Director's growth history

The question raised by the elder sister Fang Ping was Fang Yuan's sore foot.But at this moment, the Fang Yuan in the backyard has just been settled, how can the eldest sister bring up such a problem and make the whole world know it?For Northeast people, taking their father's surname is a matter of course; for Qingjiang people, taking their father's surname is the mainstream, but it is more acceptable to take their mother's surname, because there are two cultural cores in Qingjiang Province, one is to bear hardships Hard work, one is mercantile and profit-oriented.As for the surname inheritance of official status and family status, many Qingjiang people don't pay much attention to it, but the north attaches great importance to the continuation of blood.Therefore, in Qingjiang Province, many sons-in-law who come to the door let their children's surname follow the grandfather's and mother's. Such examples abound.

Fangyuan is still from the Northeast in his heart, but the environment has made him accept his son's surname as Kong and not Fang.Of course, Fangyuan still hopes that one day in the future, Ruirui can change her surname back to Fang.The change in Fangyuan's psychology was caused by the atmosphere of Qingjiang province silently affecting Fangyuan, and the strength of Confucius Tian also forced Fangyuan to bow his head.Similarly, what made Fang Yuan a little bit able to accept this result had a lot to do with the fact that Wang Quan's two sons both had the surname "Wang".Of course, Fangyuan also has his own strategy. Before his son is 14 years old, he can change his surname at any time according to his needs. There is no rush to change his surname. The "Marriage Law" clearly stipulates that neither spouse can change the child's surname, even if it is a divorce; changing the child's surname requires the consent of both husband and wife.In other words, as long as Kong Shuanghua agrees that Ruirui's surname is Fang, then Kong Zitian has no right to interfere; but Fangyuan alone cannot change Ruirui's surname by himself.

Fang Yuan's thoughts will definitely not be told to the elder sister.Fang Yuan said: "Sister, don't listen to the fact that the wind is the rain. Your nephew is from our Fang family, that is, the upright Fang family. Let's stop here. Don't tell your parents about it, lest they be overwhelmed. Obviously It’s nothing, but you worry yourself, tell me about yourself, why do you want to make yourself unhappy?”

Fang Ping said: "I also care about Rui Rui! I am Rui Rui's aunt. Aunt and nephew, to be honest, there is nothing to say. If Rui Rui grows up in the future, I would like to live with my aunt. , I cook delicious food for Ruirui every day." Fang Yuan said, "Thank you, big sister. The most important thing for a child to grow up is not to eat, but to learn." Fang Ping said, "Yuanyuan, there is one more thing , your brother-in-law and I used to pick up the crops every day, and we had things to do all day long. Now, the land is gone, and there is no harvest, so let me and your brother-in-law sit and eat?"

Fang Yuan said: "Stay at home first, take good care of our parents, and settle down well. After everything is sorted out here, you and your brother-in-law will go to work at Chunxiao Company, and I will let them arrange for you and your brother-in-law to do some work within your ability." Ping said: "Then let me and your brother-in-law become managers. Your brother-in-law and I have been supervised by the village chief and the village team leader all our lives. In fact, I also want to manage people."

Fang Yuan suddenly had a headache.Fangyuan said: "Sister, if you and your brother-in-law are directly made managers, you can't do it. But the work assigned has a more important purpose and function. So, you don't have to worry about income. In the future, Chunxiao Company will give you You and your eldest brother-in-law each have a salary, and I will give you an extra sum of money every month to take care of our parents." Fang Ping said: "Then you have to make arrangements, and I will listen to you. Also, Chunxiao will go to school in more than ten days, you have to arrange it early." Fang Yuan said, "Don't worry, I will arrange it in the No. 68 Middle School where I used to work."

Fang Yuan is actually very unwilling to worry about these trivial housework, but Fang Yuan found in surprise: now he is almost entangled in all kinds of trivial matters, no time to think, no time to study, no time even to do the work that should be done. Most of the time is spent dealing with trivial matters.Fangyuan also found another thing that surprised him: before, he was able to devote himself to his work wholeheartedly because Kong Shuanghua and his mother-in-law took care of all the trivial household affairs. You have to do everything yourself.It turned out that Kong Shuanghua did so many trivial things in the days of obscurity, made great efforts and sacrifices for the progress of his work, and made contributions that were not commended or rewarded.

