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Mama Kong, Fangyuan, and Kong Shuanghua looked at each other, really not knowing what to say. 【-】Kong Zitian said: "Okay, I have something urgent and I have to leave. At 6 o'clock in the evening, Mayor Song wants to talk to me about important things. What do you think? Let's talk about it when I come back at night, or tomorrow or the day after tomorrow Bar."

Kong’s mother said, “You still have something to do tonight?” Kong Zitian said, “Didn’t I tell you just now? There’s something else, a big one, and it’s Mayor Song who wants to tell me something.” Kong’s mother said: "You seem to have talked about half of the child's matter. What about the second half?" Confucius said, "It's a little too late. Well, let me ask you another question. Fangyuan and Xiaohua, you can answer it. Looking at the things Fang Yuan brought back now, do you still think these are good things?"

Kong Shuanghua said: "No, it's not a good thing, it's a bad thing." Confucius asked: "Xiao Fang, what do you think?" Sweet potato." Confucius said, "I'm glad you can think that way. Gifts are not so easy to receive. People who give gifts will only give you gifts because they are eager for multiple returns. If someone gives you one, you see It's very important, people want to get back five, seven, ten or even more from you. No one is a fool, and no businessman is willing to make a loss-making business." Fang Yuan said: "Father, you are so right. "

Kong Shuanghua suddenly picked up the cosmetics bag and threw it far away on the ground: "So this woman is trying to use cosmetics to harm my husband. I hate her to death."

Confucius Tian said: "Since the things are collected, you throw them away, what a pity!" Kong Shuanghua said: "Father, I am very enlightened today. I can't be Li Jiating's son, nor can I be a wife like Wang Zhaoyao. I I want to live happily for the rest of my life, I don’t want to live happily for a while and suffer for the rest of my life.” As he spoke, tears came down again.

Confucius Tian said: "Xiaohua, if you think this way, Dad is really happy for you and believes that you can handle these things well in the future. The so-called gains must be lost, and losses must be gained. Gains and losses in life will always be mixed. It often affects our thinking and judgment. What I want to say is that gain is not necessarily good; loss is not necessarily bad. In fact, receiving gifts as an official is indeed a science, and it is related to development and success. University question. Today, because of time constraints, I don’t have time to talk to you in detail. When I have time in a few days, I want to have a good chat with you three, and share some of my experience and specific practices. Communicate with you." Fang Yuan said: "Dad, thank you very much. I look forward to listening to your teachings as soon as possible." Confucius Tian said: "My family, I hope my family is well. Xiao Fang, Dad hopes that you can leave in the future. If you want to go further, you need to learn to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages in dealing with others, and protect yourself; my wife and Xiaohua, if you want to enjoy a happy life in this life, you need to be a good wife and helper to your husband, not to harm the spirit. For many years, your mother has done a good job, Xiaohua, you should study hard with your mother, exchange ideas and opinions more, so as to make fewer mistakes. Don’t be greedy for petty gains and suffer big losses!" Kong Shuanghua said: "I remember, Dad."

Confucius Tian said: "Then I'm leaving. It's really too late." Then he stood up and walked towards the door.He changed his slippers into leather shoes and looked at the instrument in the mirror.Fangyuan has already handed over the windbreaker, put it on for Kong Zitian, and then carefully buttoned it.Confucius Tian said: "Okay, Xiao Fang." Fang Yuan asked: "Dad, what should I do with the things I collected these two days?" It is still not acceptable. These things are basically normal human relations, so you don’t have to pay too much attention to them, just accept them. You should also move around these days. The leaders and friends who helped you before are now taking special care of them. Your leader, you should also go and see them. I think these things are quite high-grade, you can pick some and use them first. If not enough, call my driver Xiao Zhou and ask him to pick them up from the school's cold storage Here, pick and choose some of the new year’s goods I collected.” Fang Yuan said, “Thank you, Dad.” Kong Zitian patted Fang Yuan’s shoulder and said, “Okay, I’m leaving. The car is waiting below, you can go back .”

Fangyuan looked at his watch, oh my god, it's already 17:47.I have agreed with my classmates that we will have a party at the Jingu Hotel at 6:13 pm, and it is still [-] minutes away.Fang Yuan said: "Honey, pack up quickly, we are going to attend the class reunion." Kong Shuanghua said: "I don't want to go today. I was told by my father that I couldn't calm down. You and your classmates Go and play." Fang Yuan said: "If you don't go, who will drive? Also, I don't want to get too close to them, and I don't want to drink too much wine with them. If you don't go, they will definitely drink me. What should I do?" Kong Shuanghua said: "Just get drunk once, I don't blame you. Besides, it's your brother Miao's land card. At worst, you can sleep with your brother Miao. Tonight, I want to accompany my mother. I want to talk to my mother more, I want to be a good daughter, I want to be a good wife, I don't want to lose my happy life."

