Second spring
288 Rambling
Lin Yijia has a sense of responsibility to be a "sister", and wants to answer Yang Jinxin's doubts.
Yeah, what's the trick?
Lin Yijia remembered the "previous life" that she didn't remember for a long time, whether she had it or not.In her previous life, Lin Huijia's life in Rongjun Wang's Mansion was also exhausted; Lin Minjia married Dou Libai, the abnormal-minded person, but she couldn't tell her hardships, and she...
Lin Yijia pursed her lips.
And the change, was it really just because she, Lin Yijia, was a hindrance and made everyone's marriage turn a corner, so everything changed completely, and a beautiful marriage was easily achieved?
It's definitely not that simple.
If it weren't for Lin Huijia's intelligence, tolerance, and knowledge of advancing and retreating, she would have been able to stand on the Rongfu's standpoint, and would have never kept her mouth shut about Zhao Linglong's affairs. Even when the family is firmly established, she also avoids it. How can she get the sincere acceptance of the Rong family?
The "scandal" in the Rong Mansion, as an "outsider", if Lin Huijia heard anything about it, no matter how many "benefits" she had, it would be in vain.Lin Huijia has always seen this very clearly, and it is the foundation of her foothold in Rongfu.
What about Lin Minjia?
When she hastily selected Kang Yongtong, she didn't have any affection for Kang Yongtong.Even Kang Yongtong is not the type she would like to admire.What Lin Yijia can't forget in particular is the expression on Lin Minjia's face when she handed Kang Yongtong her personal birthday jade plaque with her own hands when she exchanged tokens with Kang Yongtong that day.
Because she put her attitude right and worked hard.That's why we have today's long-term love, love and harmony.
——If Lin Minjia blindly resisted her husband like their aunt Lin Yuaner once did, she would never have such a good time today!
And what about yourself?
Lin Yijia shook her head slightly, pulled back her chaotic thoughts, and said with a smile: "Actually, it's all because we have a good mother! My mother has a lot of ideas, and people are very different at the same time. For example, She always said that her daughter went to learn the culinary art of piano, chess, calligraphy, painting and female celebrities. It should be for the purpose of cultivating temperament, not for fame, if she doesn't like it, don't learn it..."
Mrs. Lin herself is like this.
She would appreciate all of these, but none of them could be shown off.The only thing she is good at is her handwriting.But it's just proficiency, and it's all about being able to write properly.In her spare time, she would rather play with bonsai for fun...
Therefore, none of the daughters of the Lin family has the title of "talented woman".
"Jin'er is proud enough to have such a piano sound..." Lin Yijia praised.
In the small circle of nobles in Shengjing City.Yang Jinxin's piano has always been very famous.
Yang Jinxin thought of what Lin Yijia said, and also remembered her reputation as a "talented woman".I didn't know what it was like for a moment, as if I felt that I had become a peddler, a little uncomfortable.
She stretched her pink lips, and asked again: "However, it is inevitable that there will be disputes between noble ladies, and many times, you can't avoid them if you want to. If you don't have a skill, you can go out to a banquet. Isn't it Will it make people laugh?"
"Jin'er, don't worry." Lin Yijia smiled and said, "I'm not saying that it's bad to be a talented woman, but I just want to tell you...A lot of times, you don't have to fight for power. Be humble, intelligent, calm... ...These are the qualities that the elders can appreciate the most. As for the relationship between husband and wife, they are different."
When Yang Jinxin heard the word "husband and wife", she blushed slightly and moved her lips a few times, but in the end she didn't have the courage to ask any more questions, so she just took the box she brought and said to Lin Yijia: "I know that sister-in-law is happy." Farming, here is an ancient book from the previous dynasty, I will give it to my sister-in-law for entertainment."
Lin Yijia took it and flipped it through, and said with a smile, "Jin'er is paying attention."
