Director's growth history

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After eating, Fang Yuan felt much better. 【-】The communication with his father-in-law made Fang Yuan feel that he really has a heavy burden on his shoulders.Yes, my father-in-law is right, you should learn how to work smartly, and you can’t let work tire you down. If you get tired, your career will be gone, and your family will be hurt, especially for your elderly parents. Fang Yuan still dreams of receiving Dongzhou came to enjoy his old age.Perhaps, even if they are picked up, they will not live together, but after all, they will live closer and it will be more convenient to take care of them.My parents are old, and the living conditions in the countryside are indeed not as good as those in the cities, especially compared with coastal cities like Dongzhou, there is no way to compare them.Besides, the weather conditions in Tonghua are really not that good, especially Fangyuan, who has lived in Dongzhou for 8 years, feels that Tonghua is too cold in winter, and the cold time is too long, and many people have severe joint pain. Inflammation is mainly related to the climate.

But it’s definitely unrealistic to bring my parents here now. I don’t have any material conditions. The house belongs to my father-in-law. I’m afraid I can barely cope with the monthly car and living expenses. In fact, I mainly rely on my mother-in-law and father-in-law. Although Fangyuan did not see so much money, his mother-in-law spent all the money on daily necessities, and Kong Shuanghua did not have enough money to buy clothes and cosmetics every month, and she never asked Fangyuan for it. All provided by the mother-in-law.If you pick up your parents, where will you live?Parents are people with no income. If my own income is used to support my parents, it will not be enough at all!This is not to mention that if the parents are sick and hospitalized, if they are sick and hospitalized, they may go bankrupt or be heavily in debt.

this is the truth.Fang Yuan can recognize it clearly, and Fang Yuan can only succumb to this reality.Living under the roof of my father-in-law, I have to obey my father-in-law and mother-in-law. After all, I cannot do without the support of my father-in-law and mother-in-law in many aspects, even including the most basic life of food, clothing, housing and transportation.

Fangyuan said: "Dad, please don't worry. I will remember all your teachings today. I will work as smartly as possible in the future and learn more from Principal Yao to see how he works, how he is relaxed and able to How does he mobilize the work enthusiasm of the people around him when he does his job well? I also know that the burden on my shoulders is heavy now. I will be a good husband to Shuanghua and a good husband to my future children. Good father, for father and mother, I will be a good son-in-law. If I want to keep the family happy for a long time, I will also strive to strive for a stage where I can display my ambitions in my future work."

Confucius nodded with satisfaction: "Yes! Xiao Fang, the next generation will always be the hope and sustenance of the older generation. I will pin my hopes on you and Xiao Hua; when you grow old, you will also pin your hopes on On my grandson. I came home so early today because I heard that Xiaohua had a B-ultrasound today, and I was sure that she was pregnant with a boy. I am so happy! I am not afraid of your jokes, deep down, I also hope The grandchild is a boy!" Fang Yuan said, "Dad, do the older generations always think so?" Confucius Tian said, "Yes! Many people would say that boys and girls are the same, but in fact, among us In the hearts of the elderly, boys are different from girls! If you don’t like boys more, tell me why the male-to-female ratio of newborn babies in Hainan has reached 120:100, and Guangdong has reached 117:100? Just tell me, why do you like boys? ? If it is a boy, I can train him carefully from the moment he can speak. After retirement, your mother and I will do our best to take care of him, train him, give him the best education, and develop good habits so that he will Become a very promising and successful person. Cultivating my grandson to become a talent will be an important task in my future retirement life; if it is a girl, I am afraid I will put in a lot less energy, and your mother will put in more energy. It is very good to cultivate a lady of the family. It is enough to cultivate an intellectual woman who is knowledgeable and courteous. As for whether the career is successful or not, I don’t think it is too important. In my heart, I am more eager for grandchildren, because I can Pinning some of my unrealized ideals on the little guy. So, I am very happy today, and I want to have a glass of wine with you to celebrate."

What a patriarchal old man!An old man who is patriarchal and can speak a lot of truths!Fang Yuan was also moved by his father-in-law, turned around and saw Kong Shuanghua sitting next to him, with a smile unconsciously on his face: "Shuanghua, are you really pregnant with a son?" Kong Shuanghua said with a smile: "Of course." I am very capable, and I can conceive a son!" Fang Yuan said: "Hello son, hello son. Mom, are you also very happy?" Kong's mother said: "Yes, that is also me and your father's Bloodline!" Kong Zitian said: "Xiao Fang, please call and talk to your father in your hometown, and make your parents happy." Fang Yuan said: "Okay."

