Director's growth history

When Fang Yuan returned to Dongzhou from his hometown in Jilin, Deputy Director Liu Jun's inspection of Dongzhou had already ended. 【|】On Tuesday, accompanied by Deng Yuncong, Zhai Xinwen and Han Suzhen, Liu Jun visited Dongzhou’s No. 5 Middle School, No. 3 Middle School, No. 68 Middle School, Experimental Primary School, and Dongjiang Primary School. cadres, teachers discussion.Under the careful organization of the Dongzhou Education Bureau, Deputy Director Liu saw the "thriving" scene of Dongzhou's education industry, and felt deeply: I didn't know much about Dongzhou education before, and I didn't understand it deeply.It's just that Director Liu probably has never been surrounded by so many "sweet words", and he didn't think carefully about the whole trip of the investigation, whether seeing is believing or seeing is believing.

But Fang Yuan at this time, all of this has nothing to do with him.He went home to hold a wedding with joy all the way, and hurried back to Dongzhou full of anger and helplessness.Indeed, the weddings in my hometown are not comparable to the weddings in Dongzhou, no matter in terms of scale and grade, or the cultural level and social status of the guests.In Dongzhou, more than 32 yuan was received in red envelopes alone, and an average visitor paid 1 yuan in red envelopes; in Tonghua, only more than 1 yuan was collected in red envelopes, and the most was 200 yuan, and even as little as 20 yuan or 50 yuan.

Maybe it's because Kong Shuanghua has a sense of superiority, maybe it's because Kong Shuanghua thinks that everyone in Fangyuan's hometown is scumbag, maybe it's because the wedding in this hometown is far from the luxurious and grand wedding in Dongzhou, Kong Shuanghua's speech, demeanor They showed disdain in many aspects, and even in the short 5 days in Dongzhou, they annoyed Fang's father, offended the second sister and second brother-in-law, angered Fang's mother, hurt the honest elder brother-in-law, and other relatives Talking about Fangyuan's daughter-in-law, they all shook their heads and sighed.But Kong Shuanghua didn't realize it, whether he was alone with Fangyuan in private or in front of Fang's family, he kept clamoring to go back, there was only one reason: the weather in the northeast was too cold!

The weather in the Northeast is indeed very cold. It is only early December, and the temperature at this time is already more than ten degrees below zero. The coldest day is minus 12 degrees.For Kong Shuanghua, who was born and raised in a subtropical region, snow is not common all year round, and he doesn’t even know what a cotton-padded jacket is in winter. Now in the Northeast, he is wrapped in a thick duck down jacket, wearing worn-out shoes, You can only go out with a thick hat. These are all temporary clothes bought after arriving in Tonghua.

Sandwiched between Kong Shuanghua, his parents, and his sisters, Fang Yuan truly experienced what is called plywood.Kong Shuanghua can't offend easily. On the one hand, the two of them have been together for so long. Kong Shuanghua is sincerely good to Fang Yuan and has dedicated her precious virginity. For Fang Yuan, she has also changed a lot in many aspects such as personality and living habits; On the other hand, through this wedding, Fangyuan deeply felt the energy of Confucius Tian in Dongzhou: Whose family's child gets married, the deputy mayor witnesses the marriage, and organizes the minister to deliver a speech?Whose family can get more than 30 yuan just by receiving red envelopes when their children get married?Whose family's child gets married, and the two most popular hosts of Dongzhou TV Station, Wang Xiaoya and Bi Fudao, co-host?I believe even fools will understand what kind of information these facts revealed on the surface!If you offend Kong Shuanghua, you will 100% offend Kong Zitian. Fangyuan has a kind of fear and worry, fearing that Kong Zitian only needs to say a few words to Deputy Mayor Deng Yuncong, Secretary Zhai Xinwen, and Director Han Suzhen, and it will be difficult for him to struggle for the rest of his life.Such examples are not without, how many literary novels, how many news stations have written such stories, this is a lesson from the past!