Mrs. Lin never shy away from their marriage to her daughter.She always asks them what they think, and uses many examples to tell them why they made a mistake and how to avoid it.She will tell her several daughters that this man, from his elders, the environment in which he grew up, and the formation of his character, will tell the daughters what kind of man this is. what kind of situation...
Mrs. Lin always took the trouble to teach Chun Chun.
But in Daxian, no mother has ever taught her daughter like this.
At that time, people always avoided talking about marriage with boudoir girls, and all related teachings were only given after marriage.But after getting married, whether it is too late or not, how much time and opportunity can there be for the mother and daughter to talk together?
Just like Yang Jinxin at this time, when he heard the word "husband and wife", he would be shy and shy.In this way, how can we be ready to "integrate into a stranger's family"? !
As a mother, Mrs. Wu Xinghou is already very rare, but she is afraid that she will never discuss her marriage with her daughter...
Since Yang Jinxin took the initiative to avoid the taboo, Lin Yijia couldn't really hold her back and whisper in private.I just feel that my "sister" doesn't seem to be able to teach my "sister" anything, and I feel a little regretful.
After thinking for a while, she asked: "A few days ago, I heard from my second aunt that Guangdu had chosen the daughter of the Su family of the Imperial College, and my grandmother ordered her to come to the house to see her. I wonder if it has been arranged? What about Jiner, the young lady of the Su family? Do you know each other?"
Hearing Lin Yijia mention this, Yang Jinxin also became interested, leaned over slightly and whispered to Lin Yijia with a smile: "Why don't you know each other? The Miss Su's boudoir name is Ning Rou, she is the eldest daughter of the Su family. Usually when we get together , always talking in one place..."
"Has the third aunt ever mentioned her to you, and how did you comment?" Lin Yijia asked with a smile: "There must be a reason why the third aunt likes her as a daughter-in-law, right?"
Yang Jinxin said with a little excitement: "My mother said that sister Ning Rou is gentle, gentle, intelligent and persistent. I remember that once, when the Su family held a banquet, there were several sisters of the same age as Ning Rou's sister and uncle's house. Marriage, all of them performed extremely well, only sister Ning Rou took care of the tea and snacks, quietly. But my mother took a fancy to sister Ning Rou..."
"Then did your mother say why?" Lin Yijia asked again.
"My mother said that sister Ning Rou is thoughtful and meticulous, and can take care of the overall situation..." Yang Jinxin seemed to have thought of something herself, and slowed down when she spoke, "Of course she was very thoughtful in serving tea and snacks at the family banquet, but It's not like other Miss Su's who show credit in front of the elders and guests... Moreover, there were two Misses of the Su's who were fighting and stumbling each other, and it was Sister Ning Rou who made up for it quietly..."
"That day, the young ladies of the Su family showed off their talents, and it was lively, and sister Ning Rou also wrote a poem, but it was just not good or bad, and she didn't stand out at all..." Yang Jinxin said here, looking up Xiang Lin Yijia, biting her pink lips lightly, said in a low voice: "Sister-in-law, I seem to understand what you mean."
Everyone knows that the marriage of Wu Xinghou's son is still undecided.Moreover, the prince of Marquis Wuxing is definitely the object of envy. His family background, character and appearance are all excellent.Therefore, it is conceivable how many boudoir girls in Shengjing are staring at the position of Mrs. Wu Xing Hou Shizi.
The ladies of the Su family are absolutely no exception.
While all the ladies competed to express themselves, Mrs. Wu Xinghou chose Su Ningrou instead of the other few who played the piano well, painted well or wrote poems with style, let alone choose the most beautiful...
Lin Yijia laughed.
She took a sip of scented tea, and said: "Sister Ning Rou is in the eyes of your mother. When you marry into the Marquis of Wuxing in the future, the pressure will naturally be much less. She will have a wonderful life in the future. Start……"
"Then, what then?" Yang Jinxin bit her lip, her eyes were a little shy, but she looked at Lin Yijia brightly.