The more Fang Yuan is grateful to Kong Shuanghua, the more guilt he feels.After comforting the elder sister and giving the necessary instructions to the elder sister, Fang Yuan returned to the living room.Unexpectedly, Kong Shuanghua had become one with Zhao Chunxiao, talking and laughing with this big nephew, but he didn't know what they were talking about.Regarding Kong Shuanghua's affinity, Fang Yuan was also unexpected.Zhao Chunxiao said: "Uncle, it would be great if my aunt could be my teacher!" Fang Yuan smiled, and smiled at Kong Shuanghua: "Shuanghua, I admire you very much!" Kong Shuanghua said: "Anyway, I also went to junior high school Class teacher." Fang Yuan said: "Chun Xiao, your aunt will be a university teacher in the future, when you go to college, follow your aunt." Zhao Chunxiao said: "Okay." Fang Yuan said: "Shuanghua, I am going to arrange for Chun Xiao to come. When you are studying in 68 Middle School, you should contact your class teacher and subject teacher properly when the time comes. The principal Qiu Zhengxuan will definitely take care of Chunxiao, but it is inconvenient for me to directly contact the class teacher and subject teacher.” Kong Shuanghua said: “Don’t worry, I can handle such things well." Fang Yuan said, "Yes, Shuanghua is my good wife. I think that in the past two years, I have been able to devote myself to my work and made some achievements in my work. There is a very, very important reason for the results, that is, Shuanghua has undertaken almost all the family affairs, and I have not been distracted. Shuanghua, thank you!"

Don't hesitate to praise your wife.In fact, in the recent stage, Fang Yuan has been paying close attention to the progress of Kong Shuanghua's happy wife, and this is exactly the image of his wife he expects.Today's praise, of course, has the consideration of further stabilizing Kong Shuanghua's emotions, but more of it comes from Fangyuan's heart, it is a true feeling and a mantra.

Kong Shuanghua smiled sweetly, but her heart was bleeding.Is this the true words of the husband?If it is true, then why does he still look for other women outside?If it's not true, why does it sound like it is?Kong Shuanghua said: "This is what I should do. If you are outside, our whole family will be better, right?" Fang Yuan said: "Yes, we are grasshoppers on a rope, and no one can do without the other. !"

Fang Ping and Zhao Chun couldn't understand what their younger brother and younger siblings were saying.Fang Ping said: "Yuanyuan, I don't know if Dad is awake? If he is awake, he should pick him up." Fangyuan said: "Shuanghua, you, Xiaoqing and Ruirui, go home. Tonight, I Have a meal with parents, elder sister, and brother-in-law." Kong Shuanghua said: "I'll come too. I'll go back and put Ruirui to sleep, and drink enough milk." Fang Yuan thought for a while and said: "Okay, you Come too. You go home now."

Kong Shuanghua, Xiaoqing and Ruirui left.Fang Yuan said, "I'm going to pick up my parents." Fang Ping said, "Then I'm going to prepare meals. Yuanyuan, where is this place that sells vegetables? Take me there." Fang Yuan suddenly realized a new problem: in the city There is a farmer's market in the city, but many families buy food and food in the supermarket in the mall.As a countryman, my eldest sister doesn't know these living habits at all.Could it be that I am going to accompany my elder sister and elder brother-in-law to the supermarket tonight?Alas, such annoying trifles!

Fang Yuan said: "I won't cook tonight, I'll eat at the restaurant. After dinner, I will accompany my elder sister and elder brother-in-law to the supermarket, buy some daily necessities for the family, and also buy some for my elder sister and elder brother-in-law." A piece of clothing." Fang Ping said: "No need to buy, your brother-in-law and I have too many clothes to wear without being worn out." Fang Yuan said: "Your clothes belong to you. With the elder brother-in-law." Fang Ping said: "It will cost too much money. If you can save it, you still have to save it. A penny is enough to make a hero, Yuanyuan, I find that you seem to be lavish now!" Fangyuan has a Thinking, I can't tell my eldest sister and her husband that when I arrive at Chunxiao Company, I dress like a country bumpkin, so how can I be so big as myself?These things may seem trivial, but if you don't pay attention, the subsequent negative impact will be great.

Fang Yuan suddenly discovered another problem: I usually spend money, but I haven't thought about it for a long time, whether I should spend it, and how much I should spend.Always have money in your wallet.And his salary is fixed for one month, and his salary is stuck with Kong Shuanghua.The family's expenses are so high, and Shuanghua regularly sends money to her parents-in-law. Her income is also quite limited. Where does this money come from?Kong Shuanghua has thought carefully and carefully for himself, has he ever asked about the expenses of the family?Kong Shuanghua is taking care of this!I don't seem to have ever asked about these trivial things.The virtue of Kong Shuanghua deeply hurt Fangyuan's heart once again!Kong Shuanghua is improving day by day, becoming more like a virtuous wife day by day, but what about herself?Falling day by day, there are one woman after another outside, alas!I am sorry for my wife!

Fangyuan picked up his parents.Looking at such a nice house, Fang Jingcai sighed in admiration: "Yuanyuan, you are really capable. There was no such a house last year, but this year you got such a nice house! Yuanyuan, you are really capable!"

