a little worried. "Have you been to the hospital?"
"You know that my elder brother likes to hold on." Han Shaofan showed a worried expression. "He doesn't want to go to the doctor, and we can't force him to go to the doctor."
Zhuang Ya thought for a while, and understood Han Shaofan's voice-over: "I understand what you mean. He can't face himself, and would rather persevere than go to the doctor. I think he is also persevering now, refusing to go to the doctor." Come here and apologize to Ling Zi. In fact, when a husband and wife quarrel, it’s best for outsiders not to interfere. I didn’t want to worry about it, and I didn’t want to talk about it. But when I saw the bruises on Ling Zi’s body, I had to say a few words. Shaoting’s Temper should also be controlled, otherwise, one day when she becomes impulsive, Ling Zi will be the one who suffers."
"Brother really loves my sister-in-law." Han Shaoling understood Han Shaofan's intentions, and continued: "When he came back just now, he couldn't even take care of his own injuries, so he urged us to bring medicine. What happened tonight, It was purely an accident. Eldest brother accidentally injured his sister-in-law, and now I regret it. Auntie, just look at Lingzi's sake, don't be angry with elder brother."
Han Shaofan supported his forehead, "What an idiot!"
Han Shaoling smiled coldly: "If I am a fool, what are you?"
Han Shaofan had no choice but to explain patiently: "If the eldest brother has not suffered any harm, sister-in-law will only think of her grievances. At that time, if she loses her temper, it is estimated that the elder brother will suffer. According to my conservative estimate, the two of them It will take at least three or four months of the Cold War to erase this matter."
"So long?" Han Shaoling didn't expect this. "Then you said..."
"I hit my elder brother, and Song Lingzi felt distressed when she saw it. Once she felt distressed, she would downplay many things and instead focus on the wound on elder brother's body. In this way, as long as elder brother lowers his head a little, this matter will be exposed It is." Han Shaofan analyzed. "A woman's cruelty to a man is all verbal. The more vicious the mouth is, the softer the heart will be."
Han Shaoling was thoughtful, and asked again: "Isn't it said that the most poisonous women's hearts are?"
Han Shaofan glanced at him. "If a woman is vicious, she is more vicious than a man. But you have to remember, there has never been a naturally vicious woman in this world. Even if there were, it would be a minority."
"Actually, we should find a way to match them up." Han Shaoling still felt that this method was inappropriate. "You also know the character of elder brother. Even if he knows that he is wrong, he will not bow his head to admit his mistake. Sister-in-law also has a strong character. Neither of these two people will bow their head. In the end, they will only become more and more distant."
"You really have a lot to worry about." Han Shaofan said helplessly. "Don't think too much, things are not as complicated as you think."
"I think you're too optimistic." Han Shaoling still had some understanding of Song Lingzi's temperament.
Han Shaofan evoked a smile. "When couples quarrel, you know, what is their most taboo?"
"What else could it be? Isn't it just attacking each other?" Han Shaoling was a little puzzled.
"No, the most taboo thing is to be persuaded to fight." Han Shaofan said slowly. "If it is an ordinary couple quarreling, the most fearful thing is that someone will get involved. Originally, two people were half arguing and half flirting. After talking a few words and making a fuss, the matter will pass. Once someone stands up to persuade the quarrel, The scene became embarrassing. In order to show their status in the family, men would use words that hurt others. Women, because others persuaded them to fight, remembered the unhappy things in the past, which in turn deepened their complaints about their husbands. As a result, the more The quarreling became more and more intense, and in the end, even full-scale martial arts were carried out."
Han Shaoling revealed a look of disbelief. "According to what you say, do you just don't try to persuade a fight?"
"Persuading a fight depends on the situation." Han Shaofan thoughtfully called Han Shaoling a few words. "As the saying goes, fighting is love and scolding is love. Some couples who are arguing may not really fight, but if someone gets involved, they will definitely fight. Moreover, the person who persuaded the fight will most likely be punished. The disaster of the fish. Some couples look at the gentle and gentle, and once they turn their faces, they will fight each other. Most of these couples will not last long, and the persuasion is useless. Take a deep breath, at this time, it is wisest to persuade you to make peace and not to persuade you to leave. If you persuade you to leave but not to make peace, they will hate you for the rest of your life."
"Like the example of big brother, when the two of them quarreled, it would be a cold war for a few months at most. If the two of us kept quarreling, in the end, the two of them would not admit defeat for the sake of face, and the relationship would become divided. Get up." Han Shaofan analyzed carefully. "Besides, my elder brother was beaten up by me just now, and my sister-in-law is very distressed. At this time, we should give them space and let them solve it by themselves."
"In this case, you shouldn't let my sister-in-law go back to her natal home." Han Shaoling always opposed the decision to send Song Lingzi back to her natal home.
"You still don't understand what I mean." Han Shaofan shook his head helplessly. "We sent my sister-in-law back to their home. When the eldest brother sees us, he will definitely not give in to the sister-in-law, and the sister-in-law will not give in to the eldest brother. When two people meet head-on, things will only become more rigid. Wait for the two of us Once the front foot is gone, they may continue to quarrel. Sending the sister-in-law back to her natal home is to let everyone calm down and reflect on what happened today, and secondly, to make the elder brother and sister-in-law worry about it. Thirdly, there is buffer time for each other. , When everyone calms down, sit down and talk together, and get twice the result with half the effort."
"Where did you get the experience?" Han Shaoling looked at Han Shaofan suspiciously.
