Director's growth history

Yu Yu plucked up the courage to say that he wanted to divorce his wife, but he actually wanted to express his loyalty to Fang Yuan.Fang Yuan really didn't expect that because of being in bed, Yu Yu would divorce his wife.

Fang Yuan said: "It's really a crime. Yu Yu, hurry home and communicate with your wife. Divorce is not possible; reconciliation is my expectation." Yu Yu said, "I'll let her cook a meal, and she will Arguing with me, I took the child back to my mother's house in a fit of anger. Such an unreasonable woman, why should I reconcile with her?"

Kong Shuanghua is very sensitive to the words "unreasonable".After all, in the past two years, I have done some unreasonable things.Oh, just because it doesn't make sense, he divorced his wife. What kind of a man is such a man?Originally, he had a good impression of Yu Yu, but because of these few words, Kong Shuanghua's impression of Yu Yu turned bad in an instant.After all, Kong Shuanghua thought back on what was unreasonable in the past. If Yu Yu would divorce if he didn't cook for him, he and Fang Yuan would have divorced long ago.

Kong Shuanghua said: "A man should be broad-minded and understand how to tolerate his wife. Women are generally small-minded, so just coax them. If you talk about divorce, doesn't it seem that you are too small-minded?"

Ordinarily, Kong Shuanghua is not qualified to manage Yu Yu, but Kong Shuanghua is Fangyuan's wife!Yu Yu didn't dare to refute, but he was not convinced in his inner world.A wife who doesn't support her job and doesn't care about her own future, what do you want such a wife for?Now is the critical time for me to be the director of the office. Seeing that Ruan Shaoxiu was promoted from the director of the office to the vice principal, and Huang Jiawei was promoted from the dean to the vice principal, Yu Yu's heart was very hot, and he felt eager desire and expectation.In fact, the conflict between Yu Yu and his wife did not last for a day or two. Since Yu Yu worked overtime almost every day during the summer vacation, Yu Yu's wife had a lot of opinions. Later, she did not object to the overtime pay of 200 yuan a day. Yu Yu went to work, but it was only for the sake of money, because if Yu Yu was at home, he would not have the 200 yuan. What is the concept of 200 yuan? Yu Yu’s current monthly income is more than 3000 yuan. If Yu Yu works overtime for a month, it will be 6000 yuan. Adding the salary of more than 3000 yuan, it will be close to 1 yuan.For ordinary families, such a monthly income can greatly improve family life; for Yu Yu's wife, she can buy a few more beautiful clothes for herself and her children.As for whether to consider Yu Yu's future, of course, it is also considered, but it is in the last few.She didn't support Yu Yu's bed, and she didn't support it from the bottom of her heart. She felt that there was no need to serve a little principal like this. Now, she was naturally even more unhappy to let her serve a little principal for dinner.So, she quarreled with Yu Yu. She, who has always been relatively strong at home, was even more unwilling to show weakness in this matter. In her deep-rooted concept, if a husband and wife quarrel, as long as they show weakness once, they will always be at a disadvantage in the future.She didn't want to show weakness in every quarrel, because every previous quarrel ended with Yu Yu showing weakness.This time, of course, is no exception.Yu Yu was really angry, counting all the mistakes she had made in the past; she was also really angry, packed up some clothes for herself and the child, took the bag and went back to her mother's house.She believed that in less than a day, Yu Yu would definitely show weakness and come to her mother's house to beg her and the child to go back. At that time, she and her mother's mother would scold Yu Yu again, find a step, and follow Yu Yu home.Do you dare to argue with yourself after seeing Yu Yu?What she never expected was that Yu Yu was thinking about divorce.

With Fang Yuan around, Ruan Shaoxiu and Zhang Qiao were speechless, and their gazes were fixed on Fang Yuan's face.Fangyuan said: "Shaoxiu, since the two families have already cooked, I think we can have a meal together. The chairs have also been brought in today. There are so many, enough to sit on. Put the two bedside tables in the middle of the room. Let's eat together. If you have anything to do, let's talk about it after eating."

