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What he said made Elder Kologa think deeply: "In this way, there are indeed similarities between the two fields. When you say that, I also think of another thing. The swamp where a friend of mine lives Central China has the shovellodon living, because the shovel teeth are easy to shovel soft grass to eat, so the lower lip and the teeth of the lower lip are completely in the shape of a big shovel. Every day you can eat by stretching your mouth, and you can sleep when you lie down, just like living In the kingdom of heaven, life is very comfortable. Although the deer living next to it are also living comfortably, they are pushed to the edge of the water plants, which is much worse. But the water in the swamp quickly receded one day, and disappeared in less than 50 years. Clean, the swamp became dry land, the grass was hard and hard to shovel, and the shovel tooth of the shovel tooth became a scourge that hindered eating and became extinct in the local area within a few years. On the contrary, the deer in the water swamp can eat the dry grass because it has no shovel teeth. Grass, so it survived."

Dong Hezi suddenly asked: "If these shovel-toothed elephants can immediately change their appearance like druids, put down their big shovel teeth, and change to look like a deer's mouth, will they die quickly?" Elder Luo Jia replied: "Of course not. But how did they change their natural form in a hurry?"

Dong Hezi nodded and said: "Yes, the reason why they have the strange shape of shoveling teeth is because their ancestors dealt with things in this way and achieved success. So the successful mode was passed on to them. Human beings too So, the reason why people have personalities or accidents such as joy, anger, sorrow, joy, sorrow and cheerfulness, impatience and stability, dull and lively, etc., is because people's ancestors have achieved success based on this, so they have passed it on to people; or they are growing up. Success has been achieved with these models. But the shovel tooth prospers and dies with shovel teeth. Man also succeeds with various models and dies with various models.”

"This is the second point: the reason why a person sticks to a certain pattern is because this pattern has been successful before. But what makes you successful, changing the conditions may make you fail. If you are good at using your own pattern, any Models are treasures; if you don’t use your own model well, any model is a disaster. Things are always changing, but it’s hard for people to get rid of the existing model, even knowing that it might be better to abandon the existing model, but they can’t change it. This It's the expression of being enslaved."

"Human instincts, habits, accepted social ideology, etc., often cannot keep up with social changes. This is where many contradictions originate. Learn to let go of the current instincts, habits, and accepted social ideology reasonably, and get rid of Unnecessary interfering factors. It is the birthplace of resolving conflicts. Therefore, "letting go" is the beginning of liberation. Just like if the shovel-tooth can quickly give up the shovel-tooth form, there is still the possibility of immortality. However, they can't let go Ah. A lot of people don't understand like they do: the applicability of any model is limited, and nothing stays the same. That's the second point."

Sherburn next to him didn't know what the two of them were talking about. As a person accustomed to sociability, he interjected instinctively: "Although this is the case, there are some things that have not changed since ancient times. For example, earthworms crawling in the soil, The spiders knot on the trees, the male birds are beautiful and the female birds are dark, and ~~~~"

But Elder Kologa laughed: "Who said that? I have seen some earthworms eat trees instead of mud, burrowing around in trees all day long; It’s not waiting for food on the tree. Have you ever seen it? As for the male bird is beautiful and the female bird is dim, hahahaha~~~~ There is a kind of bird the size of a pheasant in our swamp. Birds are beautiful. Every year when the season comes, they are not male birds dancing and fighting to win the hearts of females. Instead, several females dance and fight to win the hearts of many male birds. Once mating, it is not males leaving the nest to chase other females Instead, the female leaves the nest after laying a few eggs, chasing after other males and those eggs are not hatched by the female, but by the male.”

"Ah?" Shebun couldn't believe it at all: "This~~~this~~~men are superior to women, but~~~~they~~~how did they get them all down?" the tall Kologa just replied : "It's true that I was so surprised when I saw it for the first time. But the fact is that. Spiders live in water instead of trees. Wild birds have completely reversed male and female personalities but live well. Do you think it is inevitable? Things, in fact, are not necessarily just because you are used to it, and you take the habit as a necessity. In fact, there is no such "necessity" in nature."

Dong Hezi suddenly added: "Have you ever thought about it: when a person gets something, he responds with joy; when he loses, he responds with sadness; when he faces threats, he responds with fear; To deal with it, face obstacles with irritability, and face success with pride."

"Have you ever thought about it-you don't have to deal with happiness when you get it; you don't have to deal with it with sadness when you lose it; you don't need to deal with it with fear when you're threatened; To deal with irritability; to be successful, but not necessarily to be proud. In fact, there are no such rules.”

"As for people, they use happiness to deal with it, and if they succeed for the time being, they think that they must use happiness anyway."

