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In just 10 minutes, all the dishes were served in the room where Confucius Tian was. [ -] Kong Shuanghua was very surprised: "Oh my God, the dishes we ordered are served too fast, right? Did you not cook them carefully?" Kong Zitian smiled and said nothing, looked at Kong Shuanghua, then at Fangyuan, and felt A little proud.Fang Yuan saw it, and also realized the reason: this boss surnamed Miao is definitely a seasoned business veteran, I am afraid he has already arranged the kitchen, stopped to serve food for other private rooms, and went all out to make Confucius Tian The dishes ordered in the private room are ready.This is the extension of power, which cannot be seen on the surface, but careful people can feel it, just like Fang Yuan, he still saw a little trick.

Fangyuan said: "Shuanghua, Dad is sitting here, the hotel's food service will naturally be fast. I think the quality and portion of the food will only be better than usual." Kong Shuanghua's face showed a look of surprise: "Dad, you still have such Is it powerful?" Kong Zitian smiled and motioned for Fang Yuan to continue.Encouraged by his eyes, Fangyuan said, "Because sitting in this room is a deputy director of the city's people's congress and a city leader. As long as he is a smart person, no one dares to neglect him." Kong Shuanghua asked, "Is it true that Dad doesn't sit down?" Here, there are only three of us, and we don’t know when the food will be served, right?” Fang Yuan said, “That’s the reason. However, if Dad doesn’t come tonight, and there are only three of us, I’m afraid we can only eat in the lobby on the second floor. Find a seat to eat." Kong Shuanghua exclaimed at Kong Zitian: "Father, you are so amazing now!"

Confucius Tian said: "You and your mother can't see it. Only Fang Yuan can see it. This is understanding. I can't say that women have long hair but short knowledge, but Fang Yuan's understanding still makes me very pleased. Power is something that belongs to In the field of superstructure, where there is position, there is power, and power has power, and this power is a kind of soft power, which is invisible but has a wide range of influence."

Kong Zitian involuntarily linked to his theory of administrative management, and there were many professional terms in his words, which made Kong Shuanghua very difficult to understand, a bit specious.Seeing his daughter's frown, Confucius immediately realized that only Fang Yuan could understand what he said, so he said in a more plain language: "To put it simply, do you know Governor xx?" Kong Shuanghua said: " I know, he looks quite old." Confucius said, "If Fang Yuan fights with him, who do you think can beat him?" Kong Shuanghua said, "Of course Fang Yuan can beat him, he is already an old man. How can your body be stronger than Fang Yuan?" Confucius said, "But if Fang Yuan is really standing in front of him, do you dare to hit him?" Kong Shuanghua shook his head: "No, because he is the governor! Governor, I’m afraid the headmaster will not only have nothing to do, but also go to jail.” Kong Zitian said with a smile: “Although he is a bad old man, because he is the governor, he has a kind of soft power. , and this kind of soft power is very powerful and ubiquitous, it can change or even dominate a person’s fate, he can just sneeze and the desk has delivered a lot of cold medicine at some point.” See Kong Shuanghua suddenly realized, Fang Yuan said: "Shuanghua is also very smart. Although what my father said is very profound, Shuanghua can understand it very well now." Kong Shuanghua said: "Of course. Those who come from workers and peasant families are smart."

Fang Yuan felt displeased immediately, isn't this a disguised form of ridiculing that Fang Yuan is the son of a farmer?Hmph, show your sense of superiority everywhere, so that you can be superior to others?But Fang Yuan did not continue to fight, and looked at Kong Shuanghua with a smile.Kong Shuanghua suddenly remembered something, grabbed Fang Yuan's arm, and said loudly: "Hubby, you have to work hard, and you will be an official bigger than your father in the future! Husband, today I understand why books From the curator to the general staff of the library, they are all so polite to me, it turns out that this is also the extension of my father's soft power!"