Han Shaofan coughed a few times. "I have been a judge for so many years, and I am not in vain. You know, the divorce rate has remained high in recent years. As lawyers, we will come into contact with these cases. There are various reasons for couples to divorce. In fact, these reasons are all false. Many times, when husband and wife quarrel, resentment is planted, slowly accumulates, and finally becomes a volcanic eruption.
Han Shaoling understood Han Shaofan's good intentions. "I don't know how big brother will deal with this matter?"
"If it were me, I would immediately buy 99 roses to remedy the situation." Han Shaofan said with a smile.
"This trick is too vulgar." Han Shaoling said with disgust. "Don't you have a better idea?"
"No." Han Shaofan said firmly.
"Don't we do anything?" Han Shaoling had a trace of doubt on his face, worried that the cold war would have a bad impact on their marriage, "Do you just watch the cold war between their husband and wife like this?"
"Of course not." Han Shaofan had a smile on his face. "It's not my style to care about anything.".
"That's true." Han Shaoling followed Han Shaofan's words and said: "You who are afraid of chaos in the world, how can you keep your own law and stay on the sidelines."
"Hey, who is afraid that the world will not be chaotic?" Han Shaofan felt that he was a bit wronged by this charge. "If it weren't for the fact that you are my brothers, I would be reluctant to help. If it were another person, I wouldn't even dump him."
"I know you are capable." Han Shaoling raised his eyebrows and continued to ask the next question: "The question is, what should we do now?"
"Visit the wounded." The corners of Han Shaofan's mouth curled up, and a sly gleam flashed in his black eyes.
Han Shaoling knew that Han Shaofan didn't want to talk, so he didn't ask further.The two walked out of the elevator side by side and stopped in front of Zhuang Ya's apartment.Han Shaoling rang the doorbell, and it was Gao Yangyang who opened the door.
"Hello, beauty, can we come in?" If Shen Yan said this sentence, Gao Yangyang must have felt that this person was frivolous, but Gao Yangyang didn't feel this way when he heard Han Shaofan say this.Gao Yangyang still has a good impression of Han Shaofan.
"Please come in." Gao Yangyang said please come in, and his eyes met Han Shaoling's.Two red clouds flew up on his fair face, Gao Yangyang quickly lowered his head to hide his shyness.
Turning sideways, Gao Yangyang let Han Shaoling and Han Shaofan into the room.
When Zhuang Ya heard the movement, she came out of Song Lingzi's bedroom and saw the two brothers Han Shaoling and Han Shaofan. She was taken aback for a moment, and then put on a polite smile: "Please sit down, Yangyang, please pour me two cups of tea."
Gao Yangyang agreed, and went to the kitchen to get some tea leaves to make tea.
"Auntie, I'm sorry for what happened today. How is my sister-in-law?" Han Shaoling said sincerely. In his opinion, he was also partly responsible for not preventing things from happening.
"I can't blame you for this matter. The man is young and energetic, so he is inevitably a little impulsive." Zhuang Ya has a good impression of Han Shaoling, and she doesn't want to show Han Shaoling's face, there is no need for that. "It's almost dawn now, I'm really sorry for delaying you brother for one night, Ling Zi just applied the medicine and fell asleep."
"It seems that we are a step late." Han Shaofan said, took out a can of medicine from his pocket, and briefly introduced: "This medicine is applied on the skin to relieve blood stasis and relieve pain. Brother wants us to deliver it in person .”
Han Shaoling watched from the sidelines, and had to admire Han Shaofan's scheming, prepared the medicinal materials early in the morning, and pushed the credit to Han Shaoting to avoid the escalation of the conflict.
When Zhuang Ya heard that Han Shaoting had sent someone over, her expression was a little cold.In her opinion, if Han Shaoting was sincere, he should deliver the medicine himself and apologize by the way.
After taking the medicine, Zhuang Ya smiled faintly: "It's so late, I'll trouble you to make a special trip, thank you for your hard work." It's not that she understands.
Han Shaofan frowned and pondered, knowing that Han Shaoting had a shrewd mother-in-law, so he chose to explain euphemistically: "Auntie, my elder brother was injured and it is not convenient to come here today, so I let our brothers go. You know, man Fights are all ruthless, and it is estimated that he will not recover in ten days and half a month."
"Is it so serious?" Zhuang Ya was a little worried. "Have you been to the hospital?"
"You know that my elder brother likes to hold on." Han Shaofan showed a worried expression. "He doesn't want to go to the doctor, and we can't force him to go to the doctor."
Zhuang Ya thought for a while, and understood Han Shaofan's voice-over: "I understand what you mean. He can't face himself, and would rather persevere than go to the doctor. I think he is also persevering now, refusing to go to the doctor." Come here and apologize to Ling Zi. In fact, when a husband and wife quarrel, it’s best for outsiders not to interfere. I didn’t want to worry about it, and I didn’t want to talk about it. But when I saw the bruises on Ling Zi’s body, I had to say a few words. Shaoting’s Temper should also be controlled, otherwise, one day when she becomes impulsive, Ling Zi will be the one who suffers."
"Brother really loves my sister-in-law." Han Shaoling understood Han Shaofan's intentions, and continued: "When he came back just now, he couldn't even take care of his own injuries, so he urged us to bring medicine. What happened tonight, It was purely an accident. Eldest brother accidentally injured his sister-in-law, and now I regret it. Auntie, just look at Lingzi's sake, don't be angry with elder brother."
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