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Seeing his daughter's excited and proud appearance with cosmetics, Kong Zitian's hidden worries increased a lot. 【】Confucius Tian looked at his daughter and son-in-law, and said: "You two, sit on the sofa in the living room first, and I will talk to your mother." Then he said to Kong's mother: "We two, come to my Study room."

When I came to the study, I didn't sit down.Kong Zitian said: "My wife, our precious daughter's signs are not very good! This is really not like you." Kong's mother said: "Yes! But recently, there has also been significant progress in dealing with the relationship between husband and wife with Fangyuan. Ah!" Kong Zitian said: "I'm not at home every day, so I didn't see it." Kong's mother said: "I didn't see it, it doesn't mean there is no. The young couple doesn't quarrel, and they are very harmonious together. Do you feel that?" Confucius Tian said: "Fangyuan has always been quite calm. I am not so worried about Fangyuan now, but my daughter!" Kong's mother said: "I agree with this. Our daughter now thinks that it is a good thing to accept other people's things. It’s a very face-saving thing, I’m afraid if this goes on for a long time, it will not only hurt Fangyuan, but also our grandson!” Confucius said, “That’s why you called me and I was in a hurry to go home. My wife , I hope you don’t protect Xiaohua on this point. I love Xiaohua as much as you do, and I hope Xiaohua has a happy future. But I think you spoil her a little too much. Last time I said that she was two In other words, you clearly knew that Xiaohua was wrong, but you stood on Xiaohua's side and spoke for the wrong side. Do you know that I really couldn't step down at that time. Wife, you have always been a reasonable person. I can’t imagine that this is what you said.” Kong’s mother said: “Old Kong, it’s not that I don’t know that Xiaohua is wrong, but she is pregnant, and the pregnant woman is angry, and will directly bring hormones to the fetus. You want your grandson to be born Is it a defective child? If I no longer stand in her position and let her ease her emotions, our daughter has such a strong personality. If the child is aborted or has unpredictable consequences, you, me, Fangyuan, who Would you like to see such a result? During the meal, she peeled eggs, served you rice porridge, and she took the initiative to clean up the tables and chairs after the meal. Wasn't it my guidance? You don't know my daughter as well as I do, you The more intense the method, the more rebellious she will be; the more gentle you are, the easier it will be for her to accept. Old Kong, do you understand what I mean?"

I see!Kong Zitian looked at Mama Kong and felt that he really misunderstood his wife last time.Confucius Tian smiled and said: "I can't see that my wife is so far-sighted, and she is about to catch up with me, a professor of management." Kong's mother said: "I don't have such a far-sighted vision. I just hope that our family will Including you and me, including daughter and son-in-law, and grandchildren in the future, can live happily. I know my daughter too well, so I know how to educate her and guide her so that she can become a qualified wife and mother. Confucius Tian said: "Then you support me to criticize my daughter today?" Kong's mother said: "You use gentle methods to educate and guide your daughter, and I will definitely support you; if you scold her, I will still stand by her." .” Confucius Tian said: “Okay, I promise you.”

Coming out of the study, Confucius Tian and Kong's mother also came to the sofa and sat down.Confucius Tian said: "Since I became the deputy director of the National People's Congress, my work has been much busier than before. I have less time to eat at home and less time to communicate with the two of you. I am not very competent as a father. Ah!" Kong Shuanghua said: "Dad, you just know? You are the most official in the family, and we don't dare to speak of you. You just admit it yourself, and you have to correct it in the future!"

Confucius Tian is so angry!Is this the daughter taught by Mother Kong?So big or small!Originally, I wanted to be polite and soften my figure, but I didn't expect my daughter to climb up when she saw the pole, directly pushing her out of breath.Confucius Tian looked at Mother Kong with his eyes.Although Mother Kong felt the same way as her daughter, she still gave Confucius face: "Xiaohua, what are you talking about? Dad is busy because of our city and his career. Without Dad's career, we can live With such a big house, you can easily transfer your job from school to the Cultural Bureau, and you can easily rest at home and not go to work, and still get paid as usual?" Kong Shuanghua said: "Mom, I never denied that Dad The importance of family. Because Dad is the principal and director of the National People’s Congress, we have this happy and comfortable life. I understand this. So, Fang Yuan, you must learn from Dad, and strive to be bigger than Dad in the future Officer, at that time, Xiaobao and I will be able to enjoy the blessings." Kong Shuanghua looked at Fangyuan with his eyes, and caressed his slightly bulging belly contentedly.