The meals of the two families are put together, which is naturally extraordinarily rich.Kong Shuanghua, Xiaoqing and Kong Shufang had already eaten, so they just sat and watched everyone eat.The rest of them, Fang Yuan, Ruan Shaoxiu, Zhang Qiao, Ruan Jinsheng, and Yu Yu, didn't eat, so they ate together.Fang Yuan seemed to have forgotten about Yu Yu, and commented on every dish he ate.Zhang Qiao is a caring person who silently keeps Fang Yuan's favorite dishes in his heart.Some dishes cooked by Yu Yu's mother were delicious. Fang Yuan did not hesitate to praise her, and expressed her gratitude to Yu Yu's aunt.

After eating, there was not much left.Zhang Qiao quickly picked up some empty dishes and brought them to the bathroom for washing; Ruan Shaoxiu quickly brought Fang Yuan a water glass for him to drink.Fang Yuan suddenly said, "Yu Yu, if you have two choices now, one is to serve as the deputy director of the teaching department and be in charge of the teaching of a grade; the other is to serve as the deputy director of the office and serve the school, what would you choose?"

Ruan Shaoxiu immediately understood the implication of Fang Yuan's words: he didn't want Yu Yu to be the director of the office anymore.Yu Yu didn't realize it, and said, "I want to be the deputy director of the office." Fang Yuan said, "The position of the office director has several characteristics. The first is that the service awareness and ability are particularly strong; strong; the third is better writing skills; the fourth is a strong sense of confidentiality, and you must keep your mouth shut when it is time to keep your mouth shut. Yu Yu, your writing skills are good. Principal Ruan has mentioned it many times, and I believe you can Competent. You can evaluate your own abilities in other aspects."

Yu Yu didn't speak.Fang Yuan said, "Mom, Shuanghua, Xiaoqing, and sister-in-law, please stay away for a while. Shaoxiu stay here."

There were only three people left in the room.Fang Yuan said: "What is a sense of secrecy? The three people who came last night should not have come. The reason why you came is because you did not do a good job of keeping secrets." Yu Yu concluded: "She said that if I don't tell him You are responsible for the consequences." Fang Yuan said: "What consequences? Can I eat you, or arrest you? You didn't make any mistakes, even the Disciplinary Committee can't do anything to you." Yu Yu said: "I Wrong, principal." Fang Yuan said: "What is coordination ability? Can a comrade who can't even coordinate his family coordinate well in a more complicated situation in society?"

Yu Yu was silent.Fang Yuan's words were a bit sharp, but not without a grain of truth.

Fang Yuan said again: "What is service? The first-class service is what you say and what you say. Sometimes, on the surface, the service is very serious, but in the heart, it is very dissatisfied, very unfair, and feels that I have been wronged. Even if it seems to be in place on the surface, it is actually not really good service.”

Every sentence pierced Yu Yu's heart: the headmaster has already seen it.

Fang Yuan said again: "If you really serve with your heart, the people you serve are not fools. Have you ever heard of the 34-year-old party secretary of a prefecture-level city?" Yu Yu shook his head.Fang Yuan said: "President Wen's secretary has served seven or eight years conscientiously. He was appointed as the party secretary of xx City, Guangdong Province at the age of 34. Now he is less than 40 years old and is already a member of the Standing Committee of the Provincial Party Committee."

Ruan Shaoxiu was also shocked.Fang Yuan said: "If you give, you will definitely get rewards; if you give sincerely, the rewards may be even more generous. Sometimes, the rewards are not in the immediate future, but in the long run; sometimes, while giving, there will be rewards." Fang Yuan Ruan Shaoxiu glanced at Ruan Shaoxiu as if nothing had happened, and Ruan Shaoxiu knew very well: the fate of his wife is changing, which is the result of his dedicated service in Dongzhou No. 5 Middle School for a year in Fangyuan!As long as he serves Fangyuan well and does good deeds with his heart, the future Director of the Office of the Education Bureau seems to have great hope, and his own destiny is also facing unprecedented opportunities for development.

