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967、Confucius' Tianyu speaks earnestly and earnestly

On the afternoon of May 5, when Fang Yuan was still giving review guidance in class 3 (3), she received a call from his wife, Kong Shuanghua. Her voice was full of joy: "Fang Yuan, I'm home.【@】Go home It feels so good! Come back early after get off work, I brought you a special product from Quzhou, let you try something new." Just be happy.The wife is happy, and the fetus is also happy.Fangyuan said: "Okay, Shuanghua, thank you." Kong Shuanghua said: "If only you could go this time, you don't know how fun Quzhou is. I will tell you when you come back at night." agreed."

After work, Fang Yuan didn't go anywhere, and drove home directly.When I got home, I saw my happy wife and smiling father-in-law and mother-in-law.Fang Yuan was also very happy: "Dad, Mom, Shuanghua, you all had a good time." Fang Yuan paid special attention to his mother-in-law, seeing the faint sadness on her face that had been hanging on her face for a long time, she was really happy for her .It's not easy for this old man!The last time I saw a blog post called "The Provincial Party Committee's Compound is All "Widows"", it was written about the wives of the provincial leaders, basically like the abandoned "widows", the men in the family can basically eat at home for a month A meal is quite good, let alone a couple's sex life, basically nothing.Now, this is the case with my mother-in-law.Since my father-in-law served as the vice president of Dongzhou University, especially the deputy director of the Dongzhou Municipal People's Congress, he basically didn't eat at home except for breakfast at home, and he came back very late at night, and he was often drunk. The driver, Xiao Zhou, helped him in, and this originally warm and harmonious home became to a certain extent just a hotel for his father-in-law.The smile on the face of the mother-in-law is getting less and less, probably because of this!The mother-in-law is only in her 50s, and she has not reached the level of old age!But in fact, a bad mood will naturally affect other aspects.When she came back from this trip, her mother-in-law looked radiant, and she seemed to have been "nourished" by love. Fang Yuan hoped that her mother-in-law's happiness would continue like this from the bottom of her heart.Mother-in-law is a good person, and good people should be rewarded.

From dinner to dinner, Fang Yuan was smiling and listening to Kong Shuanghua's travel experience in Quzhou.Listening to Kong Shuanghua giggling, Fang Yuan laughed too, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law also laughed. A harmonious and happy family seemed to be sublimated at this moment, so warm and touching!Finally, Kong Shuanghua was a little tired and said: "Fang Yuan, when our son grows up, we will travel every year, okay? Traveling can really relax the body and mind!" Fang Yuan smiled and said, "Okay! Mom goes together. If Dad doesn’t have time, he can take Mom along.” Kong Shuanghua said, “Our family of three is great!” Fang Yuan immediately saw that his mother-in-law’s face was a little ugly, and quickly smoothed things over: “Our family of five is together, how wonderful is it?” Good! If Dad is busy, of course it will be a family of four." Kong Shuanghua said: "That's right, Mom will go with me, so I can take care of the children, and we can have more fun!"

Is this what people say?Mother Kong's heart is really sad!It's better to be a son-in-law.The son-in-law understands the mother-in-law's heart!There is a saying that tells the mother-in-law to love her son-in-law to the core.A good son-in-law like Fang Yuan should love him.Kong’s mother said: “Fang Yuan, working overtime these days is very hard.” Fang Yuan said: “It’s okay. I read at home all night on the afternoon and evening of May 2st, and I sorted out the ideas of review guidance. On the 3nd In class [-] and class [-] in class [-], each of them taught for a day, and the effect was good." Confucius Tian said: "Everything should be done in a scientific way, and the method can get twice the result with half the effort." Fang Yuan said: "Yes, Dad. What I have taught the students in the past two days is to sharpen the knife without cutting firewood by mistake, and to strengthen the guidance of the method." Confucius said: "This time the senior high school entrance examination is very important, you must work hard. Do you need me to say hello to Zhai Xinwen? Fang Yuan said: "Thank you for your concern, Dad. I don't need it for now. If I need it, I will tell you about it." Confucius Tian said: "Okay."

While the family was chatting, Fangyuan received a call.Fang Yuan said: "It's the call from Deputy Secretary Hao Dingyi of the Youth League Committee. I'll answer it." After pressing the answer button, Fang Yuan greeted cordially: "Secretary Hao, hello!" Hao Dingyi said: "Principal Fang, hello Ah! Have you had dinner yet?" Fang Yuan said, "I ate it, thank you." Hao Dingyi said, "Tomorrow is May Fourth Youth Day. Four Youth Day activities. President Fang, please join us!" Fang Yuan said: "Secretary Hao, thank you. However, I have to work overtime at school tomorrow, so I can't go!" Hao Dingyi said: "May [-]st Isn’t it a holiday during this period?” Fang Yuan said: “Secretary Hao, you also know that the pressure of competition in all middle schools is relatively high now. I am the vice principal in charge of the third year of junior high school, and the teachers are working overtime. It’s not good if I don’t go Ah!" Hao Dingyi said, "That's right! Fangyuan, this time you were invited by Secretary Bi, it's not good if you don't come! Do you think this is the case? Tomorrow you go to school first and report the relevant The work is arranged, and then you come back, okay?" Fang Yuan said: "Okay. Secretary Hao, since Secretary Bi has called the roll, I will definitely try to go. Tomorrow I will go to school first and ask Principal Miao for leave, and then go Okay?" Hao Ding said, "Okay." Fang Yuan said, "Where is the venue for this event?" Hao Ding told Fang Yuan the location and time of the event, and finally specifically asked: "Fang Yuan, come tomorrow At that time, it is best not to drive, and at noon, we all have a meal together and drink some wine." Fang Yuan said: "Understood, if this is the case, I will not drive."

