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Confucius Tian did not have dinner at home. 【 】After returning to her mother-in-law's house with her parents, Fang Yuan plunged into the kitchen, helping Kong Shufang with this and that.Fang's father and Fang's mother focused on looking after their grandson.Kong Shuanghua and the nanny Xiaoqing took turns holding the child, while the two elderly people stood by and watched.Fang's father looked at his grandson, and the more he watched, the more he liked him, and said, "Daughter-in-law, you have done a great service to our old Fang family this time." Kong Shuanghua said, "Dad, this is the crystallization of my love with Fang Yuan. What's the relationship?" Father Fang said, "Of course it does. Our Fang family has been passed down for several generations. Now that you have my grandson, the incense of our old Fang family will be passed down to another generation. I hope that when my grandson grows up, , to be able to give birth to sons, from generation to generation, to continue the incense of our old Fang family." Kong Shuanghua said: "Dad, what age has it been, and it is still so feudal! In today's society, boys and girls are the same, and being a daughter is not necessarily better than being a daughter. My son is doing poorly!" Father Fang said, "It's different, it's a big difference. My daughter is the water that was thrown out, and she belongs to someone else's family when she marries; this son will always belong to his own family." Kong Shuanghua was a little unhappy : "Dad, I don't like to hear you say that. I am also my father's daughter. Could it be that if I marry Fangyuan, is it just a splash? Are you born to look down on us women? If I don't give birth to a son , is a daughter, do you still want to show me face?"

Oh, it's time to quarrel again.Seeing that Fang's father was blushing a little and his neck was thick, Fang's mother quickly grabbed Fang's father and interceded: "Daughter-in-law, your father didn't mean that, your father didn't mean that." Kong Shuanghua said: "What do you mean, what do you mean? I don't understand, Dad, were you born to your grandma's daughter? You look down on women, don't you even look down on your mother, someone else's daughter!" Fang's father never received such accusations from juniors, his face flushed red, almost Unable to restrain his anger, Fang Yuan and Fang's mother pulled him back.Kong Shufang also came over and said to Kong Shuanghua, "Xiaohua, what are you talking about?" Kong Shuanghua said, "I didn't say anything. My father-in-law favors sons over daughters. What kind of society is this, and still favors sons over daughters? There are no women." , how can there be a man? I think my mother-in-law gave birth to two older sisters, and my father-in-law probably didn't give my mother-in-law a good look." Fang's father said loudly: "Don't pull me, both of you! I won't teach you a lesson today. Teach this uneducated daughter-in-law a lesson, my surname is not Fang!" Kong Shuanghua said: "What's the matter, you still want to beat someone! This is a civilized society, and this is in my house, you beat me! If you dare to beat me, I will kill you today Do you believe in throwing your grandson to the ground?"

Fang Yuan felt that she was about to collapse immediately.Fang Yuan said: "Mom, you take Dad out first, and go back to the house on the other side first." Fang's mother said: "Okay." Fang's father was still stubborn: "I won't go, I will teach this ignorant thing a lesson today. " Fang Yuan said: "Dad, have you had enough trouble? Don't you think it's not enough chaos? You go back to the other side first, I beg you!" Fang's mother said, "Old man, what's the matter with you? Why don't you care about it?" Shut up! Let's go." Fang's mother pulled in front, Fang Yuan pushed behind, and Fang's father was pulled out of the door.

