Director's growth history

The whole afternoon, Fang Yuan was with his father-in-law Confucius Tian, ​​receiving people who came to visit and wish him well. 【】Among the people who came here, there were people from Dongzhou University, people from Dongzhou City People's Congress, and people from various bureaus and committees of Dongzhou City who were closely related to Confucius Tian, ​​such as Zhai Xinwen and Qunfeng.Through such a situation, Fang Yuan saw the strength of his father-in-law. In addition to admiration, there was also awe, which slowly spread in Fang Yuan's heart.Later, friends from Fangyuan came over one after another, and there were also people from Dongzhou No. 5 High School.On this day, it can really be said that counting the red envelopes is numb, and the biggest red envelope is not someone else, but Si Yushi personally drove it, 1 yuan, embodying the best wishes of one in a million .

Confucius Tian said: "Xiao Fang, it's okay, you are a good brother, and you are quite loyal. Today's red envelopes, counting his red envelopes are the heaviest." Fang Yuan was concerned, and said: "Dad, accepting so many red envelopes. Will we make mistakes?" Confucius Tian said: "What are we doing? I heard that the son of a major leader in the province got married and received millions of red envelopes alone. It is a great honor to be able to participate in the banquet. The head of the committee, who has the nerve to pay less than 3000 yuan; and the representatives of entrepreneurs who are lucky enough to attend the wedding banquet, who has the nerve to pay less than 1 yuan? China is a society of human relationships. Strictly speaking, such red envelopes should not be given, but there is no Solution. Without red envelopes, who can feel closeness? What’s more, many of these red envelopes need to be doubled.” Fang Yuan didn’t understand: “Double return?” Confucius Tian said: “Yes, today Mayor Song He came here to send 3000 yuan. In a few years, his son will get married. How much red envelope do you think I should give at least?" Fang Yuan said, "6000?" Confucius Tian said, "This is the least." Fang Yuan said, "So Say, Yao Changqing, the principal of No. 3 Middle School, sent 2000 yuan in red envelopes this time, and he will have a baby later, so I will also send 4000 yuan back?" Confucius said, "Not necessarily. There is not much difference in this level, and it will be beneficial to your career development in the future. The relationship is not particularly important, just return it in equal amounts." Fang Yuan said: "Dad, this kind of human relationship seems to be a bottomless pit!" Confucius Tian said: "Yes, or the red envelopes are no longer called red envelopes, but It’s called a red fine. In fact, some people who came today were reluctant, but they were too embarrassed not to come. To a certain extent, I can decide his future fate. This is the case for several comrades in Dongzhou University. I think several comrades in Dongzhou No. 5 are also suspected of this! However, in general, the leaders As your level gets higher and higher, you will have fewer and fewer red envelopes to pay back, and you will receive more and more.”

The father-in-law's words seemed to reveal the sun through the clouds, allowing Fang Yuan to gain a deeper insight into the appearance and essence of the Chinese humane society; but like a cloud of fog, Fang Yuan was deeply confused about life, society, and communication.Such a complex interpersonal relationship will inevitably involve a lot of energy to think about things that have nothing to do with career, things that have nothing to do with work, and things that have nothing to do with learning.Alas, how else to put it, in China, it is difficult to be a human being, and it is difficult to ascend to the blue sky!When, in our society, we don't need to consider interpersonal relationships, but only need to do things with our heart, then our society will truly realize a harmonious and fair new situation in which everyone can give full play to their talents and develop their abilities.

Yang Yingxian, the vice-principal of Dongzhou No. 5 Middle School, took the initiative to stay and help Fangyuan.Fang Yuan said: "Principal Yang, I am very happy that you can come here today, go back and rest." Yang Yingxian said: "Principal Fang, it's all my fault today, the news is too late, otherwise, I would have been in the morning." I will rush over. Anyway, I have nothing to do at home, and it is my honor to run errands for Principal Fang." He said, looking at Ruan Shaoxiu who was standing beside him.Ruan Shaoxiu said in his heart: If you can think of this, then I won't be able to enjoy the glory alone.Today, Director Kong has a good impression of me, and Principal Fang also knows who is the strongest soldier among the 5.I believe that as long as Principal Fang makes progress, it will not be you Yang Yingxian, but I, Ruan Shaoxiu, who will continue to improve.

Yang Yingxian still stayed.One more greeting and sending can really relieve the pressure.At around 4 o'clock in the afternoon, Kong Shufang found Fangyuan and said, "Xiao Fang, I have to go home now, I have to cook confinement meals for Xiaohua." Fangyuan didn't understand what Kong Shufang meant, and said, "Mom, You have worked hard all day, why don't you find my godbrother and ask him to arrange for the cook to cook some." Kong Shufang said: "This meal, only I can do it. I am also happy when I am tired. When I see the child, I will I forgot everything. Little Ruan, please drive me back later." Ruan Shaoxiu said, "Okay, Director Kong." Kong Shufang saw that Fang Yuan didn't move, and said, "Xiao Fang, come here." Fang Yuan followed Kong Shufang Walking to one side, Kong Shufang said in a low voice, "Go and see the child, and talk to Xiaohua." Fang Yuan said, "What about this side?" Kong Shufang said, "There is your father on this side, and the This comrade from No. 5 High School, go quickly, I don’t worry if your parents are there.”

