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2702.1555. The Sorrow of Chinese Women and the Helplessness of Chinese Officials

People have the seven emotions and six desires, and Confucius Tian is no exception!Saints also have troubles, not to mention that the father-in-law is not yet a saint.Fang Yuan understood his father-in-law's thoughts; Fang Yuan felt respect for his father-in-law's ability to openly communicate his concerns with himself.Fangyuan said: "Dad, don't worry, I'm already helping you with your affairs." Fangyuan told Kong Zitian about the communication with Kong Shufang and Kong Shuanghua, and then said: "Dad, just be patient and continue. Wait a minute. I think Mom has been reasonable for so many years. She will figure it out. She still loves you as before. She loves you very specifically. She definitely doesn't want to leave you, let alone you. But this time , She has a hurdle in her heart, and it will take time to get over it. I believe that it will be calm by the Lantern Festival tomorrow at the latest." On the other side of the phone, Kong Zitian choked up.Fang Yuan said: "Dad, I hope that you will transition from vice-principal to principal-principal in a smooth and smooth manner. You need to handle the outside affairs properly." Confucius Tian said: "I know, I know. Outside things, It’s also very tricky!” Fang Yuan said, “I’ve always felt that in this world, no one loves Dad more than Mom, no one understands and supports Dad more than Mom, and no one cares more selflessly and without any utilitarianism than Mom. Dad. I can’t comment on whether that person is true love, whether her love is utilitarian or not, but Dad can definitely judge it.” Confucius Tian said, “Yes! What!" In front of Fang Yuan, Kong Zitian did not shy away from this third party, presumably because Fang Yuan had met this teacher Ma before.

Fangyuan was deeply inspired by Confucius Tian’s personal experience: try not to provoke women outside, if you want to provoke, then you must control its influence within a controllable range, otherwise you will be like your father-in-law now, causing future troubles endless.Fangyuan feels wise to resolutely cut off the relationship with Ren Xiaoai and Ding Chunxiao. This Ding Chunxiao is better to say, she is simple and kind, and has no bad intentions; this Ren Xiaoai is impulsive and selfish. If there is a connection beyond friendship, Who can guarantee that one day a bomb will not burst out suddenly, causing people to be smashed to pieces?

Fang Yuan said: "Dad, I believe in your wisdom. However, I still have a suggestion." Confucius Tian said: "Okay, tell me." Fang Yuan said: "While your vice-principal is in charge of the work, it is best to stabilize After you are promoted to the main hall, I think it is better to solve this matter thoroughly. At this stage, whoever makes a fuss will be troublesome. But there are many nights and dreams, and one day we have to make a break!" Confucius Tian said: "Okay, that's it Done." Fang Yuan said, "Wait for my call. I let Shuanghua do my mother's ideological work." Confucius Tian said, "I really want to thank you for this matter." Fang Yuan said, "A son-in-law and a half My son, I also hope that you and my mother can grow old together." Confucius was full of emotion: I never thought that at this difficult time, it was his son-in-law Fangyuan who reached out to help him.Twice, the last time the school-enterprise cooperation was done, it was Fangyuan who helped him gain a firm foothold in a difficult environment;This son-in-law is more considerate than his daughter!