"Then, it depends on how she gets along with your brother." Lin Yijia blinked narrowly at Yang Jinxin, saw Yang Jinxin's face flushed suddenly, her smile brightened, and she deliberately asked Yang Jinxin, "Jin'er still wants?" Want to know?"
Yang Jinxin's face seemed to have been smeared with too much rouge, her pink lips were bitten into blue and white, and the handkerchief in her hand was twisted into various shapes, but she shouted: "Sister-in-law, just tell me..."
She even acted coquettishly.
Lin Yijia stopped teasing her, put away her teasing slightly, and asked, "Do you think your brother will like Su Jia Ningrou? Do they know each other?"
Yang Jinxin frowned slightly, and said hesitantly: "I should recognize him, but I'm not familiar with him. As for my brother..." She shook her head and said, "I can't say, I just know that he probably has no one he likes."
"Guangdu is a capable person. In fact, like Guangnan, and even my elder brother-in-law, he has the talent and character to match their status. This type of man requires more than just gentleness from his wife. It's not just about leisure and elegance, nor is it about how beautiful it is, but I want to have a kind of harmony between husband and wife..."
"As for how to fit...everyone is different, so I have nothing to teach you." Lin Yijia shook his head and smiled, "I can only tell you that this fit is not blindly catering to the loss of self...how should I put it?" ?My mother once said that men in this world always want their wives to be what they want first, but smart women will slowly change their husbands and husbands in the process of catering Become a person who can accept himself..."
"It's probably like this." Lin Yijia said: "Perhaps, you can learn from your sister Ning Rou...she just gave you an example."
Yang Jinxin sat there, bowed her head in a daze for a while, and then said: "Sister-in-law, can I come to see you often in the future?"
Lin Yijia smiled and said, "Of course, I still want to hear you play the piano."
Yang Jinxin laughed and said, "Then it's settled. Well, since the elder brother is back, I won't bother you, I'm leaving!"
******
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Yeah, what's the trick?
Lin Yijia remembered the "previous life" that she didn't remember for a long time, whether she had it or not.In her previous life, Lin Huijia's life in Rongjun Wang's Mansion was also exhausted; Lin Minjia married Dou Libai, the abnormal-minded person, but she couldn't tell her hardships, and she...
Lin Yijia pursed her lips.
And the change, was it really just because she, Lin Yijia, was a hindrance and made everyone's marriage turn a corner, so everything changed completely, and a beautiful marriage was easily achieved?
It's definitely not that simple.
If it weren't for Lin Huijia's intelligence, tolerance, and knowledge of advancing and retreating, she would have been able to stand on the Rongfu's standpoint, and would have never kept her mouth shut about Zhao Linglong's affairs. Even when the family is firmly established, she also avoids it. How can she get the sincere acceptance of the Rong family?
The "scandal" in the Rong Mansion, as an "outsider", if Lin Huijia heard anything about it, no matter how many "benefits" she had, it would be in vain.Lin Huijia has always seen this very clearly, and it is the foundation of her foothold in Rongfu.
What about Lin Minjia?
When she hastily selected Kang Yongtong, she didn't have any affection for Kang Yongtong.Even Kang Yongtong is not the type she would like to admire.What Lin Yijia can't forget in particular is the expression on Lin Minjia's face when she handed Kang Yongtong her personal birthday jade plaque with her own hands when she exchanged tokens with Kang Yongtong that day.
Because she put her attitude right and worked hard.That's why we have today's long-term love, love and harmony.
——If Lin Minjia blindly resisted her husband like their aunt Lin Yuaner once did, she would never have such a good time today!
And what about yourself?
Lin Yijia shook her head slightly, pulled back her chaotic thoughts, and said with a smile: "Actually, it's all because we have a good mother! My mother has a lot of ideas, and people are very different at the same time. For example, She always said that her daughter went to learn the culinary art of piano, chess, calligraphy, painting and female celebrities. It should be for the purpose of cultivating temperament, not for fame, if she doesn't like it, don't learn it..."
Mrs. Lin herself is like this.