Fangyuan closed the door, and said to Kong Shuanghua who was already crying like a tearful person: "Shuanghua, I'm sorry! I want to apologize to you on behalf of my father! Today, my father exposed the feudal thinking, please mom, Shuanghua Forgive me. An old man in the countryside, they do not have such a high level of education, nor do they have the ideas that can keep up with the times, please understand more!" Kong Shufang said: "I understand, I understand. Rural people, the opposite Boys are still more important. Xiaohua, you have to understand your father-in-law. After all, you don’t live together. Your father-in-law can’t stay in Dongzhou for a few more days, so you let him spend a few days happily Let's go." Kong Shuanghua said: "Actually, I don't want to contradict him, but what he said is really annoying." Kong Shufang said: "You are a junior, what you said today is enough to anger." Kong Shuanghua said: "What? Things have to be reasonable. What I said is all based on reason." Kong Shufang said: "Anyway, you are also a junior, you don't look at other people's face, you don't give Fang Yuan some face!" Kong Shuanghua said: "Forget it, forget it. From now on, my father-in-law can say whatever he likes, and I will pretend not to hear." Fang Yuan cupped his hands and said, "Thank you, wife!" In the evening, let me have some dinner with my parents, we can’t eat together.” Kong Shufang said: “Xiao Fang, I’ve done so much.” Fang Yuan said: “Mom, do you think my father and Shuanghua are sitting together, Can everyone still have a good meal?" Kong Shufang said: "That's true. But after doing so much, there is nothing left." Fang Yuan said: "Put it in the refrigerator and eat it tomorrow morning." Kong Shufang said: "That's the only way to go." Fang Yuan said, "Shuanghua, don't be angry. When my dad comes over tomorrow, just pretend it's nothing. If you want to talk, just say a few words, and if you don't want to, don't say it." Look at him, okay?" Kong Shuanghua said: "Okay, you are my husband, I still want to give you face." Fang Yuan said: "I'll go see my dad, and I have to persuade him. His feudal thinking , It’s really wrong.” Kong Shuanghua said: “When will you come back?” Fang Yuan said: “Try to come back as soon as possible. However, I must have dinner with my parents.” About to go out, Fang Yuan turned around and added: “ Wife, if my father is really angry and sick and hospitalized in Dongzhou, I will have to go to the hospital." One sentence awakened the dreamer, Kong Shufang and Kong Shuanghua looked at each other, and they both realized The problem that Fangyuan mentioned is actually a very realistic and difficult problem.

Fang Yuan left his mother-in-law's house and let out a long breath.On the Yonglu Road of the Jiaogong Community, Fang Yuan said to himself: "Is it easy for me to fuck?" What can I do if it is not easy?With heavy steps, Fangyuan came to the house rented by her parents.When I opened the door, I was choked by the strong smell of dry smoke and coughed.Seeing Mom and Dad sitting on the sofa, Fang Yuan also sat down.Now, my father is in a fit of anger, it's hard to handle!Fang Yuan has learned about his father's stubborn temper for more than 20 years, and Fang Yuan knows his father well, so he has no good way to persuade him, so he can only sit with him in silence.

But Fang's father was not polite, and when he saw his son, he exploded: "Look at you! You just watched your wife shit on your father's head, and you didn't care, and drove your father out. Are you still my son, and am I still your father?" Mother Fang said: "It's not easy for a son, aren't you forcing my son?" Father Fang said: "Now you two are forcing me!"

Fang Yuan really wanted to explode now, but couldn't find a suitable target!My dear father, you are my dear uncle!Look at the "beautiful" things you did and said in Dongzhou!It’s true that which pot is not opened and which pot is lifted, you can say whatever will affect the relationship between your son and his parents-in-law’s family; you can say whatever will make people unwilling to listen.Could it be that there really is such a relationship of mutual generation and mutual restraint in the dark?Could it be that his father and himself, his mother-in-law, and Shuanghua have a mutually exclusive relationship?Fangyuan thought of his father in the Jingu Hotel, greedy for Wuliangye, saying that he could bring a few more bottles of free wine, remembered the way Miao Dongshun and Si Yushi's eyes were shining when they gave their father presents, and remembered the last thing he wanted Mentioning Shao Keqing in front of his parents-in-law and wife, the old father just talked about it with joy; thinking of Kong Shuanghua, who had studied in college, the most disgusting thing was probably patriarchy, and the old father just said that having a son is more important than having a daughter.It seems that my father should really go back, and if he stays again, I don't know how many new stories will be "created", and how many new troubles will be brought to me!But these words, can you tell your father?It is unfilial to speak out!If he really made his father angry and was hospitalized in Dongzhou for a long time, then he would be completely collapsed.This is what Fang Yuan is most worried about right now.Therefore, these thoughts in my heart can only be held in my heart, and I have no way to communicate with my father.Fang Yuan said: "Dad, if you think your son is not good, you can scold and beat your son hard." Fang's father immediately stood up and shouted: "I'll beat you to death, you bastard!" Stopping in mid-air, he saw the crystal clear tears on Fang Yuan's face.

