Director's growth history

Looking at the kind and kind Confucius Tian, ​​Fang Yuan felt a sense of powerlessness.Originally, she was full of anger, but now after being drenched by the warm light rain, the flame on Fang Yuan's head couldn't burn even if she wanted to.Today's father-in-law's trick is quite vicious!First, he criticized Kong Shuanghua, and then said that he would make up a birthday party, which quickly dispelled half of the anger; then he gave himself guidance on the people and things he faced in his work. Care and love for the next generation.Faced with such a father-in-law, when he proposed that Ruirui should still have the surname Kong, Fang Yuan couldn't bear to reject his father-in-law's will.

However, this matter is a matter of principle for my father-in-law, and it is also a matter of principle for me, Fangyuan!You, Confucius Tian, ​​don't want to take off the house number. Is our Fang family going to take off the house number?

Thinking of this, Fang Yuan said, "Dad, I completely understand how you feel, but do you know the situation in my family? My father has two daughters, and I am the only son. If my son's surname is not Fang, where will my father go?" I'm afraid I'll have to pick up my house number too. Northeast people have a very strong sense of clan. If my father finds out that Ruirui's surname is Kong, then I'm afraid I'll not only be scolded, but my father may even beat me up! Because Ruirui is also his only grandson!"

Confucius Tian nodded: "People in the north have a stronger awareness of this aspect than those in the south. In the south, many sons-in-law who visit us recognize the family name of the child and grandpa." Fang Yuan said, "Not necessarily. I just saw that There is a short story in Chongqing, when the daughter was just pregnant, the father-in-law told the son-in-law to let the child be born with the father-in-law’s surname, but the daughter was caught in the middle, and the father-in-law and the son-in-law went to court, which almost resulted in a divorce.” Kong Zitian said : "Then how was this dealt with in the end?" Fang Yuan said: "A district court in Chongqing ruled that the child's grandfather and grandmother have no right to decide the child's surname. The mother’s surname, but the child’s surname must be decided by the child’s parents through consultation. No one else has the right to decide what the child’s surname is.”

Confucius Tian sighed: "It seems that you have really studied this legal knowledge!" Fang Yuan said: "Yes. Dad, maybe you think this is your bottom line or principle, but it is also my bottom line! Whether Ruirui's surname is Kong or Fang, Shuanghua and I have the final decision, and the result of our negotiation has legal effect. You don't discuss with me, go directly to the police station to register your child with the surname Kong, is this legal? Is it reasonable to do so?"

Confucius Tian said: "Northern people really take this issue seriously. But in Zhejiang, you also know that many sons-in-law who come to the house default to let their children take their grandfather's surname." Fang Yuan said: "I don't have to do it now. The door-to-door son-in-law. The Education Bureau gave me a house, and I can move out with Shuanghua and Ruirui."

The situation suddenly froze.This time, Confucius Tian clearly felt that Fangyuan's wings were hardened, and he wanted to get rid of his control.And can he really control this thriving young man?The news had already spread. Sheng Jianbo, member of the Standing Committee of the Provincial Party Committee and political commissar of the Provincial Military District, also called the Secretary of the Municipal Party Committee Wang Guodong and Mayor Song Yunsheng to express concern about Fangyuan's progress and growth.Confucius Tian really couldn't understand, how could Fang Yuan, a country boy from the northeastern countryside, have such an obscure background?No wonder Wanquanhui is so good to Fangyuan!

Confucius Tian pondered for a long time, and finally said again: "I hope Ruirui and I have the surname Kong, but you can have a child surnamed Fang. On this point, I can give in." Fang Yuan couldn't believe his ears: " Dad, what did you say?" Confucius said, "I said you can have a child with the surname Fang." Fang Yuan didn't understand, and asked: "Now, public officials must implement the family planning policy, and they can only have one child. If Ruirui doesn't The surname is Fang, how can I have a child surnamed Fang?"

The two fell silent again.It seems that Ruirui's surname is Fang or Kong. This is not only the bottom line of Kong Zitian, but also the bottom line of Fangyuan. No one is willing to make another step.Confucius Tian picked up a cigarette and handed it to Fangyuan.Fang Yuan took it, picked up the lighter, and lit it for Confucius Tian first, and then for himself.Both Weng and son-in-law swallowed their smoke and stopped talking.

After one cigarette was finished, Confucius put out the butt and said, "Xiao Fang, Xiao Hua forgot your birthday the day before yesterday. Xiao Hua said that other people still remember your birthday." Fang Yuan didn't want to talk about it. He said: "This is just a greeting from an ordinary friend, it's innocent." Confucius said: "Dad is from here. It's been several years, and I can still think about your birthday and say that there is always you in the world! Here Did you send the text message, the one called Song Sisi?" Fang Yuan hesitated for a moment, and his sense of responsibility prevailed: "That's right, Song Sisi sent me a birthday greeting text message." Confucius Tian said: "When I was in 68 Middle School, That Song Sisi has a good impression of you, and Xiaohua also knows about it. Today, when Xiaohua cried to me, she said that it was this Song Sisi who sent you a text message in all likelihood. She said that you are married and you are still with this Xiaohua is very sad that Song Sisi is inseparable."