Parents are the ones who gave birth to themselves, and the two elder sisters are very kind to this younger brother. From the time Fang Yuan can remember, the two elder sisters will let him have any good food. Every sister will keep it for herself.But now, seeing her parents being so angry with her son-in-law, Fang's mother wiped her tears again and again in private, and the two sisters kept talking in Fangyuan's ears about Kong Shuanghua's fault. Besides comforting Fangyuan, what else could she do? Do?Fang Yuan promised his parents and two older sisters to persuade Kong Shuanghua well, but he also told his parents and two older sisters: Don’t have any conflicts with Kong Shuanghua, Fang’s father was so angry that Fang Yuan scolded Fang Yuan for being unfilial, and Fang Yuan’s heart was full of sparks. .

In private, Fang Yuan also persuaded Kong Shuanghua.Kong Shuanghua said: "I have always given you face, Fangyuan. I didn't contradict them. I didn't show them face. If your mother asked me to wash the dishes, I would do the dishes too. If your mother asked me to sweep the floor, I would sweep the floor too." Right. It’s just that the Northeast is too cold, I can’t bear it. I didn’t expect it to be so cold here, and I won’t come here in winter if I’m killed in the future, and it’s barely acceptable to come here in summer.” Fang Yuan thought about it, and Kong Shuanghua was right. , although she showed a sense of superiority in her words and demeanor, she did not have a direct conflict with her parents and sisters, but as a fashionable and modern woman, as a delicate girl in the family, there is still a lack of a concept of respecting teachers in her bones. Yes, in fact, the conflict between parents and Kong Shuanghua, if raised to the level of sociology, is actually a conflict between urban civilization and rural civilization. How can this be changed in just a few days.

Fang Yuan had no choice but came up with an idea, that is, after dinner at night, invite the whole family to watch the DVD of his and Kong Shuanghua's marriage in Dongzhou.Whoever the camera scans, as long as they are known by Fangyuan, will introduce them one by one, focusing on the parents-in-law Kong Zitian and his wife, members of the Standing Committee of the Municipal Party Committee, Sheng Zhiren, Minister of Organization, Deng Yuncong, Deputy Mayor, Qun Feng, Executive Deputy Director of the Organization Department of the Municipal Party Committee, and Municipal Education Bureau Zhai Xinwen, Secretary of the Party Committee, Han Suzhen, Director of the Municipal Education Bureau, Zou Zhigang, Deputy Director, Xie Bingguo, Director of the Municipal Teaching and Research Office, Li Guoqiang, Deputy Director of the Municipal Teaching and Research Office, and the two popular show hosts in Dongzhou.Fang Yuan emphasized that these people were able to attend her wedding because of the face of her father-in-law Kong Zitian, and had nothing to do with her.His father-in-law is the deputy director of the Dongzhou People's Congress, the vice president of Dongzhou University, and a doctoral supervisor. He enjoys a high prestige in Dongzhou.

Especially in the middle period of the picture, Confucius brought Fangyuan and Kong Shuanghua toast each table. Confucius introduced his daughter and son-in-law to everyone, and introduced everyone's positions to Fangyuan. The DVD of this section has a clear image , the sound quality is loud, one by one is either the head of the department, the head of the bureau, or the secretary or the director, all of them are big figures with backgrounds.Fang Yuan didn't need anything more, the effect Fang Yuan wanted was achieved: her parents and sisters kept their mouths shut, and even became more cautious when getting along with Kong Shuanghua.

This is a last resort: temporarily eliminate the antagonism between parents and daughter-in-law, sister and younger siblings, let them feel the power of their son and father-in-law, and let themselves and Kong Shuanghua stop at home for a few days.I have nothing to do with Fangyuan, I just hope that this will make the family more harmonious, at least on the surface.After Kong Shuanghua returns to Dongzhou, you can scold this daughter-in-law and this son as much as you want, and you won't hear it yourself!

Everything went as Fangyuan wished, and he and Kong Shuanghua returned to Dongzhou in a peaceful atmosphere.On the night of returning home, when Kong Shuanghua chattered to Kong Zitian and Kong’s mother about the poverty of Tonghua, the rusticity of Fangyuan’s relatives, the lack of education of Fangyuan’s parents, and the low quality of Fangyuan’s two sisters, Fangyuan couldn’t bear it anymore... …