"As for people, they use sadness to deal with loss, and they succeed for the time being. Anyway, if they get along, they think: they must use sadness."

"As for people, they use fear to deal with threats, and they succeed for the time being. Anyway, if they get along, they think: they must use fear."

"As for people, they use their arrogance to deal with the humble and the weak, and they succeed for the time being. Anyway, if they get along, they think: they must use the humble and weak."

"But people use irritability to deal with obstacles, and temporarily succeed, but anyway, they think: they must use irritability."

"As for people, they use self-satisfaction to deal with success, and if they succeed temporarily, anyway, they think: they must use self-satisfaction."

"Like the shovel-toothed elephant, it used shovel teeth to deal with aquatic plants, and it was temporarily successful. Anyway, its body thought that it must use shovel teeth. So it was passed down from generation to generation, and the shovel teeth pattern became stronger and stronger. But the world is impermanent, when the water recedes, only dry grass remains. Although it is also grass, it is difficult to shovel the teeth, so the shovel teeth become a disaster."

"So the third key point is: People respond to obstacles with irritability, which can make people successful. But irritability cannot cut off all obstacles, just like shovel teeth cannot cut all grass. On the contrary, water plants can be broken by shovel teeth, and can also be broken by a deer's mouth , Obstacles can be dealt with by irritability, or by non-irritability. The same is true for other joys and gains, sorrows and losses, fears and threats, triumphs and success, etc. Only people instinctively mistakenly think that a certain situation must use a certain A fixed pattern to deal with.”

"In fact, there is no such necessity, but people mistakenly think that it is necessary. If it were necessary, then the spider on the tree should not be able to change itself to become a spider in the water, and the wild bird should not change the roles of male and female to continue. But the spider can change itself , from the original coping with water by avoidance, to coping with water with skills. They can survive in the water; wild birds can also change themselves, from being male active and female passive to cope with life in swamps, to being female active and passive in the south. To deal with life in the swamp. This is "good fortune". The so-called good fortune does not mean that there is another master outside who is manipulating everything, but that we have the ability to change. The body can change the structure mode to cope with the environment, and the mind can change the thinking mode To deal with things. It is all the differences, all birth and death in the natural world, which made me understand a truth of 'non-necessity'."

This seems to make sense, but it's a weird feeling. Sherburn's head is a little awkward thinking: "Well~~~~but~~~but~~~~" This made the tall and thin Keluo opposite Elder Jia got impatient: "It seems that you haven't seen it with your own eyes, and you don't know the mystery. Come, I'll let you see it right away." Yan Bi grabbed his shoulder with his big hand and pulled it to the sky—it turned out that he was wearing The pair of thick leather shoes also have the effect of 'flying wing shoes', they can run in the air and move like the wind. Said, "See what that is?"

That is ~~~ a mountain eagle that landed among the zigzag trees and shrubs. It seems to be ordinary in color and nothing unusual.But the problem is - it is running and chasing mice in the mountains and forests. A mountain eagle that does not fly to catch mice, but runs around and drills valleys like a chicken. Seeing that its steps are strong and steady, it is not like other eagles at all. Landing is almost like limping.

Elder Kologa, who was carrying him, said: "The ancestor of this mountain eagle is actually an ordinary eagle. Some mountain eagles could not be caught and left, but the ancestors of this kind of eagles stayed. Gradually, the eagle claws of the descendants became less bent, the range of motion of the toes became larger, and there were other adjustments , so it became the current picture of 'good at drilling valleys'."

He flew back with a stunned Sherburn and said: "There are no rules in the forest: you can only use flying to deal with me. On the contrary, these surviving eagles have no self-regulation: I can only use flying to deal with the forest. So This phenomenon has been achieved. For example, when you encounter obstacles, you respond with irritability. But have you ever thought that obstacles do not stipulate that you can only deal with me with irritability. In fact, you also have the ability not to deal with obstacles with irritability.”

Seeing that Sherburn just made a dumb voice of "ah~~oh~~~hmm~~~", he said loudly: "You still don't understand??? If you find that it is not good to deal with obstacles with irritability , on the contrary, it will make the situation worse, so you don’t have to be irritable to deal with obstacles.”

But Dong Hezi below them raised his head and smiled: "You don't have to be in such a hurry. It's hard for him to figure it out for a while. This is human nature, as long as people get used to knowing the things born by God 'Take it as the thing itself, then you can't figure it out. You have to take your time."

As he was talking, he suddenly noticed that Shebun, who was falling down, was a little different, so he stretched out his hand to say hello, "Little brother, come here." As soon as he came over, he grabbed his hand and touched it carefully a few times. After getting off, he smiled lightly and said, "Oh~~~~It's Lingpi."

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