Director's growth history

When Fangyuan and Ding Chuke finished washing and went downstairs in comfortable and loose pajamas, Ding Xiaohua was already contentedly waiting in the living room on the first floor.As people get older, this progress is naturally faster.Young people may take half an hour, like Ding Xiaohua, if they don’t eat something, it’s like three to five minutes.

Ding Xiaohua saw his daughter's face glowing red, and he, who knows a lot about women, naturally understood that this time, Fang Yuan "fed her daughter to the full".Ding Xiaohua said: "Sit down and rest. Meals are being prepared in the kitchen. We will have supper later."

Fang Yuan sat across from Ding Xiaohua, and Ding Chuke sat on Fang Yuan's arms and shoulders like a bird, one hand wanted to hold Fang Yuan's hand, and the other hand tightly held Fang Yuan's arm, as if a Let go, Fang Yuan seems to fly away.Probably many young women who are newly married or in love have this mentality.

Ding Xiaohua said seriously: "Xiao Fang, we are all a family. From now on, please treat Xiao Ke better. If you treat my sister badly, I will never be polite, even if the fish dies."

Soft and hard, is Ding Xiaohua's consistent style.Fang Yuan nodded: "Dad, don't worry. Xiao Ke is my sister and relative for the rest of my life."

Ding Xiaohua's expression immediately became sunny, and the change was so fast, even if it was not as good as Huoshaoyun, the face-changing of Sichuan Opera could not be compared.Ding Xiaohua said: "I know that Xiao Fang is a good boy who is affectionate and righteous. When I look at people, I have never missed them. Xiao Fang, before eating, I have a few things to discuss with you."

Fang Yuan said, "I am willing to listen to Dad's teachings."

Ding Xiaohua said: "I want to talk about some principles of my life."

Fangyuan looked dignified, and listened attentively: "Dad, I haven't been in contact with you for too long, but I have benefited a lot. Every time you teach me, I have new inspiration and new thinking about life and society. "

Ding Xiaohua said: "After all, I am an experienced person. Well, my first principle of doing things is that I must do what I see right. I don't care what others say about me, and I don't care what others think of me. Just like you In the past few days, there has been a lot of movement in Dongzhou Education, and even I, a businessman, have heard it. I know that you are making personnel arrangements for yourself to leave Dongzhou Education. Now that you have made up your mind, don’t Look forward and backward, do things first before talking. We are people in the society. No matter what we do, there will be people saying yes, some scolding, and some making irresponsible remarks. If you are afraid of other people’s comments or criticisms, and shrink your hands and feet, then Nothing can be done. Decisiveness is needed to make a decision, decisiveness is needed to make a decision, and courage is needed to make a decision! We must not hesitate, toss around, swing back and forth. If this is the case, then nothing can be done!"

Fang Yuan's heart hardened: "Dad is right. I adjusted some personnel in Dongzhou Education these days, which was a bit controversial. But I did it anyway, and I didn't waver. Of course, I also used some means, such as fighting for more The support of multiple party committee members isolates individuals."

Ding Xiaohua said: "I heard that Song Yunsheng was looking for you this afternoon?"

Fang Yuan said: "Yes! I have communicated very well with Mayor Song, and Mayor Song supports my personnel adjustment this time."

Ding Xiaohua said: "Song Yunsheng is a good mayor who does things well. At least he has a big belly. If you offend him several times, if you are a narrow-minded person, I'm afraid he would have already attacked you. But he Now he still wants to pull you into his camp, there are several reasons besides his chest."

Fang Yuan said, "Dad, please tell me."

Ding Xiaohua said: "First, he loves talents; second, he has consideration for your background; third, he has to consider Confucius Tian's factors; fourth, he has to give me some face. Of course, the most important reason is that After three o'clock."

Fang Yuan said: "Dad summed it up wonderfully. I think so too. However, I don't want to join his camp yet, and I also don't want to be hostile to him. Dad, what do you think I should do?"

Ding Xiaohua said: "You have to know that Wang Guodong is really leaving."

Fang Yuan said: "I know, so I am very conflicted. Who will be the secretary of the municipal party committee, I don't know. I will remain neutral for now, okay?"

Ding Xiaohua said: "It may not be the best thing to do, but it's not the worst either. Don't worry, since you don't want to be hostile, then I will act as a middleman between you and Song Yunsheng. I believe Song Yunsheng still wants to sell me some face." .”

Fang Yuan said, "I'm really grateful to Dad."

Ding Xiaohua said: "We are a family!"