Aha, so it is!Fang Yuan felt a little unhappy in her heart, but she didn't show it, and said lightly, "Got it, Mom, you go, I'll go to see Shuanghua right away."

Returning to the single ward again, I saw Kong Shuanghua lying quietly on the bed, with the child lying beside her, sleeping peacefully.Fang's father and Fang's mother also sat quietly beside the other bed, staring intently at the child lying beside Kong Shuanghua, but they did not intend to approach affectionately.Fang Yuan walked up to his parents lightly, and said in a low voice: "Dad, Mom, you have worked hard all day, go back and rest early." Fang's father always said loudly: "No hard work, no hard work, seeing my grandson , I forgot to work hard.”

Kong Shuanghua said: "Dad, you can't keep your voice down so you can scare the child!" Fang's father couldn't see the younger generation's accusation, and was about to explode, but Fang's mother pulled his sleeve again, and swallowed the words abruptly, holding back The old man's face turned red and white.Fang Yuan agrees with the content of Fang Yuan's words, but not her attitude.But what can Fang Yuan say?No matter how much Kong Shuanghua made a mistake, she suffered so much today, and she suffered so much for the sake of her child. Any mistakes should be tolerated.What made Fang Yuan feel even more humble was that if Fang Shujuan and Kong Shuanghua were not the ones who gave birth today, I am afraid that there would not be so many people coming to congratulate her, and not so many people would come to give red envelopes, let alone live alone. room up.Throughout the day today, Fangyuan has a clearer understanding of the strength of his father-in-law. As a vice principal of a small middle school, it is actually a small ant in his father-in-law's hand. easy.Fang Yuan was full of awe for Kong Zitian today, and for the first time, he felt a sense of awe for Kong Shuanghua: Don't provoke Kong Shuanghua, if you annoy Kong Shuanghua, you may annoy Kong Zitian.This kind of thing that affects the development of the career must not be done, and I will try not to do it in the future.

Seeing that the parents could only look at the grandson from a distance, but did not dare to approach him, Fang Yuan felt extremely sad: This must be a hint or a direct reminder from the mother-in-law or wife, because the parents are not hygienic enough!Or maybe the parent’s calluses are too thick, and they are afraid of scratching the delicate skin of the child!Fangyuan walked to the bedside, looked at his son, and saw that the child's mouth was exactly the same as his own, and Fangyuan inexplicably grew fond of this child; seeing that the child's forehead was as wide and full as his father-in-law's, Fangyuan felt that his own The son will definitely be very, very smart, and will be able to surpass his grandfather in the future.Looking at his son, Fang Yuan liked it more and more!Looking at Kong Shuanghua again, Fangyuan's heart softened: "Shuanghua, you really worked hard today." Kong Shuanghua said, "Yes, it really hurts, intermittently, more and more intensively. At that time , I really want to give up and just get stabbed. But when I think of my son, I have confidence and courage. I want to give birth to the child naturally, and let the child receive the most important exercise in life when he is born. "Fang Yuan was emotional: "Shuanghua, you are so great." Kong Shuanghua said: "Mothers in the world are great. After giving birth today, I realized how difficult it is for my mother. I will treat my mother better in the future." Fang Yuan was also infected. Looking back, Fang's mother said, "Mom, you are also a great mother." Fang's mother burst into tears.Fang Yuan greeted his parents: "Dad, Mom, come and see the child." The two old people immediately stood up and walked over.Fang Yuan said: "Dad, Mom, look, this child's mouth looks so much like his grandfather!" Fang's father also wiped his eyes excitedly: "Well, it looks like me, like me!" As he spoke, he stretched out his hand , I heard Kong Shuanghua say: "Dad, don't touch the child." Fang's father said: "This is my grandson, I won't hurt him if I move it, and I didn't hurt him." Kong Shuanghua said: "The child's skin is tender. Look at the calluses on your hands, don't scratch the child's skin." Father Fang said, "I'll just touch it, touch it, I want to touch my grandson." Fang Yuan said, "Dad, you just Let's touch it. Shuanghua is right, touch gently so as not to hurt the child's skin." In one sentence, it took care of the emotions of both parties.Father Fang was overjoyed, stretched out his hand to touch the child, tears finally welled up in his eyes, and muttered to himself: "I have a grandson, I have a grandson, my Fang family has a son, my Fang family has a son." Turning around Face, folded hands, murmured prayer: "Thank God, let my son give birth to a child for the first time, and he gave birth to a child with a handle. Thanks to God's blessing, my old Fang family can pass on to the next generation."