She would appreciate all of these, but none of them could be shown off.The only thing she is good at is her handwriting.But it's just proficiency, and it's all about being able to write properly.In her spare time, she would rather play with bonsai for fun...
Therefore, none of the daughters of the Lin family has the title of "talented woman".
"Jin'er is proud enough to have such a piano sound..." Lin Yijia praised.
In the small circle of nobles in Shengjing City.Yang Jinxin's piano has always been very famous.
Yang Jinxin thought of what Lin Yijia said, and also remembered her reputation as a "talented woman".I didn't know what it was like for a moment, as if I felt that I had become a peddler, a little uncomfortable.
She stretched her pink lips, and asked again: "However, it is inevitable that there will be disputes between noble ladies, and many times, you can't avoid them if you want to. If you don't have a skill, you can go out to a banquet. Isn't it Will it make people laugh?"
"Jin'er, don't worry." Lin Yijia smiled and said, "I'm not saying that it's bad to be a talented woman, but I just want to tell you...A lot of times, you don't have to fight for power. Be humble, intelligent, calm... ...These are the qualities that the elders can appreciate the most. As for the relationship between husband and wife, they are different."
When Yang Jinxin heard the word "husband and wife", she blushed slightly and moved her lips a few times, but in the end she didn't have the courage to ask any more questions, so she just took the box she brought and said to Lin Yijia: "I know that sister-in-law is happy." Farming, here is an ancient book from the previous dynasty, I will give it to my sister-in-law for entertainment."
Lin Yijia took it and flipped it through, and said with a smile, "Jin'er is paying attention."
Mrs. Lin never shy away from their marriage to her daughter.She always asks them what they think, and uses many examples to tell them why they made a mistake and how to avoid it.She will tell her several daughters that this man, from his elders, the environment in which he grew up, and the formation of his character, will tell the daughters what kind of man this is. what kind of situation...
Mrs. Lin always took the trouble to teach Chun Chun.
But in Daxian, no mother has ever taught her daughter like this.
At that time, people always avoided talking about marriage with boudoir girls, and all related teachings were only given after marriage.But after getting married, whether it is too late or not, how much time and opportunity can there be for the mother and daughter to talk together?
Just like Yang Jinxin at this time, when he heard the word "husband and wife", he would be shy and shy.In this way, how can we be ready to "integrate into a stranger's family"? !
As a mother, Mrs. Wu Xinghou is already very rare, but she is afraid that she will never discuss her marriage with her daughter...
Since Yang Jinxin took the initiative to avoid the taboo, Lin Yijia couldn't really hold her back and whisper in private.I just feel that my "sister" doesn't seem to be able to teach my "sister" anything, and I feel a little regretful.
After thinking for a while, she asked: "A few days ago, I heard from my second aunt that Guangdu had chosen the daughter of the Su family of the Imperial College, and my grandmother ordered her to come to the house to see her. I wonder if it has been arranged? What about Jiner, the young lady of the Su family? Do you know each other?"
Hearing Lin Yijia mention this, Yang Jinxin also became interested, leaned over slightly and whispered to Lin Yijia with a smile: "Why don't you know each other? The Miss Su's boudoir name is Ning Rou, she is the eldest daughter of the Su family. Usually when we get together , always talking in one place..."
"Has the third aunt ever mentioned her to you, and how did you comment?" Lin Yijia asked with a smile: "There must be a reason why the third aunt likes her as a daughter-in-law, right?"
Yang Jinxin said with a little excitement: "My mother said that sister Ning Rou is gentle, gentle, intelligent and persistent. I remember that once, when the Su family held a banquet, there were several sisters of the same age as Ning Rou's sister and uncle's house. Marriage, all of them performed extremely well, only sister Ning Rou took care of the tea and snacks, quietly. But my mother took a fancy to sister Ning Rou..."
"Then did your mother say why?" Lin Yijia asked again.