Fang Yuan talked with Kong Zitian on the phone, and sat in the office waiting for Kong Shuanghua's call.I don't know how well Kong Shuanghua's ideological work is doing.This ideological work is not easy to do!Who doesn't want their love and marriage to be faithful and pure?However, in today's society, it is too difficult to do this.Successful women put men under pressure and dare not approach; successful men are fatally attractive to women and rush forward regardless of everything~~ No one can explain how this social reality is formed, but now it is such a Social reality is an indisputable fact.Perhaps, the Chinese lack a social value system too much. It is indeed a terrible thing that 13 billion Chinese people do not have a social value system.In fact, the country has been working hard to promote the socialist value system, like the eight honors and eight disgraces, but how many ordinary people regard it as the basic principles they follow to conduct themselves in the world and make contributions?Many post-13s and post-13s, whether male or female, are more self-centered, taking their own subjective needs as the foundation of their lives, wanting to eat delicious food, wear fashion, live in a luxury house, drive a famous car, and carry Minel. Bags, L'Oreal cosmetics, longing to live a happy life with money and casual spending, only want this result, not the process of achieving this result, and do not want to rely on their own hard work to achieve a happy future.It is precisely because of being too egotistical that China's excellent traditional virtues are trampled underfoot by many post-2005s and post-1000s (not all of them). Whatever pure love, virginity, marital loyalty, and sharing weal and woe, all go to hell .There are fewer and fewer young couples struggling together in hardships, and many post-36s and post-40s want to take a shortcut.In nightclubs and high-end clubs, there are many post-2000s and post-10s post-2000s and post-2000s post-400s post-[-]s and post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s post-[-]s generation have become the main force in the prosperous and prosperous Chinese night life, so what are the values, morals and ethics? thing?As long as you have money, you are an uncle; as long as you have money, I will provide any service you want, take off your pants, what's the big deal?As long as you have money, what's the point of taking off one after another?In a gold medal club in Beijing, there is a top girl, nicknamed Aunt [-]. This nickname means that she received [-] male consumers in a row during a working day, setting a new record for the gold medal club; another top girl, nicknamed Shuangxiangpao, which caters to consumers with special needs of two men and one woman, is willing to turn itself into a sandwich in the middle of the sandwich again and again; the top card among the top cards was killed in [-], and various moneys totaling more than [-] million yuan were found in his home .As for being taken care of by the rich or powerful, becoming a second, third or naughty wife, it has become the "ideal" that many girls born in the [-]s and [-]s dream of. They don't have to work, they have money to spend freely, and they can drive luxurious sports cars. , Living in a house given or rented by a rich man or a powerful person, isn't this kind of life much better than working hard and wandering in city after city with your former poor boyfriend?Or as a mistress, I always hope to achieve a positive result one day, but many post-[-]s and post-[-]s put their wisdom into far-sighted thinking.Give birth to n children, especially one or several boys, what's the point of not getting married? The Marriage Law clearly stipulates that children born out of wedlock have the same inheritance rights as children born in wedlock.The current land of China is facing a serious moral crisis, which is: the little girls are not ashamed to be mistresses, but proud, and go forward bravely, regardless of the harm they cause to the family and society, and the harm to other women. serious injury.As long as you are optimistic about a successful man, whether this successful man is rich or powerful, he will definitely post upwards regardless of the consequences, take the initiative to attack, attack in an all-round way, and use all means. The offensive strategy is definitely no less than "[-]" The vivid practice of "The Strategies" ensures that these successful men, under the strong attack of the little girls, retreat steadily and will be captured by them one day. Some divorce their original wives and marry their mistresses; Friendship, can't bear divorce, but suffers from the swinging relationship between the second wife and the first wife; there are also some men who have completely degenerated and enjoy this kind of life with the first wife and the second wife and third wife, thinking it is a symbol of personal status …A rich man in a southern metropolis, aged [-], spent about [-] million yuan to seek marriages across the country. He ran a full-page advertisement in a southern newspaper for [-] consecutive days. He only said that he was not in harmony, divorced, and asked the woman to have no sexual experience and a college degree. For the above and other conditions, there are still more than [-] applicants across the country who meet the requirements of education, appearance, moral character, virginity and other aspects after the preliminary examination.It was not stated how many people signed up, but [-] people passed the preliminary examination, which is enough to prove that there are at least tens of thousands of people who signed up. How many post-[-]s are there!In the end, it is said that more than [-] people met the rich man, and soon, a group of virgins disappeared, but it was not heard which applicant this rich man married. A simple sentence of "no suitable one" is enough to send everyone away The youth compensation of tens of thousands or one hundred thousand is enough to send these powerless girls who dream of living the life of a rich young wife, and at the same time taste the taste of hundreds of virgins.Let’s not judge the moral character of this rich man, but tens of thousands of girls born in the [-]s are desperate to win the appreciation of this rich man or the so-called love, which is enough to show the desire to get something for nothing and directly enter a rich life. It has become a deep-rooted dream in the hearts of many girls born in the [-]s...

Is this a man's sorrow, or a woman's sorrow?What woman doesn't want her man to succeed?But in the process of watching her husband succeed, he was both overjoyed and apprehensive.Beautiful women love heroes, which is an eternal theme of love. The success of a man will undoubtedly make the wife feel infinitely proud and love her husband more; while facing the young people born in the 20s and 80s who have lost traditional Chinese moral concepts Girl, there is a possibility of launching a ruthless offensive against her middle-aged husband at any time, so how can she not be worried?People who carefully maintain their families and marriages and do everything possible to keep their husbands and their hearts, but in many cases, they still have to face the reality that their husband's castle has been captured.At this time, what should a woman do?The so-called experts on marriage have different opinions, but none of them can solve the root problem.If a woman goes to make a fuss and accuses her husband of being heartless and unrighteous, and accuses him of betrayal, then the relationship between husband and wife may immediately become tense; It will take a sudden turn for the worse, and I am afraid that the husband's heart will go further and further away, and those mistresses will benefit in the end; if you ignore the husband's mistresses or lovers outside, it will be a kind of emotional torture for any woman. Endure the torment.When the husband succeeds, he loves his husband more, his children more, and this family more; but the husband has already distributed part of his love to others, to the most hated woman born in the 93.3s or 10s, who can be unconscious , generously allowed such a grain of sand to appear in his eyes.what to do?For women, this is a dilemma, there is no solution, or there is a solution, but there are two answers, divorce, don't put this grain of sand in your eyes; don't divorce, let this grain of sand grow in your eyes.Neither of the two answers is what women want. Both of them are the result of making women extremely miserable. However, it seems that in the current state of society, there is no answer that can get the best of both worlds.The women's federations in major cities across the country have an important department called the Women's and Children's Rights and Interests Protection Department.In recent years, the pressure on this department has been very, very heavy and increasing. The main complainants, [-]% are women who have suffered violence in the family who come to complain and demand rights protection; [-]% of the women come to the Rights and Interests Department of the Women's Federation. I appealed to my husband for being seduced by the mistress, and demanded that the Women's Federation, the party committee, and the government come forward to drive away mistress and rescue her husband.A staff member of the rights and interests department once suggested that since they hated the husband who had a mistress so much, the divorce would be fine. [-]% of women (data from a women’s federation in a big city with the top [-] gdp in the country) resolutely disagreed with the divorce and just asked to drive away the mistress , but there was nothing he could do on his own, so the Women's Federation came forward to drive away Xiao San'er and restore her husband.At this time, the Women's Federation is also very helpless. As a first-level social organization led by the party and managed by civil servants, the Women's Federation is not omnipotent in solving women's marriage problems!Just like the public security organ, it maintains social order in one side, but it cannot completely eliminate the existence of the underworld; just like the Letters and Calls Bureau, it resolved a large number of social conflicts, corrected many wrong decisions, and helped tens of millions of vulnerable people, but Still facing some backlogs of letters and visits and petitioning old households, there is nothing we can do.No one is omnipotent, and by the same token, no department is omnipotent.

