Director's growth history

Fangyuan drove home. After parking in the community, he opened the trunk and found that there were quite a lot of things inside: two boxes of Wanglaoji, each with 24 cans; I know this tea is worth a lot. 【 】Looking at the tea box carefully, there are two distinctive and eye-catching characters, which let Fang Yuan know that this tea is probably the best of Yandang tea.The two words above are: Mingqian.There are two more boxes, square and square, with clear big characters: "Jiulongzhai". If you look carefully, ah, it turns out to be sour plum soup.This Ni Yousheng thought really carefully, but he just ignored one point. How could he carry this thing with him when he went to give lectures with the CMB of the Education and Sports Bureau?It seems that one trip is not enough to move up, at least two trips are needed!Kong Shuanghua was willing to drink sour plum soup, but for the sake of the baby's health, he seldom drank it.After thinking for a long time, I just took out the tea and took it home.

To Fangyuan's surprise, his father-in-law Kong Zitian was also in the living room.Seeing Fang Yuan coming back, Confucius said, "Xiao Fang, come and sit down." Fang Yuan put the tea in a corner of the living room, walked over and sat down.Confucius Tian said: "Xiao Fang, I want to apologize to you on behalf of your mother-in-law! We are all one family, how can we talk and handle two affairs? Today at noon, I came back and had dinner with my parents-in-law. I had a simple lunch. It is not easy for my parents-in-law and mother-in-law to come to Dongzhou once, so how can I eat out by myself? The whole family should eat together!"

Heh, father-in-law is father-in-law, this ideological realm is different from being a human being.Fang Yuan said: "Thank you, Dad, for your understanding. My parents are actually very simple and kind old people, but they have been farmers all their lives. They have some farmers' consciousness and habits, which are somewhat different from the habits of urban people. Please also ask Xiaohua, Dad Mom understands more.” Confucius Tian said: “Farmers and urban people are equal, and the ancestors of urban people are also farmers. Let’s just talk about me. I have also been a farmer for 19 years. I was admitted to a university, and then I became a city People. Although your mother-in-law is not a farmer, her grandparents were also farmers! And my deceased father, Kong Shuanghua’s grandfather, is an out-and-out farmer." Fang Yuan suddenly understood why his father-in-law made such a decision in such a short period of time. With such an understanding of his parents, it turns out that he was once a farmer.

The mother-in-law was still working on dinner in the kitchen, Kong Shuanghua was obviously not in a good mood, probably because Kong Zitian told her a lot.Fang Yuan said: "Dad, my father has some habits that need to be changed, such as smoking. For the sake of the child's health, he must change. I communicated with my father yesterday, and I said, no matter what you say, even if your son is in Dongzhou Living and working, in the house of father-in-law and mother-in-law, you are all guests, and you can’t do things and talk completely according to your wishes like a host.” Confucius Tian smiled: “Oh? Did you tell your father that?” Fang Yuan said "Yes." Confucius said, "My son-in-law is just different. If you can say that, I feel at ease. At the same time, I also promise that if my in-laws stay in Dongzhou for a day, they will eat at this home. You can't drive your in-laws to other people's homes to eat, let alone treat your in-laws as relatives!" Fang Yuan said, "Thank you Dad." Confucius Tian said loudly: "Shufang, did you hear what I said?" Kong Shufang held the A plate of dishes came out of the kitchen and said, "I heard that." Kong Shuanghua stood up and said, "It's just to have a meal together, it's no big deal, Mom, we're fine."

Heh, when did Kong Shuanghua and his mother-in-law form a united front.However, Kong Shuanghua's words still made Fangyuan feel very harsh.At this time, what else can Fang Yuan mean?cannot!In fact, in Fang Yuan's heart, it was much better than Fang Yuan's expectation that his mother-in-law and wife could do this.Kong Shufang came out of the kitchen and said, "Xiao Fang, call your parents over for dinner." Fang Yuan stood up and said, "Okay." Kong Zitian said, "Let Xiao Qing go, I have something to say to Fang Yuan. "Xiaoqing agreed, put on her shoes and went out.

