Director's growth history

Confucius Tian is basically satisfied with his wife, although he almost turned against him last time. 【】After 30 years of ups and downs, Confucius Tian felt that in this world, his wife should be regarded as the most hard-working, supportive and understanding woman.When it comes to lovers, looking for Confucius is as easy as pinching an escargot with three fingers.In fact, in Dongzhou University, there are already quite a few female teachers and female graduate students whom he brings to give him a sneak peek, but Kong Zitian doesn't seem to have much enthusiasm for this lover issue in his heart.He is well versed in Chinese history, and he knows what to get and what not to get.Since ancient times, confidante has been in trouble, this is proved by Chinese and foreign history, including a great man like Napoleon, if he did not divorce his wife Josephine, but married that so-called confidante, I am afraid that the alliance between France and the Austro-Hungarian Empire would be destroyed. It will not change, and France will not be defeated, and he himself will not be exiled to a small African island; if Li Zicheng invaded Beijing, he would not be busy fighting for beautiful women, especially Chen Yuanyuan, the wife of Wu Sangui, a key frontier general, and the peasants would revolt. I'm afraid the results won't collapse so easily after a few days.The lessons of history always remind Confucius Tian: The temptation of beauty is hard to resist, but once you indulge in it, your family, career, reputation, etc. will all plummet.Confucius Tian knew that many professors and leaders of many universities had so-called lovers, but Confucius Tian did not.Whether there will be in the future, Confucius Tian has already answered today, I believe his wife can understand it, and he will guide his daughter to understand it gradually.Maybe the daughter will complain a little, but after she truly understands it, it will also be good for maintaining her relationship with Fangyuan.

The wine was very comfortable, and the meal was very happy.After dinner, the family of four went for a walk in the community.Confucius said: "It's been a long time since we took a walk." Kong's mother said: "It's always been the three of us." Confucius said: "It's rare to be together today, let's go farther." Kong's mother said: "Okay." Kong Shuanghua said: "I won't go that far. In case my baby gets tired, the loss will not be worth the loss." Kong's mother said, "Okay, then I won't go too far. Fangyuan, you can walk more with your father." Fang Yuan said, "Okay."

After walking around the community, Mama Kong and Kong Shuanghua went home.Fang Yuan accompanied Confucius Tian and continued to walk far away.Confucius Tian said: "I've been busy, and I don't care enough about you. How are things going?" Fang Yuan said, "Thank you Dad for your concern. Everything is normal. However, I also have troubles." Confucius Tian said: " Oh? What troubles?" Fang Yuan said: "I won two first prizes in the province and the country last year. For a while, all kinds of halos enveloped me. This year, I feel that I have become mediocre and have no new achievements. , I don’t know where to start.” Confucius said: “Well, it’s a problem. As I said before, we should slowly shift from the public class to the summary of theory and experience, and make some achievements in scientific research. The public class The achievements in scientific research are important, but they are still low-level; the achievements in scientific research are not easy to come out, but once they are successful, their impact will be far-reaching. Have you already started to do this?" Fang Yuan said: "I have been busy, not too busy. I can find time to calm down and read books and study knowledge." Confucius sighed: "Impetrance is a common problem of many young people nowadays. Now it seems that you have it too! These weekends, you seem to be basically They are not at home, so there are many social activities! Last week, I met with the deputy commander of the Nanjing Military Region, and this week, I accompanied the secretary of the regiment municipal party committee to Yanping for research. Time has a very strange characteristic. When you do this, it means You don’t have time to do another thing. There are so many things to do, and the time is only 24 hours. How to arrange your time reasonably and what to do requires people to decide. Sometimes, there are many temptations, and it is difficult Choose."

Fang Yuan was taken aback: God, his father-in-law also knew about his meeting with Deputy Commander Wang!Fang Yuan quickly admitted his mistake: "Dad, you are right. I have been a lot more impetuous recently, and I am also a little busy with social affairs. I really have too little time to improve." Confucius Tian said: "Social communication is also very difficult. It's important, and it's also time to improve. But Xiao Fang, if you don't have a new report card in the next few years, I'm afraid it will be very difficult to make further progress. In fact, life is like this, and you have something to gain , you must give up something; if you are reluctant to give up something, it may mean that you will not get anything. For some things, I can only give you a few steps. In the end, you have to rely on yourself. I always feel that a young man, The thicker and more solid the foundation, the greater the possibility of success in the future! Think about it, what is the most important thing to yourself? Other things that seem to be important, if they are not as important as For a certain thing, then, you have to give up bravely. There is a little poem written very well. Giving up is also a hero, and giving up is also beautiful. I want everything, but the result is nothing.”

Enlightenment.Fang Yuan simply admired his father-in-law to death. Although his father-in-law didn't have much contact with him, what he said seemed to clear away the haze in Fang Yuan's heart and let Fang Yuan see the dawn of hope.Fangyuan said: "Dad, thank you for your teaching. For the next step, what do you think is the most important thing for me?" Confucius Tian said: "Do well in the high school entrance examination, get good grades, and put a satellite into the sky. I am afraid that the entire Dongzhou education People in the world will look at you with admiration. At the same time, you must learn to summarize regular and empirical things from it, try to write scientific research papers, and strive to publish them. I have always hoped that you can get a doctorate. The prerequisite for a doctoral degree is to have 15 scientific research papers. The papers are published in public journals. How can you get a doctorate if you haven’t even published one? In life, sometimes you will sigh that I don’t have a chance. In fact, opportunities belong to those who are always prepared, not Those who complain. In the future, I will recommend you to study for a doctorate in administrative management. In fact, as the vice principal in charge of teaching, you can make a fuss about teaching management; if you become the principal in the future, you can make a fuss about school management. You must be good at observing, thinking, summarizing, refining, and writing, and if you can persevere, I think your future report card will be quite good."

Fang Yuan wanted to kneel down to Confucius Tian.Confucius Tian spoke very well, he hit Fang Yuan's vital point and pointed out the direction of Fang Yuan's progress.