If it wasn't for his promise to his wife just now not to lose his temper with his daughter, Kong Zitian really couldn't suppress his anger.The two old people spoke very well, but in the end, Kong Shuanghua came to understand another angle, and he was justified.Originally, he wanted to calmly discuss the issue of receiving gifts with his daughter and son-in-law, but now Kong Shuanghua suddenly made him lose his emotions.

Fang Yuan said: "Dad, Mom, I understand what Shuanghua means. What she said is that the men in the family should work hard, strive hard, and strive for a better career foundation, so as to make the family happier. As my husband and Father, you should also work hard, strive for progress, and let their mother and son live a good life." Kong Shuanghua said: "Mine is what Fang Yuan said."

The meaning is really the same, but why does it feel so different when you say it?Why did Fang Yuan's words sound so sharp?Why do my daughter's words sound so awkward?Confucius Tian was really disappointed with his daughter.It's really not like my Confucius field!I, Confucius Tian, ​​am scheming and calculating. I seldom slip of the tongue, seldom lose my temper, and seldom make mistakes. That's why I have today's achievements.Look at your daughter, who speaks rashly and recklessly, how can she not offend others like this?During the last meal, the director of the library didn't talk too much in front of the director of the Cultural Affairs Bureau. He just said that his daughter has a strong personality, and everything else is fine.What does it mean?Doesn't a strong personality mean disobedience to management, aggressiveness, and lack of harmony with colleagues?As it is now, how can they be harmonious?

Confucius Tian decided that no matter what Kong Shuanghua said or what he thought, he still had to talk to the two children according to his established thinking.Confucius Tian said: "In the past few days, I have been accompanying the relevant leaders of the city, going deep into the grassroots, the front line, and visiting families in need. I have felt a lot in the past few days. Today I want to take this opportunity where the whole family is present. , to communicate with you.” Fang Yuan made a gesture of listening carefully, but in fact Fang Yuan really wanted to listen.Every time Confucius taught him Fangyuan, Fangyuan benefited a lot.

Confucius Tian said: "Our city, in the entire province Z, is probably an upper-middle city. It is not as good as the big cities such as Hangjiang and Ninghai, but it is also much better than those inland cities, but our city is still There are many people whose family life is particularly difficult. When I represented the Municipal Party Committee, the Municipal People’s Congress, and the Municipal Government, I handed over 200 yuan worth of peanut oil, rice and flour to these people from difficult families, and gave them 300 yuan for the New Year’s Eve. Thank you so much! Look at where they live, think about where we live; see how they treat peanut oil, rice, and flour as treasures, and think about what we don’t want to eat, and what we don’t want to eat; look at them going out for a walk Or ride a bicycle, we take a car when we go out, I am really moved."

Kong Shuanghua said: "That's because their fate is bad. If their fate is good, they will live a good life like me."

Confucius Tian said: "I don't think this is a matter of fate. What is fate? Fate is ten years in the east of the river and ten years in the west of the river. As long as people struggle, they can change their destiny. I don't think about these things. Xiaohua, Fangyuan, I ask You have to answer a few questions truthfully." Fang Yuan said, "Okay." Kong Shuanghua said, "Dad, what are you doing? So serious, so serious?"

Confucius Tian said: "The first question, do you want to continue to have the current happy life, or do you want to live like those laid-off workers and wait for the city leaders to send some warmth at the end of the year?"

Kong Shuanghua said: "Of course it's my life now! I don't want to live in poverty. I was so scared to death that I didn't even dare to think about it. When I was in college, I once went to a classmate's house. The toilets are all public. The one at the top of the house is dark, so you can’t see anything. There are two rooms inside and outside, and she lives in the outside room. It’s just a bed with a curtain. It’s still a bed, full of things .Gosh, if I live a day in those conditions, I can't stand it."

