Beautiful mayor's wife

"Who says it's not a big deal?" Zhang Chunfang glared, "Can passing on the family line be a small thing? Also, is it wrong for me to want to have a grandson?"

"That's right, you're right, it's Gu Li and I's fault." Ma Xiaoyao said hastily.

"I'm wondering why you don't want to have children?" Zhang Chunfang asked: "You and Gu Li's wages are not low, right? What's more, your father and I have some savings, which is more than enough to support a child, let alone me If you and your father help you have a child, you just need to be ready-made parents, don't you want a child at all?"

"No, Gu Li and I also want children, it's just..." Ma Xiaoyao wanted to explain.

Zhang Chunfang waved his hand: "I don't want to listen to your explanation, you tell me clearly now, when you plan to have a child! Give me a confirmation letter!"

Ma Xiaoyao opened his mouth, then closed it again.

"Why? Is it so difficult to tell the truth!" Zhang Chunfang was a little angry.

"It's not difficult, to be honest, it's not difficult at all." Ma Xiaoyao said with a smile: "Next year, next year at the latest, Gu Li and I must have a child!"

"That's what you said, if you can't do it then, don't blame me for turning my face!" Zhang Chunfang said viciously.

"Okay, don't worry, since I promised you, I won't go back on my word." Ma Xiaoyao patted his chest vigorously.

"That's about the same." Zhang Chunfang's anger finally dissipated, and a smile appeared on his face.

Finally got it done mom!It's not easy!Ma Xiaoyao breathed a sigh of relief.

"Children" is an unavoidable problem for any family, but having a child is definitely not a trivial matter. It must be cautious and cautious. It is absolutely impossible to give birth and raise a child regardless of one's head. Today's society is under great pressure, and the cost of raising a child It is very high, not only does it require special care, but it also costs a lot of money. In a word, it is not easy to support a child now.

I read a diary before, and someone said, "In a few years, children will only belong to the luxury of rich families." This sentence seems extreme and irritating, but when you think about it carefully, it makes sense , It is very difficult for an average family to support a child.

For example, Zhang San and Li Si got married at the same time and gave birth to a child at the same time. Zhang San’s family is rich, so he hires a high-quality nanny for the child, buys the best milk powder for the child, and lets the child live in the most comfortable house. Hire bodyguards to ensure the safety of the child. When the child grows up, Zhang San will give the child a sum of money to start a company.

Li Si’s family is poor. Both husband and wife are ordinary migrant workers with low wages. After giving birth, the wife has to ask for leave to take care of the child at home, and the husband goes out to work alone to support the whole family. The pressure is very high. I'm in short supply, I can't afford a babysitter for my children, I can't buy high-quality milk powder for my children, I don't have the money to buy a house with a good environment, and I don't have the money to hire bodyguards. Without the cheapest toys, when the child grows up, Li Si has no ability to help the child, so he can only rely on the child to fight and struggle. The child has been wronged, suffered, and suffered outside, and Li Si and his wife got rid of it. Tears do nothing.

Li Si's children have two fates in the end. First, strive for success by themselves, and finally get rid of poverty, create a prosperous life with their own hands, and let their parents follow suit. Second, be an ordinary person, live an ordinary life, and follow Li Si's old road , and finally do nothing for a lifetime.

Because Zhang San is rich, he can have unlimited children and raise as many children as he wants, but Li Si has a lot of pressure to raise a child.

That's the gap, that's raising kids.

Before I knew it, I remembered the sentence "In a few years, children will only belong to the luxury of rich families."

Ma Xiaoyao has lived for more than 30 years, and has seen too many things. The wages of him and Gu Li are indeed not low, and the pressure of having children is not too great. The key problem is that Gu Li is now in the rising period of her career. Once she has a child , it will delay work, and the delay time will be very long. At that time, Gu Li may lose the glory she has now. It is because she is not reconciled that Gu Li has not had children for a long time.

Ma Xiaoyao can understand Gu Li better, but as he grows older, Ma Xiaoyao also begins to have opinions on Gu Li. He does not object to Gu Li being a strong woman, but the minimum duties of a wife must be fulfilled, right?

Sometimes, Ma Xiaoyao wished he could have children, so he wouldn't have to worry about it. The key point was that he was a man, and he didn't have the function of having children.

"Alas..." Ma Xiaoyao stood on the balcony, looked at the starry sky in the distance, and sighed softly: "Headache... What a headache..."

"Why are you sighing?" Ma Dahai appeared behind at some point.

"Dad... when did you come?" Ma Xiaoyao was taken aback.

"Not long after I came here, I heard you sigh." Ma Dahai smiled slightly: "Is it because of your mother? Did she say something nasty to you?"