"My mother said that sister Ning Rou is thoughtful and meticulous, and can take care of the overall situation..." Yang Jinxin seemed to have thought of something herself, and slowed down when she spoke, "Of course she was very thoughtful in serving tea and snacks at the family banquet, but It's not like other Miss Su's who show credit in front of the elders and guests... Moreover, there were two Misses of the Su's who were fighting and stumbling each other, and it was Sister Ning Rou who made up for it quietly..."
"That day, the young ladies of the Su family showed off their talents, and it was lively, and sister Ning Rou also wrote a poem, but it was just not good or bad, and she didn't stand out at all..." Yang Jinxin said here, looking up Xiang Lin Yijia, biting her pink lips lightly, said in a low voice: "Sister-in-law, I seem to understand what you mean."
Everyone knows that the marriage of Wu Xinghou's son is still undecided.Moreover, the prince of Marquis Wuxing is definitely the object of envy. His family background, character and appearance are all excellent.Therefore, it is conceivable how many boudoir girls in Shengjing are staring at the position of Mrs. Wu Xing Hou Shizi.
The ladies of the Su family are absolutely no exception.
While all the ladies competed to express themselves, Mrs. Wu Xinghou chose Su Ningrou instead of the other few who played the piano well, painted well or wrote poems with style, let alone choose the most beautiful...
Lin Yijia laughed.
She took a sip of scented tea, and said: "Sister Ning Rou is in the eyes of your mother. When you marry into the Marquis of Wuxing in the future, the pressure will naturally be much less. She will have a wonderful life in the future. Start……"
"Then, what then?" Yang Jinxin bit her lip, her eyes were a little shy, but she looked at Lin Yijia brightly.
"Then, it depends on how she gets along with your brother." Lin Yijia blinked narrowly at Yang Jinxin, saw Yang Jinxin's face flushed suddenly, her smile brightened, and she deliberately asked Yang Jinxin, "Jin'er still wants?" Want to know?"
Yang Jinxin's face seemed to have been smeared with too much rouge, her pink lips were bitten into blue and white, and the handkerchief in her hand was twisted into various shapes, but she shouted: "Sister-in-law, just tell me..."
She even acted coquettishly.
Lin Yijia stopped teasing her, put away her teasing slightly, and asked, "Do you think your brother will like Su Jia Ningrou? Do they know each other?"
Yang Jinxin frowned slightly, and said hesitantly: "I should recognize him, but I'm not familiar with him. As for my brother..." She shook her head and said, "I can't say, I just know that he probably has no one he likes."
"Guangdu is a capable person. In fact, like Guangnan, and even my elder brother-in-law, he has the talent and character to match their status. This type of man requires more than just gentleness from his wife. It's not just about leisure and elegance, nor is it about how beautiful it is, but I want to have a kind of harmony between husband and wife..."
"As for how to fit...everyone is different, so I have nothing to teach you." Lin Yijia shook his head and smiled, "I can only tell you that this fit is not blindly catering to the loss of self...how should I put it?" ?My mother once said that men in this world always want their wives to be what they want first, but smart women will slowly change their husbands and husbands in the process of catering Become a person who can accept himself..."
"It's probably like this." Lin Yijia said: "Perhaps, you can learn from your sister Ning Rou...she just gave you an example."
Yang Jinxin sat there, bowed her head in a daze for a while, and then said: "Sister-in-law, can I come to see you often in the future?"
Lin Yijia smiled and said, "Of course, I still want to hear you play the piano."
Yang Jinxin laughed and said, "Then it's settled. Well, since the elder brother is back, I won't bother you, I'm leaving!"
******
Recommended by friends:
Yi Ling, author of "Extreme Farmhouse"
Fighting with relatives is a lot of fun!
This article tells a rebirth story of a time-traveling female counterattack fighting the best!
A domineering road to success for a time-traveling woman with no integrity!
ISBN 3075114
Dear friends of the book shortage, take a look! (To be continued. If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for recommendations and monthly tickets. Your support is my biggest motivation.)
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