Director's growth history

According to the customs of the rural people, people are all over the old age, that is, they are one year old when they are born. [ ] This is one year longer than calculated by the Gregorian calendar, and the false year is said to be one year older after the Spring Festival. Fang Shujuan, who is 25 years old, should be 26 years old in the eyes of the old family, and in a few days, she will be 27 years old.

In rural areas, there are quite a few 20-year-old girls who become mothers, and those who have not married after 23 or 4 years old are definitely considered old girls in the village.When Fang Shujuan, a 27-year-old girl, came home, her parents were most concerned about her marriage.On the night of returning home, the whole family sat around the kang, and they didn't care about anything except the nephew, who only cared about what gift his aunt gave him. The rest of the people were all worried about Fang Shujuan's affairs.

Dad said: "Nizi, have you found someone in Dongzhou?" Fang Shujuan said: "Not yet." Dad said: "Why haven't you looked for it yet! You will be 27 years old after the New Year, and you have become an old lady. Don’t worry, parents are in a hurry. Look at our village. At your age, the children have gone to school, and you are not married yet. Why don’t you look for it?” Fang Shujuan said, “I’m too busy with work and don’t have time.” My mother said: "No matter how busy you are, you can't delay your lifelong event! Nier, you are almost 30, and the more you look for it, the worse it will be. Hurry up and find one, bring it back and show it to Mom. Don't be too picky, our family also You are not such a beautiful Nier, and you can't have too high eye sockets!" My brother said: "Shujuan, my parents are right, look at me, I am only two years older than you, and the children are 5 years old. When you are not at home, your parents are concerned about your lifelong affairs!"

Fang Shujuan was suffering beyond words.It's really hard to love someone, it's even harder to not love him after falling in love with him!Fangyuan, if you marry me, I am willing to share weal and woe with you, and I am willing to work hard for you. I am not afraid of not having a house or money. I believe that as long as we are united, we will have bread and a house.But why don't you marry me?What's so good about Kong Shuanghua?Is it because his father is the vice president of the university?Now, when my whole heart is filled with you, how can I accommodate other people?But how do you explain this to your parents and brother-in-law?

Fang Shujuan said: "Dad, mother, brother, sister-in-law, I have made a lot of progress in my work this year. From an ordinary Chinese teacher, I became the deputy director of the teaching department, and now I am in charge of the work of the teaching department. I just became the director. I don’t have a lot of experience. In addition, I still teach two Chinese classes in the first class of junior high school, so the work is very busy and tiring. In fact, I really didn’t choose a boyfriend. I know that I am not beautiful, so it is very interesting Self-knowledge. But I have to find someone who is a little self-motivated. As for whether he is handsome or tall, I don’t think it matters. If a man doesn’t even have self-motivation, even if he is handsome and tall What's the use of being tall? But, if someone is self-motivated, they will definitely fall in love with me! Now I want to have a face without a face, and a figure without a figure. So, I have to touch, and when I meet the right one, I will I'll bring him back; I can't meet him, and I can't make it, right? Finding a husband is a major event related to your life's happiness, and you can't just find a man and marry him."

Mom said: "What kind of man is not married? When I married your father, I met three times in total. The first time was with a matchmaker, the second time was engagement, and the third time I discussed marriage. No, it's also It’s been 30 years. Nier, I see you, you are still picking! Yes, you are not beautiful, but you have graduated from college and have a decent job. How many people want to find a female teacher as a wife? As long as you don’t choose, I believe you are already married now.” Fang Shujuan really didn’t want her mother to use her parents’ marriage experience to give ideological education lessons every time she went home, so she said patiently: “Okay, I know .Dad, Mom, I haven't been back for half a year, I miss you, brother-in-law and nephew, let's talk about something else, okay?"

The parents agreed, but after a few sentences, Fang Shujuan's love and marriage problems were unconsciously involved.Fang Shujuan couldn't bear it anymore, and said: "Mom, I took the train for a day and a night. I'm tired and I want to rest." There is nothing else in the countryside, except that the house is spacious, with five main rooms, and the middle one for parents. On the west side, the brother-in-law and nephew lived in the room, and in the east-most room, Fang Shujuan lived.

Back in her room, Fang Shujuan took off her clothes and got on the kang.The kang is warm. It seems that my father has burned straw for the kang, which has heated up the kang.From the bed to the Kang, Fang Shujuan felt a little uncomfortable.The bed is soft, but the kang is hard. After reclining for a while, my back hurts from sitting. Just lie down, and my lumbar spine hurts.Fang Shujuan sighed, the strong desire to go home on the train was now more disappointed.How much I wanted to go home before!Now, every time I go home, it's like a trial meeting. On the first day, my parents, brother and sister-in-law come to interrogate, and after that, my relatives come to interrogate me every day. When will I bring a son-in-law back?It's really strange, almost everyone's topic is exactly the same: when to get married?

