Director's growth history

Facing Fang Yuan’s question, Confucius pondered for a moment, and then said: “Resources are good things. If you use them well, you will benefit yourself and others; if you use them poorly, you will harm yourself and others.” Dam, who has oil resources, but it is useless, so he lost his wealth and life, and the Iraqi people can no longer find the original happy and peaceful life. From a human point of view, the more people you contact, the more There are more resources, but human resources are never one-way resources, they are all two-way. You treat others as resources, and others also treat you as resources; you use other people's resources, and you also have to pay for others The resources you possess; you have used other people's resources reasonably, and you have grown and progressed; you have used other people's or your own resources unreasonably or beyond the limits of the law, and you may be deeply trapped and unable to extricate yourself. It's pushing yourself into the bottomless abyss!"

This should be a highly condensed and generalized view of “resources” by Confucius.What surprised Fang Yuan was that he understood the meaning of his father-in-law's words today, as well as the complex dialectical relationship.In fact, if the words of my father-in-law are summed up by myself, there are two meanings: "resources" will make progress if they are used well, and bad luck if they are not used well; "resources" are two-way, and they are mutually utilized.

Confucius Tian said: “Let’s talk about a very real example. In Chenzhou, Hunan, the secretary of the municipal party committee, the secretary of the discipline inspection committee, and the deputy mayor were successively deposed. The secretary of the discipline inspection committee was even sentenced to death. In fact, when some businessmen desperately gave money to these city leaders , these businessmen regard the power in the hands of the city leaders as a resource; as a city leader, after receiving money from others, they have to do things for them to reflect the two-way nature of resources. Therefore, those who have the right to grant land will grant land, Those who have the power of inspection by the Disciplinary Committee even pioneered the protection of the coal mine owner by the Municipal Commission for Discipline Inspection. This is obviously beyond the provisions of the party discipline and state laws. The final result is: unreasonable use of resources that should not be used, ruining their own reputation, and at the same time regretting Lifetime. So my attitude is: in the face of resources, we must hold the mentality of trembling and walking on thin ice, scientifically use the resources in our hands, make more use of the advantages, try to avoid the disadvantages, and let the resources serve the development , Let resources serve progress. We can’t let our previous efforts go to waste because of unreasonable use of resources!”

Fang Yuan nodded deeply.An expert is an expert, and a scholar is a scholar.The father-in-law stands tall, sees far, and makes Fang Yuan feel like he has read books for 10 years.Kong Shuanghua also listened to it, and said, "Dad, can I understand that Fangyuan is also my resource, and Fangrui is also my resource, but I have to use it reasonably and not over-consume, otherwise there will be bad A good result." Kong Zitian said: "Yes. You must give compensation for using resources. Just use without compensation, and any resources will not be used for you all the time." Kong Shuanghua said: "I will treat my husband better in the future. I was thinking about it just now, and I feel that what I did before was not good enough." Fang Yuan was taken aback: Could it be that Kong Shuanghua also has such an awareness?Thinking that Shao Keqing is traveling in Malaysia with other men, Fang Yuan's heart hurts. Since she is so unselfish, then I will treat this family and Kong Shuanghua wholeheartedly from now on.Anyway, when Kong Shuanghua married her, she was a virgin, and now she gave birth to a son, this credit cannot be erased at any time!Fangyuan gently hugged Kong Shuanghua, and said affectionately: "Shuanghua, let us respect and love each other, honor the elderly, educate children well, and build a harmonious and beautiful family. I am busy with work and career, and I will try to spare time Accompany you and the children, do some housework, and fulfill the responsibilities of a husband!" Kong Shuanghua buried his head in Fangyuan's arms and said, "Fangyuan, I will never yell at you again, I know, it hurts feelings Yes, that's also an overconsumption of resources."

Confucius Tian saw it, and his heart was full of joy: the young couple have a good relationship, this is very important, very important!

On this night, Fang Yuan and Kong Shuanghua sorted out more than 200 business cards received during the day, and sorted them out according to their understanding.While tidying up, Fangyuan sighed with emotion: "I never thought that participating in a National Day reception would yield such a great harvest and meet so many useful people!" Kong Shuanghua said, "Husband, these are all useful resources. If you use them well , will definitely help your career development." At this moment, Fang Yuan felt that Kong Shuanghua's views were so consistent with his own, and said admiringly: "Shuanghua is also very thoughtful and insightful." Kong Shuanghua said proudly: " Of course. If I didn’t have the foresight back then, how could I have taken the initiative to attend lectures, take the initiative to deliver meals, take the initiative to express my feelings to you, and grasp your potential stock early.”

After what Kong Shuanghua said, Fang Yuan looked at Kong Shuanghua with admiration: Ah, I always thought that Kong Shuanghua was quite thoughtless. Looking at it now, she really used all her useful resources to make herself decide to marry her, and gave up on Fang Shujuan and her. Song Sisi's.His wife, Kong Shuanghua, is not a simple person either!

During the next few days of the National Day holiday, Fang Yuan went to the school every morning to learn about the progress of the work and the basic situation of the school. He allocated all the work that could be assigned to the deputy and the middle management, and asked them to complete it. I only look at the results.Fang Yuan instructed Ruan Shaoxiu to arrange lunches for comrades who work overtime at school every day. Normal work meals should still be spent.After returning from school, Fang Yuan didn't go anywhere, and went straight home to take care of the children with his wife, mother-in-law and nanny Xiao Qing.During this holiday, Fang Yuan could hug Fang Rui every day, which greatly enhanced the relationship between father and son.Seeing his son who looks quite like her own, Fang Yuan is even more grateful to Kong Shuanghua and her mother-in-law for taking good care of her. The family laughs constantly and enjoys themselves happily.Fang Yuan didn't know, but actually this was the new strategy that Kong Shuanghua formed in his heart after listening to his father's words: make good use of the resource of his son, and let Fang Yuan take back his heart outside.

On October 10, Fang Yuan received a call from Dai Lianghua: "Principal Fang, I have counted the scores of the school's application for senior and first-level teachers this time. I wonder if Principal Fang has time today?" Fang Yuan said: "I I have time. Chairman Dai has worked hard." Dai Lianghua said: "It's a little hard work. This score is not easy to calculate. It involves the vital interests of every teacher. I am worried that the calculation is not accurate and will cause unnecessary conflicts. It will offend people." Fang Yuan said: "The work is done by Chairman Dai, and I shall take the responsibility. If there is any problem, let the teacher come to me. As long as Chairman Dai strictly follows the grading rules formed by the school in the past. , there is no problem." Dai Lianghua said: "That's what I said, but recently the phone calls keep coming. I have no choice but to go to school or stay at home. I calculated the score at my mother's house." Fang Yuan said "Although I didn't come to school, I still have to work overtime. I will ask Ruan Shaoxiu to pay for this fee." Dai Lianghua said, "Thank you, Principal Fang. We are in good spirits if you do this." Fang Yuan said: "That should be done in the first place, even if Principal Yang Fang presides over the work, she will do the same." Dai Lianghua said: "Then I will wait for you at school." Fang Yuan said: "Okay, I will go to school right away."