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3510.2196. It's easy to talk to others, but difficult to do it yourself

At this moment, Fang Yuan was not only shocked but also speechless when he heard his father-in-law Kong Zitian mentioned Song Dacheng and his daughter.What else can I do besides wipe off my sweat?This sweating was real sweating, not caused by the hot weather, it was entirely due to guilt and fear that caused a lot of sweat to pour out of his forehead and drenched his back.

Fang Yuan muttered: "Dad, I will definitely do my best to properly handle this issue."

Confucius Tian’s face is grim: “China’s affairs, especially those in official circles, can be big or small, big ones can be ignored, and small ones can be magnified. Everything is based on political needs. Du Shicheng, former secretary of the Qingdao Municipal Party Committee, It should be said that his work vision is particularly advanced, his work ability is particularly outstanding, and his work ideas are particularly clear. During his tenure as the mayor and secretary of the municipal party committee of Qingdao, he made a great contribution to the rapid development of Qingdao. Fangyuan, feel yourself, better than Du Shicheng. Are you stronger or Du Shicheng stronger?" Fang Yuan said: "Of course it is Du Shicheng stronger." Confucius Tian said: "Yes! The current secretary of Qingdao is named Yan. Once, when I communicated with the principal of a certain university in Qingdao, the principal actually called him Yan. It is an idiot. To put it bluntly, it is said that this idiot has affected the development of Qingdao for ten years. The principal said that he especially misses Qingdao when Du Shicheng was in power. The rise in housing prices cannot be blamed on Du Shicheng, because the whole country Many cities are rising faster than Qingdao. He said that he would rather have a flawed Du Shicheng than an idiot secretary who seems more loyal but incompetent. He said that many people in Qingdao and Qingdao’s cadres miss Du Shicheng, everyone feels confident, has a clear direction, and knows what to do. But now, everyone is very confused. This Secretary Yan worked in Zibo before. Zibo is still dominated by coal, petrochemicals, and cement. The pollution level is No. 1 in Shandong Province. The main urban areas are still not connected into one piece. From one main urban area to another, it needs to pass through tens of kilometers of rural areas. It is known as the largest farmers' market in Shandong. The secretary of Zibo sent When he went to work in Qingdao, an international port city of reform and opening up, the principal joked that in less than ten years, Qingdao would become a large fishing port and a large rural area. Even such a capable secretary of the municipal party committee was still taken down. It is said that, The reason for the arrest was political issues. When the final decision was made, people in the national circle were in an uproar: 628 million bribes were received, and the sentence was life imprisonment. Look at the other officials who were arrested, which one is not tens of millions or even hundreds of millions? A deputy secretary of the Provincial Party Committee who took 628 million bribes is nothing short of trivial. But no matter how little you take bribes, you still take bribes! Removal and sentencing are all reasonable and legal, right? This is politics. If you magnify a small problem, you will Take it! The one who accepts more bribes than Du Shicheng according to the law may still be on the stage, and his position is still being promoted, because no matter how big the problem is, it may be ignored or turned a blind eye. Xiaofang, it’s okay for me, Xiaohua, you Whether it’s your relatives or other people who care about you, they don’t want you to have problems, and they all hope that you will develop better and better in the future. Maybe you think that I remind you of these problems outside because I am Xiaohua’s father , I don’t deny that there is a reason for this, but I analyze your problem objectively from an elder who cares about you.”

Fang Yuan said, "Dad, you are right. Tell me, what should I do?"

Confucius Tian said: "From my standpoint, of course I hope that you and Song Dacheng's daughter will make a clean break. As long as this relationship exists, there will be hidden dangers. I don't know when it will become a good thing for others to attack you and clean you up." Second, economically, don’t covet any cheapness or money in the future. Chunxiao’s money is enough for your expenses in all aspects. If you embezzle public funds and accept bribes again, the chances of possible danger will be even higher Thirdly, never develop a super-friendship relationship with other women in the future. A normal working relationship can be maintained; a normal working relationship is inevitable. You should know that many girls post you, It's not because of your charm, nor because of your handsomeness. We can't understand the various purposes they have on the surface. Most of the time, what they love is your power and your money You have the right, she can make illegal money under your guise, but in the final analysis, it is still money. There are also girls who are as ambitious as men, just want to hug a man's thigh and climb up hard, and take the initiative to get close to you I just hope that you can promote her at the critical moment. Women with these not pure goals are often the most terrifying Waterloo for men who are successful in their careers. How many officials in the country who have been shuanggui are dismissed for this reason? Good prospects in life turned into bleak prospects in prison? There are so many lessons learned, do I need another example?"

Fangyuan said: "Dad, thank you for your earnest teaching. Please rest assured that from now on, I will never mess with any woman again. I will devote more energy to work and to work." Achievement. I want to cultivate my morality and use practical actions to repay you and every relative and friend who care about my growth and progress!"

