Director's growth history

Seeing his father let him buy a car, Kong Shuanghua also became excited: "Fang Yuan, tell me, what kind of car should we buy?" Fang Yuan said, "You drive the car mainly. I usually drive less. car, just buy what kind of car. 【*】Me, I have some suggestions.” Kong Shuanghua said, “Tell me.” Fang Yuan said, “The car can’t be too short. If Dad is sitting or I’m driving, Just don’t put your head on it.” Kong Shuanghua said: “That’s no problem, I definitely wouldn’t buy a car that is too small like Xiali or QQ.” Kong Shuanghua said to Kong Zitian: “Dad, should the more than 30 yuan be spent?” Kong Zitian Said: "You child, you really don't know how to live. You have learned a driver's license, but you have basically never driven a car. Fang Yuan has always driven a school car. So, just buy a car with about 10 yuan. Practice your hands, and when you're done practicing, I'll buy you a better car, okay?" Kong Shuanghua said, "Okay, okay! When I get a new car, I'll drive the eliminated ones to Fangyuan."

Fang Yuan's complexion changed.People always have self-esteem.The last time Fangyuan almost decided to break up because Kong Shuanghua didn't respect Fangyuan's dignity, it was Kong Zitian's coordination that made Kong Shuanghua realize her mistake.This problem healed for a while, coupled with Kong Shuanghua's pregnancy, Fang Yuan gradually forgot about these unhappiness, but tonight, Kong Shuanghua had hurt Fang Yuan's self-esteem more than once.

Confucius Tian also felt that Kong Shuanghua's words were harsh, but Kong's mother didn't seem to realize that there were other meanings in these words.Confucius stared at him: "Xiaohua, what are you talking about? What kind of eliminated car is driven by Fangyuan? What is the reason for this? Husband and wife are equal and respect each other, why should Fangyuan drive?" The car you eliminated?" Kong Shuanghua was embarrassed, and seemed to realize that he had said something wrong, so he stuck out his tongue and said to Fang Yuan, "I didn't mean it."

Fang Yuan's heart immediately felt much better.Having a reasonable father-in-law can still ease my grievances, but Kong Shuanghua seems to have a growing sense of superiority, and often regards Fang Yuan as a second-class citizen in the family, which makes Fang Yuan really suffocate .Fang Yuan said peacefully: "Shuanghua, between husband and wife, you respect and love each other to make the relationship better. If you say this, as a man, I will be generous and tolerant, but I really feel very uncomfortable in my heart." Kong Shuanghua was surprised at first He looked at Fang Yuan carefully, and then another cat entered Fang Yuan's arms: "My husband, I'm sorry, I really didn't mean it." Fang Yuan said, "I know."

Fangyuan had long thought of sending money to her parents every month.In the past four years, Fang Yuan has mentioned to his parents many times that he wants to send money to them, but his parents' attitude is the same: he saves money so that he can buy a house and get married in Binhai, and now he doesn't need money.If you want to be filial to your parents, wait until after you get married.Once you are married and have your own independent life, you don’t have to worry about financial income, and you should send money to your parents.With the wisdom and generosity of his father-in-law and Kong Shuanghua feeling a little bit guilty at this time, why not take advantage of this time to deal with this matter?After all, without Kong Shuanghua's consent, where would Fangyuan have more money to send home every month?

Kong Zitian said: "Fangyuan, Shuanghua has no intentions. She grew up in a honeypot. You really have to take care of her some Fangyuan." Fangyuan said: "It's okay, Dad." Confuciustian said: "Buy Regarding the car, you should discuss it. Let’s go to see the car first. After checking the model, style, and color, you don’t have to worry about buying a car. I will arrange the administration of Binhai University for buying a car, paying taxes, listing, and getting insurance. Let’s go to see it next Saturday and Sunday. There is no car recently, and Xiaohua and I go to work together in the morning. Xiaozhou will send you to the library first, and then send me.” Kong Shuanghua said: “Well .Dad, don’t leave too early! Remember, tell Director Zhou of our Cultural Bureau about my pregnancy.” Kong Zitian said with a smile: “Is there a time when I haven’t done what I promised? "

Fang Yuan said: "Dad, Mom, Shuanghua, I have one more thing to discuss with you." Kong Shuanghua broke free from Fang Yuan's arms and asked, "What's the matter? Tell me quickly." Fang Yuan said: "Dad, Mom , Shuanghua, as you all know, my father and mother are two ordinary farmers, and they don’t have any serious income on weekdays. Planting a little land can only meet the rations and food, and the small income depends on my two My elder sister is filial and filial, and then I go to the mountains to pick some ox hair, mountain mushrooms, pine nuts, schisandra and so on. As their son, they have worked hard to raise me and pay for my college education. It was spent on me and my two older sisters, they didn’t enjoy much in their good days, but suffered a lot.”

Confucius Tian and Kong Mama nodded.Kong Shuanghua suddenly seemed to realize something, and said loudly: "Fangyuan, I don't agree with your father and mother moving to Binhai. I really can't stand the living habits of your parents."