Kong Zitian concealed Kong Shuanghua's anger. Few wives tolerate other women outside their husbands, and Kong Shuanghua is no exception. What's more, in Kong Shuanghua's heart, Song Sisi has always been regarded as the biggest threat, because she knows Song Sisi likes Fangyuan very much. , Kong Shuanghua had warned Song Sisi before she was married.Unexpectedly, after more than a year of marriage, Song Sisi has not forgotten Fangyuan!Kong Shuanghua not only hated Song Sisi, a little vixen, for seducing Fangyuan, but also was angry that Fangyuan and Song Sisi flirted with each other.But today, when Fang Yuan lost his temper angrily, Kong Shuanghua suddenly found that he didn't know when he didn't dare to lose his temper too much in front of Fang Yuan, and he actually felt a little scared in his heart.

Confucius Tian used the word "sad" cleverly.Fang Yuan said: "Song Sisi and I have a pure and innocent relationship. From last summer, Mayor Bi brought the members of the Youth Federation to Yanping to inspect the Youth Federation Hope Primary School and saw Song Sisi until the day before yesterday for her birthday. No phone call either. However, when Shuanghua forgot my birthday, Song Sisi suddenly sent me a text message of birthday wishes. Such a comparison made me feel very disappointed: a wife can’t remember her husband’s Birthday, but an irrelevant girl remembers my birthday. If it was you, father, how would you feel?" Confucius Tian said: "Xiaohua was doted on by me and her mother since she was a child, but she hasn't learned to care for others. However, after becoming a mother, I feel that she is also making progress. In the past, she never thought about others, but now at least she cares about Ruirui very, very much. From a girl to a wife to a mother, the process of growing up does not happen overnight. There is a process of gradual maturity. I believe that in the future, she will gradually learn to care for and be considerate of her husband. I will guide her. Today, let's not talk about Shuanghua, let's talk about Song Sisi." Fang Yuan said: "Song Sisi What is there to talk about?" Kong Zitian said: "I said, I can make concessions in all aspects except Ruirui's surname Kong. Do you understand what I mean?" Fang Yuan shook his head: "Dad still treats me. Is there anything to compromise? I have always respected my father very much." Kong Zitian said: "I mean, since you and Xiaohua only have a child named You Ruirui, I can tacitly allow you to have a child named Fang outside." Children. Of course, there is a premise that you and Shuanghua will not divorce, and the woman who gave birth to you other than Shuanghua will never be on the stage."

Fangyuan's head was a little messed up.Fang Yuan never expected that Kong Shuanghua's father and his own father-in-law could say such a thing!Fang Yuan was stunned in shock.

Seeing that Fang Yuan did not speak, Confucius thought that Fang Yuan had been moved by the words, and added: "For example, this Song Sisi, if you really like her, as long as you don't bring her into the house, you can have a relationship with her, and you can also raise a child named Fang. Fangyuan stood up: "Dad, Song Sisi and I are innocent, we have never slept together, and we rarely have the opportunity to meet each other. Song Sisi's father is a billionaire. Even if Song Sisi is willing, her father will agree with me. Is the daughter of someone else a child? This is absolutely impossible! What's more, how can I pass the Shuanghua test? As a newly promoted cadre, if such a thing really happens, I will be at my own risk. Destroy the Great Wall."

Confucius Tian sighed and said: "It seems that there is really nothing between you and Song Sisi. Yes, Song Dacheng will not let his daughter be someone else's concubine. However, I agree, even if it is not Song Sisi, it is another woman , I also acquiesced. Ruirui must be surnamed Kong, and naming him Kong Fangrui is actually taking care of your parents' face, so you can usually call him Fang Rui. As for Shuanghua, on the one hand, you have done it a bit more concealed; on the other hand On the one hand, I will slowly work through her thoughts. The leaders of the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection held a training class for cadres of the Commission for Discipline Inspection in Guangdong. They clearly stated that 95% of the cadres in Shuanggui now have lovers. This problem is no longer a problem. , but a common phenomenon that exists. For example, I, you know, Teacher Ma is still good. If I still have the ability to give birth, maybe I will give birth to one outside, and Ruirui does not need to be named Kong. But I am old Well, it's useless. You're different, you're young."

Is this Kong Shuanghua's father?Fang Yuan looked at Kong Zitian in disbelief, and really couldn't believe that this was something a father of a daughter could say.