Fang Yuan sat down again and looked at his father-in-law.Confucius Tian said: "Xiao Fang, we have always been a family. In a few days, when the baby in Shuanghua's arms comes to the world, we will be even more of a family." Fang Yuan said: "Yes." Confucius Tian Said: "A family should not talk about two families, nor should they handle two affairs. This is what I expect from you, and I solemnly made a request to your mother-in-law and Xiaohua today. I believe that no matter how many different opinions there are , but all of us will love this little baby who will be born very, very much, and this little baby will be our bond." Fang Yuan said, "Yes." In this regard, Dad will do his best to help you. But Xiao Fang, you also have to spare time to spend more time with Xiao Hua. Xiao Hua is your wife, and she also needs the care of her husband. Xiao Fang, have you ever thought about getting up in the morning? By the time you go to bed at night, did the communication between you and Xiaohua exceed 10 sentences? Without communication, how can this Xiaohua feel your love for her?"

comminicate?Fang Yuan was not convinced in his heart, he bit me like this, how could he communicate?Fang Yuan remained silent.Confucius Tian said: "Xiaohua bit you this time, she was wrong, she has realized that she was wrong. However, everything has two sides, whether we are leading cadres or a man who is maturing day by day, You must learn to look at problems from both positive and negative sides. Looking at this matter from one side, Xiaohua is unreasonable and lacks self-cultivation; looking at this matter from another side, Xiaohua is also because he loves you , I can't see you interacting with other women, that's why you do this. There is a saying that how much a woman hates is how much she loves. If Xiaohua didn't love you with all her heart, she would have such a crazy behavior ?"

The father-in-law's words were like cold water, which suddenly woke up Fang Yuan's mind.Yes, these days, haven't I been thinking about Kong Shuanghua's bad side?Just like what his father-in-law said, Kong Shuanghua did this because he loves himself deeply!

Fang Yuan suddenly felt a lot of guilt. For the past few days, he had cheated on his wife with Shao Keqing, and even used Kong Shuanghua as a hypothetical object of venting, using Shao Keqing's body to vent viciously.Is it right to do this?Even though Kong Shuanghua was wrong in every way, she didn't cheat on her back, she didn't cuckold herself, but she loved herself so wholeheartedly; what's more, she had a big belly, it was so difficult, in the past 10 months, How many sins and sufferings have you suffered?And what about myself?Is my behavior like this an upright manly behavior?Fang Yuan blurted out: "Dad, Xiao Hua, I was wrong."

"Are you wrong?" Kong Zitian was taken aback. He originally wanted to persuade Fang Yuan to care more about Kong Shuanghua, but he didn't expect Fang Yuan to say that he was wrong.

Fang Yuan immediately realized that there was something wrong with what she just said.Look at this brain, what are you thinking about? If so, how can you say it without thinking about it?Fangyuan said: "Dad, I was wrong. I really didn't care enough about Shuanghua. During the summer vacation, I can still spare some time to talk with Shuanghua and take a walk with her in the community. After school starts, I am as busy as a spinning top, and the time to spend with Shuanghua is indeed getting less and less. After my parents come, I still have to spend time with my parents, and I have even less time to spend with Shuanghua. I am sorry for Shuanghua Shuanghua has been pregnant for 10 months, and I performed poorly in the last half of the month, so I want to apologize to Shuanghua!" Kong Shuanghua burst into tears, and suddenly fell sideways in Fangyuan's arms, humming loudly.Fang Yuan stroked Kong Shuanghua's back lightly, seeing that the fat body due to pregnancy had turned her back into a big soft panel, the guilt in her heart aggravated a lot.He gently kissed Kong Shuanghua's hair, and said softly, "Shuanghua, my husband is sorry for you."

Kong Shufang also stood aside and wiped away tears.Confucius Tian is pleased with the successful ideological education he has done, and this is what he wants.Confucius Tian said: "Xiao Hua also needs to understand Fang Yuan. It is normal for Xiao Fang to be a little busy at work when he is doing business. If Xiao Fang is not busy, it means that Xiao Fang is a mediocre man, an idiot. Hua will not fall in love with such a man. Sometimes, career and family are contradictory relationships. Loyalty and filial piety cannot be balanced. When doing business, it is inevitable that family will not be taken care of. If family is completely taken care of, this career will be abandoned. Xiaohua still has to learn from your mother on this point." Kong Shuanghua raised his head aggrievedly: "Dad, I have done a good job, think about it, and let Fangyuan think about it, when he is working , When did I pull his hind legs, and when did I support him?"

Really not!In Fangyuan's impression, Kong Shuanghua had never been dragged down when he was working hard!At this moment, Kong Shuanghua, who looked a bit annoying at first, grew taller in Fang Yuan's heart, yes, hasn't Kong Shuanghua always supported her work since she got married?Fang Yuan hugged Kong Shuanghua again, and said: "Shuanghua has always been doing very well. It's my fault. When I get busy, I can't take care of Shuanghua. Dad, Mom, Shuanghua, I must work hard in the future. Be a good husband, be a good father, and spend more time with your family."

Confucius Tian nodded: "That's right. Love also takes time to cultivate! It's not right to be busy with work and career, but not take care of family, wife, and children." Fang Yuan said: "Dad is right. But, Dad, I still have urgent work in the next two weeks, what should I do?"