This is the answer I want.Confucius Tian thought: I'm not afraid that you know deeply, but I'm afraid you don't know well.Confucius Tian said: "Xiaohua is well said! The understanding is also very deep! Now close your eyes and imagine, if you live in such a house every day, including living and eating, what will happen?" Kong Shuanghua said: " I don’t want to live even a day! I have to take a bath without a bath, I have to hang my clothes without a place to hang them, I even have to use a public faucet to wash my face and brush my teeth. In winter, people will freeze to death. I don’t go for a day!”

"Well said!" Kong Zitian smiled slightly: "Now, I ask the second question. If I was sentenced to shuanggui by the Commission for Discipline Inspection because of a mistake, and then I was sent to prison for 10 years, I would have no job. No more, no more power, will your current happy life continue?"

Kong Shuanghua suddenly felt a little nervous. This question was something she had never considered before!She said: "I can still rely on Fang Yuan, he will definitely be able to do it in the future." Fang Yuan had a wry smile on his face. Now, he understood that his father-in-law was using a tactful way to guide his wife.Since you are not the protagonist, then be a good supporting role.However, the words of my father-in-law are indeed very profound and shocking!

Confucius Tian said: "If Fangyuan also made a mistake, was slapped with shuanggui by the Disciplinary Committee, dismissed by the Education Bureau, and then lost everything, will your current happy life continue?"

Kong Shuanghua suddenly felt inexplicable fear and fear, she yelled: "Dad, what are you talking about? You scared me to death. If something happens to you and Fangyuan, our family will collapse! My mother, I and I My baby has nothing left. Dad, what are you doing after Chinese New Year? It’s scary, it’s scary.” Kong Shuanghua said, holding Fangyuan’s arm tightly: “Husband, you and Dad are both Nothing will happen, will it? Don't scare me, okay?"

Fang Yuan patted Kong Shuanghua's hand lightly, and comforted: "This is what Dad assumed. Listen carefully to what Dad said. Dad is teaching us to cherish the happy life now!"

Kong Zitian nodded in satisfaction, and turned his face to Kong Shuanghua: "The fourth question, if I am not the vice president of the university, but a criminal in prison; Fangyuan has been dismissed, and I have nothing left, Xiaohua, tell Dad, if this happens In the current situation, will you graduate with a master’s degree in the future and be able to teach in a university?”

Kong Shuanghua's tears flowed down and she shook her head.

Confucius asked: "Can you still be transferred to any unit you want like now?"

Kong Shuanghua burst into tears and shook his head vigorously.

Confucius Tian asked: "Can you still be like this, because you are pregnant, you can go to work if you want to go to work, and you don't go to work if you don't want to work, and you still get your salary at home?"

Kong Shuanghua burst into tears: "Dad, don't say it anymore, I'm scared by you. Dad, don't say it anymore, don't say it anymore."

Kong's mother moved her body, sat beside her daughter, held her in her arms, and said softly: "Xiaohua, don't cry, this is what Dad assumed." Kong Shuanghua said: "Mom, neither Dad nor Fangyuan want to cry." Nothing will happen to Dad and Fangyuan." Kong Mama's voice was more gentle: "Both Dad and Fangyuan will be safe, Dad and Fangyuan will be safe." Kong Shuanghua burst into tears in Kong Mama's arms.

Confucius Tian said: "Xiaohua, Fangyuan, if you want to have the present happy life for a long time, you must know how to cherish it, maintain it, and use your own efforts to strive for a happier life in the future. Xiaohua, Fangyuan, what have you considered? Can we better maintain this happy life?” Kong Shuanghua raised his head, choked with sobs and said, “Don’t let anything happen to Dad, don’t let anything happen to Fangyuan.” Kong Zitian said: “Then how can we keep Fangyuan and me from having an accident?” Kong Shuanghua said: “Dad Don’t make mistakes, Fangyuan, don’t make mistakes. If you don’t make mistakes, nothing will happen.” Confucius said, “Xiaohua is right! If Fangyuan and I don’t make mistakes, then nothing will happen; The family creates a happy life. Xiaohua, have you thought about it? As a wife and a daughter, what can I do to prevent my husband and father from making mistakes?"