Need for money
Chapter 150 Men's Pride
Lin Jingzhi's soul comes from modern times. He naturally knows that educating children is a difficult and long process. In modern times, even many pregnant women are practicing prenatal education. Lin Tian is a boy, and he is over four years old. The age group can no longer be blindly spoiled.
Many children have their own thoughts when they grow up because their parents didn't care about them when they were young, and they can't control them any more.
Once a person has his own thoughts, he will naturally be self-centered. Although a child is still immature and immature in thinking, he feels that he has matured. If it is too late to discipline at this stage .
"Tian'er, believe in yourself, you can stand up." Lin Jingzhi stepped aside, helped Lin Tian pick up the apples, and nodded to him as a sign of encouragement.
Lin Tian grew up, apart from being praised for his cleverness, or called a wild child without a father, where did he hear words of encouragement?
He was just used to being hugged before, and he was a little afraid of pain, so he didn't dare to use too much force with his hands, and he couldn't stand up. Now that he heard this sentence, he suddenly gained confidence, supported the ground with his hands, and crawled quickly. Standing up, when the palm touched the ground, the moment the pain came from the palm, he just twisted his face and survived.
After standing up, Lin Tian threw himself at Lin Jingzhi again without patting the dust off his body, with a cheerful smile on his immature face.
This smile is very real, from the heart, because he has just overcome a difficulty just now.
When Lin Zhou heard Lin Jingzhi's words, she was stunned on the spot. She had lived for more than 20 years, and she had never seen anyone say words of encouragement to a four-year-old child. In fact, let alone a child, it is 17 Parents of teenagers who are over [-] years old generally have scruples about their status, and they just sternly teach them a lesson, instead of lowering their stance and saying words of encouragement.
Seeing Lin Tian rushing forward happily, Lin Jingzhi bent down, stretched out his hands, and stuck them on Lin Tian's ribs, and with a sudden force, lifted the little boy into the air, "Well, I knew Tian'er was Good job."
Hearing the praise, Lin Tian opened his mouth and giggled loudly.
Lin Jingzhi's approach is based on the modern Western method of educating children, which is to use encouraging words to tell the children that you can do it, so as to cultivate children's self-confidence and self-reliance.
Of course, he will not blindly learn Western education methods. For example, after reaching the age of 16 abroad, many teenagers no longer ask their parents for money and have to support themselves. In China, many parents seem to feel that foreign Children are more mature and sensible than Chinese children.
Lin Jingzhi scoffed at this point. Even if a teenage child grows up on a growth spurt, how mature can his mind be?Only as they get older, see more, and encounter more things, children will truly mature, and if parents blindly want their children to grow up quickly, it is tantamount to counterproductive, there must be some, right? There will be good results.
For example, foreign children can work as escorts in order to earn this year's tuition fees, and they take it for granted. If they are Chinese parents, can they agree?
So parents, don't tell your children how sensible and good foreign children are. In fact, the actual situation is not like that at all. Otherwise, the children will really have greater psychological pressure, which is not good. .
Furthermore, the crime rate in developed countries in the West is generally very high. This is also due to the fact that when I was a child, I became self-reliant too early, I was unable to distinguish between right and wrong, and my personality was distorted.
Now that Lin Jingzhi has a child, even though it is not his own, he has begun to think about how to educate Lin Tian. This is the responsibility he must bear as a stepfather.
"My concubine pays my respects to the second master." Lin Zhou wiped away the tears from the corners of his eyes, and stepped forward to give a blessing.
"Get up." Turning his head, Lin Jingzhi realized that Lin Zhou's eyes were red, as if he had just cried, and with a slight turn of his face, he roughly guessed the reason.
Seeing Lin Jingzhi frowned slightly, Lin Zhou knew that he had already figured out why she was crying, and she also knew that she couldn't hide it, so she gave another blessing, "It's the concubine who misunderstood the second master, please come God punishes."