The daughter is really not stupid.Confucius Tian smiled and nodded: "My daughter is still very smart!" Kong Shuanghua grinned happily, overjoyed.Kong's mother said: "Look at you two, you can really make Xiaohua happy. Xiaohua is pregnant, and a good mood is very important for the growth of my grandchildren. Old Kong, you have to go home often!" Confucius Tian said: "I also want to be at home often, but I am too busy now. If Fangyuan was not elected as the party representative today, I am afraid I will not be able to come back at night. Old woman, I know that you have been neglected in the recent stage, and the family has also been neglected. I’m in the rivers and lakes, and I can’t help myself, so I ask the old woman to support my work!” Kong Shuanghua said: “Mom, you have to learn from me and support your husband’s work with all your strength. Now I am determined not to hold Fangyuan back. Let Fang Yuan work hard to climb up, and the bigger the official, the better. In the future, no one will dare to bully me when I am outside, and no one will dare to bully me when the child goes to school. Fang Yuan, you have to work hard!" Fang Yuan nodded. "For the sake of my family, I will definitely work hard." These words not only include Kong Shuanghua and the unborn child, Fang Yuan actually also includes his parents, two sisters, and several nephews who are far away in Tonghua, Jilin.

Confucius Tian picked up the wine glass and said: "Come on, everyone raise the wine glass. Usually because I am busy with work, it is rare to have a reunion wine with my family. Now, let's clink glasses and celebrate our reunion!" Kong Shuanghua said: "Okay, let's have a reunion wine." Mother Kong and Fang Yuan just laughed, and the four wine glasses met together, feeling very warm and happy.Mama Kong even felt like crying.Home, it looks like this, it feels like home!

Putting down the wine glass, Kong Shuanghua could not wait to pick up the dish she wanted to eat, and commented while eating: "Well, this taste is good, I like it." "Well, this taste is also good, I like it too." "Well, This is so delicious, so delicious." In the blink of an eye, she had tasted all eight hot dishes on the table.Perhaps it is because the dishes have been "specially" made, after Confucius Tian tasted them, he also thought they tasted good.He said: "My family eats mainly food, talk and chat. Today's food is really good, you should eat more." Kong Shuanghua said: "I have to eat a double portion." Confucius Tian said: " Why?" Kong Shuanghua said: "Because there is another person in my stomach!" The whole family laughed.

Mama Kong likes this feeling.How nice it would be to feel like this every day at home!

At this moment, Confucius raised his glass again and said, "Xiao Fang, I offer you a glass of wine. Congratulations on your election as the representative of the Sixth Party Congress of Binhai City!" Fang Yuan quickly raised his glass and said respectfully, "Dad, I should respect you. You are also a party representative, and my son-in-law should congratulate you. The son-in-law also knows that being elected as a party representative this time is also the result of your father’s care.” Kong Shuanghua interjected: “Dad, is this an extension of power? Kong Zitian laughed loudly: "I can't say whether it counts as an extension of power, but I really haven't said anything for you, and I didn't expect you to be elected as a party representative. You know, the Education Bureau is the committee of all major bureaus in the city. The one with the largest number of party members in the office does not have many places. Maybe there is a little reason for me to choose you. For example, my student Zhai Xinwen fought for you invisibly because of my face, but I think, If you Fang Yuan is a dou who can’t afford it, then I have face, and you won’t be selected. The key is that you earned many honors for the education system in 2006. These honors are the most in the history of Binhai Education. Unprecedented. Another reason is that after the end of the Sixth Plenary Session of the 15th Central Committee of the Party, the Party Central Committee required the reelection of local Party committees. It has become a special meeting for leading cadres at all levels. Xiao Yi, you are also in the light of this policy change!"

