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The New Year is getting closer and closer. 【*】The successful planning of Valentine's Day allowed Fangyuan to further integrate with Kong Zitian's family, and further deepened the mother-child relationship with Kong's mother.And Kong Shuanghua, after Kong Zitian's unforgettable education about the children and wives of two provincial cadres who lost their futures, has also made very significant progress, especially in terms of ideology, which has changed a lot.Through Valentine's Day, the entire Confucius family presents a good atmosphere of harmony and harmony.This is what Mama Kong wants most, and it is actually what Fang Yuan wants most.

Confucius Tian is best for a few days, and he does not go to work at the National People's Congress during the day, nor does he go to Dongzhou University, and stays at home every day.This actually made Mama Kong a little unaccustomed, and suddenly found that the two of them had nothing to say because they hadn't communicated for a long time, except for a few greetings such as "We've had dinner", "The meal was well done", "My wife, you've worked hard", etc. They couldn't communicate with each other as smoothly as before.

On the contrary, between Confucius Tian and Fangyuan, there are many common topics of communication.For several hours every day, Kong Zitian and Fangyuan Mao were in the study, and what the two of them were discussing, Kong's mother and Kong Shuanghua didn't know, and didn't want to know.In the past few days, Kong Shuanghua may have been influenced by Fangyuan's cooking, so he should also actively behave.Although Mama Kong didn't want her to fume so as not to affect the growth of the fetus, Kong Shuanghua followed up in the kitchen and learned how to pick, wash, stir-fry and cook vegetables with Mama Kong, showing the good potential of a good wife and mother .

On the 29th of the new year, Fangyuan received a call from Fang Ping, the second sister of her hometown in Tonghua, Jilin.Fang Ping said: "Brother, my parents have received all the money you sent to them. However, after I went back recently, I saw that my parents were much older than before. Mom told me, in fact, do you send money or not?" Yes, it’s not important. What’s important is that the house is deserted and not popular during Chinese New Year this year. Dad said, how many years have you spent Chinese New Year at home? If you stay in Dongzhou this year, will you spend Chinese New Year in Dongzhou every year in the future? Huh? Chinese people have a tradition that Chinese New Year is celebrated at a man’s house, but you are celebrating Chinese New Year at your husband’s house, what’s the rule?”

Hearing what the second sister said, Fang Yuan felt a little sour in her heart.Fang Yuan said: "Actually, I also want to go back! It's been 26 years, and I have been celebrating the New Year with my parents. But this year's situation is special. Your brother and daughter-in-law are pregnant. She is a southerner, and she can't stand the cold in the Northeast; besides, in case One, she caught a cold, which affected the baby in her stomach. What do you think should I do? I read some books on pregnancy. After pregnancy, you should not get sick or take medicine indiscriminately, otherwise it will lead to fetal malformation or death. Sister, I I think parents are also very concerned about their grandson, and hope that their grandson will be born in good health." Fang Ping said: "Yes, now in the city there is only one child, and it is necessary to have a better one. But now, my mother misses you so much, she often sheds tears, and you don’t often call your parents. I’m worried that your parents will be deserted and lonely on New Year’s Eve. Brother, what do you think? ?”

what can I do?It is obviously impossible to return to Tonghua for the New Year.Thinking of that loving mother who often shed tears, Fang Yuan really felt heartbroken.From childhood to adulthood, Fangyuan and her mother have always had a deep relationship.Although there have been some quarrels due to differences in understanding and views with my father in some aspects, my father is getting older and needs the care and care of his son.In this regard, what I have done is indeed not enough.Thinking of the fact that she is living under someone else's roof now, and it really doesn't matter what she says, Fang Yuan feels a sense of sadness in her heart.We must work hard and strive for complete independence as soon as possible. At that time, we must take our parents over and let them enjoy their old age in Dongzhou.Take it now, it's totally impossible, where do you live?Do you live in Kong's house?Three bedrooms and one living room, there is no extra room at all.My father-in-law allocated four sets of the university president's building, but he has no intention of moving there yet. I'm afraid he will move there in the future, and the extra room will be for his grandson.What's more, although the current Kong Shuanghua has changed a bit compared to the previous days, I am afraid that he lives with his parents-in-law. This is due to the contradictions in living habits and other aspects, which will not be reconciled. After all, Kong Shuanghua has not been fully trained to be like his mother-in-law. So gentle and virtuous!If you want your parents to move out and buy another house, where do you have money?A square is more than 6000 yuan, and buying a small apartment of 60 square meters costs 40 yuan. I have only worked for 4 and a half years, and I add up all my income. I don’t eat or drink, and it doesn’t exceed 10 yuan!

Fang Yuan let out a long sigh in his heart.If you think about it carefully, if you leave the Kong family, you will really be a poor commander - nothing!I don't want a house, I don't need much money, and I don't have the housing provided by my father-in-law's family. I am a standard poor man in Dongzhou.But these words can't be said to the elder sister, and it will make the second sister worry; if the second sister tells the eldest sister and parents again, it will simply add fuel to the fire and make the whole family worry.