Lin Jingzhi didn't let her get up immediately, "After Tian'er, he will be my own son!"
Lin Tian is not only beautiful and cute, but also the only son of his elder brother. He has the responsibility to train this little boy into a real man who stands upright.
Lin Zhou lowered her head, a smear of self-ashamedness appeared on her delicate face, she must have misunderstood Lin Jingzhi, otherwise her son would not be happy at the moment and couldn't close his mouth. She is much smarter, "Yes, Tian'er will ask Second Master to train her from now on."
With a little help, Lin Jingzhi said: "Get up, are you mother and son still used to moving here?"
"Thank you for your concern. The concubine's mother and son think this place is very good." The courtyard where Lin Zhou lived before had such a large area, let alone a garden.
"Second uncle, Tian'er also thinks this place is very good. The yard here is big and there are many houses. Moreover, Tian'er can play with his mother in this garden in the future."
When Lin Tian heard the question, he answered it crisply.While speaking, he pointed his little finger at the courtyard wall, wing room, and this small garden.
"Okay, as long as Tian'er likes it." Lin Jing pinched Lin Tian's immature face and said with a smile.
"And there are many delicious things here." After Lin Tian finished speaking, he lifted up the apple that Lin Jingzhi had just handed him, and placed it in front of his eyes.
This apple is very big, the size of two fists, and the price on the market is definitely not low, but Lin Jingzhi frowned when he heard the words, "Big...cough, Guifang, I couldn't eat apples in the past. Is it?"
"Back to the second master, you can eat, only, but smaller." Lin Zhou never thought of relying on Lin Jingzhi's influence to take revenge on the servants who disrespected her mother and child before, so she answered vaguely, just said Smaller, but it is not clear how much smaller.
But after hearing this, Lin Tian muttered in dissatisfaction, "Mother, it's not that she's smaller, it's much smaller, and she can only eat for a while in a month."
Seeing that Lin Tian in his arms gestured with a small hand, which was only half the size of his own fist, Lin Jingzhi's face turned cold. Is such a big apple for Master Lin to eat?I'm afraid that those servants saw that Lin Zhou's family had no man to rely on, so they greedy the things distributed to Lin Zhou's mother and son, and then took some low-quality fruits to make up for it.
Ever since Tang Yuxiang interrogated Li Guanshi last time, Lin Jingzhi hated those influential servants in the mansion extremely. He was afraid of those who were tough, and bullied them when he saw softness. He could not keep a single person like this.
Seeing that Lin Jingzhi frowned unconsciously, Mrs. Lin Zhou hurriedly said, "Second Lord, Tianer is still young, so don't listen to him."
"That's right, Tian'er didn't lie." Lin Tian writhed in Lin Jingzhi's arms resolutely.
Seeing this, Lin Zhou's expression became serious, and he shouted: "Shut up, don't talk nonsense."
She is used to keeping a low profile, and she also knows that living in a wealthy compound, try not to offend people, including those servants with certain powers, so Lin Tian is not allowed to talk too much.
Lin Jingzhi never stopped Lin Zhou from speaking, and now seeing Lin Tian pouted and snorting angrily, he asked softly: "Tian'er, lying is not a good boy, tell second uncle, you used to Are the apples you eat really only that big?"
Lin Tian originally wanted to answer, but when he saw his mother glaring at him, he lowered his head and remained silent. His mother usually treated him very strictly, and if he got annoyed, his little butt would be slapped in the face after a while.
Lin Jingzhi acted as if he didn't see the warning eyes that Lin Zhou stared over just now, and said again: "Tian'er, a man, you can say one thing and say another, and you must not be scared just because someone threatens you." Dare to tell the truth, or you will be a spineless softie when you grow up."
"Tian'er is not a softie, what Tian'er just said is true!" Hearing this, Lin Tian suddenly raised his head and replied loudly.
Seeing this, Lin Jingzhi kissed Lin Tian's face fiercely, "Yes, this is what makes him look like a man!"