The father-in-law is the father-in-law, and the doctoral supervisor is the doctoral supervisor!Fang Yuan secretly admired that his father-in-law's analysis of the matter was really almost the same as what Secretary Zhai said this afternoon.The so-called standing tall and seeing far away, my father-in-law is still so tall and tall, I really don't know when he will be able to compare with his father-in-law in terms of thinking, understanding, and level?Fang Yuan's expression was full of reverence, and he lowered Kong Zitian's glass by half the height in a polite manner, clinked glasses with Kong Zitian, and drank the red wine in the glass in one gulp.Confucius Tian was also unambiguous, and drank the wine that had just been filled in the cup, looked at Fangyuan appreciatively, and said, "Toast you this glass of wine, Dad is very happy! First of all, Dad didn't miss it, Xiao Fang, you are indeed It is the most correct decision for me to betroth my daughter to you. Second, becoming a party representative at such a young age means that your communication field has suddenly expanded to a wider range and a higher level. In the next five years During the year, you will have the opportunity to contact leaders from all walks of life who are much higher than you, and you will learn from them many things that you cannot learn in the education system and school. It cannot be said in words, it depends on you to comprehend in the interaction between people, these things will have an extremely important impact on your growth. You must know that the school is always a relatively closed environment, only after entering the party congress, Only at the National People's Congress and the Political Association can you be considered to have truly stepped into the big stage of society. Among these three types of meetings, the Party Congress is the highest-level meeting and the meeting closest to the authority."

Fang Yuan listened attentively, for fear of missing a word.Seeing his father-in-law admire Fangyuan so much, Fangyuan felt an inexplicable sense of guilt: In fact, he was not sincere to Kong Shuanghua, and there were more or less factors in this that made use of Kong Shuanghua and Kong Zitian.Father-in-law treats me so well, but I still treat Kong Shuanghua like this, right?

Confucius Tian said: "Both of you, you should eat and eat vegetables. Let me talk to Fangyuan. Fangyuan! I hope you will take advantage of the opportunity of being a party representative and get to know more friends at all levels, especially Lead your friends and try to make a deep and good impression on them. Because you don't know when a leader will be able to help you, and you don't know which leader may say a bad word about you because of a bad impression of you. I'm afraid you I haven’t been promoted and I can’t find the reason.”

Fang Yuan said humbly: "Thank you for your teaching." Confucius Tian said: "At the same time, as a new representative, a young representative, you must always put yourself in a lower position and not take the limelight. Whether it is in the group When discussing or voting, you must know that the most glorious and moving shots should always be reserved for the leader, not you, a small middle school teacher or vice principal. At that time, the people in the same group as you may be in the style of science and education I'm afraid there are only one or two front-line ones, and more leaders are the directors of the Science and Technology Bureau, the Education Bureau, the Culture Bureau, the Sports Bureau, and the heads of various scientific research institutions. In other groups, the situation The same is true. There are so many leaders, how can you speak up, so don’t speak until you have to speak, and give the leaders the opportunity to speak; especially when the leaders of the municipal party committee participate in your group discussion, even more It is to leave the opportunity to the leaders, and you must not rush to speak in front of the leaders, let alone interrupt or even interrupt the words of a certain leader."

Fang Yuan said: "Dad, I remember." Confucius Tian said: "I haven't finished talking yet! This is just the beginning! Xiao Fang, and when you attend the group meeting, ask the leaders of your Education Bureau to talk to you. Behind them, you can't walk ahead, and of course you can't be late. In this way, you can avoid the leader's discomfort, and at the same time, you are always by the leader's side. It is also convenient to run errands, and the leader knows that you are not absent. When participating in group meetings , generally there is a large oval conference table in the middle, which is not for you to sit around, but for the leader. Generally, there is not enough room for so many people around the big round table, so you should consciously sit in the back row or even The third row. Although no one stipulates that you cannot sit in the first row, if you sit in the first row and some leaders have no place to sit in the second or third row, then you may be remembered by a certain leader Live and then say a word to you on seemingly unimportant occasions—sometimes, a single word can often bring about the end of a person's politics!"

Fang Yuan said: "Yes, I have memorized it." Confucius said: "Of course, it does not mean that you cannot speak when you become a party representative. It depends on when and how to say it is most appropriate. The knowledge is inside." Fang Yuan opened his eyes wide, staring intently, for fear of missing a word.What my father-in-law said was his theoretical practice of decades of administrative management research and his experience as a senior leading cadre!In this case, it is basically impossible for outsiders to hear it. If you can hear the oral teaching of your father-in-law, it is equivalent to walking the road that others have walked for more than ten years or even decades. This indirect experience is also experience. It can also increase experience!

When Fang Yuan was about to continue to accept Confucius Tian's teaching with relish, there was a knock on the door, and a man and a woman came in with a pleasant smile.