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After eating, Confucius Tian said: "Xiao Fang, come to my study.【-】" Fang Yuan said: "Let me clean up the table first." Confucius Tian said: "Men should do men's things. Let's do it with your mother, Hua. I have something to tell you." Fang Yuan looked at Kong Shuanghua, and Kong Shuanghua said, "Go, no one is stopping you."

I agree, but it sounds like Fang Yuan feels awkward.Fangyuan said: "Shuanghua, you have worked hard." After speaking, he followed Confucius Tian to the study.After the son-in-law Weng sat down, Confucius asked, "Xiao Fang, do you have anything else to do today?" Fang Yuan said, "Yesterday morning, the school discussed the work ideas for 2007. Bring out the work plan, let me go to school on the 27th of the twelfth lunar month, and discuss it with him.” Confucius Tian said: “Have you written a school plan before?” Fang Yuan said: “No.” Confucius Tian said: “Borrow one, borrow another Take a look at the basic format of your school or your school’s own plans for previous years. Writing a teaching plan is Yao Changqing’s trust in you. You should strive to write it well, and writing a teaching plan is also an opportunity to exercise your ability to manage the school and get ideas It’s rare.” Fang Yuan said, “Then I’ll contact Mr. Xu, who is in charge of the school’s archives, to see if I can find out the previous year’s plans for my reference.” Confucius Tian said: “One school alone is not enough, it’s better to have more. From other schools.” Fang Yuan said, “I’m not very familiar with the leaders of other schools. I’ve only been promoted for a few months, and I haven’t recognized the vice principals of other schools, and I can’t even talk about friendship.” Kong Zitian said : "Do you need me to come forward?"

God, this also needs a father-in-law?Then when can I escape from the shadow of my father-in-law?Fang Yuan shook his head and said, "Dad, let me think of a way." Confucius Tian said, "That's fine. You have to slowly cultivate your ability to be independent and self-reliant." Fang Yuan nodded: "Yes, Dad." Confucius Tian said: "There are only 7 days before the Chinese New Year. During this period, it is usually the time for subordinates to visit the homes of superiors. You should also consider who should walk around. As the vice president of the university, I have a share New Year's goods; as the deputy director of the Municipal People's Congress, I also got a share of New Year's goods; as special consultants or members of expert groups run by some bureaus, departments such as the Organization Department, the Ministry of Public Affairs, the Radio, Film and Television Bureau, the Education Bureau, and the Cultural Bureau also gave gifts I have some New Year’s goods. I don’t have room to store them at home, so I put them in the freezer of Binhai University. If you think you need them, tell me how much you need and how much you can take.” Fang Yuan said, “Thank you, Dad.” Confucius Tian said: “ We are all a family, why are you being polite? You have to rely on yourself to fight for your country. As a father, I can help you a little bit, but the main thing is to rely on yourself."

Fang Yuan was really moved.Having such a father-in-law is a great blessing in life; with such a father-in-law, life will have fewer twists and turns and more smooth roads; having such a father-in-law is not only a mentor in life, but also can directly reach out to help oneself Bundle.In order to be guided by such a father-in-law all the time, what is the sacrifice?What is the grievance received?

Fangyuan didn't know that this was Kong Zitian trying to mend Kong Shuanghua's past.In any case, Confucius Tian also loves his daughter deeply, no matter how many shortcomings his daughter has, they are still his own flesh and blood.If Kong Shuanghua's life is not happy, Kong Zitian will also feel bad.A good young man like Fang Yuan is rare in this society now, and Confucius naturally hopes that Fang Yuan can bring happiness to Kong Shuanghua.As for her bad temper, she still needs to be guided slowly.The unhappiness this morning can almost be concluded to be entirely caused by the daughter's nonsense. The daughter may not realize the harm of doing so, but the father has to be sober.It is said that this marriage is like a vase, and it must be wiped carefully to achieve its beauty.If you are not careful, if there is a crack on the vase, its beauty and value will be lost, and there is no need to wait until the day it is completely broken.If Xiaohua hurt Fang Yuan so much, and formed a crack in Fang Yuan's heart, if he wanted to completely restore the relationship between his daughter and Fang Yuan, without any cracks like this new vase, it would be as difficult as going to heaven.The daughter is just an ordinary daughter, she can't show her excellence among all living beings, but her bad temper, which now seems to be the most obvious "bright" spot in her body, although the driver Xiao Zhou has always been cautious and reticent, but I still inadvertently revealed this meaning; although my daughter never told me how to get along with my colleagues in the unit, but at a dinner arranged by Bao Chungui, director of the Cultural Bureau, the director of the city library attended, the keen Confucius Tian still I heard clearly the little point that the curator mentioned after talking about her daughter's many advantages: If colleagues can respect each other, I believe Xiao Kong will have better popularity.What does this mean?The curator said it tactfully, but the listeners should not be confused. Isn't this implying that the daughter usually doesn't know how to respect people?If you don't respect your leaders and colleagues, how can you get praise from others, and how can you build a harmonious working relationship?My daughter is going to be 25 soon, she should gradually mature, she should know the rules that must be followed in society, and she should slowly break out of her own world by herself.Being able to get along with others in an easy-going way like my wife, everyone will like her and respect her.However, it is difficult for an upright official to decide on housework. How to have in-depth communication with her daughter so that she can truly understand that only by respecting Fangyuan can she win Fangyuan's respect and have a happier marriage; only by respecting social rules and people around can she win Respect for people——Confucius Tian felt disturbed, but he never came up with a particularly good solution.While eating, Kong Zitian saw that Kong Shuanghua peeled an egg for himself and Fangyuan respectively. Presumably his wife also guided him secretly. He originally had objections to his wife's spoiling and protecting Kong Shuanghua, but now he also felt that it seemed that his wife was also guiding him. Kong Shuanghua gradually learns to respect Fangyuan, and Kong Zitian is also confused.

