Director's growth history

On the night of the Lantern Festival, it was so peaceful that Fang Yuan was a little depressed.Fang Yuan can go to the study now because that is where he sleeps.Since the study moved a bed to become Fangyuan's bedroom, Confucius Tian generally didn't go to the study anymore.There was no way, Kong Zitian was sitting on the sofa in the living room, Kong Shufang was sitting next to him, Kong Shuanghua was sitting on the other sofa, and Xiao Qing had to take care of the children and clean up.Fang Yuan came out several times, only to find that the three of them were able to keep silent in the living room except for the sound of the awards show of the Spring Festival Gala.Fang Yuan didn't want to participate in it either, anyway, he tried his best, and now it would be unbeautiful to get involved, because he is an outsider after all.At this time, the best mediator is none other than Kong Shuanghua; if there is another person, it is Kong Fangrui.

Thinking of this child and Confucius Tian's surname, Fang Yuan felt a little pain in his heart.Fangyuan once checked the "Marriage Law", which stipulates that it is acceptable to take the surname of the father or mother, but it must be agreed through consultation, and the decision cannot be made by one party.This Ruirui's surname is Kong, who discussed it with him?Don't you tell yourself that the rice is already cooked after you cook the raw rice, can you change it back?It has been a tradition for more than 5000 years for children to take their father's surname. Regardless of China or foreign countries, in any patrilineal society after entering the patrilineal clan society, and in non-single-parent families, children take their father's surname, even in Hong Kong and Taiwan today. In Japan and South Korea, after marriage, many women still want to change their original surname and add their husband's surname.For example, He Zhili from China changed her name to Xiaoshan Zhili after she married to Japan, because her husband’s surname was Xiaoshan; like Lien Chan, the former chairman of the Chinese Kuomintang who visited the mainland in Taiwan, his wife’s original surname was Fang, but now she is called Lian Fangr; It is common, such as the former Chief Secretary for Administration Anson Chan (second only to the Chief Executive, the second in command), Litai Fan (Legislative Chairman, equivalent to the Speaker of the House of Representatives in Hong Kong), and the Director-General of the World Health Organization, Margaret Chan, Which one doesn't add the surname of her husband's family before her own name?People still think this is male chauvinism?Who doesn't think that this is a matter of course and is the inheritance of national culture?These few celebrities in Hong Kong have higher status and greater social influence than their husbands, but they are also willing to add their husband's surname before their names. Who will make irresponsible remarks?Only the mainland, after the founding of New China, overemphasized the equality of men and women, especially in the last 30 years, which led to the prevalence of feminism after the reform and opening up.In recent years, because the newly married man and woman are only children, there have been cases of divorce and even going to court in order to fight for the child’s father’s or mother’s surname. Check Baidu, there are quite a few such cases!Is this a harmonious society?Does this reflect the complete negation of 5000-year-old traditional culture by socialism, and the abandonment of all feudalism, semi-feudal and semi-colonial dross?If this is the case, let the grandsons of those provincial, ministerial and even higher-level leaders take their mother's surname and grandpa's surname to see if these leaders are willing?Or let them set an example for the people of the whole country first, let their grandsons all take the surnames of their mothers and grandfathers, so that the people of the whole country can better learn and follow suit!Or let the male legal experts who formulated the "Marriage Law" at the beginning, probably in their seventies and eighties now, first change their grandson's surname to their mother's surname, and see if these male professors and experts are willing?

Whenever thinking of this incident, Fang Yuan felt very uncomfortable.Maybe others can't understand it, but it's because the wild dogs didn't bite them, and they didn't know itching or pain.There is a common saying that it doesn't hurt to stand and talk, which describes these people.Fang Yuan suddenly thought of Fang Shujuan's proposal: leave it to her husband for the first time, and leave the first child to me, Fang Yuan, and the child will be named after Fang Yuan~~ Now it seems that this proposal is quite tempting. For Fang Yuan, who endured his son taking his grandfather's surname, this is a great humiliation!For a man, if the child takes his mother's surname, it is legally allowed, but if he is found out after he goes out, it will make people laugh. The principals, principals, and kindergarten teachers of Zhouzhou Experimental Kindergarten and Dongzhou Experimental Primary School knew that the child’s surname was not Fang, so what would they think of him as the deputy director?Where is his face?

I have tried my best tonight, but anyway, I am also an outsider.The work during the day is already tiring enough, I don't want to worry about it, let's go to sleep.Fang Yuan said to Kong Shuanghua, "I'm very tired, I want to rest early", locked herself in the study, and slept until dawn.

While eating breakfast, Confucius Tian remained silent.The atmosphere at the table always made people feel a sense of oppression. Confucius Tian was uncomfortable, and of course, Fang Yuan, Kong Shuanghua, and Kong Shufang were also uncomfortable.Kong Shuanghua really wanted to resolve this contradiction and adjust the atmosphere, but he couldn't find a good way.Last night, just when Zhao Benshan appeared on the stage, everyone laughed along with Zhao Benshan's sketch, but there was not much communication.Kong Shuanghua was very anxious, and several times he had nothing to say. Kong Zitian was still very friendly when facing Kong Shuanghua. After all, even if it was a divorce, Kong Shuanghua was his daughter, but he still asked questions and answered each sentence without extra words.As for Kong Shufang, there was no interaction or communication with Kong Zitian for a whole night.

Kong Shuanghua once again looked at Fangyuan with pleading eyes.Fangyuan buried her head in her meal, pretending not to see.Kong Shuanghua said: "Fangyuan, come and take a look. Ruirui's appearance has changed a little recently, and she's even cuter." Fangyuan knew this was an excuse and said, "Okay, let me take a look." The couple came to the bedroom, and Kong Shuanghua said : "I'm almost dying of worry. Mom and Dad still don't talk, what's going on like this?" Fang Yuan said: "It's easy to break a bottle, but it's hard to repair it! Even if it's repaired, the cracks on the bottle are still there." Kong Shuanghua Said: "No matter how difficult it is, I have to find a way! Husband, I beg you." Fang Yuan said: "I will go to the Municipal Education Bureau to work in a while, and today is Friday." Kong Shuanghua said: "Husband, I am about to collapse. It's gone." Looking at his wife, Fang Yuan finally couldn't bear it.Originally, he was determined not to interfere anymore, but seeing Ruirui's mother and his wife, Fang Yuan decided to help her: "Take the child out. Let dad hug Ruirui. You At the side, talk about how Ruirui looks like grandpa, and then ask mom to come and see Ruirui too. Now, apart from you, Ruirui is the only one who can keep Dad's heart." Kong Shuanghua said, "Yeah." Fangyuan said: "This cold atmosphere is actually Mom's cold ass sticking to Dad's hot face. In fact, it doesn't matter whether the glutinous rice balls are made by Chunxiao. Dad said it was delicious, and Mom said it was good. If you say it along the way, it will be fine. Mom is very serious and said She didn't do it, it's a brand." Kong Shuanghua said: "Mom is telling the truth!" Fang Yuan said: "Sometimes, the truth hurts the most, and the lie is the most beautiful! If no one says it, sometimes husband and wife have to say Some white lies." Kong Shuanghua said: "Then I will communicate with my mother again." Fang Yuan said: "I will leave after dinner, you can only use Ruirui to keep Dad, there is no other way. If Dad Sitting with my mother and watching Ruirui, this matter may have an unexpected turn." Kong Shuanghua's thoughts were opened, and she threw herself into Fangyuan's arms and said, "Thank you, husband. Without you, I don't even know who I am. What should I do. You are my backbone, and you are the only mountain I can rely on."