Lin Zhou stood on the side, thinking about it, she couldn't understand the pride of being a man, even though Lin Tian was only a little over four years old.
"I will have someone investigate this matter. This kind of slave without a master must never stay in the mansion." Lin Jingzhi said in a cold voice, and walked to the wing with Lin Tian in his arms.
On the way, while walking, he carefully patted the dust off Lin Tian's clothes.
Lin Tian happily ate the big red apple, and Lin Zhou followed behind, getting to know Lin Jingzhi better. This man with a handsome face and a thin body is full of masculinity in his bones.
He is a real man!
Entering the wing room, Mrs. Lin Zhou personally poured a cup of warm tea for Lin Jingzhi, but Lin Jingzhi is still not used to letting Mrs. Lin serve him. This woman used to be his sister-in-law.
Because Lin Zhou was very close, if there was nothing there, the already familiar charming body fragrance hit his nose again, which made Lin Jingzhi feel very uncomfortable again. He picked up the teacup, raised his head and drank it in one gulp, and then stood up. Get up, "I came here today to see if you are used to living here. Now that I see with my own eyes that the small courtyard is quite big and the scenery is nice, I feel relieved. I still have things to do, so I will go ahead."
"Second Uncle..." Lin Tian quit, twisting his body and trying to act like a baby.
Lin Zhou turned her head, but gave her son a glare, signaling him to shut up. To be honest, she also felt very uncomfortable when she was alone with Lin Jingzhi. Apart from the little girl always jumping around, she was also ashamed to find that she I can't help but secretly look at Lin Jingzhi's handsome profile...
After leaving Lin Zhou's small courtyard, Lin Jingzhi walked towards his bedroom. Originally, he wanted to go back to the small courtyard to rest for a while, and then tell Mrs. Lin about the outbreak of the locust plague when he was having dinner. By the way, speculate whether Tian Ji, Wang Meng and others will use this opportunity to slaughter the Lin family fiercely, but as soon as they stepped into the gate of the small courtyard, an unpleasant smell rushed into his nose, which attracted his attention. His brows were tightly wrinkled.
Many children have their own thoughts when they grow up because their parents didn't care about them when they were young, and they can't control them any more.
Once a person has his own thoughts, he will naturally be self-centered. Although a child is still immature and immature in thinking, he feels that he has matured. If it is too late to discipline at this stage .
"Tian'er, believe in yourself, you can stand up." Lin Jingzhi stepped aside, helped Lin Tian pick up the apples, and nodded to him as a sign of encouragement.
Lin Tian grew up, apart from being praised for his cleverness, or called a wild child without a father, where did he hear words of encouragement?
He was just used to being hugged before, and he was a little afraid of pain, so he didn't dare to use too much force with his hands, and he couldn't stand up. Now that he heard this sentence, he suddenly gained confidence, supported the ground with his hands, and crawled quickly. Standing up, when the palm touched the ground, the moment the pain came from the palm, he just twisted his face and survived.
After standing up, Lin Tian threw himself at Lin Jingzhi again without patting the dust off his body, with a cheerful smile on his immature face.
This smile is very real, from the heart, because he has just overcome a difficulty just now.
When Lin Zhou heard Lin Jingzhi's words, she was stunned on the spot. She had lived for more than 20 years, and she had never seen anyone say words of encouragement to a four-year-old child. In fact, let alone a child, it is 17 Parents of teenagers who are over [-] years old generally have scruples about their status, and they just sternly teach them a lesson, instead of lowering their stance and saying words of encouragement.
Seeing Lin Tian rushing forward happily, Lin Jingzhi bent down, stretched out his hands, and stuck them on Lin Tian's ribs, and with a sudden force, lifted the little boy into the air, "Well, I knew Tian'er was Good job."
Hearing the praise, Lin Tian opened his mouth and giggled loudly.