Hearing this, Fang Yuan felt extremely uncomfortable: Does this sound like what a daughter-in-law said?As the saying goes: love the house and the crow.Since Kong Shuanghua kept saying that he loved Fangyuan, why did he reject Fangyuan's parents like this?

Confucius Tian was also worried that his in-laws would come to Binhai.Fangyuan is good, but it doesn't mean that the in-laws are also good.Fang Yuan is a rising star in education and politics, while his in-laws are uneducated farmers.But Confucius Tian didn’t want to express his attitude at this time, he sternly stopped Kong Shuanghua: “Xiaohua, what are you talking about? Your mother and I are your parents, and Fangyuan’s father and mother are also your parents! Filial piety to parents is the responsibility and obligation of every child in the world. Fangyuan can think and say this, which shows that he is filial. Xiaohua, if Fangyuan treats me and your mother, the same as you treat Fangyuan's father Mom, will you feel better?"

Kong Shuanghua cried with a "wow": "Why is it always me who say the wrong thing?" Kong Zitian said sternly: "Because you didn't think through your brain when you spoke!" Dissatisfied, he said: "Xiaohua! When you do things and speak, you have to be considerate of your heart. Although Dad's attitude is strict, but what he said is very reasonable. You should think about it. Now that you are pregnant, you can't cry from time to time. Nose, this is not good for your own body or your child's growth!"

Kong Shuanghua seemed to be very concerned about the child. He stopped crying when he heard Mama Kong's words, but still muttered in a low voice: "Father is biased." Kong Zitian suppressed the roughness of his tone, and said gently: "Dad It's not partiality, but on the side of reason." After Kong's mother finished talking about Kong Shuanghua, she turned around and criticized Kong Zitian: "Zitian, you are really serious, so I can't talk about it. Xiaohua is pregnant, keep a good mood It's very important. Even if Xiaohua did something wrong, you say it calmly, isn't Xiaohua easy to accept?"

Fang Yuan said: "Thank you, Mom and Dad, for understanding so well. Xiaohua was talking without intention. She just spoke out her inner thoughts, but she didn't listen to me. Dad, Mom, Xiaohua, raising children to guard against old age is an old saying. It is my fault that the son is thousands of miles away and cannot be filial in front of his parents. So, I think, send some money to the elderly every month to improve the living conditions of the parents and let them have a better life. Pocket money, so that they can afford a doctor when they have a minor illness, I wonder if my father, mother, and Xiaohua support me?"

Confucius let out a long sigh of relief: If you don't come to Binhai, you can do it, and you can talk about everything else.Confucius Tian nodded: "Fang Yuan, I am really happy that you think so in your heart. You are a good boy with filial piety, and I support you." Kong's mother said: "I also support it. Honoring parents is what all children in the world should do. When Xiaohua’s grandpa and grandma were alive, we sent money to our hometown every month! Even now, Xiaohua’s cousin is studying in college, and the family can’t afford so much tuition. Sponsorship, at least 5000 a year." Kong Shuanghua said: "If this is the case, then I will support it too. Husband, how much do you plan to send a month?" Fang Yuan looked at the three people, really wanted to say more, But this kind of thing, especially in such a family, is the best way to deal with it.Fang Yuan thought for a while, and said, "I thought, how about sending 300 a month? During the holidays, or my parents' birthday, I will send a little more." Kong Shuanghua stuck out his tongue again: "That's so much!" Fang Yuan thought in his heart Pressing the fire: What is too much? You pay hundreds of dollars for a set of Olay cosmetics, and hundreds of dollars for a piece of clothing. How much is it to send 300?It seems that in the future, I really have to save some private money, and I can't count on Kong Shuanghua at all.

Confucius Tian said: "Not much, I think what Fangyuan said is quite appropriate. I support it." Kong's mother said: "Well, 300 a month is considered one place, but it is only 10 yuan a day, even if the in-laws are 10 yuan a day. , It’s not too much.” Kong Shuanghua said: “Okay, 300 is 300.” Fang Yuan said: “Thank you, Dad, Mom, and Xiaohua for your support. Send it in the name of Hua, okay?" Confucius nodded: "You think carefully, okay, let Xiaohua send it." Fang Yuan said: "When sending money, it is not necessary for Xiaohua to go in person, I can take it with you. Xiaohua’s ID card will replace her.” Kong’s mother said, “It’s really rare for you to think like this. Xiaohua, look around and send money in your Xiaohua’s name, your father-in-law and mother-in-law will miss you all It’s all right.” Kong Shuanghua’s pouting lips just now have bloomed like flowers: “Of course, my daughter-in-law is very good! I don’t think Fangyuan’s family is poor and marry Fangyuan without hesitation, and I don’t think Fangyuan’s parents If they are uneducated and send them money, of course I’m fine with it.”

Fang Yuan was almost fainted by Kong Shuanghua's anger.