After hanging up the phone, Fangyuan said to his father-in-law, mother-in-law, and wife: "The Youth League Committee is organizing activities, Secretary Bi Quanli called me to go. Just now Secretary Hao specifically asked me not to drive and drink at noon." Kong Shuanghua said: "You guys are together , how do you know how to drink?" Confucius said: "There is no way, now is such a national condition, if you get together, it seems that if you don't drink, you can't get excited; if you don't drink, you can't deepen your relationship." Kong Shuanghua Said: "How much does the whole country drink this year?" Confucius Tian said: "There is an incomplete statistics, 3000 billion." Kong Shuanghua said: "Ah? It's all spent on taxpayers' money." Confucius Tian said: "Part of it is. Of course, more of it is not. Some businessmen invite government departments to dinner, some businessmen invite businessmen to dinner, some friends invite friends to dinner, some family members invite relatives to dinner, and of course there is a big head, which is the wedding banquet. The real If the government invites the government to eat, there should be tens of billions." Kong Shuanghua said: "I really don't understand."

Confucius Tian said: "China's officialdom has a tradition of wine table culture since ancient times. It is probably not enough to communicate and talk about things. It is probably not enough to talk dryly. It is also a tradition to talk while eating. Don't look at eating and drinking so much. The most important thing is: How many employment opportunities have been created by the 3000 billion yuan? At the same time, how many considerable tax revenues have been brought in! I support Fangyuan’s participation in such high-level social activities. Bi Quanli is a member of the Standing Committee of the Municipal Party Committee and a rising star in the political arena of Dongzhou. If Fangyuan can establish a good working relationship and personal relationship with Bi Quanquan, it will be of great benefit to Fangyuan's future development. The other members of the Youth Federation are all from all walks of life in Dongzhou. On the state ground, all belong to the upper class. There is an old saying: those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. You can also understand this sentence in officialdom: if you are with the people every day, you will always be People, you are with the prime minister every day, and you may become a prime minister one day in the future. Xiaohua, think about it, why are you and Fang Yuan working and studying carefree now? It is your ability that has really reached this level One step? Obviously not! It’s because I am the deputy director of Dongzhou People’s Congress, the vice president of Dongzhou University, a professor and a doctoral supervisor. But your mother and I will grow old one day. When we are old, no With influence, can you still live carefree like now? No. At that time, you and Fang Yuan will have to rely on your own hands to win a better life. Now, you and Fang Yuan combined , more than 4000 yuan a month, I heard from your mother that you have to subsidize 220 yuan a month for you young couple, if your mother and I are gone, how will you live?" Kong Shuanghua stuck out his tongue, and Fang Yuan also felt that Feeling a little heavy.Confucius Tian said: "Nowadays many people say that houses are expensive and cannot be bought or lived in. This is true, and it is for the vast majority of ordinary people. But have businessmen ever worried about high housing prices? Senior officials at all levels of government Have officials worried about high housing prices? No! Big bosses in business can live in villas or western-style buildings; mid-level and senior officials like the government can’t live in western-style buildings, but they can live in spacious and bright rooms. Let’s talk about our house, you and When Fang Yuan got married, do you still need to worry about the house? Your mother shared a house back then, which is the house we live in now; I got another house after I became the vice principal, which is a super big house of 60 square meters, and we are all idle But now, ordinary people are satisfied if they can buy a small house of [-] square meters! So, what I want to say to you young couple is: don’t be ordinary people at any time. Especially Fangyuan, who is the head of the family, If you are a man, you have to take on the important task of supporting your family. In the future, you must strive for your own position in your career. You must have more contact with high-level friends and benefit from this contact. It is not economic, but to establish My own network foundation. For my wife, I have to understand why I drink outside every day and why I come home so late every day; for Xiaohua, I also need to learn to understand slowly. There are more and more. If Fang Yuan becomes the principal, it would be great if he can eat at home twice a week; if Fang Yuan becomes the director of the Education Bureau, it may be considered good if he can eat one meal at home a month. The Bureau of Education is not considered to be a bureau with a lot of entertainment. Customs, Construction Committee, Planning, Land, State-owned Assets Supervision and Administration Commission, Taxation, Finance, Development and Reform Commission, the leaders and middle-level of any department have entertainment almost every day! This is the society now, we are powerless Change it, then if you want to live well, you can only adapt to it."

Confucius Tian's words had a deep meaning.After hearing this, Mother Kong sighed and said nothing.Fang Yuan saw it in his eyes and knew that his mother-in-law was in a complicated mood.Although Kong Shuanghua is not ice-snow smart, after all, he has grown up under the influence of his father for a long time, so he naturally understands his father's intentions.Fang Yuan's heart was also full of pressure: Father-in-law is right!If I leave my father-in-law and mother-in-law now, I won't even be able to support my family!At any time, don't be an ordinary person, whether you are in business or an official, you must strive to become a superior person as soon as possible.Look at many ordinary people who are so worried about their houses that they can't sleep and can't eat well. Are these big business owners and government officials at all levels still worrying about the house?If I become the director of the Education Bureau, do I still have to worry about not having a house to live in?I'm afraid the Education Bureau will buy a house for the director even if they buy it now!Alas, the common people, the kind-hearted common people, work hard every day for food, clothing, housing and transportation, and become bond slaves and debt slaves in order to buy a house. I don’t even want to die like this!And now, aren't my parents and two older sisters also ordinary people who worry about basic necessities of life every day?For myself and for my family, I have to fight, and I have to work hard to create a new world in my career!Fang Yuan gritted her teeth in her heart and made up her mind: she can never live such a mediocre life again.

Kong Shuanghua spoke at this time: "Well, I will support Fangyuan's participation in social activities in the future. However, I will not support activities with ordinary people."