Lin Jingzhi's approach is based on the modern Western method of educating children, which is to use encouraging words to tell the children that you can do it, so as to cultivate children's self-confidence and self-reliance.
Of course, he will not blindly learn Western education methods. For example, after reaching the age of 16 abroad, many teenagers no longer ask their parents for money and have to support themselves. In China, many parents seem to feel that foreign Children are more mature and sensible than Chinese children.
Lin Jingzhi scoffed at this point. Even if a teenage child grows up on a growth spurt, how mature can his mind be?Only as they get older, see more, and encounter more things, children will truly mature, and if parents blindly want their children to grow up quickly, it is tantamount to counterproductive, there must be some, right? There will be good results.
For example, foreign children can work as escorts in order to earn this year's tuition fees, and they take it for granted. If they are Chinese parents, can they agree?
So parents, don't tell your children how sensible and good foreign children are. In fact, the actual situation is not like that at all. Otherwise, the children will really have greater psychological pressure, which is not good. .
Furthermore, the crime rate in developed countries in the West is generally very high. This is also due to the fact that when I was a child, I became self-reliant too early, I was unable to distinguish between right and wrong, and my personality was distorted.
Now that Lin Jingzhi has a child, even though it is not his own, he has begun to think about how to educate Lin Tian. This is the responsibility he must bear as a stepfather.
"My concubine pays my respects to the second master." Lin Zhou wiped away the tears from the corners of his eyes, and stepped forward to give a blessing.
"Get up." Turning his head, Lin Jingzhi realized that Lin Zhou's eyes were red, as if he had just cried, and with a slight turn of his face, he roughly guessed the reason.
Seeing Lin Jingzhi frowned slightly, Lin Zhou knew that he had already figured out why she was crying, and she also knew that she couldn't hide it, so she gave another blessing, "It's the concubine who misunderstood the second master, please come God punishes."
Lin Jingzhi didn't let her get up immediately, "After Tian'er, he will be my own son!"
Lin Tian is not only beautiful and cute, but also the only son of his elder brother. He has the responsibility to train this little boy into a real man who stands upright.
Lin Zhou lowered her head, a smear of self-ashamedness appeared on her delicate face, she must have misunderstood Lin Jingzhi, otherwise her son would not be happy at the moment and couldn't close his mouth. She is much smarter, "Yes, Tian'er will ask Second Master to train her from now on."
With a little help, Lin Jingzhi said: "Get up, are you mother and son still used to moving here?"
"Thank you for your concern. The concubine's mother and son think this place is very good." The courtyard where Lin Zhou lived before had such a large area, let alone a garden.
"Second uncle, Tian'er also thinks this place is very good. The yard here is big and there are many houses. Moreover, Tian'er can play with his mother in this garden in the future."
When Lin Tian heard the question, he answered it crisply.While speaking, he pointed his little finger at the courtyard wall, wing room, and this small garden.
"Okay, as long as Tian'er likes it." Lin Jing pinched Lin Tian's immature face and said with a smile.
"And there are many delicious things here." After Lin Tian finished speaking, he lifted up the apple that Lin Jingzhi had just handed him, and placed it in front of his eyes.
This apple is very big, the size of two fists, and the price on the market is definitely not low, but Lin Jingzhi frowned when he heard the words, "Big...cough, Guifang, I couldn't eat apples in the past. Is it?"
"Back to the second master, you can eat, only, but smaller." Lin Zhou never thought of relying on Lin Jingzhi's influence to take revenge on the servants who disrespected her mother and child before, so she answered vaguely, just said Smaller, but it is not clear how much smaller.
But after hearing this, Lin Tian muttered in dissatisfaction, "Mother, it's not that she's smaller, it's much smaller, and she can only eat for a while in a month."
Seeing that Lin Tian in his arms gestured with a small hand, which was only half the size of his own fist, Lin Jingzhi's face turned cold. Is such a big apple for Master Lin to eat?I'm afraid that those servants saw that Lin Zhou's family had no man to rely on, so they greedy the things distributed to Lin Zhou's mother and son, and then took some low-quality fruits to make up for it.
