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Fangyuan has felt overwhelmed more than once, and this time is no exception. 【@】Heavy work and the approaching wedding date made Fang Yuan feel that the pressure of life is actually quite high.

After searching for one afternoon, Fang Yuan asked for leave, and together with Kong Shuanghua went to the Marriage Registry under the Civil Affairs Bureau of Longwan District to receive a marriage certificate.After all, it was the first time, and she didn't understand many aspects, and Kong's mother was also worried, so she wanted to come with Kong Zitian's car and accompanied her personally.She also asked Kong Zitian to call someone she knew. Kong Zitian said that it would be fine for the children to do such small things by themselves, but Kong’s mother firmly refused, saying: You are also the vice president of a university after all, and there are a lot of students. You don’t need it at this time. When to use it?Anyway, you are also the leader of Dongzhou City now, any leader in the district should not be polite to you when they see you.As soon as Mama Kong insisted, Kong Zitian had no choice but to give in.He called the Secretary General of the Municipal People's Congress and explained the situation.The secretary-general readily agreed: "Director Kong, don't worry, I'll call the Longwan District People's Congress."

As a result, when going through the formalities, a deputy director of the National People's Congress in Longwan District accompanied him throughout the process.There are people in the yamen who are good at handling things, taking pictures, filling out forms, and getting certificates. There is no need to queue up, and the process is completed smoothly.The staff was also very enthusiastic, and told Kong Shuanghua to keep the third photo of the two together, which will be used when applying for the child's birth certificate.Kong's mother said: "I keep this photo, and I promise not to lose it. I will put it in the jewelry box."

On Saturday, Kong Shuanghua and Fangyuan took their wedding photos.The production cycle is one week. Like an insider, Kong Shuanghua repeatedly negotiated with the staff of the wedding photo studio to ensure that they can get it 5 days before the wedding.

Kong Shuanghua also personally directed the layout of the new house.I don't know where Kong Zitian found the construction team, and rearranged and arranged all the rooms of the Kong family except Kong Zitian's study, and the house suddenly had a happy atmosphere.Kong Shuanghua didn't even read her homework, and devoted herself to the wedding.In Kong Shuanghua's own words: "Of course we should pay attention to such a marriage once in a lifetime. I want to make my home like a new home, and I want to dress myself up as the most beautiful bride and keep this beautiful memory forever."

At this time, Fang Yuan's main task was to write invitations.There is no need to write Fang Yuan on the invitation card at the other end of Confucius Field. There are too many people who want to do this kind of thing for Confucius Field.But on Fangyuan's side, Fangyuan needs to write by himself; there are also Kong Shuanghua's leaders, classmates, and colleagues.Kong Zitian was not polite either, he only reserved two tables for Fang Yuan and two tables for Kong Shuanghua, and the rest were all invited by Confucius Tian.Kong Shuanghua acted coquettishly to Confucius Tian, ​​saying that there are many college classmates, high school classmates, and junior high school classmates, so no matter what, it must be given to more than a dozen tables.But it was useless. Confucius Tian said: "For my daughter's wedding, those who come to attend must have a certain status. It is very generous to give each of you 10 classmates. I originally wanted to give you two people a table. , for the leaders of the unit to sit, and give each of you a table of classmates, just hoping that you can also have some peers as friends."

Regarding what Confucius said, Fang Yuan did not dare to resist at all, although she was also very dissatisfied.But Kong Zitian reserved a table for Fang Yuan's classmates, which made Fang Yuan feel a little bit difficult.In the university, Fang Yuan's good classmates are not from Dongzhou; the students from Dongzhou seem to be a little bully, and they don't have a good relationship with Fang Yuan.So after graduating from university, Fang Yuan had very little contact with these local Dongzhou classmates.They didn't look for Fangyuan, and Fangyuan didn't look for them either.It was only after Fangyuan won the first prize in the provincial class that some students started calling Fangyuan and contacting her by chance, but they still didn't have a deep friendship.The last time Confucius Tian talked to Fang Yuan about the culture of official circles, a few days after Fang Yuan, he suddenly found that he did not have a circle of classmates, teachers and students, and everything needed to start over.But it may not be appropriate to call your classmates immediately to contact your relationship.

Now that I have given a table of classmates, Fang Yuan has made an estimate. I am afraid that if other people are arranged, the arrangement will be full, and there is no need to arrange a few classmates.He listed the people he wanted to invite: colleagues above the middle level of Dongzhou 68 Middle School, Tian Qiaoqiao, Zhong Xue, Fang Shujuan, Zhao Gang, Su Jinbo, Zhou Susu, Jia Ming, Dong Mei, and Yao Changqing.These are 9 people. In order to show respect for Yao Changqing, Fangyuan decided to invite Yao Changqing and his wife to come at the same time.The second table, the square and the round, should include Yang Fang, Zhao Dafu and his wife, Li Guoqiang and his wife, Xie Bingguo, Sheng Zhongqiang, Qian Yuan, Yuan Jinbao from the Yanping County Education Bureau, plus Lang Fengshou, a university counselor, and Peng Qun, a tutor for a master's degree in education. 10 people.The best man is Lotte.The bridesmaid is Kong Shuanghua's classmate Lu Bing.Fang Yuan chooses Le Tian not only because he values ​​Le Tian's well-behaved and sharp eyesight, but more importantly, he wants to give Le Tian a chance.Since we want to build our own circle, Lotte will definitely become a member of this circle.When Fang Yuan was talking to Le Tian, ​​he told Le Tian that he wanted to ask him to be the best man, and Le Tian agreed without hesitation.He was willing to do such a thing for Fang Yuan, which not only represented Fang Yuan's trust in him, but also brought the relationship between the two closer.Le Tian understands that for such an important wedding, he can be the best man, which in itself means that he treats me as someone around him.