Fang Yuan said: "Leadership is a responsibility, and it also needs to have a real ability. Why do some leaders who do a good job call it the art of leadership? When leading subordinates' work becomes an art, it shows the process of leadership, leadership. The means of leadership and the effect of leadership are as exquisite as art, worthy of appreciation, aftertaste, and thinking. Coordination is a responsibility, and it also requires true skills. Coordination is good, and the top and bottom work together to form a joint force, and the cause will be prosperous. If the coordination is not good, there are many contradictions and internal strife, who still has the mind to do work? Who has the mind to create performance? The career will naturally shrink or hidden dangers will emerge. Yu Yu, if you want As the director of the office, I will give you a chance. Tonight, let Shaoxiu stay with me here. You go home and complete the first task first: Coordinating so that your wife can go home with you happily; coordinating Let your wife not only not object to you coming to the hospital to accompany you to bed, but also make my breakfast tomorrow; coordinate so that your wife is willing to support your work; coordinate so that your husband and wife have a harmonious relationship, instead of causing trouble to you How much do you want to get a divorce? How about it? Can this task be completed?"

This is really a task harder than climbing to the sky!Yu Yu said: "Principal, can I...can do it?" Fang Yuan said: "Dongzhou No. 5 Middle School is now the No. 1 school in Dongzhou City. The college entrance examination released a satellite, so it has attracted more attention from the society and the media. Any negative news in Dongzhou 5 will make the common people and netizens criticize. The responsibility for this coordination naturally falls on the head of the office. Dongzhou State No. 5 Middle School is so big, with so many teachers and students, the conflicts between teachers will affect the work of the school; if a student has a little physical injury accident, in addition to dealing with parents' petitions and troubles in the school, how to eliminate the bad influence of the society is all up to the director of the office Is it a matter of family affairs? If you can’t even coordinate this matter at home, how can you coordinate the more complicated situation at school?”

Yu Yu's face turned red and turned white.

Fang Yuan said: "Recently, I have thought a lot. Especially in the past few days because of the inspection of the Nas Group, it has caused me to think more. Why do I have to keep my illness a secret? It is because I don't want this matter to make a fuss. I don’t want to make unnecessary mistakes because of illness. If everyone knows that I am ill, let’s not talk about anything else, just say Dongzhou No. 5 Middle School, how many cadres and teachers will come to visit? 300 people come to the hospital in an endless stream, Where has the hospital become? Next week, the Party Committee of the Education Bureau will study personnel issues. How many principals, secretaries, and vice principals are there in the 72 schools under the bureau? How many section chiefs and staff are there in the 21 departments of the bureau? Bring a fruit basket alone, can this ward hold it? If someone comes to send money, if I accept it, I will make an economic mistake; if I don’t accept it, these comrades at the grassroots level and the front line will feel uneasy : Is it because Director Fang doesn’t regard me as one of his own? Could it be that I’ve been excluded from this personnel adjustment? If hundreds of people come to the hospital to see me, the media’s nose is quite sensitive. If the media There are reports, no matter how good nurses and doctors expose this incident on the Internet, what should I do? Can I bear this kind of pressure? My illness itself is caused by too much pressure and I fainted. , Can I get better? Yu Yu, so it seems that my illness is very simple, but in fact it is not simple at all. Unexpectedly, I will face more troubles in the future! Even if I am so low-key now, look, the medical expenses Someone has already paid it quietly, and the laptop has also been delivered to the desk. So, I am sick alone, because I am the principal, because I am the deputy director who has the right to speak and vote on the Party Committee of the Education Bureau, so it is not It's a personal matter. You can no longer keep secrets for me. This office director is incompetent in his duties! Coordinating all the complicated affairs around is an essential quality of an excellent office director. In this regard, you and Shao Xiu There is a big gap. Even compared with Director Chen Qiuping, the gap is not small."