Mother Fang said: "Daughter-in-law, can I touch my grandson too?" Kong Shuanghua was reluctant, but when he saw Fang Yuan, he backed down a step: "Mom, you have to touch gently." Mother Fang said, "I gently touch him." Touch it lightly." Fang Yuan said: "Mom, you can touch it with confidence, my Shuanghua is reasonable." Fang's mother said: "Yes, yes! My grandson, grandma is looking forward to you, just like Looking forward to the stars and the moon, from the end of last year to now, I have been counting the days every day! My grandson, my precious grandson!" Mother Fang couldn't help sobbing softly.Fang's father turned his face away, and Fang's mother said: "Old woman, the gift we give to our grandson should also be given to our grandson. Yuanyuan, you call your father-in-law." Fang Yuan said: "Okay."

Confucius Tian was invited over, and Confucius said, "My family, what can I do for you?" Fang's father said, "Brother in-law, I have a grandson, I have a grandson! My old Fang family has a queen, and my old Fang family I have a future." Kong Zitian was not very happy to hear it, but he was deeply cultivated: "Yes, our Fang family and the Kong family have a third generation." Fang's father said: "My grandson's grandma and I also I prepared a meeting gift and a red envelope for my grandson. We are poor people. Looking at the people who came here to give red envelopes today, Yuanyuan’s mother and I feel that we are even poorer. But no matter how poor we are, we can’t be poor. My grandson, my wife, Take out the red envelope and meeting gift."

The red envelopes of Fang's father and Fang's mother are real envelopes wrapped in red paper.Fang's father handed the money to Kong Shuanghua and said, "Girl, you gave birth to a grandson for me, and you have contributed the most! This is 1 yuan. You can buy milk powder for the child, clothes, or whatever. You want to make up for it. Spend it too."

The words are very simple, there are no more adjectives, but it permeates Father Fang's love for his grandson is also extremely deep. 1 yuan may not be a big deal to many people, but for a farmer like Father Fang, it is not easy to save.Confucius Tian is very familiar with the situation of the peasants, especially the situation in the rural areas of Jilin.Confucius Tian said: "In-laws, it's too important, this meeting ceremony is too heavy. You should take back the red envelopes, just take out one or two. Brother, you also saw that today we received hundreds of thousands of red envelopes." , It’s really not short of ten thousand, but for my elder brother and sister-in-law, this ten thousand is the hard-earned money that has been saved for several years!”

Fang's father said: "I know that my in-laws are high-ranking officials, and there are many people who come to give red envelopes to my in-laws, but other people's money is other people's money. I am the grandson's grandfather, and my money represents my feelings for my grandson. This cannot be replaced by others. You can dislike me for being dirty, uneducated, or smoking, but no matter what, this child is my grandson, and I am his grandfather. My family has been Single biography, the money saved by me and the old woman will belong to my grandson when we get old, and no one will get a penny, and my grandsons will not get a penny. Also, this meeting ceremony is between me and my grandson. Old woman, I found a craftsman to melt all the silver jewelry at home, and made a bracelet, an anklet, and a silver lock for my grandson to bless my grandson with a long life. I must wear it for my grandson. .”

Although Confucius Tian was a little displeased with Father Fang's blunt sarcasm, he was also a little moved by the old man's deep affection for his grandson.Anyway, this money is for the children, if you want to have it, you can give it. It's really a dog biting Lu Dongbin, and he doesn't know good people.Confucius Tian said: "Brother, you can put it on for your child. If my wife doesn't agree, I will do her job." Father Fang said: "Well, it's all right! I'll put it on for my grandson right away."

Fang's father and Fang's mother carefully put the bracelet and silver lock on the child.Fang's father told Fang Yuan, "Yuanyuan, let my grandson wear it all the time, don't take it off." Fang Yuan was also deeply moved by his father: "Okay, keep it on, don't take it off."

Father Fang said: "My in-laws, my grandson is born, and he doesn't have a name yet! The old woman and I have thought about it a lot, but I know we are rough people and uneducated. My in-laws, you are highly educated, so give me a nice name. Tell me, why should this child be called Fang?"

Aha, what is the child's last name and what is his name? Confucius has thought deeply about this question many times, and this is what Confucius is most concerned about.Now, when his in-laws asked him to name him, Confucius hesitated.A few days ago, when Fangyuan and Kong Shuanghua had a particularly awkward fight, Kong Zitian thought about making concessions, but today, Song Yunsheng has come to stand for him. I believe that Fangyuan can see his own strength, so what if the child's surname is Kong ?Fangyuan's father, an old man, actually said that the child's surname is Fang. Isn't that against me?Confucius Tian groaned and looked at Papa Fang. At this moment, he wanted to come up with an idea that could achieve the best of both worlds, without tearing his face, but also realize the dream plan that he had been looking forward to for a long time in his heart!

Finally, after several back and forth psychological contests, Kong Zitian's selfishness prevailed.Damn, if a child enjoys such good conditions, of course the surname should be Kong. Only the surname Kong can not only continue the family line of my Kong family, but also enjoy the infinite glory brought by the Kong family, my Confucius Field.After making up his mind, Confucius said, "I haven't decided on the child's name. I'll check the almanac later. However, I've decided on the nickname. The first time I saw this child, I thought he was very smart." , I’ll call him Fang Rui by nickname, okay?”