Kong Shuanghua sat upright all of a sudden: "What, why do you have urgent work every day? Could it be that the world would stop turning if Dongzhou No. 5 High School left you?" Kong Shufang said, "Yes, Xiao Fang, why do you just So busy?" Fang Yuan looked helpless: "I have no choice. This morning, I was called to the Municipal Education Bureau, and Director Zhai asked me to participate in the City Education Bureau's tour group of model teachers. The city held 9 tour lectures, and finally gave a lecture tour in the units directly under the Municipal Bureau. Starting tomorrow, I will not go to work, and I will follow the Municipal Education Bureau every day to transfer to these four districts and five cities.”

Confucius Tian was also a little unhappy: "When is this? Doesn't Zhai Xinwen know that Shuanghua is going to give birth soon?" Fang Yuan said, "I said it. Director Zhai said that this tour is very important. I think he is right. It makes sense. Moreover, Director Zhai said that September 9, the expected date of delivery, is a weekend, and the tour group does not give lectures!" Kong Shufang said: "It's really outrageous! What time is it, and Fangyuan is called out." Confucius Tian said, "Let me call and ask."

Kong Zitian immediately called Zhai Xinwen: "Xinwen, I am Confucius Tian." Zhai Xinwen's attitude was very enthusiastic: "Mr. Kong! What can you do to find Xinwen?" Confucius said: "Xinwen, listen to Fangyuan come back and say , I want to participate in the lecture tour, what's the matter?" Zhai Xinwen said: "Teacher! This time I have to ask you to support my work! Mayor Song made an earnest request to the teachers in the city at the Teacher's Day celebration meeting. It is expected that improving the quality of teachers and improving the professional ethics of teachers is an important basis and prerequisite for running Dongzhou education. In order to implement the spirit of Mayor Song’s instructions, the Municipal Education Bureau organized a lecture tour composed of 5 model teachers The group will carry out a lecture tour with the theme of "How should I be a teacher" within the city, and use the deeds of the first model teachers to drive and influence the majority of teachers in the city to be proactive and make contributions in their posts. Xiaofang has made great achievements in recent years His achievements are obvious to all. He is currently the best young teacher in Dongzhou Education. His deeds should have great inspiration and influence on young teachers. So this time, the Municipal Education Bureau decided to let Xiaofang Joining this tour group, I may have to run outside every day for the next two weeks.” Confucius Tian said: “Xiao Fang is going to be a father soon, is it appropriate to go out at this time?” Zhai Xinwen said: “My teacher! You are a powerful city leader, and your wife is a senior professor at Dongzhou Medical College. Do you think Xiaofang can play a role if you stay by your side? I think you and your wife have already made arrangements for Shuanghua. More What's more, I also asked Xiaofang, and he said that September 9th is the expected date of Shuanghua's delivery, and September 16th and 9th are Sundays, and the tour group only tours from Monday to Friday." Confucius Tian said: "It turns out to be like this!" Zhai Xinwen said: "In front of the teacher, I didn't hide it. This time, I included Fang Yuan in the five-person tour group, and I hope to give Fang Yuan a better chance." Confucius Tian said, "Really?" Zhai Xinwen said, "Yes, after this tour, the directors of education bureaus in the four districts and five counties will all know Xiaofang, and more principals and teachers in the city will know Xiaofang. In the future Will there be more opportunities for Xiaofang to give lectures or make reports? Just like you, teacher! In the future, Xiaofang will make progress, and he needs to have a reputation recognized by everyone, right? I believe my teacher has long understood your student This little selfishness."

Confucius Tian laughed loudly: "Xinwen! I want to represent Xiaofang and our whole family. Thank you. You have cultivated so ingeniously. It will be difficult for Xiaofang not to make progress!" Zhai Xinwen said modestly: "I conclude There are three reasons for Xiaofang's progress, one is that Xiaofang is very good at fighting, the other is that Xiaofang has caught up with the good times, and the third is of course the most important reason, that is, the teacher, your teaching and help to Xiaofang , that is the greatest advantage that other young people cannot possess! Whoever can learn from you, it will be difficult to make progress! I have learned from you for three years, although I have only learned a little bit, I have benefited a lot ; This little Fang accepts your teachings in front of you every day, he is indeed the happiest young man in the world."

This flattery made Confucius dizzy.Confucius Tian said: "I don't want to talk about other polite words. Recently, I found a time to contact Mayor Song, Mayor Deng, and Minister Sheng. You can do me a favor." Zhai Xinwen said: "A teacher is a teacher, and I have been reading Teacher-student relationship. Then teacher, please take the trouble to confirm the time, call me, and I will make arrangements immediately." Confucius Tian said: "It's easy to talk, easy to talk."