Ma Xiaoyao shook his head: "Mom didn't say anything harsh, she just forced me to have a child as soon as possible."

"What? You don't want it?" Ma Dahai wasn't surprised at all, as if he had expected Zhang Chunfang to do this.

"It's not that I don't want it, it's just...the reason is a bit complicated..." Ma Xiaoyao didn't know how to explain it.

Ma Dahai took a deep look at Ma Xiaoyao: "Is it because of Gu Li?"

"I..." Ma Xiaoyao was about to speak when Ma Dahai interrupted him.

"Gu Li is indeed capable. It is a blessing for our Ma family to marry such a daughter-in-law in a previous life, but..." Ma Dahai's tone suddenly changed when he said this: "No matter how capable Gu Li is, she is still a woman. A woman, especially a married woman, has to fulfill her duties as a wife? You can't make the whole family unhappy for your own selfishness."

"Actually, Gu Li also wants to have a child, but her career is now on the rise..." Before Ma Xiaoyao finished speaking, Ma Dahai interrupted him again.

"If you have a child, will it affect your career?" Ma Dahai said in a deep voice: "In the end, it's all your own wild guesses. Gu Li wants a child, so can the superiors be unreasonable? It's still okay to be pregnant. Go to work, just be careful. After giving birth, you can rest for two months, and then the child will be handed over to me and your mother, so that Gu Li can continue to go to work. One month, can't she squeeze out even two months?"

Ma Xiaoyao crooked his mouth: "Dad, this is not accurate..."

"Where is it inaccurate? I have more experience than you!" Ma Xiaoyao was speechless when Ma Dahai couldn't say a word.

Parents are parents, no matter what they say, as children, they must listen. If they dare to resist, it is unfilial. No matter who it is, they don't want to bear the reputation of being unfilial.

"Your mother is not wrong. You are not young anymore. If you don't want children, it will be difficult in the future. Hurry up and discuss with Gu Li and find a time to deal with this matter. As long as you have a baby, your mother and I will have a good relationship." I won't talk about you anymore." Ma Dahai said.

"My mother wants a grandson... What if we give birth to a girl..." Ma Xiaoyao held back for a long time before choking out this sentence.

"What age is this? Boys and girls are the same, your mother and I won't disagree." Speaking of this, Ma Dahai added: "You should work harder, it would be better if you can have a boy."

Having a child depends entirely on luck, how can you decide for yourself?Ma Xiaoyao was speechless.

"It's late at night, hurry up and go back to sleep." Patting Ma Xiaoyao on the shoulder, Ma Dahai turned and left.

"Alas..." Ma Xiaoyao sighed softly: "Life is alive, and there are too many helplessness... Children... It seems that the matter of having children must be put on the agenda..."

……

Ma Xiaoyao really meant what he said. After coming back this time, he did not leave in a hurry. He stayed at home directly. He played chess with his father and chatted with his mother every day. Occasionally, the family went out for a walk, and gathered together for a reunion dinner at night. , Although the small life is monotonous, it is very warm.

Originally, Ma Xiaoyao planned to stay for a few more days, but a phone call disrupted his plan.

"Mr. Ma, I have come to the capital, where are you now?" Wu Ying's voice came from the phone.

"I'm at home... How about it, you go to Guangming Square and wait for me, and I'll go find you right away." After making an appointment with Wu Ying, Ma Xiaoyao hung up the phone, and then turned to say goodbye to his parents.

"What's the matter? Are you going to leave after only two days?" Zhang Chunfang's face suddenly darkened.

"Isn't there something temporary..." Ma Xiaoyao said with a bitter face, "Mom, I will come to see you after I finish my business."

"I don't know how long it will take until you finish your work." Zhang Chunfang snorted.

"Okay, don't play your temper." Ma Dahai persuaded: "Xiaoyao is busy with work, so let's not hold him back...Xiaoyao, go get busy and come see us when you have time."

"All the good guys let you do it! I've become a bad guy!" Zhang Chunfang gave Ma Dahai a hard look.

"I...I..." Ma Dahai was so squeezed that he didn't know what to say. My own daughter-in-law was sharp-tongued, and arguing with her was simply looking for abuse.

Zhang Chunfang stood up and took out a plastic bag from the cabinet: "This is the clothes I bought for you, take it with you."

"Mom, I..." Ma Xiaoyao wanted to say something.

"Don't talk about it, it's not right for mom to get angry with you just now, but mom just doesn't want you to leave." Zhang Chunfang shook her head slightly: "You have grown up, and you are no longer the little kid who lingered under my lap, you You have your own job, you have your own way to go, and I, a mother, shouldn't hold you back."

"Mom, don't say that, it's because the children are unfilial and can't accompany you often..." Ma Xiaoyao's eyes were a little moist.