Director's growth history

When Fang Yuan got home, it was already very late. 【|】Fang Yuan thought that the family members were already asleep, but unexpectedly, the light was on in the living room, and the familiar figure was none other than his father-in-law Kong Zitian.

Fang Yuan walked over lightly, and said softly, "Dad, I'm back." Confucius Tian said, "Oh, I'm back. Good to be back." Fang Yuan said, "Are Shuanghua and the others asleep?" Confucius Tian said Said: "Sleeping. Your mother and Shuanghua shared the same bed, so that she can take care of Shuanghua. Also, I know you are busy with work, so I am afraid that it will affect your work, so I put a camp bed in my study, and the bedding is also made. Well, you can sleep in the study from now on." Fang Yuan said: "Understood, Dad." Confucius Tian said: "I still have something to tell you, let's talk in the study."

The heart that was originally in his stomach was lifted up by Confucius Tian again: God, it is not possible to ask about Shao Keqing again.Now Fangyuan has made up her mind: she will never admit any relationship with Shao Keqing.Let the wind blow from east to west, from north to south, I insisted that Qingshan would not relax.

"Sit down." Kong Zitian took his usual seat, and Fang Yuan sat opposite Kong Zitian.Confucius looked into Fang Yuan's eyes, and asked calmly: "Xiao Fang, is the relationship between you and Shao Keqing just ordinary friends?" What kind of relationship is the relationship between siblings?" Fang Yuan said, "It's better than the relationship of ordinary friends, but it's not the kind of relationship between lovers. This kind of relationship is the same as the relationship between me and Mr. Miao of Jingu. "Confucius Tian said: "But do you know Shao Keqing?" Fang Yuan said: "I don't know much about her past, but I know her present. She is a leader of Dongzhou Railway, and the weight of speaking in Dongzhou Railway is very important." .For me, having such a friend is very important. At least I won’t have any difficulty buying a train ticket. If there is no train ticket, Shao Keqing can use her power to let me and my friends and classmates It’s time to get on the train first, and pay for the ticket when you get on the train. This is something that other friends find difficult.”

This is an objective reason.Confucius Tian couldn't easily change his doubts because of such a reason.Confucius Tian said: "You don't know Shao Keqing, and I didn't know it before, but I do now. Fang Yuan, in this world, except for family members, no one will give and do things unconditionally. The leader promotes someone A subordinate is because the subordinate is loyal and has done many things for the leader; the relationship between friends is good because apart from feeling right, the most important thing is to help each other. You keep looking for Shao Keqing to buy train tickets, and you help Shao Keqing What have you done?"

It should be said that Confucius Tian's ability to grasp problems is really extraordinary, and he grasped the crux of the matter at once.Fang Yuan also knew that the question asked by his father-in-law was so overwhelming that he almost couldn't answer it satisfactorily.But at this time, I have to bite the bullet and say: "Dad, Shao Keqing has helped me a lot, but I am not useless. When she was the vice principal of No. 68 High School and No. 5 High School, she also found me many times. I hope I can make it easier for her friend's children to go to school. This is exactly in line with what you said about helping each other."

Confucius Tian was taken aback for a moment, the son-in-law's words were reasonable!This is what Confucius Tian did not expect.Originally, Confucius Tian wanted to start from this angle, and set up the relationship between Fangyuan and Shao Keqing, but looking at it now, Fangyuan is watertight!Kong Zitian remained calm and nodded: "Yes. However, Xiao Fang, we live in this society. If we want to make progress, it is very important to learn to analyze whether others are using us, and whether others are close to us. Special purpose. The so-called not to have the heart to harm others, nor to be without the heart to guard against others, is what he said." Fang Yuan nodded: "Dad, what you said is true." Confucius Tian said: "In this society, the most terrifying Most people are not gangsters, because their badness is blatantly bad; the most terrifying people are those who talk about honey and swords, and call each other face-to-face. People who stumble behind the back and use knives. Among such people, a woman with such a mind is even more terrifying." Fang Yuan said: "What Dad said is very reasonable. But I don't think Miss Shao Keqing is such a person." Kong Zitian said: "In the officialdom, there is a kind of woman who is terrible. This kind of woman is always single or divorced very early Shao Keqing is exactly the kind of woman who is single and constantly promoted." Fang Yuan didn't understand.Confucius Tian said: "Do you know the female deputy director of the Department of Health of Anhui Province, surnamed Shang?" Fang Yuan said: "I know some, but it's not necessarily true." Confucius Tian said: "She is the chairman of the county women's federation, the deputy county magistrate, the vice president of the city court, the president, and the deputy secretary of the municipal party committee. All by sleeping with the superiors. By sleeping with the superiors and cultivating her own relationship, she is basically untouchable in Fuyang. When her crimes are almost grasped by the superior discipline inspection committee, she is the first to be leveled. She went to work in the Provincial Department of Health, and five months later she was double-regulated as the deputy director of the Provincial Department of Health, because in Fuyang, she couldn't be touched at all." Fang Yuan showed a look of disdain on his face: "Such a woman is indeed It’s shameless. A person’s progress depends on his own efforts, performance, and loyalty to his superiors, how can he rely on selling his body?”

