Director's growth history

There was only one interaction between Fang Yuan and his father-in-law throughout the night. [ y ] Fangyuan raised his glass, came to Confucius Tian, ​​and said respectfully: "Dad, son-in-law would like to offer you a toast, thank you for your care, love, support, help and teaching to son-in-law all the time." Confucius stood up and pulled Fang Yuan turned to the side: "Xiao Fang, I am really happy to see you grow up day by day. As a father, I am very willing to build a ladder for you and do my best to help you pave the road and build bridges." " Fangyuan said: "Thank you, Dad. Dad has always done this. The son-in-law knows it very well, so he is always grateful." Confucius Tian said: "I only have one daughter, and only one son-in-law. If the son-in-law is good, the daughter will be happy." Well, your grandson will be fine. Shuanghua is spoiled by your mother and me, she has a little temper, but she is very kind and simple. She loves you and this family wholeheartedly. I believe you can see Xiaofang too. Very clear." Fang Yuan nodded: "Dad, Shuanghua is a good woman." Kong Zitian said: "I really hope that you and Shuanghua will be loving and happy for the rest of your life, and I also believe that no matter what you do Fangyuan No matter where you are, you can think of a wife who loves you and a son who grows up healthy.” Fang Yuan understood what his father-in-law meant, and nodded again: “Dad, I am the kite of the world, no matter how far I go No matter how high I fly, I know the way home." Confucius said: "It's not cold at high places, so be cautious about being alone; there are many scenery at high places, and there are many temptations, so you have to cultivate yourself. This society is constantly moving forward. Society, reform and opening up will not continue to deepen, new trends of thought, new ideas continue to impact China's traditional ethics, Fangyuan, you have to make decisions before you move! If you can't restrain your thoughts and behaviors well, you will eventually hurt Not only yourself, but also those around you who care about you and love you."

Fang Yuan understood what his father-in-law said.Although it is euphemistic, it is profound; although it is kind, it also reminds; although it refers to mulberry, it actually talks about Huai; it talks about career development and family marriage.The father-in-law is the father-in-law, and he is a talented scholar.This time, unlike the past, he may be straightforward, perhaps because his father-in-law is not very clear about how much energy he has outside; but what his father-in-law said is still correct.The more advanced your career is, the higher your position is, the more you must be careful not to be caught by others to attack you; There will definitely be more and more, there will be temptations of money, and of course there will be temptations of beauty.These are all sweet traps, which look beautiful, but if you fall into them, you may be lost forever.Fangyuan even felt that the temptation of money and beauty was approaching him step by step. He couldn't resist and couldn't control himself. Maybe money didn't interest him that much, but more and more temptations from the opposite sex made Fangyuan know It's not suitable, but it can't resist the impact of hormones. The desire is bit by bit eating away at Fang Yuan's self-control.Father-in-law said to strengthen self-cultivation, now it is really necessary!

Fang Yuan said: "Dad, on the one hand, I want to strengthen my efforts and cultivate my morals; at the same time, I also really need Dad to remind me often. Sometimes, I don't see things clearly, and I don't see things deeply. Make some mistakes that shouldn't be made. Dad, please forgive me more and bear with me." Confucius said: "Mistakes that are not based on principle are always inevitable; There will be no new injuries in the future, and no more sheep will be lost, but the original lost sheep, whether it is one or several, are indeed gone, and this injury will always exist.”

Talking to my father-in-law is tiring!How many brain cells are I wasting?Fang Yuan said: "Dad, a man must dare to take responsibility, this is what you taught me. At work, I dare to take responsibility, so now I have won the trust and support of school officials and teachers; in life, I also have to dare to take responsibility, I will take responsibility for what I do, please rest assured Dad."

Confucius Tian sighed.After talking so much to my son-in-law, it seemed that my son-in-law understood everything, but the answer did not satisfy me.What is this doing?Going around in circles and roundabouts, I still haven't made it clear!It seems that this meaning answered my worries in the affirmative, but if it is so vague, it is not impossible to interpret another meaning.Could it be that Fangyuan's wings are really hard now?Judging from the contact with entrepreneurs this time, Fang Yuan may have some social connections; Song Yunsheng asked Fang Yuan to accompany him for dinner alone, and he heard that he had a good relationship with people in the military circle. Where did this relationship come from?Thinking that he still needed Fang Yuan's help, Confucius could only say vaguely: "Fang Yuan, Dad believes in you, and I will take care of myself." Fang Yuan said, "Dad, don't worry, I will take care of myself."

After the dinner, Weng and his son-in-law went home together.Originally, Ding Chunxiao wanted to give Fangyuan away, but Fangyuan refused: "Sister Ding, I'll take my dad's car, and it's just right for me to go home together." The star in Chunxiao's eyes, and Fangyuan, who is personable, well-spoken, gentle, and elegant, is the hero in Ding Chunxiao's heart.At the moment when Fang Yuan toasted her, she was like a girl in Huaichun, her heart jumped up like a bunny, and she didn't even dare to look up at Fang Yuan.Fang Yuan said: "Sister Ding, I would like to offer you a toast." Ding Chunxiao's voice became very low: "What are you offering to me?" Ding Chunxiao's relationship came.Fang Yuan said: "You are my god-sister, and I am your god-brother. In Dongzhou, you are my only god-sister, and I have never known anyone else. Based on this relationship, we I feel that as a younger brother, I should also respect my sister and wish my sister a better business." Ding Chunxiao said: "My business is doing well, but it is all thanks to everyone's help. Now, Chunxiao's production scale is getting bigger and bigger. , There are more and more stores, I really feel powerless now. I am not well-educated, that is high school, I now feel that the bigger the company is, the more difficult it is for me to manage. Temperament, it is difficult to manage the enterprise effectively.” Fang Yuan said: “Management is a university subject. When I first managed the school, I also encountered many difficulties and troubles. I know the combination of scientific management and humanistic management. This is the way to a company’s success.” Ding Chunxiao said: “I don’t know much about scientific management and humanistic management. The middle managers in my current company are basically old sisters who started with me in small stores. Many people here are not as educated as I am! Now, I feel that my management basically consists of two things: one is to rely on feelings, because they are all old sisters, and they are embarrassed; the other is to rely on punishment. The company's regulations, fines, whoever makes a mistake, fines. I know that the management of those big companies is indeed very scientific. I have visited Shu Weirong's company, such as the administration department, personnel department, planning department, The marketing department, the logistics department, and the financial department are very complete. I also set up these departments in my company, but I know that this is just for fooling people. It is for the purpose of ISO9001 quality system certification, not at all. As for the matter, I am the only one who has the final say in the whole company. I don’t know what many people are doing secretly in places that I can’t control. Fangyuan, my sister is so capable, and I know it well. Over the years, I have been longing for a strong man who can help me, but I have never found it. Yes, some capable men have helped me manage the company, but they didn't really help me, but they took a fancy to me The companies in my company have taken a fancy to my money. They don’t really love me, but they want to occupy my company one day in the future. This is the company I have worked hard for, and I will not give it to anyone. With such a thought, I would drive him out without hesitation. However, I can manage such a large company by myself, and it is really getting harder and harder. Relying on my old sisters who have gone through the world together, relying on my family If the relatives of my family want to make Chunxiao Company bigger and stronger, it will definitely not work. Fang Yuan, I have been thinking these days, can you help my sister? Before my sister finds that man, you can help my sister. Sister Knowing that you are capable and that your management is very good, this afternoon and tonight, this kind of thinking in my sister's heart is even stronger."