It's Monday again.Kong Shuanghua didn't go to work that day, but went straight to the bridal shop to pick up wedding photos.Only after I went there did I know that the set of wedding photos of love, including those with large frames and small frames, and large and small albums, okay, weighs dozens of catties.Kong Shuanghua never thought of looking for Fangyuan, she was afraid that Fangyuan would be tired, Fangyuan had too much work these days, and was busy preparing for the wedding, so Kong Shuanghua directly called his father's driver, Xiao Zhou...

After attending the school regular meeting, Fang Yuan stayed alone to report to Yao Changqing: "Principal, in the past, all the teachers in the school invited colleagues to their weddings. This time I also want to do the same, but you know the principal, this time the wedding is mainly organized by My father-in-law arranged it, and he wanted to hire a lot of people, so our school can only invite leaders above the middle level."

Yao Changqing understood as soon as he heard it: Confucius Tian disliked the low level of guests at the level of teachers!If it wasn't because this was Fangyuan's work unit, I'm afraid he, Yao Changqing, wouldn't have had the chance to participate, where he sat!Power and status sometimes work invisibly!Yao Changqing nodded: "Fangyuan, it's fine if there are a few representatives from the school, you don't have to mind too much."

Fang Yuan said: "Principal, I have already written the invitation for you. I would like to invite you and sister-in-law to attend together!"

"Oh?" Yao Changqing took the invitation with great interest, and it really said "respectfully invites the principal Yao Changqing and his wife" on it, and immediately understood that Fang Yuan was giving himself a special honor.Yao Changqing said: "Then thank you, Fangyuan. Your sister-in-law and I will definitely go!"

Fang Yuan said, "Principal, you still have to say a few words on behalf of the groom's unit."

"I know. I'm ready. I've been preparing for the past few days, and now I've printed out a copy. I just want to tell you, take this copy of my speech and ask Principal Kong to review it If it fails, I will write it again."

Fang Yuan said: "Principal, you can just read and write. You don't need to show my father-in-law."

Yao Changqing shook his head and said, "Fang Yuan, you should take it back and show it to Principal Kong. It's good for you, and it's good for me too! We must respect President Kong's opinion no matter what! In the past, President Kong was the head of the university department. , is now the department-level leader of Dongzhou City!"

This is the extension of power in life.Fang Yuan sighed deeply: What do you mean that all citizens are equal, can they be equal in the face of power?The relationship between the father-in-law and Yao Changqing has nothing to do with direct or even indirect leadership. Yao Changqing is so cautious. If he is a direct leader, he doesn't know how to deal with it cautiously.

Fangyuan said: "Okay, principal, I will definitely pass it on to my father-in-law." Then, he took out the other 8 invitation cards and asked Yao Changqing: "Principal, tell me, do you give these invitations to these leaders, or should I give these invitations?" Are leaders better?"

Yao Changqing said: "It should be better for you to give, showing respect. Of course, I know you are busy with work, why don't you leave the invitation with me."

"That's fine, I'll deliver it myself." Fang Yuan said, "Principal, please, if a teacher asks, I really don't know how to explain it!"

"Okay, you don't have to worry about this. If a teacher asks, you can push it to me."

Sending invitations to these colleagues in the school one by one went smoothly.It's just that after Fang Shujuan said "Congratulations", she was a little depressed.Seeing that there was no invitation of her own, Liang Ping quickly asked: "Principal Fang, we have been working together for several months anyway, so we should have my invitation anyway." Fang Yuan felt ashamed and quickly explained: "Teacher Liang, In fact, I really wanted to invite you, but this time after discussing with my family, I decided to only invite colleagues above the middle level. When I come back from my wedding leave, I will definitely invite you alone."

When sending it to Zhou Susu, Zhou Susu took it and said with a smile: "Hey, come and send me the red fine. Okay, I must attend Principal Fang's wedding, and I am willing to pay the red fine." Although he expressed his intention to come, what he said made Fang Yuan feel particularly harsh.Fang Yuan didn't get angry, and said with a smile: "Chairman Zhou, when you come that day, you don't need to bring any money or anything. They are all colleagues of mine. If you can come, you will give Fang Yuan a lot of face."

After sending out invitations to colleagues, Fang Yuan started calling the leaders and teachers at the other table to be invited.Fortunately, I got through one by one, and all of them said they would come.Among them, Yuan Jinbao from Yanping was particularly excited, and even said: "Thank you Brother Fangyuan, thank you Brother Fangyuan! It is a great honor for me, Yuan Jinbao, to be able to attend the wedding of Brother Fangyuan. I will definitely attend, definitely attend! "