Fang Yuan was tired of this father who had always had a bad sense of proportion.Fang Yuan said: "The house is for you to live in, so you live in it, and I promise that no one will drive you and your mother out. As for who owns the house, don't ask, don't inquire, and don't go around talking about your son. How can I have the ability to let you live in a big house, bring you to Dongzhou, and even get you a city hukou in Dongzhou! We can do these things secretly, but please don’t Talk nonsense everywhere!"

Fang Jingcai suddenly became unhappy: "Boy, why are you talking to me! I'm praising my son, how can I get all kinds of troubles by praising you? Now that your wings are hardened, Dad can't control you anymore, right? Tell me You, Yuanyuan, I will always be your father, and you have to listen to me at all times."

Fangyuan is also on fire.Today, I have endured it for a long time, and of course it's not just about Fang Jingcai.It can't be said that Fang Jingcai has nothing to do with it. After drinking Moutai, he would drink to the point of being drunk.Now, Fang Jingcai doesn't realize at all that the house that Shao Keqing left for Fang Yuan is a hot potato. If Fang Jingcai shows off to the neighbors, this is the house provided by his most capable son, Fang Yuan. As a railway community, who wouldn't Did you know that this house was assigned to Shao Keqing, deputy director of the Dongzhou Railway Office?Later, it was sold to Shao Keqing as a public house; if Fang Jingcai showed off when being invited to dinner by Fang Yuan's friends, this house is really nice. When I came to Dongzhou to visit relatives last year, I rented a house to live in. This year I have this bigger house , Will Fangyuan be suspected: the house is not in the right place?Even a deeper question came up immediately: what abnormal relationship between Fang Yuan and Shao Keqing?Why did Shao Keqing go to work in the Shanghai stock market, and the house in the Dongzhou Railway dormitory was reserved for Fangyuan?Just such a question made it difficult for Fang Yuan to explain clearly.Does Shao Keqing have no relatives or friends?There must be a justifiable reason for being unique, right?They are all members of the Youth Federation and are friends. This reason is absolutely untenable.What's more, the name of the real estate certificate has been changed to Fangyuan, which is easy to find out.

Fang Yuan said: "Dad, you are happy for your son's ability, I can understand that. But do you know? You will kill your son with your mouth talking nonsense! Do you understand, you will kill me!"

Fang Jingcai became even more furious: "How could I harm you? Please explain to me clearly!"

Fang Yuan said: "You and your eldest sister's family live in this house like this. If anyone asks you, you will say that I rent it. I don't know the specifics, I don't know."

Fang Jingcai said: "Can I say this is the house my son gave me to live in, can't I?"

Fang Yuan said, "No! Absolutely not! Dad, are you really a fool?"

Fang Jingcai was furious: "What did you say? How dare you say I'm a fool? See if I don't beat you to death!" Fang Jingcai took off his shoes and was about to hit Fangyuan.

Fang's mother and Fang Ping hurriedly stopped him, each holding Fang Jingcai's arm.Fang's mother said: "Old man, what are you doing? You eat and drink from your son, and the house is given to you by him, and you beat him. What is going on?" Fang Ping said, "Dad, let's go You come to Dongzhou to enjoy the blessings. Who do you rely on to enjoy the blessings? Isn’t it just relying on Yuanyuan? If you play Yuanyuan, if Yuanyuan really doesn’t care, what shall we eat and drink?”

Fang Jingcai was discouraged all of a sudden, and his tone lowered several degrees: "At worst, I'll go back to Tonghua, and I won't be angry here!" Fang's mother said, "Okay, then you go back by yourself, and Pingzi and I will follow Yuanyuan and Ruirui in Together!"

Fang Jingcai said: "Then I won't go back either. Yuanyuan is my son and I am his father, so he has to take care of me." Fang's mother said: "Then why don't you listen to Yuanyuan and argue with Yuanyuan?" Huh?" Fang Jingcai said, "I'm his father!"

When Fang Yuan saw the father of this living treasure, he felt really distressed.The differences in concepts and thinking between rural people and urban people are definitely not so small. It is simply impossible to change the cognition, habits and attitudes of an elderly person in his 60s!

Fangyuan said: "Dad, let's talk well. You live here and enjoy the life of city people. This is created by my son's hard work, and it is also the filial piety of my son and daughter-in-law. You must not talk nonsense, let alone interfere with my work." and life. There are a lot of things, we can just keep our heads down and enjoy the blessings, but we must not show off everywhere, let alone publicize it everywhere, as if there is no one in the world who is more capable than your son! That look will really hurt Damn me. I’ll stress this again: whoever asks, they don’t know, don’t know, don’t know, don’t understand. Political matters are very complicated, and sometimes a trivial matter will kill you Son's life!"

Zhao Chun, who had been keeping silent all this time, suddenly said, "Yuanyuan, is it that this house is not in a proper way, because of this reason, it must not be revealed?"