Confucius Tian said: "Okay. How far a person can go, moral cultivation and ability are equally important. Xiaofang, Dad is very regretful now that he has a relationship with his female student. Originally, my life would be a perfect curtain call. But the addition of such a stain has made me uneasy all the time."

Fang Yuan wondered why Confucius Tian would turn to the matter of his relationship with that teacher Ma.

Confucius Tian said: "It's always easier to know than to do. I advise you to properly handle the relationship with Song Dacheng's daughter. In fact, I am also very distressed: I have not found a good way to handle the relationship with Xiao Ma. The way of relationship. For Xiaoma, I have mixed feelings now. On the one hand, she is considerate and takes good care of me; at the same time, she is my student and has always respected me as a mentor; Because she and I have studied the same subject together, we have more common languages; on the other hand, she is no longer satisfied with maintaining this lover relationship with me, and she hopes to marry me; she is not satisfied with the relationship between her and me. Underground relationship, she hopes to go out with me; she also hopes that I can solve the work of some relatives in her hometown; she also hopes that my salary card can be handed over to her; she also hopes that her full professor The job title can be reviewed and passed as soon as possible; she also hopes, ... well, I don't want to talk about it."

This time, it was Fang Yuan's turn to stare.When Confucius Tian said that he was Fangyuan, he was very logical; when it was his turn, it turned out that he was talking on paper!Fang Yuan didn't know how to comfort or help Kong Zitian to relieve his distress.No wonder Confucius Tian was going home tonight because he had a conflict with Comrade Xiao Ma over there.These contradictions, it seems, are quite difficult to resolve.

There was silence in the study.The two men, one old and one young, seemed to be unable to find anything to talk about.This may be a man's world.

After a long time, Confucius asked Fangyuan: "Xiao Fang, you have a lot of experience. Tell me, how can we properly resolve the relationship between Xiao Ma and me?"

ah?Fang Yuan smiled wryly: "Dad, where do I have more experience?" Kong Zitian said: "It's easy to get on the boat, but it's hard to get off the boat! I have decided to get off the boat now, but if I get off the boat, I will face a severe challenge: Xiaoma has threatened me If I want to leave her, she will immediately report me to Dongzhou University Party Committee and Disciplinary Committee; If Beijing still accepts the case, she will put the matter between me and her on the Internet. How can I bear it? As long as I report me to the Disciplinary Committee of Dongzhou University, I will become the second Fu Fengde. What face do I have to continue to serve as the president of Dongzhou University? What qualifications do I have to continue to lead Dongzhou University? My reputation has been ruined!"

At this moment, Confucius Tian had a painful expression on his face.It is conceivable what kind of torment he was suffering in his heart.

Fang Yuan thought carefully about the women he had experienced. Dong Mei was an honest person, Wang Quan's vision was as high as a mountain and as wide as the sea, his wife Kong Shuanghua became more and more knowledgeable, Ding Chunxiao had passed away, and Chi Liping was now Cen Baiqiang's guest. Well, Song Sisi would never harm herself, only Su Ruihan seemed to be more utilitarian and ambitious in the process of interacting with herself.She hoped to use his hand to get rid of Yan Song and free her completely.God knows, if Yan Song is really eliminated in the future, will Su Ruihan have more thoughts.

Fang Yuan said, "Dad, Teacher Ma didn't have so many demands in the beginning, right?"

Confucius Tian said: "Yes! When we first met, she just expressed her admiration and admiration for me. She said that she admired me from the time she was in college, and she reported to me under my name when she was in graduate school. student. She took care of my life delicately every day, allowing me to eat well, drink well, and have a comfortable massage. During those days, what I couldn’t get from your mother, I could get everything from Xiao Ma. In you In front of my mother, I have nothing to say, and I don’t have the feeling of being admired. But with Xiao Ma, I feel like a real old man. What I get is not only tenderness, but also a high degree of spiritual satisfaction. And Xiaoma, in life, is a good girl with a good family, but when she comes to bed, she can do any open movements, such as those in AV movies, and she is willing to do them for me. What a day like a fairy!"

Fang Yuan suddenly felt like laughing, but he didn't dare to.Men, no matter how powerful they are, no matter how knowledgeable they are, is there actually a big difference psychologically?

Confucius Tian let out a long sigh and said: "But now, such days are gone forever. I make this request now, and then make that request, and gradually increase the request, which makes me feel a little unbearable. In fact, some small requests , I have already satisfied her, and I have done it for her. But after the small request, there is a medium request; after the medium request, there is a big request. Facing this gradually increasing request, I feel like a bottomless pit! I don’t know, Will I completely sink into that bottomless pit, and die without a place to die!"

Fangyuan was speechless.

Confucius seemed to have no intention of letting Fang Yuan go. He said, "Xiao Fang, I am your father. Whether you have rich experience or not, you must help me and let Xiao Ma feel happy. Leave me quickly without causing any impact on my reputation and status. Xiao Fang, Dad please."

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