Seeing that Fangyuan had entered the Tao, Confucius was very relieved: "Yes, you said it very well. But, do you know that Shao Keqing is now sitting as the deputy director of the Dongzhou Railway Office, which is equivalent to the former deputy director of the Dongzhou Railway Branch Bureau?" Director, this journey is all about sleeping with the superiors." Fang Yuan turned pale with shock, "How is this possible?" Kong Zitian said in an orderly manner, "Xiao Fang, think about it, she is almost 40, she is still single, right? She doesn't have any children, she usually wants to dress up because she wants to look young and charming. How are these characteristics different from that of Deputy Director Shang?"

Fang Yuan was unwilling to believe this was true, but his father-in-law's analysis was very reasonable.Fang Yuan's heart was really painful, and at the same time, she was also a little disgusted. If Shao Keqing was such a woman, how could she...

Confucius Tian said: "Xiao Fang, I have learned about Shao Keqing's history. It is rare for our son-in-law Weng to sit together for such a long time. Today I will tell you about Shao Keqing that I know." According to the order of the chronicle, Fangyuan told Fangyuan about the growth history of Shao Keqing step by step from a female conductor at the age of 18 to the deputy director of the railway sub-bureau and deputy director of the railway office.Confucius Tian narrates, Fang Yuan is suffering more and more day by day, Fang Yuan hopes that this is not true, but she believes more and more in her heart that everything her father-in-law said is true.Shao Keqing is the deputy director of Dongzhou, and the epitome of Fuyang's deputy director Shang in Dongzhou is Shao Keqing.

After Confucius Tian finished speaking, Fang Yuan's thoughts stopped struggling.Fang Yuan realized that he had lost his composure just now, and believed that his performance just now had all entered Confucius Tian's eyes.Fang Yuan sighed and said, "Dad, it seems that the Youth Federation is not the representative of outstanding young people from all walks of life, and there are also some dregs mixed in the Youth Federation!" Confucius said, "You can't say that. The Youth Federation is the representative of youth from all walks of life. The assembly is a small party, a small political consultative conference. Shao Keqing took the post of deputy director of the railway branch at the age of 34. From the perspective of the scene, he is indeed a successful person, and the Youth Federation's recruitment is also correct." Confucius Tian decided to continue to feel disgusted Let's talk about Shao Keqing: "Of course, Shao Keqing is also excellent in other aspects, such as sleeping with superiors, no matter the level or quantity of sleeping with leaders, they are all very good." Fang Yuan suddenly felt nauseous.Confucius Tian said: "Xiao Fang, do you think you are still willing to maintain a sister-brother relationship with Shao Keqing? Do you think it is appropriate for your parents to recognize Shao Keqing as a goddaughter?" Fang Yuan blurted out: "I don't want to. I will break up with Shao Keqing in the future , What kind of friendship relationship, what kind of sibling relationship, don’t want it. I can’t have too much contact with a bitch, it will affect my family, my work, and my development.”

Kong Zitian nodded in satisfaction, knowing that his conversation today, although he did not reveal the real relationship between Fang Yuan and Shao Keqing, but Fang Yuan was able to say the word of breaking up with Shao Keqing, which seems to be quite satisfactory.Confucius Tian said: "Actually, the golden mean is the best in the communication between people, and you can't go from one extreme to another. If a person wants to make progress, he must be close to the virtuous and stay away from the villain. Shao Keqing is a villain, stay away from her, There are only good things for you and no bad things. But staying away does not mean that you are against each other, nor does it mean that fire and water are incompatible. In this world, don't easily offend a person, especially a villain. My ancestor Confucius I once said a famous saying: The only villains in the world are difficult to raise. This Shao Keqing is a combination of villains and women. If you offend her, I am afraid that there will be more troubles. Therefore, my attitude is: On the surface, you still have to Be polite, if she asks you for something, as long as it does not violate discipline and principles, you can help her; but when you deal with her relationship, you must know what to do." Fang Yuan nodded: "Dad, you That’s very well said. The doctrine of the mean is indeed very Tao.” Confucius said, “The doctrine of the mean is also an important exposition of the philosophy of my ancestors! It’s the essence of the doctrine of the golden mean. Don't overdo it, don't exceed a certain limit, otherwise it's better than 'less than'."

Fang Yuan said: "Thank you for your teaching. I know how to get along with Shao Keqing in the future. I usually stay away and don't take the initiative to contact her. If the other party finds me, I can't easily offend her. Be polite." Confucius Tian said: "That's right." Fang Yuan said: "This time my parents return to Tonghua, I still want to trouble her to contact her for the train ticket, and more importantly, let my parents be well taken care of on the train. Can I find her?" Kong Zitian thought for a while, and said, "It's better for the county magistrate to take care of her now. It's the best way to find her. Although I can handle the train ticket, I'm afraid it's still difficult to get taken care of on the train." It's difficult. Since I looked for her when I came here, she will become suspicious if I don't look for her when I go back. Villains are always suspicious, which is really scary."

Fang Yuan said, "I understand."