Fang's father put down his hand and said, "Son, you are crying!" Fang Yuan choked up, and said, "Dad, hit me, scold me, vent your anger, that's all." Fang's mother followed suit. Tears.Father Fang sighed, and said, "Actually, it's not a big deal. I just like my grandson, don't I like my granddaughter very much! Even this, I won't let you talk about it. Son, dad has come to Dongzhou for a few days, is it right?" You have caused a lot of trouble?" Fang's mother said: "Do you still need to talk? Look at your stinky mouth. If your in-laws don't want to listen, you can say anything; if your son doesn't want to say something, you can say something; Whatever you listen to, you can talk about it.” Father Fang said: “There are many rules in this city, but it’s better in our countryside, we can do whatever we want. I talk like this all day long, how do I know which sentence to say, which one to say You shouldn’t say a word.” Fang’s mother said: “It’s not easy, if you can’t tell what should be said, don’t say it.” Fang’s father was not convinced: "Then it’s better to treat me as a dumb person." Fang's mother said: "You have been dumb for a few days, and you have lost arms and legs?"

Fangyuan said: "Dad, I also know that it is not easy for you, so please be considerate and considerate of your son. My son is in Dongzhou, and he looks beautiful, and it is not easy to get along! Don't you want your son to succeed? You want to If your son is outside like a dog, you have to let your son work hard outside without any burden or worries. Dad, think about it, if I have to deal with housework conflicts all day long, I will have to deal with it all day In order to resolve the conflict between you and your mother-in-law, you and Shuanghua, how can I have the heart to fight outside? This backyard is always on fire, how can I have the heart to fight in the front yard?"

Father Fang sat down and smoked another bag of cigarettes.Fang's mother said: "What my son said is true! We are old, and we can't rely on our son. The son is promising, and as parents, we should also get some credit! If the son can't work hard outside, we I just want to enjoy the blessings, but I can’t enjoy them! Old man, I think, let’s go back quickly. Go back earlier, so that my son can save a day of worrying about family affairs. When my son really becomes famous in the future, let’s come again Isn’t it good to find a son and live with him?” Father Fang said, “Okay, go back, I’ll go back tomorrow. I’ve really had enough of this place in Dongzhou, and I don’t want to stay any longer.” Fang Yuan smiled wryly: This one An hour ago, I was still praising the beautiful scenery of Dongzhou. I ate swan meat and swan eggs. After an hour, I said that I had enough.This person is old, and everyone says he is an old urchin. There is really a certain truth in it, and there is no certainty in speaking.Fang Yuan said, "Just this Saturday. I've been busy for the past few days, so I don't have time to take the old man home. Besides, I have to contact you about the train ticket." Fang's father said, "Okay, just this Saturday. Buying the ticket is still It's not easy, just ask me to be your daughter." Fang Yuan said, "It's definitely going to trouble Sister Shao, but Dad, don't take it for granted. Think about it, we didn't do anything for others. It's useless, why do people help us so naturally! This is because we are begging them, and they are willing to help, it is for the sake of friends, if they don't help, you say you can still manage them ?"

Fang Yuan tried his best to speak earnestly, and Father Fang really listened: "Son, you are saying the same thing. This Xiao Shao is not related to us, but I just picked up a daughter-in-law for no reason! Son, no , Is there a special relationship between you and her? Otherwise, why does she help us like this? Why does she treat me and your mother so well? Why does she make me feel like the daughter-in-law my Fang family should marry? "

A few words hit Fang Yuan's vitals.Fang Yuan would have acquiesced before his father-in-law told Shao Keqing's "glorious history"; but now, Fang Yuan doesn't agree that Shao Keqing is the most important woman besides his wife.Fang Yuan's face was a bit serious.Fang's mother saw her son's expression for the first time, and criticized Fang's father, saying: "Old man, you are really serious. You will never change after repeated admonitions. You really don't want to open any pot! If your daughter-in-law or in-laws hear what you said, , How much trouble will you cause your son!" Fang's father opened his eyes wide: "Son, is she the third child you raised outside?"

Fang Yuan really wanted to bang his head against the wall and die now!With such a father who seemed enlightened but not enlightened, even if the gods came, he would be dizzy with anger.This Fang's father immediately covered his mouth, looking very ridiculous.After a while, he let go of his hand and said, "Look at your father's stinky mouth. You should never say such things. But, son, no matter how I look at this Xiao Shao, he is better than that Xiao Kong! You Why didn't you marry this little Shao?"

Fang Yuan felt that he was about to spurt blood.Having such a father is really dumbfounding!