"Second sister, I don't have the ability to bring my parents over now, because I live in my father-in-law's house now. But I promise, when I am able in the future, I will definitely bring my parents to Dongzhou and enjoy my old age in Dongzhou .I can’t go home this year, I’ll call my parents in a while.”

After hanging up the call from the second sister, Fang Yuan's heart could not be calm for a long time.Kong Shuanghua walked into the bedroom from the living room and asked Fangyuan, "Who called just now?" Fangyuan said, "It's the second sister from my hometown." Kong Shuanghua said, "What did the second sister tell you?" Fang Yuan said, "My parents miss me. Mom still wipes her tears often. My parents are looking forward to me and you being able to go home for the New Year.” Kong Shuanghua said: “That’s impossible. I’ve grown up so much, but I’ve never left my parents for the New Year! What will my parents do to celebrate the new year in your house? Let them celebrate the new year alone at home? Besides, your Northeast is so cold, if you freeze me, you will freeze the baby, I don’t want to go to celebrate the new year.” Fang Yuan thought He was not happy to hear Kong Shuanghua say such things, and felt a little angry: "According to Chinese tradition, daughter-in-law spends New Years at her in-law's house, and only returns to her mother's house in the third year of junior high." Kong Shuanghua said: "That's an old calendar. Now these The old almanac doesn’t work either. Besides, we have to go back now, and we can’t make it back! Tomorrow is the Chinese New Year, where do you go to book tickets, and is there a bus back to your small mountain village after you go back?” Fang Yuan said: "It must be the New Year in Dongzhou this year, but we can't always celebrate the New Year in Dongzhou. You marry me, and you should be considerate and considerate of me. Like you, I have always been with my parents since I was born. Celebrate the New Year together, this year I will celebrate the New Year in Dongzhou, my parents are also old couples, spending the New Year alone at home!" Kong Shuanghua said: "Aren't the two sisters going home to celebrate the New Year?" Fang Yuan smiled wryly: "The two sisters are from other people. The daughter-in-law of the family, of course, goes to her mother-in-law's house to celebrate the new year, and only returns to her mother's house to celebrate the new year with her brother-in-law and three nephews in the third day of junior high school!"

"Oh." Kong Shuanghua fell silent, sat beside Fangyuan, and said nothing more.

In the room, the two sat silently, each thinking about their own thoughts.Both of them vaguely felt that one day in the future, the two of them might quarrel over this issue, but they also didn't want to spoil the good mood of the past few days because of this difficult-to-resolve conflict, and affect their relationship with each other. to the feelings of two people.

After a long time, Kong Shuanghua was a little cautious, and asked: "Fang Yuan, what do you think should be done?" Fang Yuan said: "I have thought of a way. This year will be the first, and when the Chinese New Year comes, can my parents be taken care of?" Next, I will celebrate the New Year in Dongzhou, and after the Lantern Festival, let the old couple go back, so that the parents of both parties can accompany their children for the New Year. Moreover, my parents will definitely miss their grandson very much, so I can see it every year Grandson, this also relieves the pain of lovesickness." Kong Shuanghua said: "This method is good, but I really can't stand your father's style of being a feudal parent, and I can't stand your parents not paying attention to hygiene, and your father smoking That old tobacco is really suffocating. None of our family smokes. If he comes, he will smoke tobacco every day and have several pipes and pots a day. I really can’t stand it." Fang Yuan was really upset: "Shuanghua, Aiwujiwu, if you love me, you must learn how you love my parents, no matter how many shortcomings they have, no matter how many living habits they have that you can't understand. Shuanghua, I love you and married you, so I am also Work hard to learn to love your parents, don't you? If I treat your parents like you treat my parents, what do you think? Don't you feel uncomfortable? Comparing your heart, you say this about me, I feel Is it uncomfortable?" Kong Shuanghua suddenly realized that his words had indeed hurt Fangyuan, and quickly said, "Fangyuan, I didn't mean that. I'm sorry. But if your parents really come, where will they live? Our family is only this big. My parents share one room, and the two of us share one room. You can’t let your parents live in the living room for more than ten days. Besides, Dad is now a first-level leader, and there must be many subordinates and colleagues who pay Dad New Year’s greetings during the Chinese New Year. "Fang Yuan said: "When Chinese New Year next year, we will move to the principal's building of Dongzhou University? It is a four-bedroom house, parents can live in one room?" Kong Shuanghua said : "It doesn't work! For a four-unit house, there is a study room vacant, and the remaining three rooms are one for my parents, one for you and me, and one for our children!" Fang Yuan said: "Next year's New Year's Eve At that time, our child was only a few months old, so he must share a room with us. Why not?"

Kong Shuanghua was a little dumbfounded, but she really didn't want Fang Yuan's parents to come to Dongzhou.Seeing Fang Yuan's painful expression, Kong Shuanghua could no longer find any reason to prevent Fang Yuan's parents from coming to Dongzhou, and felt lost in his heart: If Fang Yuan's parents came, would the family stop?Not only I can't stand it, even my parents probably can't stand it either!