Yu Yu was convinced this time.Although Fang Yuan is younger than him, he is far behind him in terms of depth of knowledge and thoughtfulness.Yu Yu said: "Principal, I am doing very badly. Thank you for your teaching. I will go home and coordinate with my daughter-in-law. If I can't coordinate well tomorrow morning, I request to go back to be an ordinary teacher, not this office. Director. If I can coordinate well, I will come with my wife tomorrow and ask the principal to give me a chance to be the deputy director of the office." Fang Yuan nodded: "The initiative of the opportunity is in your hands. "Yu Yu said: "Principal, I also collected some of the relevant information you asked for today and printed them out, hoping to be useful to the principal." Fang Yuan said: "Okay, thank you." Let's go. Principal Ruan, I'm sorry, I'm ashamed." Ruan Shaoxiu said: "The principal can tell you so much, so why don't you place great expectations on you. Xiaoyu, you have to understand the principal's hard work for you Work hard, and thank the principal for your training." Yu Yu pursed her lips, and there was a sparkle in her eyes.Yu Yu said: "Principal, thank you. I will definitely not let you down." Fang Yuan smiled: "Family and everything prosper, the old saying goes."

Yu Yu turned around resolutely, took the dishes and left, and left the door of the ward, tears welling up in her eyes.I was so stimulated, I didn't expect that I was so incompetent!I thought I was pretty good at first, but I didn't expect that in front of the principal, I was as tender as that newborn calf, who didn't understand anything, shit!Tonight, no matter if you are wise and courageous, or if you have conspiracy, you must first get your family in order, and your wife first.Only those who are incompetent get divorced; whoever has the real coordination ability, who doesn't coordinate his wife to be as obedient as a lamb, truly become a good wife and mother, and become a strong backing for his career progress?

Kong Shufang, Kong Shuanghua, and Zhang Qiao all looked in surprise as the tearful man walked away quickly.Zhang Qiao didn't dare to say more, and Kong Shuanghua didn't say much. Kong Shufang said, "Xiao Fang is becoming more and more powerful now."

Several people entered the room.Fang Yuan said: "Shao Xiu, you can go back with your sister-in-law first." Ruan Shaoxiu said: "Let Zhang Qiao take a taxi." Fang Yuan said: "Shuanghua is here! Just come back at seven or eight o'clock in the evening." Ruan Shaoxiu said: "Okay, principal. Jinsheng, goodbye to uncle, aunt and grandma." Ruan Jinsheng did as his father asked, and left the ward with his things.

Fang Yuan said, "I'll hug Rui Rui." Xiaoqing came over and handed Rui Rui to Fang Yuan.Ruirui looked at her father, and suddenly uttered the two words "Dad" clearly, and Fangyuan's heart felt warm.Fang Yuan kissed his son: "Ruirui, you can be called Dad at such a young age!" Kong Shuanghua said: "Both Dad and Mom can call me now! She can also say the word 'milk', and whenever she wants to drink milk, she will Shout out the word 'milk'." Fang Yuan said: "Our son is so smart!" Kong Shuanghua smiled and said, "Our mother definitely followed the most scientific parenting method for Rui Rui, serving Rui Rui to eat and serve Rui Rui. Growing up, every day Ruirui eats, our mother makes it by herself, even if Xiaoqing and I want to intervene, we won’t let it!" Fangyuan said: "Mom, speaking of it, you are really a good mother and grandma. Your kindness , kindness, and nothing like it in the world.” Kong Shufang didn’t smile on her face, looked at Fangyuan, and suddenly asked, “Xiao Fang, tell mom the truth, who were the three members of your family who came to see you last night?”

Fangyuan turned pale with shock!