Now, talking with his son-in-law about going around before the Spring Festival, and seeing his son-in-law listening attentively, Confucius is deeply moved: the child in front of him is excellent and has great potential, which is why he likes this child, and he is willing to marry his daughter Give him reasons.But if a daughter does not know how to cherish, in today's society, there are many opportunities to choose from.Beautiful women love heroes, and which young girl doesn't love a man with a successful career or potential, even if he is married or middle-aged, she is willing to be a mistress or lover and wait for the opportunity to become a regular.For an outstanding and talented young man like his son-in-law, I am afraid that many female teachers have a soft spot for him.Thinking of his smooth career, the happiness and tranquility of his family, and finding a more satisfactory son-in-law, Confucius felt a sense of accomplishment from the bottom of his heart; thinking of his daughter, who is now a physical adult, but psychologically, There is still a long distance between entering the world and becoming an adult, so Confucius feels anxious.Although the emperor's daughter is not worried about marrying, it may not be easy to find a talented young man who is as tolerant as Fang Yuan.Alas, daughter, daughter, do you know that you are not doing things well, and Dad is cleaning your ass!

Confucius Tian said: "Xiao Fang, I can fully understand the matter of your drunkenness. People are in the rivers and lakes and cannot help themselves. Sometimes, on certain occasions, it is inevitable that you will get drunk." Fang Yuan said: "Thank you Father’s understanding. It would be great if Xiaohua could understand me like this!” Kong Zitian said: “Yes, Xiaohua will definitely become a good wife and mother like her mother in the future. I saw Xiaohua Hua is peeling eggs for you, and you can feel it. In fact, she feels uncomfortable in her heart. She also realizes that she has not done well and wants to make up for it. I think you can feel it, Xiaofang. Between husband and wife, always There must be a running-in period. After all, two people come together from two completely different environments. There is a process of adaptation and tolerance in many aspects such as living habits and ideas. My Xiaohua is kind in nature, but after all, I am The only daughter with your mother, your mother and I have strict requirements on her in terms of study, but in terms of life, we still dote on her. She has a bad temper, which is actually how she got used to it, Xiaofang, you You need to understand more." Fang Yuan said: "I understand too. Dad, you can say that, and I am very touched by my son-in-law. I also have some things that I didn't do well. From now on, I will try not to get drunk and spend as much time as possible with my husband and wife. Hua." Confucius Tian said: "About Shuanghua, your mother and I will also guide her slowly. I believe that our daughter will follow her mother, and our Shuanghua will love her husband, children, and children like her mother in the future. I love my family, and I will become an excellent university professor one day in the future."

Fangyuan gained confidence after being told by Kong Zitian, thinking that Mother Kong was really a good wife and a loving mother. Since her daughter follows her mother, Kong Shuanghua also has the ability to grow into a good wife and mother like her mother.Fangyuan said: "Dad, I also believe that Shuanghua has such potential, and I will definitely live a good life with Shuanghua. Now that Shuanghua is pregnant with our child, I should treat Shuanghua better. What did I have before?" Where I did not do well, please forgive my father and mother."

Confucius Tian smiled and said: "I am very satisfied with your son-in-law. Today, I will share with you, when participating in some social entertainment, when can you get drunk, when must be drunk, and when must not drink Drunk, when there is no need to get drunk. This is just my experience. It may not be right when I say it, but it is also for your reference. After all, I eat more salt than you, and I have traveled farther than you Fang Yuan said gratefully: "Dad, I really need guidance in this area. I don't want to come back drunk every time I go out to drink, and I want to stop it, but recently, I can't control the situation. Drink too much." Confucius Tian said: "Everyone has been young, and everyone has a growth process, I understand."