Fang Yuan said: "I am so lucky to have a godfather like you and a girl like Xiao Ke!"

Ding Chuke said, "Brother, is this what you mean?"

Fang Yuan said, "Of course, I dare not lie in front of Dad; I don't want to lie in front of you."

Ding Xiaohua laughed out loud.Ding Xiaohua also told Fang Yuan two other principles of being a person and doing things: [-]. Don't be afraid of offending people. Whatever you do will win the support of some people, and you will also offend some people; there will be gains and losses.Judgment and decision-making should be based on whether the gain is big or the loss is big. If the gain is big and the loss is small, it doesn't matter even if it offends some people; [-]. Don't offend people easily.Lao Mao's theory of the united front, even today, is not outdated; even if it is taken to a foreign country, it is equally useful.It is necessary to expand the allied forces as much as possible and reduce the hostile forces as much as possible.Those who cannot be included in the Allied Forces should also work hard to win their neutrality instead of pushing them to the opposite side.

Fang Yuan thought about her current situation in the Education Bureau, and it seemed that Geng Qing was the only one who was really opposed to her.The vast majority of other party committee members are allied forces, and few are even neutral.Does this count as the United Front theory, an attempt and application in your own specific work practice?

Fang Yuan kept nodding.Ding Chuke also listened to it, and she asked: "Dad, do I have to do the same in the company now?" Ding Xiaohua said: "Yes! Pay special attention to not relying on only one subordinate, it's easy It has formed a situation where the tail is too big to lose. So you can see that I have been relying heavily on Sheng Qiming in the past few years, but since this year, I have divided and attacked Sheng Qiming, and supported the other vice presidents. Of course, the other vice presidents The president is not our relatives, so we can't trust it completely, and let it go completely. If I see that one of the forces is growing faster, I will definitely support another person and restrain her. In ancient times, it was The art of the emperor is necessary; in modern times, it is also the law that must be followed when being an official, doing business, and managing."

What an imperial art!

The food was served.Ding Xiaohua said: "Xiao Fang, you have a chance to see Xiao Ke's wine skills today." Fang Yuan looked at Ding Chuke: "Do you know how to spend wine?" Ding Chuke said: "I have learned a little, but I am not good at it. I usually practice too much. Few, mainly because there is no chance. Of course, no one is worthy of me performing flower wine for them, except Dad and you. Brother is here today, we welcome the New Year, and I am willing to make a fool of myself."

A bottle of French wine fluttered up and down in Ding Chuke's hands. After a few ups and downs, three wine glasses were filled with half a glass.At this time, Ding Chuke began to show the shaker cup again, and the translucent wine wall came into Fangyuan's eyes, which reminded Fangyuan of the deputy head of Oujiang District who knew wine tasting very well.

After he woke up, he handed the first cup to Ding Xiaohua, the second to Fangyuan, and Ding Chuke took another cup by himself.

Ding Xiaohua said: "Okay, our family's New Year's dinner has officially started. Let's drink this first cup, let's celebrate for us as a family!"

An exceptional dinner.Fangyuan accompanied Ding Xiaohua and Ding Chuke, eating well-crafted and delicious delicacies from mountains and seas, until the bell rang at 0 o'clock in the morning.Ding Xiaohua said: "2009 is finally here. Today is the New Year, and now is the New Year! Come on, let us wish our family a harmonious and beautiful New Year, wish Xiaofang a higher level in work, and wish Xiao Ke continues to mature and grow, and I wish our family Nas Group to grow stronger."

It is Ding Xiaohua's special intention to stay up until the New Year!Although for the time being my daughter can't compete with Kong Shuanghua for the upper hand in important festivals, but at the beginning of the first day of the new year, Fangyuan lived at Ding's house, which is the most meaningful!As for Song Dacheng's daughter, Ding Xiaohua didn't put it above all.If Song Dacheng and his daughter are sensible, if they don't know what is good and what is wrong, and can't tell who is better, then kill them directly!

How could Fangyuan guess what Ding Xiaohua was thinking.When the three wine glasses of Ding Xiaohua, Fangyuan and Ding Chuke collided.Fang Yuan said, "I also wish Dad good health and all wishes come true."

Ding Xiaohua said: "Actually, I really have one thing on my mind, that is, I hope I can become a grandfather soon!"

Ding Chuke blushed suddenly: "Dad, what are you talking about?"

Ding Xiaohua giggled and looked at Fangyuan.

Fang Yuan's face was as thick as a city wall at this time: "Dad, I will definitely work hard. If Xiao Ke really has children, all of them will be named Ding!"