Depressed, extremely depressed.Fang Shujuan lay on the kang panting heavily.I thought that this time I was able to go home smoothly, thanks to Fang Yuan.Without Fangyuan, how could I get on the train smoothly?Before the Spring Festival, train tickets could not be bought at all, and platform tickets were not allowed to board the train at all. Fang Shujuan really planned to buy tickets five days later, and planned to queue up early every morning to see if she could buy them. A ticket home.

When I didn't go home, I wanted to go home; when I got home, I wanted to go back early, and I didn't want to stay at home for a long time.This man, it is really difficult to live a perfect life.Fang Shujuan felt that she should thank Fangyuan no matter what.Is it a phone call?No, it's too expensive.Send me a text message.What should I write in the text message?Don't make Fang Yuan too difficult!With such sense and gratitude, Fang Shujuan wrote Fang Yuan a text message with title and title, and a moderate tone, which was the one that Kong Shuanghua saw earlier and handed to Fang Yuan.

More than ten days passed in a blink of an eye, and the more Fang Shujuan stayed at home, the more boring she became, and the more she stayed, the more she wanted to go back to Dongzhou.In Fang Shujuan's heart, she felt that she had become an alternative to the whole family.The whole family is concerned about her marriage, and apart from that, very few people ask about her work.Every day, she replied in the same way that she hadn't found a boyfriend yet, and even Fang Shujuan herself said it was annoying.Later, Fang Shujuan didn't go out at all, and hid at home, or followed her mother and sister-in-law to clean up the house, or the cat stayed in her room, reading and charging.Fang Shujuan likes Wei Shusheng's works. His works are plain and plain. During a period of experience, Fang Shujuan saw the growth process of an ordinary junior high school Chinese teacher step by step into a national teaching expert, which inspired Fang Shujuan.In particular, Wei Shusheng did have a lot of uniqueness in cultivating students' self-study and self-management. Even in his first year as the director of the education bureau, he still insisted on teaching a third class of Chinese, and the class's Chinese performance was still very good.This made Fang Shujuan draw a gradually clear line for her own development in her heart.Fang Shujuan also likes the works of Professor Xiao Chuan of Beijing Normal University.Professor Xiao Chuan likes to use the form of essays, through one short story after another, or easy-to-understand articles like prose, to expound the perception of education and teaching reform in a simple way.This is completely different from the long speeches that many educators like, and almost no one likes to read boring purely theoretical articles.Xiao Chuan's works are unique, especially close to the psychological needs and desires of the front-line teachers, which naturally made Fang Shujuan feel that she really should read all the books written by Xiao Chuan.

In a blink of an eye, it will be February 2th.There are 14 more days to the Spring Festival.Perhaps no one in the family knew that this day was Valentine's Day, but Fang Shujuan had been living in an eastern coastal city like Dongzhou since she was admitted to university, so she naturally had a deep memory of this festival.Because in college, some students who talked about love already paid attention to Valentine's Day, but unfortunately, in college, none of the students could see Fang Shujuan, because Fang Shujuan was not popular among female classmates, and she had no money. , and usually seem stingy, rarely invite everyone to eat ice cream, let alone treat everyone to dinner.Among the male students, although Fang Shujuan's academic performance has always been good, but the male students pay more attention to whether the female students are beautiful, slim, cute or not. Naturally, Fang Shujuan has no chance, and no male student has ever given it to her. She passed a note or invited a meal.This is probably why Fang Shujuan was able to maintain her virginity until now.

In previous Valentine's Days, Fang Shujuan had no sweetheart.It's different now, Fang Shujuan has a sweetheart, and it's the kind of person who will never forget her.Although Fang Yuan is married, Fang Shujuan feels that her love for Fang Yuan has not changed, let alone empathy.No male teacher she knew had the magic power of Fang Yuan. Although Fang Yuan still belonged to Kong Shuanghua, Fang Shujuan was confident that one day in the future, she would divorce Fang Yuan and Kong Shuanghua and make Fang Yuan her own man.The plan has been drawn up long ago, that is, that Saturday when Fangyuan and Dong Mei suddenly walked into the teaching office, and Fang Shujuan was in a hurry.After that fright, Fang Shujuan completely deleted this ulterior plan from the computer.In the next five years, Fang Shujuan decided to implement this well-intentioned plan.Of course, this plan is quite feasible, and its main features are as follows: [-]. Every time Fang Yuan can feel the gentleness, virtuousness and intelligence of her Fang Shujuan; [-]. Fang Yuan will never resent or even hate her Fang Shujuan; , so that Kong Shuanghua and Fangyuan have a bad relationship and often quarrel; fourth, find a suitable opportunity, so that Kong Shuanghua and Fangyuan have to divorce.Of course, Fangyuan's reputation cannot be damaged, and Fangyuan's future cannot be affected.We must try our best to put all the responsibility on Kong Shuanghua.At that time, Kong Shuanghua and Fang Yuan divorced, and Kong Shuanghua's successor must be herself, not any other woman.

Today is Valentine's Day, how about a little friction between Fang Yuan and Kong Shuanghua?Fang Shujuan lay on the kang and thought about it, hesitated.This matter is really difficult!