Ever since Tang Yuxiang interrogated Li Guanshi last time, Lin Jingzhi hated those influential servants in the mansion extremely. He was afraid of those who were tough, and bullied them when he saw softness. He could not keep a single person like this.
Seeing that Lin Jingzhi frowned unconsciously, Mrs. Lin Zhou hurriedly said, "Second Lord, Tianer is still young, so don't listen to him."
"That's right, Tian'er didn't lie." Lin Tian writhed in Lin Jingzhi's arms resolutely.
Seeing this, Lin Zhou's expression became serious, and he shouted: "Shut up, don't talk nonsense."
She is used to keeping a low profile, and she also knows that living in a wealthy compound, try not to offend people, including those servants with certain powers, so Lin Tian is not allowed to talk too much.
Lin Jingzhi never stopped Lin Zhou from speaking, and now seeing Lin Tian pouted and snorting angrily, he asked softly: "Tian'er, lying is not a good boy, tell second uncle, you used to Are the apples you eat really only that big?"
Lin Tian originally wanted to answer, but when he saw his mother glaring at him, he lowered his head and remained silent. His mother usually treated him very strictly, and if he got annoyed, his little butt would be slapped in the face after a while.
Lin Jingzhi acted as if he didn't see the warning eyes that Lin Zhou stared over just now, and said again: "Tian'er, a man, you can say one thing and say another, and you must not be scared just because someone threatens you." Dare to tell the truth, or you will be a spineless softie when you grow up."
"Tian'er is not a softie, what Tian'er just said is true!" Hearing this, Lin Tian suddenly raised his head and replied loudly.
Seeing this, Lin Jingzhi kissed Lin Tian's face fiercely, "Yes, this is what makes him look like a man!"
Lin Zhou stood on the side, thinking about it, she couldn't understand the pride of being a man, even though Lin Tian was only a little over four years old.
"I will have someone investigate this matter. This kind of slave without a master must never stay in the mansion." Lin Jingzhi said in a cold voice, and walked to the wing with Lin Tian in his arms.
On the way, while walking, he carefully patted the dust off Lin Tian's clothes.
Lin Tian happily ate the big red apple, and Lin Zhou followed behind, getting to know Lin Jingzhi better. This man with a handsome face and a thin body is full of masculinity in his bones.
He is a real man!
Entering the wing room, Mrs. Lin Zhou personally poured a cup of warm tea for Lin Jingzhi, but Lin Jingzhi is still not used to letting Mrs. Lin serve him. This woman used to be his sister-in-law.
Because Lin Zhou was very close, if there was nothing there, the already familiar charming body fragrance hit his nose again, which made Lin Jingzhi feel very uncomfortable again. He picked up the teacup, raised his head and drank it in one gulp, and then stood up. Get up, "I came here today to see if you are used to living here. Now that I see with my own eyes that the small courtyard is quite big and the scenery is nice, I feel relieved. I still have things to do, so I will go ahead."
"Second Uncle..." Lin Tian quit, twisting his body and trying to act like a baby.
Lin Zhou turned her head, but gave her son a glare, signaling him to shut up. To be honest, she also felt very uncomfortable when she was alone with Lin Jingzhi. Apart from the little girl always jumping around, she was also ashamed to find that she I can't help but secretly look at Lin Jingzhi's handsome profile...
After leaving Lin Zhou's small courtyard, Lin Jingzhi walked towards his bedroom. Originally, he wanted to go back to the small courtyard to rest for a while, and then tell Mrs. Lin about the outbreak of the locust plague when he was having dinner. By the way, speculate whether Tian Ji, Wang Meng and others will use this opportunity to slaughter the Lin family fiercely, but as soon as they stepped into the gate of the small courtyard, an unpleasant smell rushed into his nose, which attracted his attention. His brows were tightly wrinkled.
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