At this moment, Fangyuan's mentality has also calmed down a lot: since she has a substantial relationship with Ding Chuke, she must admit that there is no doubt about it.The release of a positive factor with the surname "Ding" is also very important for consolidating the relationship with Ding Xiaohua.

Ding Xiaohua said: "Okay, Xiao Ke's child is named Ding, and there will be successors in my Ding family. We will have as many children as we can. Our family is not afraid of having too many children, fines for extra children, and not being able to settle down. My grandson of Ding Xiaohua , to settle down, it is just a matter of me!"

Ox!It's so awesome!

After drinking this glass of wine, Ding Xiaohua said: "It's getting late. Let them clean up here, let's go to bed!"

Fangyuan thought of his wife Kong Shuanghua.I don't know why, this night, I didn't think of sending a text message or making a phone call to Kong Shuanghua.Perhaps, I have been avoiding it.Fang Yuan really didn't know how to tell his wife about Ding Chuke.

Ding Chuke affectionately took Fangyuan's arm, said "good night" to Ding Xiaohua, and went upstairs to the bedroom.For some reason, Fangyuan and Ding Chuke couldn't help rolling together in Qingqingmeme, and Ding Chuke also let go of her female dignity, and used her mouth to make Fangyuan extremely happy for the first time.Fang Yuan could feel that Ding Chuke's movements were unfamiliar, even a little clumsy, but Fang Yuan knew that this was probably Ding Chuke's first time.As long as it is the first time, it is precious.Fangyuan also loves and sympathizes very much, making Ding Chuke rush to the top of the cloud again...

Its daybreak.Fang Yuan opened her eyes, feeling a little backache and stomach pain.I only slept for three or four hours, and I was tired, and I guess Ding Chuke was also tired.At this moment, Ding Chuke snuggled up to Fangyuan's side, with both hands wrapped around Fangyuan's arms, sleeping peacefully and sweetly.Fangyuan tried to sit up, but Ding Chuke woke up.Ding Chuke said: "Brother, today is a holiday, let's sleep for a while." Fang Yuan said: "Don't sleep anymore, Xiaoke, I should go back too." Ding Chuke said: "You get up, I will get up too. Brother, thank you Bring me so much joy, I feel surrounded by happiness."

Fang Yuan smiled wryly: "Xiao Ke, I really hope that you will be happy and happy all your life! Today is the New Year, I wish you all wishes and dreams come true in the new year!"

Ding Chuke knew how she should answer: "I also wish my brother great progress in his career, and wish our brother and sister relationship will become deeper and deeper, and it is best to be inseparable."

Ding Chuke sat up, and the young and fair body, the beautiful and tall Yufeng, were clearly displayed in front of Fangyuan.Ding Chuke lost the initial shyness, and immediately put her arms around Fangyuan's neck: "Brother, I don't want you to go, I don't want to leave you at all, what do you think?"

Fang Yuan stared at Ding Chuke, for some reason, her eyes were full of love and compassion, as if Ding Chuke was really her little sister.

Ding Chuke said, "Brother, am I ugly?" Fang Yuan shook her head.Ding Chuke said, "Brother, is my body still pretty?" Fang Yuan nodded.Ding Chuke said: "I have made up my mind. Although I am not good-looking, this is the era of technology. I am going to go to Korea for plastic surgery to make myself more beautiful, so that my brother can look at me pleasingly, and let my brother think I am good-looking. OK?"

Fang Yuan said: "No need. I like women with connotation and wisdom. You are very good, Xiao Ke." Ding Chuke buried her head in Fang Yuan's arms, unwilling to let go for a long time...

After having breakfast in Ding Xiaohua's villa, Fang Yuan left Tangjiaqiao's villa area.When parting, Ding Chuke still hugged Fangyuan tightly and said, "I don't want you to leave. But, I know brother should go now! Brother, you go. My sister will always think of you."

Ding Chuke's few words could not tell the truth from the false, but it made Fang Yuan's heart itch.Fangyuan didn't know that Ding Chuke also had training in the art of speaking between husband and wife (boyfriend and girlfriend) in the Hong Kong lady training class, as well as guidance on bed skills.It is precisely because of these various factors that Fang Yuan unknowingly fell in love with Ding Chuke, an ordinary woman.Ding Chuke's scheming is in the same line as Ding Xiaohua's. Like a father, like a daughter.Although Song Sisi is more beautiful than Ding Chuke, she has not received special guidance from the Hong Kong lady training class, and naturally she does not know how to seduce a man's heart or how to improve her attractiveness.Ding Chuke is applying what he has learned!