It seems that Kong Shuanghua was really scared today.Fangyuan walked over, gently stroked Kong Shuanghua's head, and asked with concern: "Shuanghua, are you okay?" Kong's mother said, "Xiao Fang, you can go. Xiaohua has me. She is fine, she has always been So pure and kind, I didn’t think too much about things, your father said so cruelly today, it scared her. I will talk to Xiaohua at night, it’s okay.” Fang Yuan said: “Mom, Xiaohua, then I I'm going. I won't drive anymore, I'll take a taxi." Kong Shuanghua said: "Okay. I'll wait for you to come back. I need to pick you up. Give me a call." Fang Yuan said: "Okay."

Sitting in a taxi, it was almost 6 o'clock.During this time period, it is really difficult to take a taxi. Every taxi is full, and few of them have a small red light on.Fang Yuan was very anxious, but when he got in the car, he couldn't help himself.Thinking about what my father-in-law said today, I was really touched!Giving gifts is a science, and receiving gifts is also a science!If you don’t give a gift well, you’ll get a bad nose; if you don’t receive a gift well, you’ll ruin your future and even spend the rest of your life in prison, leaving you with nothing.Today, my wife should be said to have been the most shocked, and she was so scared that she cried.Yes, although Shuanghua has a bit of a temper, she is really kind and simple in heart. She is happy when she gains, sad when she loses, laughs when she is happy, and cries when she is sad.Today's father-in-law's words made Shuanghua walk for several years!It is normal to be unable to accept it for a while. I believe that the mother-in-law will be able to enlighten her well at night, so that her understanding of society, family, and happiness will rise to a new height.This is a good thing!A woman who won't mess up her career development is the backyard she needs most.If today's father-in-law's teachings really have such an effect, it would be really good.

Fangyuan's cell phone rang, and it was Jiang Shengyu calling.The voice on the phone was urgent: "Fang Yuan, why haven't you and sister-in-law arrived yet? Everyone is here, waiting for you and sister-in-law!" Fang Yuan said, "My wife won't come tonight, I'm alone Go." Jiang Shengyu said: "Really? That's great! Originally, the classmate association, not the classmate's family association! I'll tell the classmates right away. Where are you now?" Fang Yuan said: "I'm in a taxi, about It will be there in about 15 minutes." Jiang Shengyu said: "Okay, hurry up. Let's order the food first and wait for you!" Fang Yuan said: "You can go ahead, don't wait for me. Don't make everyone hungry Stomach." Jiang Shengyu said: "How can this work? You are the biggest official among our classmates, and even Pu Yongjun is no more than a member of the Propaganda Department of the Municipal Party Committee. Everyone is waiting for you!"

Fang Yuan felt a little comfortable in his heart, and said lightly: "Okay, I'll let the driver instinctively drive faster. Which room is it in?" Jiang Shengyu said: "It's on the third floor, Violet Hall." Fang Yuan said: "Got it. I am very familiar with Jingu Hotel."

After hanging up the phone, Fang Yuan's thoughts involuntarily turned to Jingu Hotel and Miao Dongshun.Why does Miao Dongshun pay so much attention to me, the vice principal of a small middle school?Now, he invites me to dinner, let me taste 3 yuan a bottle of Remy Martin in the golden age, accompany me to drink two boxes of Erdinger, give me another box, and two New Year's goods.This time alone, Miao Dongshun made a lot of capital, right?But I, Fangyuan, can't help him with anything!Let me get a tutor?Let me help him transfer a student?These things are too small, and it is not worth paying such a big capital and investing such a large investment!According to his father-in-law, if Miao Dongshun wants to invest tens of thousands, he must be eager to get hundreds of thousands or even millions in return, but what return can I, Fangyuan, give him?Fang Yuan really couldn't figure it out!But seeing Miao Dongshun being so sincere to him, without any adulterated eyes, Fang Yuan was really confused: what exactly is he planning for himself?Is it really a long-term investment in yourself?

still have a question.Miao Dongshun said that whenever I go to Jingu in the future, I must tell him; in the future, if I need to coordinate a relationship or do something, as long as I invite you to dinner, he will arrange it.Tonight, my class reunion will be in Jingu, do you want to say hello to Miao Dongshun?Fang Yuan had a feeling that if he had called Miao Dongshun, Miao Dongshun would definitely not have accepted the money tonight.Of course, I have gained face in front of my classmates and made them feel that I am quite capable, but my reputation will also spread.Besides, the father-in-law said that the businessman has no business that is willing to help lose money. If he has an investment, he must have a plan.Forget it, this call is still not going to be made.