I never received a call from my wife Kong Shuanghua, but I received a call from Shu Weirong, the general manager of Handsome Clothing: "Fang Ju, I heard from Chun Xiao that you are now the deputy director of the Dongzhou Education Bureau. Surprise!" Fang Yuan said: "My little progress, and Mr. Shu's order increased by 2008 million, there is no way to compare it." Shu Weirong laughed like a man: "It's not 10 million, that The data belongs to the past. Now, both the international and domestic markets are alive, especially those large domestic chain stores, which require handsome clothing to enter, and the order in [-] has exceeded [-] billion! Speaking of which, the biggest contributor to this is Director Fang." Fang Yuan said, "I just gave you a small suggestion. It should be said that Mr. Shu dared to make decisions and make decisions without giving way to others, and made handsome clothing achieve unprecedented development. I really appreciate I am very happy for Shuai Clothing, I am happy for Mr. Shu, and I hope that Shuai Clothing can become famous all over the country like Youngor in Ninghai City." Shu Weirong said: "I am very confident in this aspect. After all, this time the fashion design competition, I Not only have I mastered many unique patents for popular styles of clothing, but I have also discovered a large number of professional design talents from Dongzhou University, and I have also recruited many talents from the private sector. Another point is that I did not spend a penny, the Internet, the news The media are all promoting the phenomenon of handsome clothing, and this fashion design competition organized by the publicity of handsome clothing has made me famous all over the country. The production capacity is expanding too fast, and we are also facing some problems, please come over and help out with ideas.”

Fang Yuan really didn't want to go, but suddenly found that she didn't have the ability to refuse.Taking someone else's 20 yuan, which is definitely a very generous 20 yuan, Fangyuan realized the famous saying that has been passed down through the ages at this moment: eating people's mouth is short, and taking other people's hands is short.Alas, I don’t know that those provincial governors and mayors who have been bribed by builders, real estate developers, and road builders, when the builders, real estate developers, and road builders proposed to give land, construction rights, and projects Do you also feel helpless like yourself?

Fang Yuan thought that the most difficult problem in front of him was the problem of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, so he said tactfully: "Mr. Shu, can you take a day or two off. I really have an urgent matter waiting for me to deal with and coordinate?" Shu Wei Rong said: "Director Fang, you deal with these things during the day. Tonight, I'm at Dongzhou Jiachuang Seafood Restaurant. I invite you to dinner and talk while eating. By the way, Director Fang, have you gained weight recently?" Fang Yuan said: " It’s still the same.” Shu Weirong said: “I’ll ask the people below to make you two more suits for spring. Also, the new casual jacket we developed this year has received a very good response from the market. I will bring you two sets; and, this shirt, we have developed a non-ironing pure cotton shirt this year, the quality is very good, I will bring you 5 more. When you are the chief, you must dress decently Mian, from now on, I will leave the matter of your dressing up to the eldest sister. I guarantee that you will dress like a handsome guy all year round, and you will be fascinated by those big girls and young wives! Hahahahahaha."

Shu Weirong's style of doing things is so aggressive, her tone of voice is also so domineering and arbitrary, even her laughter is full of masculinity.Fang Yuan found that he didn't even have the courage to refuse, as if he had been completely kidnapped by her now.I don't know if this is the treachery of Chinese businessmen, if this is the sorrow of Chinese officials, if this is one of the characteristics of China?Fang Yuan felt that she was at a loss. Would she have to be "kidnapped" by Shu Weirong all the time in her future life?If one day in the future, Shu Weirong made unreasonable and illegal demands on himself, would he still have the ability to refuse?

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