I dialed the phone number from my hometown, and it was Fang Yuan's mother who answered the phone: "Hello, who is it?" Fang Yuan said, "Mom, I'm Yuan Yuan." Fang's mother said, "It's Yuan Yuan! Yuan Yuan, you haven't seen me for a long time. I called." Fang Yuan said, "I called just now, Mom. Didn't I call on the night of the fifteenth day of the first lunar month?" Fang's mother said, "Why did it take me so long?" Fang Yuan said, "Mom, Are you and Dad okay?" Fang's mother said, "Okay, it's alright. Yuanyuan! Your daughter-in-law is already three months pregnant, how is your body changing? Does she vomit after eating?" Fangyuan said: "Mom, you have a really good memory. It's been three months. Your stomach is slightly visible now, but it's not too big. The time to vomit is very short, and you won't vomit in a few days. Xiaohua is in good health! Mother Fang said: "It's not that I have a good memory, it's that your father and I are counting the days every day, counting when my grandson will be born. It's about to come out. I have found someone to figure it out these days. My daughter-in-law is pregnant with a grandson this time! Yuanyuan, have you taken your daughter-in-law to the hospital for an examination? Now they say yes What is super, it will be found out in one test." Fang Yuan said: "Mom, I was just about to tell you that your daughter-in-law went to the hospital for an examination today, and she is pregnant with a boy." Fang's mother said: "Really, Really! Great, great! I'm going to have a grandson, I'm going to have a grandson." Mother Fang was a little incoherent.

Fang Yuan really didn't expect her mother to be so happy.At this time, Dad had already picked up the phone, and Dad's rough voice came through the microphone: "Yuanyuan, is your wife really pregnant with a grandson for me?" Fang Yuan said, "Yes, Dad." Fang's mother said: "Good job. Me, I will buy a pig's head tomorrow, and let your mother steam a pot of longevity peaches. I will pay respect to God, thank God!" Fang Yuan said, "Dad, those are all old calendars. It's done." Father Fang said: "It's amazing. Your daughter-in-law is able to conceive a son, it's God's manifestation, I must kowtow to God a few more times, thank God, and please God bless my precious grandson to be safe." Fang Yuan Said: "Dad, Xiaohua and I will pay attention, and we will definitely protect the healthy growth of the child." Fang's father said: "It's different, it's different. Yuanyuan! Now you urbanites can only have one child. , I am still worried, what if your wife is pregnant with a girl? I was talking to your mother yesterday, if it is found out that it is a girl, just abort it, and then conceive, when will you conceive a grandson, and when will you stay .”

ah?Dad still has such thoughts in his heart?Fang Yuan was taken aback, he really didn't know that his father was so patriarchal.Fortunately, Kong Shuanghua was pregnant with a boy. If she was pregnant with a girl, it would be really troublesome.Although Fangyuan thinks that boys and girls are the same, how to handle the work of parents seems to be a big problem!Thank goodness, this time the wife is pregnant with a boy!

Fang Yuan said: "Dad, this time Xiaohua is pregnant with a boy. In fact, if she is pregnant with a girl, she is also my child, and it is your blood!" Father Fang said: "That's what I said, but in reality The business gap is big. After giving birth to a boy child, he will continue to have children in the future, and the child will still be named Fang; The Fang family’s house number was removed.” Fang Yuan said, “Dad, see what you said.” Fang’s father said, “Okay, anyway, this time is really good. Yuanyuan, do you know? When I gave birth Your eldest sister and second sister really pissed me off, and scolded your mother, saying that your mother was incompetent. At that time, the country only allowed two children, so I didn’t care about that. Let your mother conceive, and give birth to you this time, I am happy. I was fined 1000 yuan by the team, and I am also happy to be fined! At that time, 1000 yuan was the same as 10 yuan today. It was worth old money. I You can’t get it out at all, and the master borrowed money from the west to finally pay the fine, which is considered to be settled for you. If my son is not important, why should I pay the fine?”

ah?Dare to feel that I am a superborn child!Fang Yuan was really surprised.Thank you so much, my wife is pregnant with a boy, if it is a girl, it will be really ruined.

Fang's father said: "Yuanyuan, you must treat your wife better and take good care of her. If something happens to my grandson, I will never forgive you. In the next few days, I have to take out the shotgun. Go for a walk on the mountain. If there is a chance, I will bring back a roe deer for my grandson. That guy is a thief. After I finish killing him, let your brother-in-law find a way to send it to you, and you cook it for your daughter-in-law. You are so smart , do you know why? When your mother was pregnant with you, I went to the mountain and shot a roe deer. Hey, the meat is delicious, and the bone soup is also for your mother to drink. As a result, when you were born, guess how many catties?" Fang Yuan said, "How many catties?" Fang's father said, "7 catties and 8 taels! In 80, children generally weighed 6 catties. You, a lifetime When it comes out, it is a circle older than other children. I am going to hunt a roe deer now, and I hope that my grandson will also be a very smart and fat grandson!"